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CamusMidas:
Exactly, leave those ones that you feel have baggages to do there thing while you go for a lady that is not a feminist, and the one one that is less educated and not into technology.

How hard is that? Are you marrying all the ladies that you bother about what they choose to believe or how they choose to act?

Baba face front and look for wife to marry, people are getting married every now and then, but when you come to nairaland y'all make it feels as if people only marry once a year.

Nobody gives a rat ass if you choose not to marry, except maybe your parents.

I wonder o, people are getting married everyday, larger percentage of those married are enjoying it, the few who have issues will scream on top of their voices, jobless and lazy guys on nairaland will capitalise on it, projecting it as if marriage is a way to Golgotha.

People generally don't use to appreciate what they have until they loose it. What a good man does in marriage is unquantified.

All these bills that man will foot without think twice woman will feel frustrated when paying them.

lastchild:
you are right, but based on my experiences, women are fragile in emotions

unless you hated the guy before you guys parted ways, as long as you still likes him, if he eventually becomes your male beastie again, it'll happen

Thank you sir, you a type who knw and say it as its. Majority of naija leave in self denial that's why hypocrisy is in everywhere

TheCongo2:
That exactly why @Heartdanny isn't keeping in touch with him. @Heartdanny wise and know what she wants

You knw this yet you termed my comment as opinion instead of fact?

What a confusionist!

TheCongo2:
Fact or opinion?
That an opinion my dear, not a fact given that it hasn't happened to @Heartdanny

Not an opinion but a confirmed fact, stop leaving in self denial pls.

Even guy that lady doesn't have feelings for initially usually fall eventually when she allows unrestricted conversations, pestering and gifts from him not to talk of guy that she had feeling for immediately they met.

I bilif you knw what normally end male & female bestie.


Bye pls!

iamL:
Useless human being! U think everyone is weak and cheats on their spouse?
Keep screwing ex-turned people wife urs will be screwed too.

Crying more than bereaved, ur rant shows exact who you are. Hypothetical at highest level, go back and read how she herself commented.

A bull in a Chinese shop.

sapphiere:
Didn't you read where she stated that she was broke?

So the guy is her ATM

Heartdanny:
No it won't happen

Yes ma! I said it, you may not believe it but its a fact.

Dpaulie:
You’re wrong, don’t need to tell me this, I have more male staff than females, and I’m not as kind(if I may call it kindness) to the females as I do to the males because I’m a man and I know what it means when u are a man.. you don’t know me, I’ve married for seven years and never had sex with any other woman.. sex is too sacred, I don’t just give it out even when I was single talk less of now

You are slipping gradually, several things that humans do that least expected of him or her, daddy Paul said this thousands of years back in the Bible. Again learn when to knw ur boundary wen relating with opposite gender.

Heartdanny:
No I won't cos I no what I went through to finally forget everything about him. It wasn't easy but I made it.
My husband have become the centre of my life even though it wasn't love at first sight for me, But I was able to love again. I don't know how to cheat in a relationship so why will I start in marriage.

If circumstances can bring two of you together physically and this guy disturbs you a little bit further, he will definitely break ur defense and spark sensation burning in heart. You might not agree o but its a reality.

What will harry Kane show for his children and grand children? He would say i was great footballer in same level with Rooney! Kid will ask him, proof it with trophies!.... Nothing to show my son.

Dpaulie:
Love at first is giving me headache right now.. I’m married, and this lady came to work in my shop, very beautiful thing, papa don like her sharpaly, but what makes me love this lady was not only her beauty but zeal and experience for the work, little did I know that he love baba sef.. now she’s intoxicated by her love for me, she can’t even do without me now.. normally I’m always kind to my staffs unknowingly that my kindness may result to this mess, I just dey do my kindness je jelly like buying them food, open my car booth ask them to to take 2-3 shirts, boxers etc because I do supply of this things to stores, I’m a giver anyway, na all this little little kindness na him make Martha come become Mario in my life, never date her or have sex with her though because I respect my wife.. but the truth is that we love each other.. thinking of letting her go in a couple of month sha.. I never think I could love someone apart from my wife, but I can’t help this, no blame me bro/sis.. eni ija o ba lo maa n pe ara re ni okunrin

Learn when to knw boundary in kindness most especially towards opposite sex

Anigreat:






One needs to be careful in this world, especially when it has to do with love.


A lot of marriages that crashes today or is at the Verge of crashing is because of the wrong partner they opted for. After the might have settled down, they discovered that it wasn't love after all that drives them rather it was lust/ infatuation that pushes them to entangled, and as time goes on, the excitement gradually wane off and regrets set in and the only solution left it divorce.




Becareful young man
becareful Young lady

75% of those cases are cute and charming guys, they don't want to work, too much belief on physique. And for the beautiful ladies they usually lost in beauty, with so many guys that are disturbing/pressuring them on daily basis, it makes they raise shoulder before husband and before twinkle of eye, they find themselves where they least expected

Oga work the talk, ur body language clearly says it all, you are behind one ethnic group at detriment of others in multiethnic nation.

CC

To all
Girls.
Ladies.
Women.

Who don't biliv in their brains and hands to feed and to succeed. Believing on guys before you can feed or make it is tantamount to failure.
The big question that all those females should ask themselves is....If I am a man, won't I succeed and feed myself?

A word is enough for a wise!

FalseProphet1:
Anybody can visit anywhere, take pictures and make vague claims. She should have at least posted an official appointment letter like you said to back up her claims.

I see that she's seeking for attention badly, I see more people ignoring her. This I have seen.

If they did not welcome her, she be the first to condemn commission for not welcome her fellow gender who she is not only celebrity but also a Christian.

I don't see anything wrong in wearing hijab, by God grace I'm Christian today, if my wife decides to be wearing hijab, I will not opposite it.

In the north so many Christians wearing hijab everyday.

How on earth will past Governor dominate current governor, I think the leadership of PDP in south west should go to serving Governor who still enjoy, immunity, power and state resources to confront opposition.

In the eyes of naija Muslims, Saudi is a country of God, what they do is what God wants, in mecca they dnt use to commit sins, they even think people there don't use to defecate.

Expecting them to come and attack USA for sin that crown prince committed


My people are perished for lack of wisdom.