₦airaland Forum

Kccheechy:
Men are loosing interest due to some factors.

Women have become so cheap!!! in those days, before a man can enjoy the goodies of a woman, they have to get it through marriage and that was why back then, men were eager to get married. But look at what we have today. Young teens are living couples live in the tetiarry institutions so what's there to look forward to? Sex is soo cheap to get.

Another factor is the moral decadence of our women. Even a wayward man desires to marry a morally upright woman. With all that is going on today in the society, in this age where 17yrs old are going for abortions, being used by ritualists (yahoo boys), damaging their woman hood with all types of drugs to prevent pregnancy during premarital sex, it takes the grace of God to get a woman who will be a blessing to your life as most are walking corpses. You marry them and you begin to experience downfall in your life.

Another factor is the greedy nature of most women.
Most women are not ready to build life from the scratch with young promising men. They are looking for those who are ready-made, they want men who are living the good life already. thereby making themselves to expensive to get.

Another factor is hardship on the side of the man. Most graduates who are at the age to settle down are unemployed. Most are just feeding from hand to mouth. So if they can't even feed themselves comfortably, how would it be for them adding extra mouths to feed?

What u supposed to put as nos one u put it last, men are unable to to marry because of they are not capable financially, the number of virtuous ladies that are single are still outnumbered guy that capable financially to settle down

Ojoro12:
Mature advice are required for someone who doesn't like checking wife's phone, but suggesting his wife is having late conversation with someone and protects her phone more than before?

Since the day my wife and I were dating (not yet courting o), she voluntary surrendered her passwords+ (Facebook, phone, ATM)+ to me. Til date nothing has changed.

I can never ever marry lady that hide her social media and phone passwords for me, but for ATM no wahala .

Any wife hiding phone password for hubby have several skeletons in her cupboard, I will recommend such hubby should go for DNA test of his kids.

BadRadio:
[/s] you have no shame... chasing cunt for 7 years instead of learning forex... I m sure ur ass is broke now?

Forex you chased, WHR did it lead you to? The blood of those you are being defrauded claiming forex will surely lead you to ur calamity soonest

RealGboy:
I find it difficult to try and win a woman's heart.. if I meet a lady online and I text and it takes her hour to reply I block.,. I walk up to a lady and she start making funny faces . I walk away .. if I call your phone and you ask who gave you my number . I hang up...

Recently one babe I liked so much told me she couldn't date me cos she has a serious relationship going on , I said okay and even though it hurt me I make sure I deleted all her number and blocked her everywhere .. funny enough I moved on. only for us to meet and she was surprised I could block her ,I told her I was only giving her space since she's hooked to a guy she then told me she wasnt in a relationship but said that hoping I would keep trying to show how serious I am with her.. I was like "Heya "...

so Is this normal?..I'm I too hard ..should I calm down or I'm completely normal

If what you are say is true, bro you are too full of yourself, .......a lady says she has serious relationship, the next is to block her, a lady say she is serious relationship, the next thing is to block, something is really wrong with you sir, even the most cheap girl will still do small sakara b4 she gives u chance and if you don't change ur attitude, you will find it hard to leave with a wife.

NB." I'm not telling you to pursue girls as if ur life depends on them" o, but not to give in easily for mere excuses not only on women affairs but anything in general.


There was/is a lady I disturbed on Facebook for solid 7 good years, she fell for me in 2019 even after she married.

Quitters never win and winners never quit! Its also applicable in women relationships.

Parents have completely failed woefully on Parentings in last 2 decades, little wonder crimes are increasing on secondly basis, girl of about 14 brings grown old man to sleep in her house under the watchful eye of mum. Imaging how it will look like in 20 yrs to come

kingxsamz:
Lol, bad things are always happening to people, whether you believe such things or not.
You people love saying "pray it doesn't happen to you", "pray you don't see the other side", "pray you don't experience it", but it's usually you people who believe that these supposed misfortunes happens to. He might not believe these things but his life would still go smoothly than one who believes. You people just love to fear unnecessarily.

You talked the way you understand, but the more you look the less you see, those who understand that figurative expression are those who really know, that this world is in 2 forms indeed

Once again pray you don't understand other side of world.

If Bubu is going for another election today, you guys will give him 98% of votes, in as much he is northerner and Muslim. Shikena!

Naija with special citizens, a country that was created wen go was not on the throne.

USA has been put Triumph to their history book.

Majority of those who rebelled against Jonathan in 2014 are regretting now and I biliv remaining ones including Amaechi will weep last. Jonathan is a child of destiny, Nigeria rejected goodluck and God gave them opposite of good luck I mean confirmed bad luck.

Zeion422:
Black will always remain black...little one's are not always comfortable wit new faces around them, delete dat tots frm ur head

Even thou the story is fake but I pity ur assumption, I pray you don't see other side of world.

Jaqenhghar:
See shithole reasoning
1. So tell me if you know it will definitely end in failure why marry that person?
2. Everlasting problems like what Mr. Man. Tell me the problems and stop being vague.
So what if a single parent raises someone. Some of the most successful and the most intelligent minds were raised by single parents so what is your point?
And you claim you reason with a brain. If this is how people with brains reason in that shithole, its no wonder the country is in the state its in

You said people should take chance, risky or not risky, I'm now asked you if with glaring that the marriage will heat the rock, going by utterances of fiancee, op should go ahead and take chance and jump to the marriage

Jaqenhghar:
The problem with you Niggerians is you are too afraid of failures and setbacks. Everything must be a win. Life has no guarantees. If you want to marry someone, you are taking a big chance. If you cant take that chance then dont marry. Simple

Clap for ur self! You will take a chance that's so glaring that its end is failure abi?

Do you knw broken marriage can cause everlasting problems for man/woman? What about kids they will raise by single parent, you guys sud endeavor to think with brain instead of hole na

lionphil:
She's very matured and she simply told you the plain truth... why do you hate hearing the truth. She never said she doesn't love you. She never said she doesn't want to marry you, why are you then troubling yourself and troubling us biko?

And you called this childish and unguarded utterances maturity? The truth is that no 2 couples love each other equally. To play maturity, either of the partner shouldn't be saying " I don't love you as you love me". Its a careless talk towards one partner not even partner that one prepares to spend his/her rest of life with.

A lady that he has engaged with and ready to marry to be telling him she loves her EX more than him, such guy needs factory reset in his brain.

Ninobraw:
everyone have a free will to live and be happy, provided it hurt no one around them

Won't it hurt the wife at home?

I'm imaging the body counts of this public woman! Anyway hole is meant to be drilling.

These guys will never ever learnt lesson

Anyway maybe its his cross to keep marry and remarry, when he had married 10th wife and yet he is still a single father, perhaps he will learn lesson then

Instead of buhari going deeper and deeper stockpiling debt for Nigeria to build railway gauge, if he channels such money to technologies for him to tackle security and financial crime, it would have beneficial to more Nigerians

Edobabe20:
But sir! that baby looks like you or are u trying to tell us u bleached ur skin too?
But I don't think this woman cheated on him ,but what do I know sef nolly actresses are oloshos

How do you knw ma?
Are you Almighty? Omniscient?? or Omnipresent

Raymond0008:
Lol! From a reliable source, was told that the guy is broke now she’s trying to stay away from him and the guy spend most of her money on her even during her liptic**** I don’t know how u girls call it(having a big buttocks and reducing stomach fat) when the guy was cashing out from his G level but the guy is broke now and she’s using her daughter to punish him like saying trash that he’s not the father of her daughter.

Ordinary unknown girl, guys that are on her neck are countless not to talk of big yansh celebrity, immediately the guy is not be able to continuing footing her expensive bills, she must open door for another big boy and before you knw ,the husband will be like plague before her.

"Only the female version of celebrities are showing off exotic, executive and expensive cars while males are struggle to make ends meet"

Just go to local theater group in ur area and see what they subjected ladies among them to, just to feature in a movie that can only popular in imagination. Many of female actresses today had seen it all, when they yet to popular and the popular saying that girls that belong to street must go back to the street.

Even wife that is not celebrity, husband still struggles to control his territory away from intruders.

To me female celebrity is OUR wive rather than MY wife

Again

Women tend to learn bitter lessons from 30 upward or after one kid and by then, its very very hard to reverse the hands of clock and that is very big reason I hardly pity single mother.

As if they can do anything over it, as if, if they pass any contrary resolution Buhari government will look their directions