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Toks2008:
As far as I'm concerned, if this thread is a reflection of his present experience then he is still a small boy probably in his early or mid 20s.

Of course yes, at 16 -24 girls crazy a lot for fine boys, because then, its their parents that shoulder 100% of their bills , but when they are about to get married, any girls who don't open eyes wide and fall for handsomeness without strength to foot Bills, they always regret in future. I know so many typical examples from close and distance friends.

Toks2008:
You are probably still a small boy.

Except you are not in naija, when you grow older and starts meeting mature ladies, you will realize that fineness is meaningless without a meaningful pocket.

I have passed through the phase you are experiencing so I'm writing from experience..

Just hussle hard so that your fine boy go make sense.

He boldly said it that, it commonly happens mostly in teenage years, which is complete true, most of teenage guys usually find it difficult to do rugged works to make them responsible to foot bills of relationships in adulthood, hence the good looking guys who is unable to meet up start having problems in relationships/marriages. Why? By then adult ladies would have known clear different btw sexy looks and responsibilities

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I think they said unlike naija ladies that America ladies don't use to collect a dime from their guys na, that they only interested in love alone. That wen you are going out with them, you only need to swim without cost implications for maintenance

Casham:
I am not ugly, I am very dark skinned. I have met girls who laughed at me and swore they can never date a "devil" like me. I have also been 'toasted' by some REALLY BEAUTIFUL Queens who gushed all over me. Believe it or not, but I have been 'raped' by three ladies at once. All I am just saying is, even if you are 'ugly' for real, you can still be attractive to someone who respects you. The chick obviously doesn't respect you or is only tryna scope her way back into the exe's life. She's still in love with the idiot. And you sef, no dey sneak enter people privacy.

But you worship the girl in question

You guys want to force me to believing simp/alpha conspiracy theory on nairaland
Wailing from fellow guys like this makes me feel you are not on top of man to woman relationship.

If married men still on top of games with single ladies, how much more single guys?

WHR did u put ratios 1:4 assumptions

Atimes guy who believed he is the main and only guy banging his girl might not be 3rd choice if you ask the lady in question.

Inside life, so many dirty and astonishing relationship stuffs. The more you look the less you see.

If they met igboho and his boys and the fulani who came were dropped now, Garba sheu presidency will write memo, how Fulani are being killed by west

blahc007:
I no understand your Grammer shaa...because error full inside....
I wasn't there when the whole thing played out that is if something actually played out....neither were you.
you have already shown by your comment that you believe Davids....Nna Biko drop your hatred for Suleiman aside and watch closely as the whole thing unfolds....bless you bro

Please Mr grammarian, read what you posted above and give urself mark. I'm very sure you can't give yourself up to 30%

lastchild:
this is the major reason I've been running away from this thing called "call" since 2014 it started dealing with me

people expected a perfect life from this men of God, therefore making their lives unlivable,this one done turn issue, do you know how many married women as we speak is sucking another man's dick

These people also climb pulpit and proclaimed what they are not, portraying themselves as perfect beings before their members, behaving as if God can't do anything /answer prayers of their members until he passes it through them.

Odidigboigbo:
Did you listen to the second video where the woman confessed that it was Apostle Suleman that brought her up, that her husband married her from Apostle Suleman's house as a virgin? She said further that if Suleman could not sleep with her as at that time as a single while now that she was married with kids?
Moreso it was the husband that abandoned her demanding refund of his bride price.Tthere are a lot of people that have resigned in a high paying job for God's work with peanut based on their conviction. That is while sometimes, I laughed at some people that castigate some established men of God without knowing their background. Some of them had abandoned thier high paying job and start afresh because of the gospel

Come to think of it, the man claimed that the wife confessed to him in 2009 of Suleman sleeping with her not that he caught two of them, and the man still remains in the church without speaking out untill he was suspended from the church. The reason he was suspended he refused tell us.
It was after his suspension that he knew is the right time to tell the world that Suleman is sleeping with his wife

If you join the dots, without sentiments, you will know that the man is just a bitter soul.

Castigating man of God? If you near pulpits , you would understand that we only have gods of men and not man of God as you thought, enough evidences to back it up.

Ask urself why different persons are accusing same man of God of sleeping with women who are not his wife.

U see in Nigerian's Pentecostal today, they do all possible best to make sure no divorce among members not even pastor of the church, they see it plaque.

But what did ur man of god do? He found way to temporarily separated the then husband and wife, by transferring husband away from his base, and asked wife to work in his television house, apparently to have unhindered access to someone wife.

Organization that husband had issue with the head, wife suddenly resigned from previous job and joined it as one of very top boss, in a lucrative location. Uhmmmmmm

Pls read from both sides and come out with logical conclusion. Don't get it twisted from weeping and crying from both camps.

You were working in NTA, as Senior staff in federal government establishment, when your husband left church, you resigned from federal government job and joined Suleiman in one of his churches as senior pastor.
(That journey validated ur husband's claim)

Yet you felt comfortable enough resigning from ur previous job and start working in the establishment that ur husband left in annoyance with the head of such establishment.

blahc007:
after you don side for David, e com be say na blackmail de guy wan blackmail apostle...will you swallow those words you have impatiently vomited?

To whom brain is giving....

Ordinary I don't use to reply urchins, but let me answer you for posterity

If you are not foolish, why did you believed، hook, line and sinker , the issue of blackmail? Were you thr wen the whole scenario played out?
Hope u can understand my grammar, I can't write pidgin ooo

12:45 am? Ladies and gentlemen learn how not to keep late nite

4ckyou:
Yeah that's why you should hear from the other party before passing judgement, I am not supporting Suleman either if it's true then he should face the law

I think you read everything before you start commenting. If you read, you will know that police only called him for question for now and not that they want to fire him, questioning means, they want to hear from his own side too

4ckyou:
And yet IGP is quick to order a probe abi? What's his business with this issue or is it a rape? Fulani herdsmen are there killing people and yet no probe.
I knew the moment he said power will shift from the north to the south they will start fighting him again.

The way you guy think is worrisome.

I think man can reason far higher than animals.

Put urself in the position of the husband and judge from that angle.


Don't forget an adage, he who comes with equity comes with clean hands

pickatyouu:
I don tire . NL now becoming a hub for bad news

On punch already

For men who always says, they only need to focus on making money but ignore chats, communication ,link and advances, between their wives and other men, this will serve as big lesson for them.

Woman! No matter her education ,exposure or even virtuousness, needs to be tutored, reorientated and monitoring, if husband doesn't want to end like pastor David or Tunde Thomas

The early man knows that women WET at sight of money and fame, the better its.

Pastor David was supposed to have found way to pull apart Suleiman immediately his wife told him about his advances. But still gave her express permission to work in Suleiman television station.

Working closely with Suleiman for months would present big chance for him to melt her heart completely,

Any woman that says he doesn't want to go out with a man, but keeps listening to his advances and sweet talks, is bound to fall yakata

Nazgul:
Lol @truth pill

In reality I wouldn't marry a girl who I know has an undisputed record of hoeing. Cos I know that such marriage will end in premium tears.

Decency is what sustains marriages, the decency to stick to your husband and build your home together from the scratch, the decency to sever all ties with ex lovers and focus on your husband regardless of his financial status, the decency to respect and support him morally, emotionally, financially...etc.

once a girl lacks that, her home is gone. That's the truth and nothing but the truth.

Sadly most girls lack such decency that's why marriages of today don't last.

Ummmmmm, if you don't have wherewithal, you may not know how many guys ur girl is ridding, u will be crazy about encomiums of love she would be pouring on you. I pray you don't jam super smart street girl

Katier00:
special wetin? Na this kind woman de cry on her wedding night say her uncle raped her when she was 12 cos there don become Lagos ibadan express way.

I'm sure if OP can summon confident to ask for her social media passwords and crosscheck entire charts of last one year, he would compose another song which is exact opposite of what he just posted on nairaland.

chinedumc91:
My dear people in this great forum. I seriously need your advice.
I'm dating a deeper life lady, we have see each other up to six times but four of our meetings were at eateries while the remaining two we met was her own house and I always go with gifts like shoes, sandals, slipper, clothes etc.
The issue now is that, I wanted her to at least know my place since we are both living in the same city. But she said no, that her parents wouldn't approve it even though, I told her to come along with her two sisters if possible. She insisted no is against her church.

In this last Xmas, she asked me to buy her Ankara materials, which I did but she was expecting me to either take her out and use the opportunity to bring the gifts I bought for her. But I used covid19 as an excused. As I'm writing this now those gifts are still in my house.

Now, she urgently needs 50k to register her carry over courses and her parents said no money and she crying everyday because Tuesday next week is the deadline.
She begging me to either give her or borrow her the money. But I told her that there's limit of what I can do for her now since we have not yet marry. in fact I told her it is against my church to be spending on her when we are not yet to marry.

Note, we are getting marry this year even though we have not started our church courtship.

what do you advice me to do.

They say marriage is a black market, the one you about to enter is a blind market

Woman you plan to marry this year, yet can't go to ur house with her sister or brother!
The doctrine that forbids girl not to visit man's house, is supposed to forbid guy spending heavily on girl who is yet to marry too

Sex is just fragment of what can keep couple together for long. Companionship, the exact behaviors of two partners and ability to reach compromise in their dealings are more important.

Without coming to ur place not even once before you guys married? Sorry is ur nickname!

Of course she might not involve in infidelity, what about other attitudes that make woman a good wife

Ability to cook well
Making house clean
Nagging
Respect to neighbors
Involving 3rd party in marriage affairs. etc

Oga, if you are not yet leaving with a partner, you haven't known 10% of what she or he capable of doing ooo.

ChizzyBuna:
Op, your mumu strong pass atomic bomb..

She was fucking many dudes the same time she was fucking you..
Don't get it twisted.

You, that guy, plus 30 other niggas are the players in the same club.
She is just the coach
All that is remaining is for her to give each of you jersey and give u position so you guys can play each other.
She played you like a PlayStation
So stop thinking you are the man
No you are just number 5 in the list of 30 niggas she is rotating in the same club
She sucked a nigga before coming to your house and you kissed her simultaneously kissing the other dude dick. So chill bro
That guy u are laughing at
U might have tasted his dick when you kissed that girl. So be humble

You talk from great experience, sometimes the guy that thinks or claims he is 'main and only' guy might not be the 3rd choice. So much experience to talk about.

In fact, the saying. It's ur turn and not ur hole is real.

He Bleep and see nude is going gaga, if he sees what other guys have done with women, certainly he will go crazy.

SweetCunt97:
Yimu! Just say no girl has found ur dick worthy enough to stick to it alone

Because girl finds ur dick worthy, she will stick to you alone? I laugh in Swahili!

You see, there are some girls,sleeping and ridding different dicks is thr trade, if you cut ur dick and insight it inside her puccy, she would still go out to ride. If you are not great observant you would bet with ur head that she is most virtuous girl in the whole universe, going by love and attention she would be shower on you.

The side you show for girls is the same side will use to face you, if you claimed innocenti and decent guy, she would pretend to be decent too,while do parole outside.

Now,level of infidelity among single has reached 90% while among married has reached 80%

The more you look the less you see oga mi.

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Who have unshakable mentality that, they can't live and survive until they take/ drain from men.

If you were born male,won't you leave ni?

uniquetechng:
Did you watch the video

I don't need, neither am I am expert in video analysing to authenticate if its real or fake