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CrimeRe: Ever Had Any Experience With Cultists? by flexyrule(m): 2:25pm On Jan 21, 2024
Yugoslavia247:
Lol.
Baby cultist
Lol

Online warrior.
CrimeRe: Ever Had Any Experience With Cultists? by flexyrule(m): 1:50pm On Jan 21, 2024
A thread for Jewmen and so called strongmen to argue and display their ignorance.

A thread for Jew men to form hardman online.

A thread for strong man to brag about oppressing the jew an based on numerical strenght he got from his people.

Both men turn cowards when they face a bigger force.

I was in Mubi Adamawa state in 2013/2014 when boko haram attacked and took over the town.

That day, both Jews, strongmen and the military scampered for their lives.

Moral lesson - Hardman, hardman, Na because you never jam better gbege!
CrimeRe: Ever Had Any Experience With Cultists? by flexyrule(m): 1:41pm On Jan 21, 2024
Yugoslavia247:
Do you know what it takes to be a lord in a cult.
It takes a killer and blood sucker to attain that level.
Go sleep
You think being a lord is being a class captain in your school.
Man Stop talking shit.

You both are ignorant about this subject.
Music/RadioRe: Nigerians And South Africans Unite To Mock Meek Mill by flexyrule(m): 6:31am On Jan 21, 2024
Merk
CrimeRe: Legalize & Democratize Gun Ownership In Nigeria - Activist, Raphael Adebayo by flexyrule(m): 6:25am On Jan 21, 2024
Legalised it for the papers and noisy social media youths who can't afford or are scared to have one.

A lot of people already own guns...
FamilyRe: Am I Being Paranoid? Please Help Me by flexyrule(m): 8:16pm On Jan 20, 2024
BadBradley:
you're on Nairaland spewing personal info how your whoring big toto mother singularly trained you grin grin grin.

Wno cares about fexyrule, the snowflake emo-bitch who's looking for identity in an online platform?

Your mother is under a curse and you're the manifestation of that curse,

I heard since your father left your mother has been tossed around like a basketball training session.

Little whining bitch
I see that you make a living from insulting your parents, especially your mother.

Baba. I no fit dey use my precious time dey type response to a mentally unstable person.

Take your time to read through your comments here from the day you registered.

You obviously have something against your mother. Whatever it is, man, forgive her and stop insulting her on the Internet.

Also, you're obviously going through a lot. Cuz you're always radiating anger and frustration.

I wish you the very best of luck and a speedy recovery.
FamilyRe: Am I Being Paranoid? Please Help Me by flexyrule(m): 7:40pm On Jan 20, 2024
BadBradley:
The unsolicited opinion of Nairaland's foremost advocate for babymama-ism whose mother is the town bicycle everyone takes for a spin.

Heard she's been passed around more than a church offering bowl grin grin grin

We wouldn't have you here if she had exchanged first names first before spreading for the one who is the father you're looking for.

Slow inbred!
Upon all the insults you're hurling at your mother.

You cannot anwser just one question.

What's your family name?

Honestly, If I ever need a brain transplant, I'd choose yours because I'd want a brain that had never been used.

Now that's the last time you'd get a response from me.

Go find your family before advising others about theirs.
FamilyRe: Am I Being Paranoid? Please Help Me by flexyrule(m): 7:17pm On Jan 20, 2024
Printme:
I'd rather drink garri than never knowing my father
Luckily for you. You had both.

Congrats.
FamilyRe: Am I Being Paranoid? Please Help Me by flexyrule(m): 7:06pm On Jan 20, 2024
BadBradley:
I discovered you have quoted up to 10 people on this particular thread.

That's when I realise you're the son of an absentee father and full-time parasitic mom.

Learn to accept your fate. You're only the manifestation of your mother's sexual rascality and poor marital choice.
Hey Mommy's little mistake,

Isn’t it dangerous to use your whole vocabulary in one sentence?

Please, don’t be ashamed of who you are. That’s your parent’s job.

Ps. I haven't been reading the rubbish that you've been writing.
FamilyRe: Am I Being Paranoid? Please Help Me by flexyrule(m): 7:00pm On Jan 20, 2024
BadBradley:
you need more than a brain; you need your true identity. Bearing your mother's father's name will make you be an internet vagabond reacting like a LovePeddler whenever you see posts like this
What's your family name again?

That's the question that made you to bark like a mad dog...

Say it.... grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

You’re like my dog. He also chases his tail for entertainment.
FamilyRe: Am I Being Paranoid? Please Help Me by flexyrule(m): 6:57pm On Jan 20, 2024
BadBradley:
you're a bastard nobody whoring all over this thread, jumping from post to post looking for your father's name.

A perfect prototype of a single mother's poor marital choice.
grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin ;

See who is advising someone about parenting....

Keep rolling your eyes, you might eventually find a brain
FamilyRe: Am I Being Paranoid? Please Help Me by flexyrule(m): 6:48pm On Jan 20, 2024
BadBradley:
oga hot pants ....your list is filled with gangsters, drug addicts, divorcees with estranged families. Actresses and actors. Movie celebrities.

You're really really peculiar.
Mr. Obtuse, What's your family name again?
FamilyRe: Am I Being Paranoid? Please Help Me by flexyrule(m): 6:00pm On Jan 20, 2024
lawrenzooo:
My Dad's friend who is Canadian wanted to take me to Canada after secondary school for studies after asking if I would be interested and I answered in the affirmative.

All of a sudden the man went mute, after about 3 months I asked the man and he said my parent didn't consent, when i eventually asked my parent i realized it was my dad that refused, its been 18 years now and our relationship never remained the same.

Whatever decision you make put the child's interest first.
I'll bet all the money in my accounts that you don't have a family. You don't have a son.

When you eventually have one, you'll realise how your dad felt when his friend said he wants to take you to Canada.

You think it is easy for a parent to release his child to a stranger.

You guys are funny. I swear

Go and get married.

Get a child. Then you'll apologize to your father.
FamilyRe: Am I Being Paranoid? Please Help Me by flexyrule(m): 5:47pm On Jan 20, 2024
BadBradley:
I see a lot of drug addicts, coogars and sociopaths in your list.

Seems like you idea of success is measured by celebrity status.

You shouldn't have wasted your time typing all that poetic sentiments up there.

I will point you to a simple fact: the far majority of teenage pregnancies are from single mother homes. Also American jails are full of African American men from single mother homes as well

Dust off the sentiment.
You chose to see what you saw.

When I started going through the list, I saw a lot of names that I won't be proud of mentioning when describing success.

But Bleep me. Who am I to Judge?

What's your name again?

Yeah. You figured it out... You don't come close to any of the drug dealers in that list.

And I forgot to mention... I didn't type that list... It's copy and paste...

Here's a link to the main article...

https://www.nairaland.com/2031721/famous-celebs-grew-up-single
FamilyRe: Am I Being Paranoid? Please Help Me by flexyrule(m): 4:10pm On Jan 20, 2024
Printme:
lolz.

Someone is triggered. Be like your mother really made you soft grin grin
Sure she did.

You that your mother made hard, can you afford common GARRI?

Hardman hardman... Shi shi, you no get!

You wan con advise people wey get Job and family.

Jewman
FamilyRe: Am I Being Paranoid? Please Help Me by flexyrule(m): 4:07pm On Jan 20, 2024
BadBradley:
of course, there must be an official reason for his visa application and citizenship application and he just gave the embassy one.

Now don't be a self centered stupid snowflake. The boy doesn't belong to you. Don't ruin his chances by your wicked female antics.

You and I know females hardly can raise a male.

Let him go and he will come back to you.

Hold on, he will never forgive you later
Females hardly raise males... grin grin grin grin grin grin grin


Notorious B.I.G. was abandoned
by his father when he was 2.

Kate Beckinsale lost her father
when he died when she was 6.

Halle Berry was abandoned by
her father when she was 4.

Mary J. Blige was abandoned by
her father when she was 4.

Orlando Bloom lost his father
when he died when he was 4.

Mariah Carey had little contact
with her father after her parents
divorce when she was 3.

50 Cent never knew his father
and lost his mother when he was
8.

Eric Clapton never knew his real
father. He grew up thinking his
grandparents were his parents
and his mother his sister.

Bill Clinton lost his father in a car
accident 3 month before he was
born.

Stephen Colbert lost his father
and two brothers in a plane crash
when he was 10.

Sean Combs was 3 when he lost
his father who was murdered.

Tom Cruise has said that he
suffered from abuse as a child by
his father.

Jodie Foster grew up without a
father after her parents separated
before she was born.

Jamie Foxx was abandoned by
both his parents and raised by his
adopted grandparents.

Cary Grant grew up thinking his
mother had abandoned him when
she really was in a mental
institution.

Adrian Grenier grew up not
knowing who his father was.

Laird Hamilton was abandoned
by his father when he was an
infant.

Enrique Iglesias was raised
mainly by his nanny, Elvira
Olvarez.

Samuel L. Jackson only met his
father twice during his life.

Jay-Z was abandoned by his
father.

Alicia Keys grew up without a
father.

Kid Cudi lost his father to cancer
when he was 11.

Martin Lawrence rarely saw his
father after his parents divorced
when he was 8.

John Lennon grew up without a
father and lost his mother when
he was 17.

Jet Li lost his father when he was
2.

LL Cool J grew up with an
abusive father.

Lindsay Lohan grew up without a
father while he was in prison.

Shelby Lynne lost her mother
and father in a murder suicide
when she was 17.

Madonna lost her mother to
cancer when she was 5.

Paul McCartney lost his mother
to cancer when he was 14.

Sarah McLachlan was adopted
and never knew her birth father.

Eva Mendes was raised by her
single mother after her parents
divorced.

Marilyn Monroe grew up without
a father.

Demi Moore was abandoned by
her father before she was born.

Eddie Murphy lost his father
when he was killed when he was
8.

Jack Nicholson never knew his
real father.

Shaquille O'Neal grew up
without his birth father.

Barack Obama met his father
only once before he died in a car
crash.

Clive Owen was abandoned by
his father when he was 3.

Al Pacino grew up in his
grandparents’ home with his
mother.

Guy Pearce lost his father in a
work related accident when he
was 8.

Mekhi Phifer grew up without a
father having never met him.


Sarah Polley lost her mother to
cancer when she was 11.


Ellen Pompeo lost her mother
when she was 4.

Gabrielle Reece lost her father
when she was 5.

Julia Roberts lost her father
when she was 10.

Alex Rodriguez was abandoned
by his father when he was 7.

Ronaldinho lost his father from a
heart attack when he was 8.

Jason Schwartzman lost his
father to cancer when he was 13.

Tupac Shakur grew up not
knowing his birth father while his
stepfather went to prison when he
was 2.

Anderson Silva was raised by
his aunt.

Gene Simmons was abandoned
by his father when he was 3.

David Spade was abandoned by
his father.

Jon Stewart was raised primarily
by his mother.

Barbra Streisand lost her father
when she was 2.

Charlize Theron grew up with an
abusive and alcoholic father.

Shania Twain was abandoned
by her birth father.

Liv Tyler didn’t know who her
birth father was until she was 9.

Raoul Wallenberg lost his father
to cancer 3 months before he was
born.

Orson Welles lost his mother
when he was 11 and his father
when he was 15.

Kanye West was abandoned by
his father when he was 3.

Angelina Jolie Angelina Jolie's parents, Jon
Voight and Marcheline Bertrand,separated when the Mr. and Mrs.
Smith actress was an infant. Jolie was raised by her mother and she
was estranged from her father for many years.



President Barack Obama was
raised by his mother, Stanley Ann Dunham, from the time that he was born until he was four years old, when she married Lolo
Soetoro.


Pierce Brosnan's father abandoned his family when the Matador actor was a baby. He
was raised by his mother May
Smith until he was four years old,at which point his grandparents took over the primary parenting
responsibilities.


Jon Stewart
Jon Stewart's parents, Marian
and Donald Leibowitz, divorced
when the "Daily Show" host
was 11 years old, at which
point he was raised by his
mother.

Christina Aguilera
Christina Aguilera's parents,
Fausto Xavier Aguilera and
Shelly Loraine, divorced when
the "Genie in a Bottle" singer
was a little girl. Aguilera has
claimed that her father was
abusive.

Eddie Murphy
Eddie Murphy's father died
when he was very young. He
was raised by his mother,
Lillian, in Roosevelt, New York.


Keanu Reeves
Keanu Reeves's father, Samuel
Nowlin Reeves, Jr., abandoned
his family when the Matrix actor
was just three years old.
FamilyRe: Am I Being Paranoid? Please Help Me by flexyrule(m): 4:01pm On Jan 20, 2024
Offpoint1:
You sound like someone from a disfunctional home
So people from dysfunctional homes should have opinions again?
FamilyRe: Am I Being Paranoid? Please Help Me by flexyrule(m): 3:59pm On Jan 20, 2024
Printme:
Mtcheeeeew. You never saw the other side.

You're really not in position to use your situation to judge.
The topic was meant for people who have a family, can provide for their family, and have experience.

You that is still battling with Garri and hunger, your judgment would definitely be seimental.

People like you have no business whatsoever with topics like these.
FamilyRe: Am I Being Paranoid? Please Help Me by flexyrule(m): 2:20pm On Jan 20, 2024
Namaster:
You sound like a closeted demon.

A father is trying to guarantee a BETTER future for his kid and the only thing that crosses your mind is that he'd manipulate the kid against you?

Is that what you've been doing since the divorce?

You disgust me.

ALSO, the kid is still a MINOR. If you don't sign a consent form that states the kid is going to the European country to reunite with his father, what other explanation would you give for a 10-year old traveling across the ocean?

Realize this:

If you stop that kid from getting the citizenship of a country that works because of your own fear and insecurity, the kid will HATE you with an hatred that burns like a thousand suns when he becomes an adult.
My friend, better stick to mastubation and hook-up topics.

You know nothing about life!
FamilyRe: Am I Being Paranoid? Please Help Me by flexyrule(m): 2:09pm On Jan 20, 2024
Itooweak4una:
Don't mind the advise of this one. Your son needs the influence of strong father figure and if he can't get it from his biological father, i don't know where else he would get it. Besides, this is an opportunity for your son to get the hell out of this zoo called Nigeria. I'm quite certain he'd be grateful to you and his father in the future if he's successful. If you refuse, he might resent you in the future especially if he's not well to do in the future.
The person you quoted said she has trained 6 children. The last one just graduated from the university.

You are just 26 years of age.

Nigeria might be bad, but there are plenty of Billionaires living in this same zoo with their families.

Sir,

at 26 and with your type of mentality, you are not qualified to speak on this subject.
FamilyRe: Am I Being Paranoid? Please Help Me by flexyrule(m): 1:58pm On Jan 20, 2024
Dennisochampa:
......
Well, I think the father means well.... I say this because I'm In an almost similar situation....
I had a kid with a lady who almost turned me into a pauper...
We went our says.... I got married, moved to the UK with my new family...
Now I'm telling my first kid's mum that when she's 5...I'll love to bring her to the UK to live with me so I can give her a good life....
So If the man meant well for his son... The woman should allow him go... After all.... She said she has 6 kids already and are all grown... We don't know how many the man have or if he even have any apart from this kid in question.... I think it's only fair the woman le the child go.... She should go to a lawyer and draft an agreement... Whenever she can afford it.... She will be allowed to see her son at will... Failure for her ex husband to meet up with this term will lead to him forfeiting custody of the child... She must also know where the child is at all times..... This includes their current address and direct access to him Via a mobile phone...... I am sure this can be settled amicably
You keep making go back to read.....

The woman didn't say she has she has 6 children ooooo.

She only has one child.


It was another nairalander that said she has six children.
FamilyRe: Am I Being Paranoid? Please Help Me by flexyrule(m): 1:00pm On Jan 20, 2024
DestinedForGrea:
His manner of approach was rude and demeaning, but his point is very reasonable.

It's a very dicey situation, to be honest.

On one hand, I'd say give him a chance to have a life outside this harsh atmosphere.

You didn't mention in your post any lingering issues between you and your ex-husband that might make him take your child away from you.

If there are no lingering issues, then it should be safe to discuss your fears with him. Let it be a friendly discussion; one that doesn't reflect the current situation between you two.


On another hand, I'd say if you're well-to-do and capable of giving him a life similar to the one he'd likely have with his dad overseas, then I think he should be with you until he's of age to make decisions for himself.

You can also discuss this with his father, discuss and if possible, sign an agreement to that effect. If you're not well-to-do, I suggest you fight your fears and take the first option.

The choice is yours ultimately, ponder deeply on these two possible lines of action.
If nairalanders talk like this, will they die?

Simple, intelligent with no insults!
FamilyRe: Am I Being Paranoid? Please Help Me by flexyrule(m): 12:58pm On Jan 20, 2024
Anguldi:
Your mind dey there. Am not married, just came out from a messy breakup. I do think about this too. The kids are the love cheesy.

Maybe that's why gates of hell is opened when issues come up
May God help you to heal.

I wish you the very best.
FamilyRe: Am I Being Paranoid? Please Help Me by flexyrule(m): 12:53pm On Jan 20, 2024
Dennisochampa:
.. So you think a father will go through the stress of filing for his kid all to expose him to harsh treatments from his new wifehuh
When I read your response, I had to go back to my initial post to see where I said "the man wants to expose him to harsh treatments from his new wife... "

Well. I didn't
FamilyRe: Am I Being Paranoid? Please Help Me by flexyrule(m): 12:45pm On Jan 20, 2024
Dennisochampa:
....
I don't think he's blind....
The reality is what he has just confirmed...
No matter what the boy's father is trying to do or is doing... He's still his father and as such, the boy should be referred to as "our son" by the woman rather than "my son"... No matter how bad things have become... Na 2 of them born the pikin
What if the man hasn't been taking care of the boy?

What if he has married a other woman over there?

You think the story starts and end with the three paragraphs that she wrote?

There's more to this story that she hasn't said.
FamilyRe: Am I Being Paranoid? Please Help Me by flexyrule(m): 12:42pm On Jan 20, 2024
sgtponzihater1:
A boy without a father is a liability to the society. He needs a father as a compass to navigate the maze-hole of masculinity, as well as a mother comfort him. No woman can teach a boy to be a man, as a woman has never walked in the shoes of a man.
LIES.
FamilyRe: Am I Being Paranoid? Please Help Me by flexyrule(m): 12:39pm On Jan 20, 2024
BlackfyreRebell:
Please advice me
My ex husband and I are divorced 2 years ago. He recently acquired an European citizenship, he also wants to extend the citizenship to our son. Though I thought it a good idea but I can't shake the feeling that he is trying to use that to take him away from me.
He told me our son will need to come over there to finish the process of his citizenship. But when I went to submit the "application" what I saw on it is different from what he told me. The paper read that I am consenting to my son to go and reunite with his father. Or is that the way they process it?
Please those that have gone through same should please come to my aid, this is my only child and I can't afford to lose my child this way.
Ordinarily, as a man. I'm supposed to support your husband.

But I grew up with my mum, under similar circumstance, and I'll gladly advise you to keep your boy!

My mum wasn't doing too well, but she was able to afford us top-notch parental love, a decent eduction, clothes, food, and a roof over our head.

Everyone advised her to send us to our dad who was doing pretty well.

At the end, I'm glad I grew up under the care of my mum.

Till date, when I look back at my childhood, we might not have had a luxurious life, but the love she gave us was instrumental to everything that we've become today.

Dont let anyone confuse you. All that glitter isn't gold.
FamilyRe: Am I Being Paranoid? Please Help Me by flexyrule(m): 12:27pm On Jan 20, 2024
How do you even love a child, without loving the mother?

Everyday I look at my son, I feel more attached to the mother.

Two beautiful souls!
TV/MoviesRe: Amazon Prime To Layoff Staff And Stop Producing African Content by flexyrule(m): 8:23am On Jan 20, 2024
Nigeria should be the most difficult country to do business for foreigners.

Even we locals sef... It's a herculean task to break even, how much more, those who are repartraitng funds in dollars.
PoliticsRe: Gubernatorial Appeals: Judgement Day For Sule, Fubara, Oborevwori by flexyrule(m): 6:56am On Jan 19, 2024
Hehehehe
CrimeRe: Alleged Rape: Court Fixes Jan 26 For Judgement In Trial Of Bishop Feyi Daniel by flexyrule(m): 6:54am On Jan 19, 2024
[quote author=King5310 post=128013656][/quote]What genre of foolishness is this sir?
PoliticsRe: Atiku's Former Spokesman, Segun Showunmi, Visits Former President Buhari by flexyrule(m):
@DavidHundeyin

Nigeria has no elite.

Just different types of poor people desperately struggling to escape from poverty by f*cking each other over.

Not just a pointless country, but a hopelessly primitive society with almost no redeeming features.

You make this Segun your mentor now, today he will say A, you will go out there and be advocating for A, only to hear Segun saying B.

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