Greetings from here. Just needing a piece of positive counsel here. It has been subtle and recurrent but I decided to share this particular one.
My wife travelled for a burial with my kids without my knowledge. I travelled far away for work and call home everyday. Just recently I called very early in the morning to tell my wife I will be coming home by weekend,she somewhat sounded surprised and said instead of me coming on Friday I should come on Sunday.
I didn't say anything,I pretended not to be angry with that. Yet I immediately did a cash transfer for feeding and balance for the kids school fees that same morning we were discussing.
Later in the evening,I expected her to call and update me on the fees payment,but I didn't receive any call,I then had to call but her lines were all switched off,at this point I was worried especially when I couldn't talk to the kids.
I then called a neighbor to help me check if they are at home only to confirm they travelled for burial which the neighbor got to know from a phone conversation between my wife and her sister.
At this point, I called my wife's brother only to confirm that they were having a burial in their village, which I am not aware of,even as an inlaw.
Right now am very upset and I don't want to act in anger,please how can I react to this conspiracy between her and her family carrying my car with my kids to a distant village for burial without my knowledge.
Thanks for mature inputs only:
YOU HAVE REASON OR CAUSE TO BE ANGRY, BUT TAME IT. Since You have Confirmed their Safety and Truth of Location. However, Ur Wife Need to have ur Confidence or She may end up Misbehaving behind Ur Back. Take time to talk it over with her and for her to stop such Attitudes in Future. Ur Concerns are Valid. Their Safety in d Midst of Bandits,Kidnappers and Other Blood Thirsty Fellows Operations in our State/Country Borders...God Help U with Wisdom to handle Same.
MJluv: You don't cure a headache by cutting of the head. That the majority of Ikwerres now say they are not Igbos does not nullify the igboness in them and neither will it validate an ostracization from the Igbo mother tongue.
Of course we all know that their(Ikwerres) stance now was preconceived and propagated by partisan politics and the need to stay relevant in this ever evolving multi ethno/religious nay political enclave called Nigeria.
A Fulani man, whether in Nigeria, Niger, Sudan or where have you is still a Fulani. Even if dialectal variances may have arisen due to their diverse locations and the influence of the sociocultural groups surrounding them.
How True is it that, the Ikwerres are from Bini and their entire language Structure is Igbo? How Manage? Are U sure it's not Identity Theft or just to remove Igbo tag from them?
Uche Okwukwu and other opportunistic Ikwerres are all part of Ohanaeze Ndiigbo because Ohanaeze is a useless organization that is obsolete and not in sync with modernity which exactly why the organization has no grassroot support in Igbo land.
Even as UK pulled out of EU, if the EU leaders are stupid enough to make an opportunistic English man claiming to be anti Brexit the Secretary general of EU with the pay package and power that comes with it,do you think such British will decline? The answer is No. But does EU making an English man the Secretary general of EU change the fact that the British back home have no interest in being part of EU.
That Uche Okwukwu an Ikwerre man is even allowed to be part of Ohanaeze let alone rise to post of Secretary general is a testament to how useless Ohanaeze Ndiigbo is as an organization. No Ikwerre or any one whose majority of his people are Igbophobic should be part of Ohanaeze Ndiigbo if the organization is a serious one.
So you IPOB should stop quoting this Uche Okwukwu,because you are only underlying the failure of Igbo leadership as epitomized by Ohanaeze when you use Uche Okwukwu as example of Ikwerre being Igbo.
Thanks for insight Pls. Can You throw Light for Better Knowledge?
Seriously, Where did the Ikwerres Migrate from,Pls?
Racoon: Governor Wike have the right to his ethnic identity but must never forget that hating on the Igbo tribe does not in any way make us less Igbos.Ken Saro-Wiwa & the Ogonis made the same mistake but till today they are regretting it.
We must not agree in all things but there are some things that intersect all of us-oppression & marginalization by a common enemy
Whatever He Claims to be in 2020, Who are d Ikwerres/Etche People and What is their ORIGIN REALLY?
Seriously, Where did the Ikwerre Migrate from,Pls?
peacekante: The Governor was asked by Dele MOMODU if he is igbo and he gave a blunt reply. "I am not" . He later went on to clarify the misunderstanding about his name and also the ikwere people link to igbo.
SoftP: Old things shall pass away, but ur naked pics are still very Much in circulation online.
Naughty grandpa
IT DOESN'T MATTER, AS WHEN GOD SHOWS UP TO FORGIVE HIM OR ANYONE ELSE, THOSE ISSUES ARE RESTED...OLD THINGS ARE PASSED AWAY AND ALL THINGS BECOME NEW...NEW ORIENTATION AND NEW AND BETTER LIFESTYLE.
sapientia: So you are not here to post that your objective trash.
Repetitive madness
WHAT IS UR CHALLENGE? ARE U A MEMBER OF D LYING CLUB OF NIGERIA,WHAT IS UR ACHE? IT IS TRUE THAT, "ALL LIARS WILL GO TO HELL FIRE" REV.21V8. SO ENSURE TO SETTLE THAT B4 DEATH...
benjackugo: Nigerian Father Of Two Punishes His Wife By Sleeping With Her Younger Sister (Photos)
A Nigerian father of two, Maduakor Wiseman Jesus said that the best way for men to punish their wives if they provoke them is by cheating with their relatives, IgbereTV reports.
According to him, his wife left him and their infant baby after he cheated on her with her younger sister.
He wrote:
"If your wife provokes you and you want to punish her cheat with her sister or relative and make her to find out, there is nothing more painful to them like cheating with their blood, they may not care if you cheat outside. I don't post what does not work for me. She will be pained all the days of her life. In fact I have been cheating on my wife, if she find out I apologize. Immediately I found this strategy, I cheated with her junior sis and she left a breastfeeding baby for me and leave. she never returned, we separate. That's why I know it Pained them.
MMXX: Whether Biden or trump,let the will of God be done.
Only feel bad Obama is backing biden
I pray Biden never be influenced by the occultic Obama and his cohort.He's only an agent of the devil..They won't come up with more devilish bills.
Braceup people the end time is coming,Give your life to Christ and be saved from all the tribulations that will befall the earth cos gross darkness will cover the whole earth..
What do U Know about Obama? You People just lift Gossips and ill Stories about... Everything that is happening is in d Calendar of God for this Age.
Righteousness89: Wise men take Precaution.. They don't Make Noise.. They don't Join the Crowd.. The President of Mexico is a Wise Leader.. I Have seen so Much Mysteries in these Endtimes and Last days..
Nigeriabiafra82: Heard the election officer in America are yet to declare Biden winner Media,cnn rushing to declare winner shows a great plot against trump [/b]Same way they declared algore winner of 2000 US presidential elections but later upturned in favor of bush by Supreme Court [b][b] They want to use the media to manipulate people’s mind by spiking reaction and changing narrative , Though I know,many commentators here weren’t born or still a kid in 2000 Reason they failed to learn from history Well Wetin concern me
U are very Correct but 2000 and 2020 aren't d Same,Pls. The basis of Conflicts are different.
TMSMedia: "Joe Biden's Dreams Shall Be Dashed, His "Victory" Annulled & His Celebrations Shortlived''- FFK
"Even Satan Thought He Won...Until 3 Days Later" - FFK Reacts To Biden's Victory
Former Aviation Minister, Femi Fani-Kayode, says Joe Biden's victory at the US polls will be dashed and his celebration will be shortlived, IgbereTV reports.
FFK who is a staunch supporter of Donald Trump, stated this while reacting to Biden's victory at the US polls.
https://twitter.com/realFFK/status/1325247353524264961?s=19[/quote]FFK WILL BE ASHAMED OF HIMSELF. PLS DON'T DO TOO MUCH.AMERICA IS NOT NIGERIA,PLS. RESPECT URSELF. SHEATH UR SWORD OF UNFETTERED VEPUTERATIONS. TAME UR EXCESSES MY GOOD FRIEND. JR BIDEN IS 46TH PRESIDENT OF THE UNITED STATES OF AMERICA. ARE YOU STILL DREAMING?
osuulola: That must be because Trump died for the world. This pastorpreneur should just tell us how the Republican agenda help their business.
Trump's 22 thousand lies must be the gospel.
Trump has Relevance to d Christian Faith.He is just Doing What his Convictions leads him to. So Keep those Stories for Other Days,Pls. If we know d Timings of God ALMIGHTY in Global Leadership, WE WILL TALK LESS AND ARGUE LESS. GOD IS IN CONTROL IN D AFFAIRS OF MEN,DESPITE D DEVILS STUBBORNNESS....
WandaMaximoff: I've learned a lot about some Nigerian Christians with this US election.
A lot of us have left the place of spirituality for conspiracy theories.
We've forgotten that it's by fruits we are called Christians, not by sensationalism.
If you think Donald Trump is a Christian and he stands for Christians or has Christian values, it goes a lot to speak of how askew your Christianity is.
A man who has been married three times, his current wife use to be an adult model with a lesbian connotative shoot.
He belittles women.
He is racist and a white supremacist
He speaks inappropriately of his daughter like she's a piece of meat.
He hates his fellow man
A comment like "grab them by the pu*sy is shameful.
Is this what your own Christianity is like?
Do we not have enough problems in Nigeria to pray about or enough lost souls to pray for and preach to?
When last did you even evangelize? If the trumpet sounds today in your current state, will you make it to heaven?
It's time to reflect o, leave US alone. It is not a Christian country like you're made to believe.
They are responsible for majority of the immorality that has creeped into Africa today.
thesicilian: Pelosi has never hidden the fact that she hates Trump. So she's obviously happy to be rubbing salt on his injuries.
But the funny thing is, I see "Nigeria 2015" all over the current US political landscape, a situation where the leader they are all running towards now turns out to become their worst nightmare.
Last year I created a thread asking for information on the breed of my recently acquired dog, and discovered thence that this cute ball of pristine white fur is an American Eskimo- https://www.nairaland.com/5568612/what-breed-dog
Alas, his cuteness begins and ends with his fur. He has a most disturbing taste for rats. He doesn't just chase them, he eats them.
We have had several dogs in the past and none of them have actually eaten household pests, but White (so named for obvious reasons) eats rats, lizards...and my God, cockroaches
Well, I wouldn't say he actually eats roaches; he pins them down and rips them to shreds. Sometimes he even sneaks into my room in search of rats stuck on the rat gum. He has even mastered the art of eating the rats without having the gum stick to his fur. The first time he stole a rat laden gum from my room, we had to cut the gum and some of his fur away where it stuck. Now he has become an expert and can now consume the rats on the gum without getting his mouth stuck .
How can an animal so beautiful be so unbelievably disgusting? My mum says he is possessed.
file photo. He doesn't sit still long enough to be photographed.
kingxsamz: ... Nawa for these mods sef. Some people didn't eat this morning because of loss of appetite after Biden flipped Georgia. Now you want them to lose appetite to eat this night again. Sha some votes are still remaining in Kano and Jos, once Trump wins those two states, bye bye Biden.
THAT WOULD HV BEEN A GREAT TURN AROUND FOR NIGERIA. EKWUEME HAD HIS MIND ON TRANSFORMATION OF NIGERIA WITH HIS ARCHITECTURAL ACUMEN... THANK GOD FOR EVERYTHING...
saaphiere: Former Presidential candidate under the All Progressives Congress, APC in the 2019 general elections, Adamu Garba has reacted to tweet by @BNONews concerning a dead lawmaker David Andahl who has been elected to the North Dakota House of Representatives.
Pls You are very very Wrong... Read ur info again. No RIGGING MACHINE. THEY VOTED D PARTY. THE DEAD MAN WILL BE REPLACED Y D PARTY AFTER DUE PROCESS OF PRIMARY TO FILL UP OR COURT WILL DECIDE UPON COMPLAINS...
Tadeknkeepcalm: Ehya. It's your job to enforce how I must feel. If I'm not shedding tears then I must be a terrible person. But if you weren't overcome by some gratuitous self-righteousness you would have comprehended that I said the girl is funny and not the incident, funny in this sense meaning strange. Because whether or not you admit it, stepping into a dark empty opened space hoping that the elevator magically appears is quite strange.
HOW DOES BEING FUNNY MEANS STRANGE? WHERE DID YOU LEARN UR ENGLISH LANGUAGE? WHAT IS UR ENGLISH SCORE IN SCHOOL! YOU ARE D FUNNY GUY,AMUSING D GROUP... ACCEPT IT THAT UR LANGUAGE IS NOT AND DOESN'T SHOW EMPATHY. YOU ARE VERY WRONG,SO STOP JUSTIFYING UR FOOLISHNESS PLS.
Politics › Re: #EndSARS: Most Businesses Looted & Destroyed In Lagos Were Owned By Igbos – Army by fof1: 3:48pm On Nov 15, 2020
