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sprints1:
to knack in the dark abi Netflix and off light

Lol.

Movies and off light, like I'm currently doing.

Farfalla:
** Speeds off to fetch koboko.

Noooooo.

biographyinsigh:
When she got there, she would have told him straight that this cuddle, I am not comfortable with it. Do you want to date me?

Women like to play men and your response confirmed same. Why would you talk of contract?

Like someone pointed out, she should have told him point blank, I can't cuddle.

Women, you lots weird sometimes.....

If she had said that line too, you lots would have still called her "desperate" or "too forward".

I don't know what you're talking about. I don't like to play men. Personally, I don't give a fuçk about many men except people I know.

Yes. I said contract because I was trying to give an example.

Certainly, she should have also declined his offer of cuddling him the first instance he mentioned it.

Still his action of throwing her out of his house is unjustifiable.

pato405:
Yummu! You're all the same!

Cunny women everywhere.

Even the few ones that'll spend N100 to get you a gift, will demand N1000 transport fare back home the day they bring the gift to your house! Work done = - N900!

Cunny?

You should probably change the women you roll with. It's obvious you have poor taste.

pato405:
Yimmu! Adonbilivit! Women dont spend their money on men!

So no woman has spent money on you? Either through buying food, ice cream or cooking for You?

Awww. Quite sad.

horia:
Turn him down by going to his place and even getting dinner 😂😂😂

Must you people sleep with all female acquaintance that visit?

horia:
He should go for the full package, He should talk?
Why did she say nothing when he talked?
Who is dodgy here? The one who asked for something or the one who couldn't turn it down because she thinks she can slide her way through this one?

From what the Op narrated here, he asked if she had a boyfriend and she replied "No".

There was no mention of him asking her out!

She also has every right to turn him down.

Infact, both of them fit each other.

Tallesty1:
Why though?

I don't have strength.

horia:
When he was caring for her that one was not affectionate abi?

If he wanted the full package, he should make it official and make her know his intentions.

I don't like dodgy people. Use your mouth talk am.

Tallesty1:
Na to just open church near your house.

There are churches close to my house oh.

One Pastor gave me his flier when I was returning home from work. I promised to show up but never went.

Gerrard59:
In all of this, we should remember OP requested cuddling prior to her presence in his apartment, which she agreed to. Upon arrival, she disagrees, which she has the right to. OP is not at fault. Agreement is agreement. It is dishonest to change the goalpost in the middle of the game.

Cuddling? I saw that part.
I want you to answer me truthfully.

Do you cuddle your female friends when you're emotionally down?

Wouldn't you feel weird if any of your female friend tells you a fellow male friend was down and she went over to cuddle him.

I hope you're aware that cuddling is an affectionate/intimate/prolonged type of hug.

If he really wants a cuddle, let him define the "relationship" he has with the girl. Period!

Agreement is agreement. Good and fine. But there was no contract signed for such, she has every right to back out.

It is also dishonest of him not to define the relationship with the girl. I totally understand what was running through the girl's mind. She doesn't want to be "anybody's fool".

NSK4U:
There are subtle ways to initiate sex or cuddle as he wanted without making oneself look unnecessarily desperate.....

It now projects his longtime care for her as a favour to be repayed with sex whether by agreement or not......

My thoughts exactly.

Showing desperation for sex is a BIG BIG RED FLAG/TURN OFF especially if the "relationship" isn't defined.

It's a sad situation really. Some men feel if you're nice to a lady, the lady needs to repay them with sex.

This is how some of them get into trouble abroad.

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All my friends have given up, don't worry about me.

Even online service dey hard me join.

kkins25:
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I will ascend to heaven later this evening and discuss the bolded with the council of elders. One Nitzen is hiding and depriving the ministry of the Most High of her 10%. What's a Christian without the "body of Christ" where we congregate, praising the lord in unspoken tongues---shamala hamala..

She even adds "dark room." Tell us, what shades of grey are going on in there?

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Abeg I don tire. But you can pray for me though.

I love dark rooms to a fault. Shild of darkness who enjoys relaxing in the dark.

Lucifyre:
See my g! Save for the sunday rice of course.

You nor dey chop Sunday rice?

Not going to church, clean sheets, Sunday rice, movies and dark room.

NSK4U:
You didn't sound like a matured and grown up person and probably has never had sex all your life.

How could you remind her the reason she came. Do you have to go all that long as if you are talking to a call girl Haaa habaaa what men are turning into nowadays

@ the bolded.

THISSSSSSSSSSS!!!!

Not like he officially asked her to be his girlfriend.

shadrach77:
Some of these ladies think they are smart. She must have been leading him on and taking gifts from him thereby giving him false hope

Or she may have spoken very rudely to him.thereby hurting his ego

If sincerely you're a child of God as you claimed in your profile, you won't say this.

You are actually justifying his actions and it is sad to see.

Virgo01:
Application hasn't started yet. Should start on the 25th of this month to some time late next month. Would let you know once we start. Thank you.

Alright do let me know when it starts.

GloriousGbola:
Go, go, go, go, go, go, go, glory
It's your birthday
We gon' party like it's your birthday
We gon' sip Bacardi like it's your birthday
And you know we don't give a Bleep that it's your birthday

Happy not buff day to me

Happy Birthday to you, .

May you be less naughty this year.

Wishing you Allah's goodness.

Righteousness2:
If only someone close to her will tell her about the GOD of CHOSEN!
She will simply run down to Nigeria.

This is a moimoi akamu case for the GOD of CHOSEN

You amaze me.

Virgo01:
Yeah, there's a set there right now. But a backlog set will be going in May/June when they're on externship. Same happened in 2019. Schools have already received letters, mine inclusive.

Oh interesting.

Has the application started now for backlog students?

I'd speak to my plug for Law School posting and get back to you.