₦airaland Forum

Tallesty1:
As it should be but people are wired differently.

There's this one Alhaji that I sometimes hang out with. Once we were out with his friends and they all had dates except for me and one other person. The guy at the bar arranged one for him and my friend said, 'And one for this one too,' referring to me. My dear, I didn't know when I said, 'Just like that?'

He still dey use am laugh me.

It shouldn't be time in a relationship, it can happen anywhere, anytime as the body leads. In fact, the more spontaneous, the better. But jumping on whoever is available is animalistic, and paying to get it kills the vibe.

Yeah. People are wired differently indeed.

Hahaha you sef wan fall Alhaji hand.🤣🤣🤣

I love spontaneity cos I like to be adventurous and learn new stuff.

Lmao. Have you seen how animals fuçk? It's very funny.

Tallesty1:
It beats me every time.

Step out with some dudes and once they've downed two bottles, next thing you know they're already looking for somewhere to socket.

I know right.

I don't even like people touching me except if we're that CLOSE.

GloriousGbola:
i am muslim , but this was back in uni. i was in 300l she was in 100l and we were just flooowing.

alfa too dey run that game. there was one time one alfa was telling different chicks he saw them in a dream and they should meet and pray over it.

Okay then.

Hahahaha. So alfa still dey run that package. Interesting.

GloriousGbola:
They ran you street. Na the kain pipu wey go block you from one fine handsome achiever dude so one smelly pastor who saw you in his dream can obtain you.

This shit actually happened to me in 300l. One jambite who clicked with me but was in one fellowship like that. We used to call it burning cable (cock blocking). They burnt my cable wella. And all for nothing.

Lmao. You know these people!!!!!!

Hahaha na really coçk blocking. I thought you're Muslim.

BigBashiru:
I lost out on many dating and relationship opportunities due to following church doctrine whole heartedly. Everything to them is fornication immorality. I now do church from a distance but I still love God though.

Awww, I can imagine.

Mine was international stuff. I had applied for a role to be a Vice President for a student body representing Nigeria, I did interview with the owners of the brand and I was appointed Vice President.
I was barely 18/19 or so.

So my church somewhat found out and said I was doing "worldy" stuff and told me to resign as Vice President. That Christians should be "only heavenly bound and focused".

Mumu me then resigned oh. The partners were dumbfounded and told me to reconsider my stance but I couldn't.

I still regret doing that because that association was a leveller for me and opened opportunities for students to go abroad and represent Nigeria in competitions.

They wanted to try another method two years ago and when I didn't succumb, the Pastor said he'd stop praying for me and that I've yielded to the devil. You go fear emotional blackmail.

Never again sha. I'm older and wiser.

And yeahhhhh about the fornication part. My church will announce the names of people who had sex and tell them to stand up and leave the church. Trust hypocritical Christians in church that day giving them bad eye.

I really found it cringey.


Yep. I do church from a distance bruh. I'd serve God from the comfort of my bed.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Lol. I had fun reading your diary from the little I gazed through. Followed to continue later. I follow 4 Nairalander's dairy on this space that I enjoy reading as much as I did yours (Poco, Prima, Ishi and Makydébbie's). Today, you are 5th.

You write very well, Folake. I admire you.

Thank you for your kind words, Uyai.

UyaiIncomparabl, I see what you're doing.

GloriousGbola:
you need to lay off on the por-n

What is this😂

Tallesty1:
There is more to sex than thrusting and cuming. For me, there's got to be emotional connection first and then there are others. Also pre-intimacy is important as the sex itself and then the after sex cuddling. See, point being made is that I can't have sex with a random woman, it isn't about the money.

@the bolded. I see you're a demisexual. Nice one!

I don't even understand how people have sex anyhow with every Aisha,Chidinma and Kemi.

GloriousGbola:
so i am going to clarify

i posted two memes. the first meme is the general mindset and the dream of most mysognist incels. that one fyne girl who had nothing to do with them becomes poor and wretched and in later years the girl is begging them for support

the reality is what we see every day on this platform - to use the incel terminolgy - low value men runnig after hot/popular chicks [who are in demand and who have options] while ignoring the chicks at their level. and getting more and more bitter.

if the incels are actually serious and blow later, they will still be unable to pull high value chicks [the ugly ducklings who faced their books and came up and glowed up] because they of their ingrained misogny

Are you sure his brain will be able to decipher what you're talking about.

Gerrard59:
Stopped going when I noticed none of the so-called men of god condemned the butchering of Christians in Northern Nigeria.

It is why I am not moved or fazed by what a Nigerian pastor of a church based in the south has to say. There is nothing they know about the Bible that I don't know. The day anyone who knows me off Nairaland sees me in a church in Southern Nigeria, know that I am there to hunt for toto to fvck. Nothing else. I will be there to hunt for beautiful, naive, and sometimes confused ladies to have sexual romps with. I will have them give me different sex styles ranging from cowgirl to missionary to reverse cowgirl to spooning. As icing on the cake, I will request for exhilarating anal rimming, then continue to a sensational BJ which will end with me cu.ming on their delightful faces then finish off with cu.mming into their mouths. After which, they swallow my hot cu.m. I rather watch paint dry off the wall than listen to whatever a so-called mOG of a church in the south has got to spew, whereas none has condemned the killing of Christians in the north.

Na wa for Bro. Gerrard.

This is too explicit.

Gerrard59:
To an extent, I appreciate his pro-men's tweet because the likes of Uloma, KikiMordi and Moe were running on rampage with false and baseless accusations of young men, with Uloma behaving like a very beautiful witch castigating men upandown. For fighting against that ideology, I applaud Wizarab and Co.

However, when people lie, even in order to advance their ideologies, I find it distasteful. My issue is his lie, and he had to delete everything after the brother denied everything. Unfortunately, the narrative has spread. That is the issue with lies narrated many times, people start seeing them as truth.

As for women who like money, women are humans, humans like money. As a man, I don meet women wey dey like chook eye for man money, I cut them off or don't associate with them. I steer clear off from what I don't like. Other men should do the same and leave the women for men wey fit afford their costs. I wonder why customers who can only purchase Aboki wristwatches get annoyed that Rolex's watches are expensive. Even at that, as you said, women married to poor men have been killed by their husbands. The issue is murder, not whether she too like money or not. Na why I dey happy when UK authorities arrest those modafvckers. It gives me joyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy

As for the data, that is the reason for the so-called "gender pay gap", rather than companies intentionally paying women less than men. Unmarried women earn as much as married men.

I am not familiar with Uloma tweets or barely see it on my timeline. I like Moe and admire her for traveling round the world while practicing as a lawyer.

Yessssss! I really found his lies to be distasteful!!!!! It was really uncalled for. And that is my problem with these online influencers, anything they spew out from their mouth is "god-like" and unfortunately their fans swallow it hook, line and sinker.
Now he had codedly deleted his thread after seeing he messed up, but his fans have latched on that narrative. The honourable thing he would have done is to issue a public apology. But they'd rather die than do that.
They also use giveaways to hide all their shitty attitude. The average Nigerian on Twitter is poor and will fall for those their gimmicks.


I wonder oh. Humans like money. Infact, Men asslick their fellow man who has money than them. We see it all the time but na woman be the problem.

I really like straightforward people. If you know you cannot "afford" someone's lifestyle, the noble thing to do is to follow the one you can afford. Respectfully! Instead of whining that all women are gold diggers.

Seeeee! I've seen women being killed by their poor husbands because of silly things like not preparing food on time or cos of N200.

I'm the happiest when UK authorities arrest them and they do jail time. Trust me, it literally gives me orgasms.

Unmarried women earn as much as married men? Really?
But I think there's a gap in how female footballers are paid unlike their male counterparts.

Am I wrong?

I'm a brought up Church girl but I discovered so many wrong practices in the church I worshipped my whole life. Don't get me wrong, I still love the church but from a distance now.

- I also lost out on many opportunities following the church doctrines wholeheartedly.

I haven't been to a physical church in like 4/5months. I prefer live streaming (if I can) from the comfort of my bed and it's still same recycled message.


Sigh!

Tallesty1:
People have their reasons for paying for sex thou, none them makes sense to me but what do I know? I personally don't see myself having sex with a sex worker for any reason.

Paying for sex is CRAZYYY. A big big RED FLAG in my books.

Good for you then.

Gerrard59:
Have you met women working in corporate Nigeria? You know, the auditors, bankers, doctors, senior teachers, nurses etc?

As for wanting to marry a financially stable man, it is appropriate because, in developing countries, most women tend to resign after marriage. In the developed world, women's earnings plummet because they have to leave the workforce for some years after the birth of their first child. It is called the Motherhood Tax/Penalty. https://www.economist.com/interactive/graphic-detail/2024/01/30/how-motherhood-hurts-careers

As for the slain lady, there was no report of the dad whatsoever. That was the mere figmentation of the fogly-looking Wizarab10 who conjured mumbo-jumbo in his regular Manchester alfa meilism.

Lol. Don't mind that werey guy.

I don't know where they get their assumptions that all Nigerian women want to be stay at home mums. Certainly not me though.

Now I understand why you clamour for statistics all the time.

Hmmmm that's true. That's why some women have gap years after childbirth and all of that. Returning back to the workforce won't be all that easy.


Leave Twitter people and their foolishness. The late girl's brother came out to debunk the claim of everything they've been insinuating.
Look at the way those people were happy the lady died instead of them to face the murderer!

There's no justification for murder even if a lady decides to follow a rich man. Women get killed too even with poor men.

Sometimes I'm disappointed at Wizarab's hot takes on Twitter because he's a lawyer and also my senior colleague from school. He should know better.

GloriousGbola:
i know na. you have always had your shit together and your head screwed on tight.

even if you are gen-z of percarious mental health

Yes oh.

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂The Gen Z part will still show nevertheless.

GloriousGbola:
well . . .anyone who follows a football club whose supporters are agberos mus def be drawn to ruffians

🏃🏿‍♂️🏃🏿‍♂️🏃🏿‍♂️🏃🏿‍♂️

_{please dont hit me with broken bottle}

Hahahaha. I see the sub.

But I've never been drawn to dating agberos or irresponsible niggarş.

Tallesty1:
hahahaha.

Don't mind me jaree

Lol Yeye.

Tallesty1:
For the mean time nah. It is like the way women roast corn by the side of the fire to eat while waiting for the okpa wey dey fire to done. #runs-out.

Smh. You can't possibly be serious.

JustPowerApps:
I honestly don't get it likewise, it seems the better a guy gets, the more girls drift away.

It is strange, really strange. Nigerian girls are drawn to touts more than responsible guys.

Lol. What is the statistics to show that Nigerian girls are drawn to touts?

Y'all will just open mouth "Waaaaaaaaaaa".

Kingogbotor:
Hahahahaha.... Omo I have decided to stop searching for love o... Na to find more money.... Live my sweet life... If love come fine... If e no come... Omo na to continue to smash Olosho.

You're looking for a serious relationship and yet fuçking sex workers?

Make it make sense please.