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lielbree:
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Your post didn't bother me, it's the number of people that agree with u that I find gutt rentching. ..
Is there hope for our youth? He just wants to lazy around his entire life and you feel that's ok?

My brother, I just tire.
Over 1k likes for gibberish talks.

enemyofprogress:
supersonic trash

And you're an everlasting fool, one without redemption

Acmepreneur:
Exactly sister, Thanks for understanding. The truth is for 3years, I just ship it in during playful discussion, I don't tell him specifically. I just started telling him this year and yet they think I'm nagging. Should I continue to watch him waste time without any backup plans? And continue to manage all his life when I know he has responsibilities in front of him.
What if something happened to his company, I don't pray for negatives, but it happens to people, for instance, who knows corona would come.
I believe in create many options for yourself, so anytime, nothing will make you think life is over since if this one stopped working, there's another thing you can try

You're welcome sisterly .

3years ke? 3years of constantly telling a grown man what to do O ga oh!


You can't sit and fold your hand and watch him waste his life away.
The truth is that Op, you ALONE have the yam and the knife in your hands and you can do whatever you want to do about the relationship.
Another thing is that you can talk to a neutral person whom you're close to (from your side or even his side probably his mum and make them see reasons with him) OR better still, talk to a counselor.

Lastly, pray about it.
CHEERS!

I'm like this Op, goal oriented and very very ambitious, the way I show love is to make sure the people I love or are close to me can progress in their lives by sending them vital information, books, scholarship applications and general word of advice and encouragement. I was taught this hard way by my parents and I can't even be with a guy that isn't ambitious or goal oriented as I am, I don't like it when I'm always giving energy vibes of 80-90% and the person is giving me 20-30% energy, I will be very frustrated!!!!!!


Reading through some comments especially the first page and I'm here shaking my head profusely at the distasteful comments some guys are reeking, how can you call what Op is doing "NAGGING" . Even if you say it's nagging, isn't it for the betterment of the Op's boyfriend?
What this Op is doing is borne out of pure love, even me sef salute her.
How can a first son be this lazy that he's even been pushed up and down by his girlfriend and his late father to achieve things in life? Even going as far as renting 600k apartment ontop 90k salary!!!! Talmabout living above your means, you come still borrow the 600k to pay rent. O ga oh!!!!!!!!


Infact, I'm angry!! Op, please talk to him and make him see reasons with you, and if he doesn't, please leave him ALONE. Promise me you'd cry over him for just 2-3days tops .

Na wa oh, Una see girl wey dey push you to move forward in life, una go complain, Una see girl wey be Instagram slayer and ambitionless or NFA, Una go run meet slaymama, she go chop una money, clean mouth and Una go run come NL and say "Girls are whores, fish brains" and other gibberish.
Nonsense and Corona virus!!!!!!

Lastly, Op you deserve everything you want and it is my prayer that you should be happy, don't let any man hush you down. Keep being YOU

What do Nigerian men really want?

tillaman:
I seriously doubt it! Fvck no
But 5-6 years
Who condemned her to celibacy? If I stay 3 months without smashing I go just kpai
Because semen go don dey comot from my nostrils

Una nor go kee person!

sisitito01:
It has not been easy at all. They didn't even pay my mother her full salary for March.

What That's outright wickedness

1. They always feel that everything they do is 100% correct and can't make mistakes.

2. Giving sex education talk with their children is hard for them, they rather go to jail than do that .


And so many others...

Why person go dey wear another man underwear??

Biko they should leave my Meagan Good alone abeg. Ah ah!!!! Ever since she married her pastor husband, Devon Franklin, she's not had peace from social media users .

I remember one incident where people were blasting her that she's an actress but married to a "holy" pastor and she wasn't displaying holiness in her acting whatsoever. Make una free the girl abeg!!!!!!!!!!


By the way, if she was that dirty and wayward, she wouldn't have had a no sex relationship with her present husband before marriage.

Iranu people!

yettymuse:
these ones don chop belleful, na abroad them dey... them go dey alright las las...we have more pressing issues here at home...

Lmao

Cc: yettymuse

Hathor5:
You are welcome.

By the way, my couscous absorbs the water very quickly so be careful not to burn it. It may only take 2-5 minutes depending on the couscous you have. I would also lower the heat once you add the couscous.

Let us see your pictures.

Nice one.

When I try it, I'd definitely post pictures. Thanks once again

incogni2o:
I relate with you Sis, when I also go to primary school those days, there was a Monkey pet we also play with then by the street....sweet memories.

But you know, scientists say evolution began from Fishes right? and we dont feel pity for chicken and Fish and Cow we use in cooking our delicious meals.

I watch those creatures in documentaries, or the fishes in an aquarium? Those creatures look so adorable and beautiful.

My Point.

The Bible is simple, God gave us dominion over all of these creatures, Only Humans are made in God's Image, any other creature might be close.

No one should be harrased for killing any animal. Except for sensible reasons like those who may be going into extinction or are owned.

I'll check the movie out , Thanks for the recommendation.

You're welcome

incogni2o:
Thanks for the comment.

Thats what some sensible thing that someone who oppose the kiiling should have said.

I also thought they should have used it as a Pet,

But you know , you might not even give them money for meat if they choose not to kill the monkey.

Lol, I fell in love with monkeys in my childhood after watching "Monkey Trouble". You should check it out, very funny movie. And also I knew of someone who kept one as a pet, he adored that monkey ehn . Monkeys are good pets and they're smart too.

Back to what you're saying, it's not like I or someone would give the Op money to not kill the animal but there are just some actions that are not justifiable at all.
Okay, let's not even use monkey as an example. Take for instance,this Op killed a donkey or horse , animals that aren't even wild , that's what this Op guy did.

I just felt pity,much much pity.

Poor animal! You should have just left it to live na. Monkeys make good pets.

Hathor5:
Hello there,

I wasn't sure if my seeing your mention hadn't come too late. Let me give you the recipe:

First of all, you will need to read the package instructions on the sort of couscous you have because they differ. Some need more and others less water and depending on the amount you use of course. I don't know how many people you cook for.

Step 1:
Prepare the vegetables. You can use whatever you like but in my last picture I used bell peppers, carrots and onions. I also used garlic. You can add some habanero peppers too if your food must be hot. Chop the vegetables and garlic into small pieces. I used a garlic press though.

Step 2:
Heat up a tablespoon of oil. Add the onion and the garlic and a tablespoon of tomato paste (optional). Fry for 2 minutes on medium heat. Add the vegetables and some salt and fry for another 2 minutes. Add the water that is needed for the couscous. Now add the spices that you like. I used salt, pepper, thyme, oregano and a knorr cubes.

Let the vegetables cook for about 8-10 minutes on medium heat.

Step 3:
Add the couscous and let it cook till the couscous absorbs the water.

Ready! :-)


If you want a non-vegetarian version. First fry some meat (chicken breast) and turkey do not need to be pre-cooked, take it out and put it on a plate aside. In the same pot, follow steps 1-3 (you don't need to add new oil but you can if you want to). When the couscous is almost ready, add the meat again to warm it up. For the recipe with the meat, I used broccoli though.

Thank you so much

This is a really educative thread. Rearing birds just come dey hungry me as Op dey describe him experience.

Nice one.

pocohantas:




Lol, I was wondering how showing appreciation is a sign of low self-esteem. He should have just come out straight to say he hates that you showed Poco appreciation.

Some guys here are so obsessed with the activities of virtual ladies. So much for having sexy submissive girlfriends, who wake by 4am to fix them breakfast...

That one is just an attention seeker, I nor get him time abeg .


The hate they give you is real oh, chai .

4am? And sweating in the kitchen and thereafter kneel down to serve them food or quarrel with the submissive,no stupid girlfriend for not washing their one month boxers.
Ndi Ara !

pocohantas:
Lol, back in the days we go to our grandparents for village food. Now granny dey on couscous and pizza level. Who do we run to now?

Hathor will come through. Na she sabi those kind things. The pleasure is all mine. Have a lovely couscous weekend.

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We run to God! .



Thanks Poco Lee.

anslem04:
Seems to me these form of lowest self esteem is common here, ..... if tasha or ceecee kon reply ur message nko. smh

Have you taken your meds today?

pocohantas:
Apologies, I think I must have missed your mention that day. I have NEVER cooked couscous in my life. Hathor5 should guide you.

Your grandma is woke though. She eating couscous and I only saw that shii for the first time in 2020.

Please contact me when you want to cook soup or learn to make akpu.

No dear, it's not a problem, I understand.
Yes, I mentioned Hathor5, I'm still waiting for her ministry .

Lmao yes she is oh, she likes eating all these normal stuffs, pizza,cookies, and the rest of them.

My dear, it was last year I saw it when I went to her house for visit and now she started disturbing me. She's been eating it all her life.



Lmao@last sentence Kuku kill me with laugh na. No problem, whenever I want to cook anything Igbo soup, I'd holla at you .

Thanks for your response though, I really appreciate it.

cococandy:
Hi sorry for the late response. I make mine like jollof with fish on the side. Add a little bit of water at a time to make sure it doesn’t get soggy. That’s the only way I like it. Fish is perfect for it.

And thanks for the compliment

Ma'am please I've never made or tasted couscous in my life before. My grandma eats it and she said she boils it and eats it just like that with stew but is getting tired of the taste, hence she asked I get tasty recipes for her.
So please just take me along with basic steps on how to go about it. Thanks AGAIN

You're welcome Ma.

Hathor5:
I have just seen this request because Coco quoted you. You misspelled my name. Do you still need the recipe?

Oh I'm sorry for that then.

Yes, please I do need it.

Good evening people, please can anyone help me with couscous recipes that are healthy and yummy for adults, children and the aged. Biko it's kinda urgent. Thanks.


Cc:
cococandy .
Mariangeles .
pocohontas .
Prestonn .
Hator5 .

And other good cooks here.

Godmademan:
Financial Woman...By sense I believe you meant wisdom

Yes oh .
Exactly!

Godmademan:
Summarize it

Hahaha you're really hellbent on this one .
Okay, lemme summarize.
1. Sense. 2. Financial capacity. 3. Genotype.

Godmademan:
Oya talk your own

Lol e pass 3 abeg

Godmademan:
Nah. Its gat nothing to do with badness. Its nature. I can't deal with ass that is hard like olomu rock

I hear you Sir .
Lmaoooooooo!

Godmademan:
1. Always ready to learn an improve/progress and be ready to participate in our success story. No one is perfect/

2. Beautiful...Baby face, Nice boobs, firm round ass,

3. Compatible genotype

Oshey baddest