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schumastic:
have you cheated yes or no?

Never in my life.

schumastic:
have you cheated yes or no?

Mever

2BB4CB3E:
Oh please spare me ur gospel
Going about blaming every guy for your misfortune
Old gist ure not the first and u won't be the last!
Newsflash after all this noise
Your next bf might still hurt you
Stop sulking

No vex. I won't hav anymore bf anyway

2BB4CB3E:
All you do is to go about spreading hate and negativity up and down
Ur words don't have any traction on my life so enjoy

Maybe one day you can gain enough self control to respect your partner and not cheat? You reap what you sow. Karma. Etc.

It's beyond me why anyone wear underwear. Just another thing you have to put in laundry. No one sees under my clothes anyway.
I say every day is no underwear day.

Maybe you could just treat a woman with respect? Tame your d and keep it only for your woman? Nothing too hard about that. Unless you're an animal with no self control.

Mehn I feel sorry for her already.

mooremedia:
why are men the worst?? ehhn swiraaat

Because they're manipulators, liars, cheats and thieves.

Agreed. But de guy will just get it from everyone else anyway.

Israellb:
Then u should think about waking up from it

Yea I'm so desperate to be with a cheating liar I'll wake up soooooo fast.

Israellb:
In ur dreams

Only in my dreams a good guy exists.

Israellb:
Why u also carry urs en let others stick it in hun??

I dont wanna sleep wit no cheater.

UyiIredia:
Make I see your picture. Make I see if u pretty with a nice a $$.

No. Men don't deserve to even see my pretty self. I aint giving you no picture to jerk your d to.

DerrickzB:
Mamagee.. Do not delete his number or get tired or stuff.. his off n on simply shows no matter how angry he gets to leave.. he would still come back begging. that means he loves you more than he can get mad at u.. stick with him.. (As long as he is not carrying out domestic violence on you).

This is not true. If he loved you he wouldn't break up ever.

2BB4CB3E:
naaaa
you need to explore!
travel to china or mexico or ghana or france
do somtin new
will do you a whole lot of good

Dats wat got me trouble in de first place sha.

heddiebanks:
#olosho alert

That makes total sense. Men can mess wit as many wiman as they like and be called a hero. But any woman not a virgin is just LovePeddler.

autofreak2020:
You don't want to marry an obtused or brainless man either, do you?

I don't want to marry, the end.

You're going to cheat on that woman, best you marry a stupid one so she don't find out. Then she won't leave you and you'll still have someone to cook and clean for you.

2BB4CB3E:
still here complaining abt men! lol

i have a solution for ur problem tho

Kill myself? Like I haven't heard that before.

Why do you even care if a lady is smart or not?

Oliviaarims:
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No, it's not a matter of not minding per se. I don't know and that's just it, there's nothing I can do about it. It would amount to fighting shadows. Am I supposed to be worried sick and frantic trying to find out if he's cheating or not?

No. But it's your choice. You know he's cheating because he's a man.

Oliviaarims:
Actually, the last thing I'll ever do is fool myself. You've not been getting my drift. I do realize that most men are cheats, but I refuse to believe that ALL men are cheats and that love is a useless venture in itself. I may not be so fortunate as to find that one man from the minute majority who isn't a cheat, but I wouldn't get myself worked up and unnecessarily worried, not enjoying my union to the fullest because I think my man is cheating on me. As long as I never find out he's cheating, we'll be good.

You dig?

Get some self respect. If u don't find out he's cheating then u don mind? Wow.

queenoflafia:
I don't just delete people's number even if they ask me to because of experience

Delete AND block. Get those people out of ur life. Ppl don just ask you delete their number for no reason. They don't like u any more and don want u in their life. So leave. Let them have regret not u.

deeplow:
The only yoruba guys that people say that to, are the ones that look like 50 naira fufu. Thick faces, legs like commas, heads like Bajaj passenger seat and arms like sack of garri. That's what i have observed.

That made me laugh so much

Oliviaarims:
Lol. If it falls down, I'll gather my lessons and build an even more fortified one.

I wouldn't date a man and start nursing the belief at the back of my mind that he's probably cheating on me, at least not seriously. I may not be able to help wondering now and again if he does, but I certainly wouldn't act on presumptions, neither will I be befuddled or sort if he's found a cheat.

Whichever way, thanks bae.

Puresolutions, I see you!

Jeez. Your life tho. Prepare to be cheated, all I'm sayin. Men are animals - they have no self control. Even Jayz cheats on Beyonce so don't go fooling urself. Just coz u don't catch him doesn't mean he don't do it.

queenoflafia:
Just tell him you have heard.keep the number cos he might call you someday so that you won't be stressing yourself asking who is calling and he will be ashamed.

Yiu won't stress if u block him. Then he can't call u either.

He asked yiu delet his number cos he don't wanna hear you. So delete him and block him. He's not in ur life anymore. If he wanna come back, he don't do dis in de first place.

It's emotional terrorism definitely.

Just say you wanna be friends only. Then block him and never speak to him again

bayocanny:
What's the problem with you sister?

He don't wanna hear from u, leave him behind! Delete the number and delete him from ur life.

Because you have self respect? Because u no in ur heart that any guy u sleep wit will just treat u like trash.

Ur smart woman. If u want sex, just one night stand and never talk to dude again. Men are awful.

Delete it. Delete everything. Block him on everything. Never talk to him again.

Oliviaarims:
Maybe I'll learn, but for now, I just can't buy into your counsel. But I can agree with you that love could be stupid . As a friend of mine would always say, "if you love genuinely, then you must mumu small."

Remember me when it all falls down I warned you.

All women if u want a man, know he cheats. Find the one u are willing to put up with the cheating.

UyiIredia:
You're both. And foolish as well as per your moniker.

I know. But at least I'm pretty and got a nice a$$ plus I gotta good heart. I hate men, but I wish no one ill. Just that men can show some self controls.

I prolly got more good about me than you have.

Oliviaarims:
I know so... But I don't see myself getting hurt, so much so that I totally give up on love or join the bandwagon who say "all men are the same."

You must be very young or just not experienced love. Or you just been the one that drops guys and a guy you love has never dropped you for a "better" woman. You will learn. Unless uou avoid love. Love is stupid anyway.