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It's not just women who don't like sex. There are some men as well.

Just because some women don't like jt doesn't mean ALL women don't like it.

Women should be free to enjoy it if they WANT to, without all judgement.

If men really want a good relationship ( which I doubt ) then they might try showing women some respect. Like not cheating or hurting someone. Showing some self control and keeping it in their pants for once.

henry11007:
U mean u HV not see a good guy in ur life

Not even once mehn.

It's just stupidity. Men behave like animals with no self control... then blame women for their behaviour?

How can anyone expect to be respected when men say they are in control, but then have no control over themselves?

So I will just hedge my bets. Men are cheaters. I'm no lesbian, but to avoid pain I will avoid men. It's that simple.

Dandeson1:
lol hehehe e no go better for the guy or guys wey break ur heart like dis ooo



which in most case its your fault.....

Dude I'm not a mind reader and I can't see future. When a guy say "I love u, never do anything to hurt you, I will never cheat you"... and I stupidly trust. Yeah, my fault. Not the guys fault for lying and cheating.

vanhayor:
A master key opens any door and u'll also like to have a master key!
Bt wen any key can open a door it becomes useless....
If it was to be d door to ur house, won't u change it
Guys re strikers nd needs to score more goals bt girls are d goal keepers who needs to protect d ball.... Nd if a keeper is being scored on daily basis , a change is required

Women aren't houses or games, they're PEOPLE. They should be allowed the joy of sex, same as men, without judgement.

abbeyology88:
I've seen it. U so damn pretty.
Buh, I am wondering how a man could av some1 like u and go for anoda.

Notin wrong wit u.

Now, am short of words

Maybe I'm stupid or crazy?

Maxvasia:
Thats y women and men are not and can never be tge same. Gender equality does not exist. Just gender equity .

Tru.dat

pezeji:
So u d tel us say u want bcom Lesbo?

I'm not a damn lesbian. I just hate men. Big difference.

abbeyology88:
Hahahaaa. U make me laf

I sent you pm. U can see me there.

wilybebsy:
That's if u choose not to move on

Ever lost a parent? That wound never closes. Same for a true love.

geraldgiz:
Can I call u up if u give me Ur contact

Gimme urs. I'm not posting mine here.

abbeyology88:
Can I see ur Face?
No pix on ur profile

Upload 1 and remove it later.

Lemme see ur face

Can I see ur Face?
No pix on ur profile

Upload 1 and remove it later.

Lemme see ur face

Nah sha. I'm oyinba

wilybebsy:
Yes

It never stops hurting. It just gets easier to live. But when you remember, the pain is still fresh like a stab wound.

abbeyology88:
U still picking points to defend something that's not even complicated.

Don't B surprised if you eventually hit up with your Right Man here.

#Noquarel

I'm not gona let that happen single for life sha.

wilybebsy:
like seriously??


Are you a Nigerian??

You can't believr some pain doesn't die? Have you ever lost someone close?

Wolenice:
Can someone pray for this babe pls? She is sounding like someone who has accepted a horrible fate in life! I dunno if she is real or not. But in case all u are real, don't give up in life until u breathe ur last. Life is sweet. Marriage is sweet when u get it right. Don't give up. Except u are planing to live ur old age miserable and lonely.

I am real silly. I'll be ok by myself. Am no babe though - babez be pretty and slim lolz

dammydrumz:
Are you truly happy and content with your decision? God is love and always and will continually support the unity of a Man and a Woman. Maybe you feel it isn't necessary for now, but my dear the future is pregnant with greatness and to tap into that greatness you need to maintain an optimistic mindset, noone is designed to be lonely forever, God saw to that.

What about nuns and monks. Maybe I should ve a nun.

Owliver:
before I can go deep in explanation I need to begin from the scratch. trust me. I have answers to every possible question you hold.

i have no further motive but please let's talk on whatsapp. I want to help you.

Your number? I'm not posting mine here...

dammydrumz:
my dear, we've all had terrible experiences, believe it or not u think there aren't guys who have also suffered same? Well i was a victim but its all that pertains to life. I understand ur stance hence ur decision but i refuse to believe there isn't always light at the end of a tunnel.

Maybe my light is different to everyone else's? Like my light is to be alone and serve God wholly? That is what He wants for me?

Owliver:
what is food? who told you you want food? nobody wants food.

but we are all forced to want food by Mr "hunger"

I have seen you profile are you for real? if you are I can get in contact with you on whatsapp let's talk more. I have a lot to tell you.

Yes I am a real person. What about when you want to drink alcohol? Some people try once and want more. They are not driven by need, or anything. They still want what they have tried before.

wilybebsy:
This is always the outcome when you love blindly, but trust me you will still get over it with time

Maybe after I die? We all have the sweet peace of the grave in the end in Jesus loving arms.

geraldgiz:
pls can u contact me privately on my instagram or Twitter via officialgeraldizuchukwu, I can see u are deeply hurt. Thanks

I don't have any of that social media stuff sozz.

robosky02:
never say never

cos you never know when it will hit you real......

It already hit me real. I am in love and hope that my ex be happy with his new wife. But the pain will never go away and I will never find love. My one true love is with another girl. Cheating a$$hole.

dammydrumz:
I see you've had a rough past with a guy or maybe with guys. Sincerely suck it up and move on, you can decide to be celibate till u marry, i totally support No sex until marriage. There are still great guys out there though.

I don't believe there is a good guy out there for me. Maybe some guys sharpen up when they actually do fall in love, if that ever happens. Nut it will not happen for me. I have made that decision to steer clear of all men.

wilybebsy:
Why

Because you know when you meet the man you love so truly - so truly you hope he's happy with his new bae. But it never stops hurting.

robosky02:
tell how really you are good at it?

I'm funny, not good in bed. I'm probably terrible in bed. Dat is why they cheat. Or because I make them wait too long. I don't know. I can't get it right. So goodbye men.

crismark:
jisos!!! 35men no wonder dey re jst cheating on u...maybe ur pussy is wide like a borehole after fucking all of dem nd u aren't giving dem dat sexual satisfaction anymore...I jst read all ur comments nd quotes on this thread nd jst want u 2 knw dat it's nt 2 late 2 date again, marry nd Av kids....and do u mean u wouldn't Bleep again till death??

I didn't sleep wit them all, I ain't no ho.

Owliver:
is this supposed to be a kind of big revelation?

not just men, every living being or organism wants what it does not have. that's why it's called want cos you never had it.

wants are insatiable remember? it applies to everyone. so step down.

It applies to men wanting women moreso. People can want what they've had before - I've eaten food before, doesn't mean I won't want it again.

robosky02:
you hahaha

I'm glad you find my pain so funny. At least I'm good for something.

Wolenice:
It's obvious u need help. May God help u....Remember the dude who broke ur heart has since moved on. Probably having a nice time with a fresh babe somewhere as we speak. Dey dia dey sulk and stagnate ur life because of one dude who doesn't care about ur existence in the first place.

Yeah he's married now. It's not just him. It's all the guys. Every guy has cheated on me. Every guy I've ever been wit has left me for someone else. I just come to expect it now, so I'm not going to put myself through the pain anymore. I'll never have a baby if I never have sex, I'll never have sex if I'm not in a relationship, I'll never be in a relationship because I don't want it. So this things don happen for me.

I always knew that if a man truly loved me he would do anything to be by my side. But that man doesn't exist. I am God's rejected woman.

crismark:
wow!!! u sound so confident abt dis....hw many EXs av u had nd how many of dem cheated on u?? nd hw re u coping wit ur present bf knowing fully well dat he cheats??

I have many exes. My last count was I've dated around 35 men. Every one that said he wanted relationship cheated me within a couple months. The worst is when they get other woman pregnant.

I am currently single.

Puresolutions:
If are fat not a prob,if u remain fat but desire to be slimmer then is it my fault ?

Google GNLD supplements and go treat that stuff,by the way most illness are first of all internalised before the uter body fills the container.ur mind needs healing from the grips of past pains..

I didn't blame anyone for my weight? My mind does need healing. But the pain of unrequited love for the only man you will ever want to be with can never be healed.