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hardbody:
Let us get this straight.....

Are you beefing because you can't eat or because others can eat?

Those are 2 different things you know?

Don't patronise me. I'm calling out a double standard.

2BB4CB3E:
Me!!!! I nearly choked on my lunch! Lmao!
I know girls like you sha! Sharp mouth slim figure!

Slim?!? In my dreams. I've been on a freaking diet for years. Fat white chicks don't get love sha.

Oliviaarims:
Falling in love isn't about being smart or not. I actually do like being in love. It's a jolly nice feeling.

It can be jolly nice. But when it all comes crashing down around your ears, it's ten times more painful than it was nice.

Wolenice:
You will find a man. At the right time. It starts with your mind. Do you see yourself happily married soon? Correct your wrong mindset first. Good men exist. Nearer to u than u think sef. U attract what/who u think most into ur life...

Don't make me get sick into my own scorn.

armylord:
u really hate men ?

YES.

Love Machine:
You are a sex addict theń.

Yeah. And I've been clean for 12 months. Where's my chip?

Love Machine:
Don't your kitty absorbed more than one Dickk?

So what if it has? I don't like sex. Wish I was still a virgin and could be so until death.

Wolenice:
Are you for real? Hope I'm not responding to a non existing person. A 30 year old lady cannot give birth? Says who?

Sorry madam, u need total reprogramming.

The dude who broke my heart was also 30. Knowing that was my last chance for a life with the family I wanted. He was meant to be matured but he just screwed me over. Again. How can I find anyone else? I can't. Men fuccing suck.

2BB4CB3E:
babe is looking for boyfriend

but sorry boo i dont do nairaland girls
have seen like 5 in person and they are either very ugly or slim

I'm not even from Africa dude. And I ain't looking. Not for you, not for any man. Ur all gross.

I'm done wit dis. U so sure I will fall in love again but I don't see anyone lining up for me.
Maybe I will love, but dey don love me. #lifeisntfair#

Chrisrare:
Easier said dan done sis.. By d time u r castigated by society u go no how far. Nothing wrong in staying single, but ur reason for not getting married is lame.

I don't think it's lame that I don't wanna settle for a man who cheats me.

Wolenice:
But it still beats my imagination how you can be 100% sure that no man on earth is trustworthy. How many guys have you met so far in the journey of your life? Abeg cut that crap. Not all men cheat u hear me!

How old u be sef wey marriage no dey ur radar again? U better repackage and try again before it is too late....

What 30 year old has kids? None. Is too late for me.

wilybebsy:
Time heals everything including pains.

Time will come when u will think about this and won't feel anything

Incorrect.

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Your ex told you that? [/color]

Yeah while we were still dating.

[quote author=abbeyology88 post=46777678][/quote]I am a spinster, and I will never reach marriage. So what? God has rejects, too. Am already too old. You blaming me because I dint wanna settle for a cheater?

Chrisrare:
Eyaah... Ur right about men being cheats.. But u'll still get married to one, whether u like it or not. So stop deceiving urself.

I don't have to marry. No law says I have to marry. Imma be single for life sha.

SlimCupid:
including yo dad,brothers nd partner,i presume??your username becomes u

Yes. So what?

abbeyology88:
Do you also play hard-to-get with them, as d topic says

Cos if that's the Case, and they fool in love with you, dat love na temporary, bliv me.

And if you still stand on your claim, how would you know a man that really wants a sincere relationship wit u?
If u're in charge, how would you choose a man for urslef??

Cos am kindof (....) Abt ur claim here.

I don't play games. Games are for children. I would never choose to be wit a man again. I don't need the hassle. I already found a man I love and he choose some other ho. Whatever. Some people just aren't meant to be wit partners. I am testament to that.

crismark:
lmao!!! wen I woz dating I had so much opportunity to cheat but I couldn't....cheating ain't part of me. so am an exception to this thread

You aren't. You will cheat. I promise you that

wilybebsy:
I don't cheat



It seems u're having relationship issue and i think its still fresh judging from ur comments, i can say i know how it feels cuz have once been there, but u gotta take it easy cuz i can see u're still in pain

The pain never ends. When you find your true love and they don't love you back. It never ever ends. You just gotta hope they're happy with their new chick.

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]How about human love? [/color]

That's just stupid. As my ex would say "love is an illusion"

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]one cannot do without love. [/color]

That's what God's for.

Wolenice:
Honestly, u need to change ur mindset about men. Very unfortunately, you have been meeting with the wrong guys so far. Bad as it may look, there are still good guys out there. People are still having successful marriages. Why should your own be different? Remember life is whatever you make out of it. Don't live a bitter life because of some few dudes who messed up with your heart/life in the past. You MUST marry someday, have kids and be fulfilled in life!!!!

Yah I met all the wrong guys who wasted my time and now I'm too old for any marriage or kids. Thanks for rubbing it in.

That's why I'm telling OP - you just gotta meet the man you're willing to put up with him cheating on you. Because he will.

wilybebsy:
As if its only men that cheat.... I don't no how many boyfriends u have had but am still saying that its not enough reason to generalize that all men are cheats

Women cheat too. But far less frequently than men. ALL men cheat. Only SOME women cheat.

abbeyology88:
Sweetheart, I red ur Peronal message on ur profile. What you've just said correlate with it. You seem to be in some stuff wit a guy(s) which you don't lyk. But lemme tell you, if you continue generalizing yo exprienc wit guyz, mehn, u will see a honest guy and bullshit him. if care is not taking, u may even see ur hubby as one.

Pls, stayUp, see clear. Malady

I have enough experience with men. You are not talking to a young woman here. Trust me, men only want what they can't have. When they have it, they drop it and look for the next challenge.

lilzcee:
i don't blame u, is just ur mentality, i can't talk to my mum because she is a woman i can't talk to my slibings because they are all women, is just ur mentality

Cry me a river. Why not talk to your wife/girlfriend. If you can't talk to her, then that's your mistake for choosing the wrong woman's heart to break.

emerged01:
You need to love and be loved. You are a rib and you belong to somebody.

The rib of a cheater? No thanks.

toyeoye:
you sound like uve lost all hope in humanity

Not in humanity. Just men. I'm not a lesbian, I just hate men.

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naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]

It must have really hurt. Next time be "wise" in love. [/color]

Just don't fall in love in the first place. Best advice ever.

2BB4CB3E:
watching ya in 3D

I look more like Daenerys.

emerged01:
You are who you are for a purpose. Dont stop being who you used to be.

I'll be me. Just single fo life sha