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Romance › Re: What Should I Do? by foolinlove(f): 8:02am On Jun 23, 2016

mindful01:
Thank sister, the problem now is how to quickly forget her.

It won't be quick. Just live your life, accept that she will be in your memory for a long time - in time she'll just be a lesson. No one wants to forget good lessons.

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Romance › Re: Why Do Guys Fall In Love When The Girl Is Too Hard To Get? by foolinlove(f): 7:12am On Jun 23, 2016

obyrich:
You will be in relationship again. You will find love again. True love, devoid of deceit.

All you need is guidance. You need to rein in your emotions a little and use your head more. You don't give up on life till you draw your last breath.
Your best revenge for the men who broke your heart will be to find someone who knows your worth. There are many such men. Draw strength from your weakness. Wipe your tears. You've been wrestled aground. Stand up. Stand tall. Shake off the dust. Raise your head high and move on. I wish I could speak with you.

Incorrect. I am one of God's rejects. God gave me desire to have husband and family, but no opportunity to do so. I give up already.

Romance › Re: Why Do Guys Fall In Love When The Girl Is Too Hard To Get? by foolinlove(f): 6:08am On Jun 23, 2016

Chuksemi:
Ok. Sorry, I was wrong. Why is it so hard then for you to forget him/them and what he/they did to you? You are still living with the evidence of failed relationships. It would be difficult to find a successful one, like that

It doesn't worry me anymore, for myself I know will never be on relationship again.

Romance › Re: What Should I Do? by foolinlove(f): 6:06am On Jun 23, 2016

eitsei:
I understand but at the same time all the guys you have met are not the only guys in the world. Do you know a guy too can say the same thing about girls too?

O know many women who have been through same as me. Good faithful women.

I know some cheating women, but not all women I meet are cheaters like all men I meet.

Romance › Re: Alone And Lonely by foolinlove(f): 6:05am On Jun 23, 2016

IG264:
Nice one.. touching

No use to say anything else. You can feel better on happy words, but is not the truth.

Make a space for the bad feelings to dwell. And get on with life. It is sad and lonely for most, that is infortunate truth. Only God walks with us everywhere.

Bless.

Romance › Re: What Should I Do? by foolinlove(f): 6:02am On Jun 23, 2016

eitsei:
good if it's cheats that you hate then don't generalize it that all men cheat... I believe you will soon a find a man that will not cheat on you... Sometimes it's not like these men really want to cheat but their experience in the hands of ladies make them cheat like this op now if he meets another girl and shows her less care and love or probably cheats, the same girl may come to nairaland and start saying same thing as you though I'm not justifying cheating o, cheating is WRONG whether from a male or female, it's a two-way thing, in all I'm just saying don't generalize not all MEN cheat

Every guy I have met is a cheater. Even family. So sad.

Romance › Re: Why Do Guys Fall In Love When The Girl Is Too Hard To Get? by foolinlove(f): 6:00am On Jun 23, 2016

Chuksemi:
Ok. Sorry, I was wrong. Why is it so hard then for you to forget him/them and what he/they did to you? You are still living with the evidence of failed relationships. It would be difficult to find a successful one, like that

Because they saw that I gave them my all. But they didn't care enough to just let me go. Tjey didn't think I was worthy of better times, peace in my life, so they wasted my timr and money and took from me. How can you see someone so loving and caring and not leave them to find happiness with right person? It's wrong.

Romance › Re: Is It Possible For A Man And A Woman To Be Just Friends? by foolinlove(f): 5:57am On Jun 23, 2016

Not at all possible.

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Romance › Re: Alone And Lonely by foolinlove(f): 5:46am On Jun 23, 2016

IG264:
Every body is talking of the problem but no solution... #crying

I feel you. But there is no solution. Just gotta make a space in yourself for de pain. Then live your life anyway.

No one can "fix" this problem. We're born alone and we go to heaven alone.

Maybe you can find solace in the fact that you are not the only person who is going thru dis.

Romance › Re: Why Do Guys Fall In Love When The Girl Is Too Hard To Get? by foolinlove(f): 5:42am On Jun 23, 2016

Chuksemi:
Reading your comments so far, I am forced to believe your ex boyfriend must be pretty handsome and rich. He has left a permanent mark on you. Somehow, even after leaving you, you haven't left him. Hating on men because of what a few guys did wouldn't do you good.

Let him go, move on. So far, I don't think he is worth the hassles and everything. And as for men wanting what they can't have. It's a human being thing. Everybody always wishes to own what they can't have. Some go after this wild dreams. Others don't.

None of my ex were rich. They just prey on me for MY money. With bedtime words and empty promises. Don't make assumptions about me that you don't know.

Romance › Re: What Should I Do? by foolinlove(f): 5:40am On Jun 23, 2016

eitsei:
you are welcome

If you cheat you don't love. Maybe is just cheaters I hate. But I've never met a man who don't cheat.

Romance › Re: What Should I Do? by foolinlove(f): 5:31am On Jun 23, 2016

eitsei:
I never knew you could give this kind of advice, thought you hate men to the extent you will be happy if girls break their hearts, the way you said some men did with you... Wow! I'm beginning to have another view about you... Quite impressed I must say

Thanx.

Romance › Re: What Should I Do? by foolinlove(f): 5:30am On Jun 23, 2016

juhan:
Op i wish you better luck in finding love. No let any girl cheat you again, you hear?

He didnt let her cheat. She made that choice on her own. Is not his fault.

Romance › Re: What Should I Do? by foolinlove(f): 5:28am On Jun 23, 2016

wilybebsy:
hehehe well said

Solid advice from mad woman grin

Education › Re: What To Do When Your Lecturer Harasses You (Female Students) by foolinlove(f): 5:18am On Jun 23, 2016

Only one solution. Go ask his wife what he means by all this attention he gives you. Problem solved.

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Romance › Re: What Should I Do? by foolinlove(f): 5:14am On Jun 23, 2016

wilybebsy:
Foolinlove,, what's ur advice for this brother??

I say forget her and move on. She's just trash.

Block her number, social media, everything. Never talk to her again. NEVER. The more days that go by without talking her, the stronger you be. She has shown who she is.

Be glad she only took this much and you didn't wake up in the future married to this piece of trash. Be happy she only took what she did and didn't have opportunity to take more.

The best revenge is living well. You'll find a new girl. You'll get a job. When your ex sees how well you treat your new girl, with so much love and respect - never cheating, lying, stealing - she'll know what she lost and have a big regret on her hands because she chose a liar cheater over you.

In a few months, maybe you can thank God for this lesson and saving you from life of misery.

I wish you well. Sorry thjs happen to you, I know from my similar experience that it hurts.

Romance › Re: Protecting Yourself From Heart Break. by foolinlove(f): 5:02am On Jun 23, 2016

Protecting urself from this is EASY. Just don't ever love anyone. Don't waste your energy on relationship. Simplr as that.

Romance › Re: 10 Things Ladies Look Out For In Men Before They Marry Them... by foolinlove(f): 4:58am On Jun 23, 2016

What trash. This isn't true at all!

Romance › Re: In This City Women Pay To Date Men And Guys Have At Least 3 Girlfriends Each! by foolinlove(f): 7:39pm On Jun 22, 2016

Jusmudi:
See dis babe ooo , 4 dis change na U need moni

Men will take even what little you have. Thet don't care if u on da street they'll take and take and take.

Romance › Re: In This City Women Pay To Date Men And Guys Have At Least 3 Girlfriends Each! by foolinlove(f): 7:10pm On Jun 22, 2016

Jusmudi:
U want 2 reap were u did nt sow. Taaaaaaaaaa com lets struggle 2geda

That's what all men say "let's struggle together p.s. can I have some money"

LOL

Romance › Re: In This City Women Pay To Date Men And Guys Have At Least 3 Girlfriends Each! by foolinlove(f): 6:50pm On Jun 22, 2016

I'm nevr giving money to a man ever again.

I already paid for 2 drug habits, a wedding that didnt happen, my ex finace wedding to some other girl and my other ex presents to his side chic. Not knowingly, or course. O was stupid to trust. And all I got was heartache and bitterness and now I'm poor as dirt.

Any man talk to me now better b rich coz I'll charge by the minute to talk me.

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Romance › Re: In This City Women Pay To Date Men And Guys Have At Least 3 Girlfriends Each! by foolinlove(f): 6:31pm On Jun 22, 2016

Jusmudi:
See dis babe oooo, u won change our mind wit change?? Lolzzzzz china we don reach unless U agree 2 b my finance minister

It must be so wonderful to be a woman in your company huh

Romance › Re: In This City Women Pay To Date Men And Guys Have At Least 3 Girlfriends Each! by foolinlove(f): 6:25pm On Jun 22, 2016

ikbnice:
I would bleach to my bones and even the D will be white too.

Good idea. Chinese and all Asians only respect ppl with lighter skin than themself. Racist a$$holes.

Romance › Re: In This City Women Pay To Date Men And Guys Have At Least 3 Girlfriends Each! by foolinlove(f): 6:22pm On Jun 22, 2016

ikbnice:
and we preach against polygamy here. Let someone get me a map, am going there to make money. Hope they accept foreigners sha?

They don't, chinese don't like black people. How sad for you.

Romance › Re: Question For The Day by foolinlove(f): 6:20pm On Jun 22, 2016

It depends on blood type, HLA type. There's more to that than selflessness, people.

Romance › Re: Why Do I Have An Attitude Problem? by foolinlove(f): 5:34pm On Jun 22, 2016

onila:
thanks dearie

You're welcome

Romance › Re: Why Do I Have An Attitude Problem? by foolinlove(f): 4:05pm On Jun 22, 2016

You're welcome to join my man hating club.

Men will tell you that you are the problem always. They like to nake women feel small because they want to control you. Just be you. If any man exists who can be faithful to you and respect you, God will deliver.

But if you are like me, and are one of God's rejected women, maybe you'll have more fun hating men

Romance › Re: Do All Guys Have A Side Chic? by foolinlove(f): 3:53pm On Jun 22, 2016

schumastic:
i get your point though but drawing into such conclusions is wrong cus i, for one, don't believe that ladies are saint either talk more of trusting them.

I never made the claim that ladies are saints. i dont date ladies so dont know. I just know that men are awful.

Romance › Re: NO PANTY DAY ! - June 22 by foolinlove(f): 3:25pm On Jun 22, 2016

Harvard13:
babe you strong oh, just registered on NL yesterday but uve spent 12 hours plus online with 156 posts!!
i drop hat for u!!

What can I say am one bored lady.

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Romance › Re: Do All Guys Have A Side Chic? by foolinlove(f): 2:46pm On Jun 22, 2016

schumastic:
ahhh why do I find it hard to believe you...okay let's assume you are saying the truth(hard to believe), indirectly you are saying you have been cheated upon most times right based on your conclusion..
my question is this, what is it you are not doing right that makes this guys cheat on you? sincere answer

It's not my choice they cheat - it's theirs. How can I control another's actions? It aint mu fault. They lied, they cheated. Not me. I didn't drive them to their action, they chose to lie. Of they don wanna be wit me or respect me, they could have droppd me first?

Romance › Re: 11 Benefits Of No Sex Before Marriage (Abstinence) by foolinlove(f): 2:44pm On Jun 22, 2016

kingkakaone:
can we talk privately? I just wanna talk nothing else.
this is my bbm pin in case u are ready to talk.
7B53F550.just a talk that's all. thanks

I don have no bbm sozz

Romance › Re: . by foolinlove(f): 2:41pm On Jun 22, 2016

2BB4CB3E:
Good for you

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