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Nateben:
My dear, I'll have to leave your point to understanding, I have come to the conclusion that most ladies just live in their own world, when you try to correct them it boils down to the fact that you don't like their personality or that you want them to change and before you know it, it will come down to.. You don't love me anymore...

Correct them? Who are you, their father? I feel sorry for any woman who goes with you - you'll push her down so far as to follow you like a lost dog and then still cheat on her.

It's about respect and communication, whoch is a two way street. If you find it hard to respect and communicate, then the relationship isn't working. So you make it work, or you break up. Slweping with different peolle happens AFTER the break up.

Trapnews:
Story for the gods! Everyman is a potential cheat back to back. A lot of men do things you wouldn't imagine, not even now that you all go about naked continue to blame us. You all forget that man was engineered to be aroused by the unclothedness of women, as long as you continue to walk naked, we will be ******* you all, better talk to yourselves

Omg. So men can cry "not all men" when they take offense to one girl's generalisation, but somehow a few girls wearing minkskirts or whatever represent all women? I don't speak for all women. I don't represent all women. I'm not responsible for other women's actions.

I respect myself. I did the right thing in relationships. Men still cheated me instead of doing the right thing. It was their choice to cheat, not my failure. I respected and communicated with my partners. They didn't. That's on them, not me.

Speaking only for myself, no.

I've never cheated on a guy. Not once. But I have been known to be jealous. However that is always with reason.

virginboy1:
foolinlove. I sight you

What that mean?

The reason most men cheat is due to lack of self control, selfishness and lack of respect/love for their partner.

Unfortunately, most do not find live strong enough to be able to control themselves.

Package it any way you want: it all boils down to respect.

If the V isn't tight enough, if you're bored, if the wife be nagging - talk together and solve the problem. Otherwise you are just lazy, selfish, disrespectful and no self control.

Owliver:
it's about partnership and power.

take a good look at the societal structure. someone must be above someone. there must be a leader in ever human gathering.

if everybody becomes equal there will be no resolution but conflict. cos everybody is equal. it's a disaster. wonder why divorce rate is so high in the west?

even with this, disrespect is not encouraged, everyone should be respected for their roles but to be equal is an illusion it only breeds conflict

Equally important, filling different roles, but equally important.

If the needs of one are placed above the other, like in a controlling situation, then that breeds unhappiness.

obyrich:
What made it run out?

Ask him.

Efriday1:
Submit and control him. Fight for equal partnership and he fights back. And you can never win unless the man is really weak. I thought my bible settled this already! Submit or stay single. ;

It's not about control... it's about partnership?

Not all are polygamous but most are natural cheaters.

If you love your girlfriend, you will control yourself around other girls. If you don't love your girl, drop her before you go after the new one.

Be a decent and respectful person.

Of you are having trouble deciding, then it's obviois you don't love your girlfriend enough.

When you have True Love you will NEVER doubt it.

Tedassie:
for someone whose personal text blurts "Men are The Worst"...include obstinate&dense to ur resume...cheers!!!

Yeah well you can't even code in bb. So take that off YOUR resume.

bulldoza:
Good for you.
Continue loving him.
You'll soon be dumped as usual

I already was stupid.

bulldoza:
And you are still a big FOOL.in love?

Yes. I hate myself for loving someone who never loved me.

lepasharon:
Lol ok. Do you get hor.ny tho? maybe you haven't had the right guy to make ur experience enjoyable.

I've never been wit a guy who cared about me or loved me. Dats de problem.

obyrich:
So he never showed love from the word go? I sent you a PM.

He showed love. Then the love ran out.

lepasharon:
Lube and gentle thrusts are the key

Celibacy is my key. Sex is not good. I've never enjoyed it. Ew.

lilzcee:
go clean ur smelly puna, u have issues and not guys, ur smelly puna chase them away thats why they cheat

Cheating is a choice. Men have self control they aint animals. They can always drop the girl before they seek things elsewhere. Show respect. Let her move on for someone who will be faithful and love her properly.

No. Why waste money.

Just don't rape her or bad mouth her if she doesn't fucc wit you.

Guys who don't break up, they just strung you along and you find out they moved on without saying anything.

obyrich:
Same will be your portion.

No way I'm allowing that. I refuse to have my heart broken again. The last guy said and did all the "righ" things. Lies.

obyrich:
Did you call or text to know why? It could be he expects you to reciprocate his advances. Maybe you've not been showing much interest. Love is best enjoyed when there is a full-duplex channel of communication set up by both parties involved.

I showed my interest believe me. I reciprocated. I love him still. I am just stupid really. Lies, lies from tiny eyes.

Expect it to be bad. Everyone's first time is bad. And if you're me, all the subsequent times will be bad too. Sex is overrated and a pretty awful experience. Humiliating, embarrassing and all around not enjoyable.

obyrich:
Depending on the circumstances. They could move on for a while and come back later. I got a call from a strange number last night. It was a girl I once met on 2go years back when I was in the University. We never met in person. We lost contact shortly after my graduation. She stopped calling. Stopped taking my calls. Stopped replying texts. I deleted her contact. Moved on. Four years after, she called.

That's not missing you tho. That's just boredom.

If one day a guy say he love you, you are his wife, then don't call or text for a week, that means he is a liar.

Just be me. That's sure to turn any guy off.

I'll make your thing go down faster than a cold shower.

Guys can't stifle their vomit for long enough to fucc me. Unless there is promise of money. Then they will get it done asap and vomit afterwards. Scrub themselves like a rape victim.

obyrich:
You don't know how happy I am reading this from YOU!

Yeah well she is young amd has a chance to be better and live a good life.

buske:
Haha...someday??
Even you... I'm sure there's one dude currently turning your head with lies and you're soo loving it.

You females can't just help it!

No guy want me and I don't want them. This kitty shop is closed.

obyrich:
The last sentence is not true. Action, not words, is what shows a man's feeling.

So if they stop calling and texting it means they've forgotten about yiu and have moved on.

Explains a lot. My ex is yoruba. Cheating dog. Wish I had known before.

vizkiz:
so the truth?

Thought I met you. My mistake. As you were.

vizkiz:
Lol...No way.

Lol

vizkiz:
hmmmn...*SUSPICIOUS

Does your name begin with S?

vizkiz:
lol, to whites Yeah... Just like all Japanese look the same to blacks. Lol
Are you sure you not pulling my legs?

Quite sure.