 Family › Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by foreshore(m): 5:33pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
Dynamic33:
I met my baby daddy three years ago. We met on my 21st birthday. I went out to the nightclub to celebrate my birthday and I met this handsome 32 years old. He couldn’t stop staring at me until he approached me and introduced himself and we exchanged numbers.
He called me the next day, we chatted for about an hour and he told me he was married. He has two kids but they now are separated. In the process of divorce but they are still living together, separate bedrooms while he is waiting for the house he is building to finish so he can move out.
I was jealous and angry at him. I told him he is lying to me, they are still together and still fucking he just want to use me then dump me but he promised me that there was nothing between him and the wife, and that they had stop having sex when she was pregnant with the second baby and the baby was now 8 months and he has proof that there was nothing between them.
We were meeting at my place and staying together until 2-3am. Sometimes he doesn’t go back until the next day and on those days that we don’t meet, we chatted on the phone until late 1-2am while he was still in the house so I was happy that there’s nothing between them.
He brought the children to me, I fell so much in love with them and will be spending the day with them and it felt great to bond with them.
Then later I got pregnant, he told me to abort it because they are in the process of divorce. If the court finds out he impregnated someone somewhere else everything will go against him. I told him not to worry I will keep it as a secret until he sorts out the divorce but he insisted that I should abort. I didn’t like it. We had a misunderstanding. In anger I hit him with my heels shoes and injured him on the forehead. He was bleeding but he didn’t fight me back. He just left and I was very sorry. I kept begging him, asking for forgiveness, he kept ignoring me and for three months we didn’t contact each other because he was still mad at me.
Then few months later, he called and asked to meet me and I begged him for forgiveness for everything I did to him and I accepted to abort the pregnancy. I was already 5 months gone and two days before the abortion he came to my house and told me that while we’re on the break, he was stressed and started drinking and mistakenly had sex with his wife and she is also pregnant. He said that she lured him to have sex to stop the divorce process but he do not care about it. He will go ahead with the divorce because he still loves me and wants to be with me and he pleaded with me to do the abortion for him so he could win the divorce and custody of his children. I was very angry that I threw a plastic chair on him and asked him to leave my house and to never come back that it was over between us. I deleted and blocked his numbers and removed all his pictures on my phone. He was begging my friends to tell me to forgive him but I rejected him and I now have my beautiful daughter, my joy, my everything.
But the only problem I have, my parents sent me abroad to study, I dropped out three years ago and they don’t know I'm not longer in school and that I now have a child because they keep sending me money every month thinking I’m still in school. When I’m not so on December I did traveled back home to my parents and I left my daughter with a friend for 2 whole weeks. I couldn’t sleep or eat and my parents said Now that I’m in my final year after finishing it, they want me to come back home for good by July and where will I leave my child ? I don’t know how to tell my parents about my child? And also that I left school three years ago my dad is very strict and am scared.
Please I’m very sorry for the long post and advice me on how to tell them please? Congratulations to you! |
| Politics › Re: Yekini Nabena Slams Bishop David Oyedepo: ‘You Need To Examine Your Head’ by foreshore(m): 8:43am On Mar 10, 2020 |
Fragility6:
Yours is hours away. Id*ot carrying someone's issue as if he is ur fada We shall soon see who is cursed! |
| Politics › Re: Yekini Nabena Slams Bishop David Oyedepo: ‘You Need To Examine Your Head’ by foreshore(m): 8:20am On Mar 10, 2020 |
Fragility6:
Watch hw e miserable life ends Your end is near |
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| Crime › Re: Oko Polytechnic Student's Plan To Kill Her New Born Baby Fails (Graphic Photos) by foreshore(m): 8:54pm On Mar 07, 2020 |
Samfitz:
An unidentified student of Federal Polytechnic, Oko, Anambra State, is on the run for trying to kill her baby she delivered last night.
The girl who's identity is yet to be known delivered a baby girl yesterday night being 6 February, 2020 in her boyfriends room at Munachi Hostel, Oko, Orumba North L.G.A as they tried to kill baby thereby throwing over the fence from the first floor of the hostel to next empty plot.
According to an eyewitness Miss Chioma who resides in the hostel says "luck ran out from them when the baby was found hanging on the barbed wire of the fence."
The baby was rescued alive by the members of the hostel and was rushed to Chukwunoso Hospital opposite the main gate of the Polytechnic.
Further investigations revealed that HND 1 student of Public Administration Department connived with his roommate to allow his girlfriend to deliver the baby in their room so that can carry out their evil machination.
The men of Oko police station have arrived at the scene of the incident. However, the boys roommate has been arrested. To Bleep is always very easy, but the result of Bleep is always a problem to appreciate and catered for. |
| Celebrities › Re: Police Escort Holds A Fan For Regina Daniels On Set (Photo, Video) by foreshore(m): 8:56pm On Mar 06, 2020 |
Charmingrascal:
This nonsense has to stop
How can a Police Officer of the Federal Republic Of Nigeria in his complete regalia be holding a fan for one teenager.
Is he an escort or a maid?
This is an insult to The NPF!
A Police Officer is not suppose to hold the bag or any other hand props of the person he is guarding. It is an insult I hear you Inspector General of Police! |
| Politics › Re: Oyo Lawmakers Dress In Amotekun Attire To Pass Bill Into Law by foreshore(m): 10:03pm On Mar 03, 2020 |
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| NYSC › Re: Amaka Asikaogu: Corper Found Dead In Abuja Hotel Days To End Of Service by foreshore(m): 11:59pm On Mar 02, 2020 |
espn:
An autopsy should be done...If it is not poison
..The young man has no case to answer to... Like you are both police and judge! |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Bishop Oyedepo: "High Tech Amotekun Has Silenced Killer Herdsmen" by foreshore(m): 8:29pm On Mar 01, 2020 |
HigherEd:
HERDSMEN KILLERS WILL SOON BECOME EXTINCT!
*What you don’t despise, you don’t dominate!
*High-Tech Amotekun have silenced Herdsmen killers.
-Bishop David Oyedepo
You so over exaggerate your enemy, that your faith just dies. You can never dominate anything you don't despise.
You know this boko haram thing. Boko nonsense. When I curse them, calamities happen in their camp Sir. You're miyetti allah. miyetti allah what? Walk on my farm, you are dead. Don't try it
Meat wetin what?
My father didn't buy land from any fulanis, we gave them where to stay in the forest. There was no time a fulani man held a land to stay in my place, so how did it become his land? But they are silent now, they are in hiding, their counterparts have risen against them, you know "amotekun - they are not bow and arrow fighters, they are high tech fighters." As soon as they heard of them, speed, you mess up!!!
Then we have prophets of our order, you mess up, you are finished. It will become history that herdsmen ever caused a rampage in Nigeria.
I have lived there before, so I know everything about them. There is nothing, empty noise.
The remainder of them called boko haram, miyetti allah is gone EXTINCT.
Thank You Jesus.
You know they hear me all the time when I am speaking. They are hearing me now and they are urinating in the trousers already. They are smelling already.
This is not Nigeria of 1821. Praise God.
https://www.facebook.com/444807728996437/posts/1966250506852144/ Great Man of God has spoken |
| Politics › Re: FG Announces Partial Closure Of Independence Bridge Lagos by foreshore(m): 7:46pm On Mar 01, 2020 |
Okoroawusa:
I Love PMB You are certainly part of Nigerian problem then |
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| Politics › Re: Buhari Meets With Service Chiefs, NSA Monguno Absent (Photos) by foreshore(m): 7:00pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
ZombieHUNT:
You want the presidency to sack the president?
The NSA stepped on the lion's tail..
He should live with the consequences Is this one in this country at all |
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| Politics › Re: Governor Zulum Buys Akara And Pap Without Security (Photos) by foreshore(m): 12:15pm On Feb 24, 2020 |
sarrki:
But very dangerous. . . .
Copied!!!
Governor Zulum of Borno State left the Government house yesterday without his security details and ended up at Pap, Akara & Masa joint for his breakfast, no camera man, only people who recognized him captured him. One thing special about him is that after buying, he empowers people beyond their wildest imagination.
This Professor is a living case study for the rest of the Nigerian Big Men/Women!
https://mobile.twitter.com/usmanyusuf/status/1231824354075381761 Make Boko Haram catch you |
| Sports › Re: Kazeem Tiyamiyu 'Kaka' Killed By Hit-And-Run Driver, Not SARS - Police by foreshore(m): 5:57pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
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| Politics › Re: US Opposes Nigeria's Plan To Hand Abacha Looted Funds To Governor Bagudu by foreshore(m): 9:53pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
lessonsoflife:
Though the writing looks credible, source is needed. Stay there an be looking for source like you are not aware that corruption is endemic in Nigeria |
| Politics › Re: Boko Haram Is Currently Attacking Garkida In Adamawa - Ahmad Salkida by foreshore(m): 9:45pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
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| Travel › Re: Nigeria Appeals To U.S Over Visa Ban by foreshore(m): 5:47pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
LosC:
The Nigerian Government on Thursday urged the United States of America to consider the long standing relationship between the two countries and reverse its visa restrictions on the country.
Ministry of Interior Interior, Ogbeni Rauf Aregbesola, made the call on Thursday, when the American Ambassador to Nigeria, Mary Leonard, and her team paid him a visit in Abuja.
Aregebsola said Nigeria had complied with most of the issues of concern raised by America, adding that Nigeria is not a pariah nation.
The minister said the cooperation with the U.S. would solve Immigration and Consular issues in control of persons seeking to enter both countries through issuance of visa, passport and other travel documents.
According to Aregbesola , Nigeria should be commended rather than sanctioned owing to relationship with America.
He further appealed to the U.S. to review its Visa Validity to Nigerians from two years limit to at least five years
He also urged U.S. to establish a third office in Nigeria in reciprocity with the country which has establishments in Atlanta, New York and Washington D.C.
Aregebsola emphasised the need for both countries to strengthen the Security Governance Initiative between his Ministry and American Embassy through proper enlightenment and awareness creation.
The minister added that the relationship between both nations must be mutually beneficial.
He gave assurance that the President Muhammadu Buhari Administration was not only committed to ensuring internal security and citizenship integrity of Nigerians and foreigners alike, but also to the fight against terrorism and transnational crimes and criminalities.
‘’We are positive that visa restriction is a temporary one, it will soon be put behind us.
“President Muhammadu Buhari would commission the Nigeria Immigration Data Technology Centre before the end of the year 2020, as part of the Federal Government’s commitment to ensuring that her data is linked with security agencies globally.”
Earlier, the envoy said her team was in the Ministry to share ideas on possible ways of addressing Information sharing gap between the two nation.
Leonard added that America had a very broad collaboration with Nigeria, which covers immigration, safety issues and security.
The envoy gave assurance of her country’s determination to continue to collaborate with Nigeria, so as to further strengthen their relationship.
https://dailypost.ng/2020/02/20/nigerian-govt-appeals-to-u-s-over-visa-ban/ Its high time we are banned totally and all Nigerian deported from USA |
| Culture › Re: Abdulrosheed Akanbi Suspended For 6 Months by foreshore(m): 5:45pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
[quote author=Kundagarten post=86840482][/quote]Yahoo Yahoo King |
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| Crime › Re: Pamilerin Babatunde: 4-Year-Old Girl Kidnapped In Ikorodu by foreshore(m): 3:31pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
Sirheny007:
I hope it is not what I am thinking.
I pray she is found and returned to her parents.
such innocence. Must you think negatively! She will be found in Jesus name!!! |
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| Crime › Re: Man Commits Suicide By Hanging As Girlfriend He Trained In School Dumps Him by foreshore(m): 8:55pm On Feb 16, 2020 |
EBMedia:
IgbereTV reports that a man known as Mr. Ossy from Aguleri in Anambra State Nigeria committed suicide by hanging himself on a Mango tree after sponsoring one Miss Melisa Nnaji from Enugu State to the University level at Institute of Management Technology (IMT) with the promise of getting married to her after graduation.
Regrettably, the man couldn't stand the shock when he received an invitation of the girl's marriage coming up 18th of March 2020 through one of his best friend called Nnadozie, Which led him to commit suicide.
https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=2940702139326101&id=100001590311104 Wasted effort. Still does not stop the lady in question from getting married on set date |
| Travel › Re: Updated Cost Of Transport Around Lagos Major Routes For Workers by foreshore(m): 4:04pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
CotenantNIG:
Updated COST OF TRANSPORT AROUND LAGOS MAJOR ROUTES FOR WORKERS
Because of the ban on bikes and keke , Danfo drivers have upgraded the cost of transport around Lagos for no reason.
This proves how greedy most nigerians are, and how we love to take advantage of peoples misfortunes
This would help you plan your budget well or better still get a shared apartment or rent partner on cotenant
Lets get started
Ikotun to ikeja = ₦300 X 261 working days
Ikeja to ikotun = ₦300 X 261 working days
Total Cost in a year = ₦156,600
Ikotun – obalende = ₦800 x 261 working days
Obalende to ikotun = ₦700 x 261 working days (sometimes fare can be ₦800 based on timing)
Total Cost in a year = ₦391,500
Ikotun to oshodi = ₦250 x 261 working days
Oshodi to ikotun = ₦250 x 261 working days
Total Cost in a year = ₦130,500
Egbeda to oshodi = ₦300 x 261 working days
Oshoodi to egbeda = ₦250 x 261 working days
Total Cost in a year = ₦143,550
Egbeda to ikeja = ₦200 x 261 working days (sometimes its ₦200 depending on traffic or crowd i.e if danfo drivers see large crowd waiting for buses the higher the money)
Ikeja to egbeda = ₦200 x 261 working days (sometimes ₦150 or ₦250 due to timing or rain )
Total Cost in a year = ₦104,400
Iyana ipaja – yaba = ₦400 x 261 working days
Yaba to Iyana ipaja = ₦350 x 261 working days
Total Cost in a year = ₦195,750
Iyana ipaja to ikeja = ₦250 x 261 working days (sometimes 200)
Ikeja to Iyana ipaja = ₦200 x 261 working days
Total Cost in a year= ₦114,450
Iyan ipaja to oshodi = ₦300 x 261 working days (sometimes 250)
Oshodi to Iyana ipaja = ₦200 x 261 working days
Total Cost in a year= ₦130,500
Iyana ipaja to lekki/ajah = ₦800 x 261 working days
Lekki/ajah to Iyana ipaja = ₦750 x 261 working days
Total Cost in a year = ₦404,550
Ikeja(Maryland) to yaba = ₦300 x 261 working days
Yaba to ikeja = ₦200 x 261 working days
Total Cost in a year = ₦130,500
Ikeja to oshodi = ₦100 x 261 working days (sometimes 150)
Oshodi to ikeja = ₦100 x 261 working days
Total Cost in a year = ₦52,200
Ikeja to obalende/cms = ₦300 x 261 working days
Obalende/cms – ikeja = ₦250 x 261 working days
Total Cost in a year = ₦143,550
Oshodi to obalende/cms = ₦300 x 261 working days(sometimes changes)
Obalende to oshodi = ₦200 x 261 working days
Total Cost in a year = ₦130,500
Oshodi to Ikorodu = ₦300 x 261 working days
Ikorodu to oshodi = ₦300 x 261 working days
Total Cost in a year = ₦156,600
Oshodi to lekki/ajah = ₦500 x 261 working days
Lekki/ajah to oshodi = ₦500 x 261 working days
Total Cost in a year = ₦261,000
Ketu/Ojota – Oshodi = ₦200 x 261 working days
Oshodi – Ketu/Ojota = ₦200 x 261 working days
Total Cost in a year = ₦104,420
NOTE: This prices are based on rush hour
Places with high foot traffic we didn’t add agege, ikorodu, mushin (most people living in mushin do actually come to oshodi(₦50) to enter bus to the highland(lekki/ajah) or obalende/cms) . Oshodi is the Link between Lagos Highland and Lagos Mainland other places include ojota,ogudu bus stop, 7up etc
https://cotenant.ng/updated-cost-of-transport-around-lagos-major-routes-for-workers/ Highland or Island! All this semi illiterate Ops |
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