Yuceeluv:
okay this got me. Lmao! bros lemme oooo. I no dey form abeg. I dey devour better akpu with ofe oha like anything. But as all kinds of virus just dey show this time, anything from the bush, MBA!

Lol ok ma. I believe..

Yuceeluv:
No matter how sweet bush meat is, Lord knows i can not taste one, this period.

Bros! wash your hands very well o after eating it.

Naso dem dey talk... Come and eat, come and eat , no! no! I don't like it am Not hungry. 5 minutes.. You devour pot.. We know your type

Dreyton36:

Cabad na , that white / grey colour thing thing wey if them put am for water he go they smell and hot inside water

I sabi, how you sabi say e go work?

Babamide:
She apparently tried to reach out to you guys while struggling before she died and you guys didn't hear her. But una no try at all, you didn't see a close neighbors for a whole day and I'm pretty sure you must have heard her phone ring with no response from her

.

Remind me of the movie insidious. The guy killed and when back in time. He remember hearing someone knocking on his door when he was alive.. It was at that moment he notice it was his own spirit who was knocking on the Door to warn him

Dreyton36:
Every dead body who happens to disturb later on has something attached to it
If she's still disturbing that much it means it wasn't an ordinary death , probably poisoned, or she was Bewitched somehow in a spiritual way

Get a picture of photograph of her
Buy a cylinder and some cabad
And blow it , she'll never disturb again , you've just successfully chained her till eternity buy u most get enough mind to run am

Cabad that smelling stuff they use for rat poison ?


How to sabi say e go work? What if that mixture na invitation of demons kio?

Deicide:
What I don't understand is how is a ghost able to make physical contact with a door banging on it to produce a sound? And if the ghost wanted to communicate why not just pass through the wall. This seems more like Hollywood stuff to me.

Go and download insidious and watch the movie. It has 1-4.. You will understand

Your are afraid of failing. You don't want to Bleep up. Abi you get micro P*?


Anyway the best way to cure this is get high.. Drink or take weed.. Come back and thank me

For sometime now have been having some financial challenges especially in my business. I went to one of my friend Timothy(real name changed for personal reason) who is from a well to do family for help.
He helped with the little he could and promised to take me to his mom, maybe she will be able to help since his dad travelled.
Since he took me to his mom, this woman has been disturbing me for sometime now saying i should sleep with her if i want her to help me. she went as far as sending me expensive wristwatches and other gifts.
This is a married woman with 3 children and in her mid fifties, her eldest son is a friend of mine.
I dont know what to do she is like my only hope, another of my friend who assisted me with little has adviced me to give in to her demands and get the money and other benefits attached to it.
what should i do am confused

I don't understand you. Today you a man tomorrow you a lady. Scammer.

Kenturkey048:
exactly my thought...

The guy na f**l jawe. He claim to be a neuropsychologist. Dreyton36 you sick

BolaAdenekan:
My wife is too insecure with herself. She is very shy and quiet, she’s doesn’t have friends and she stays indoors always. I noticed that she doesn’t like to take pictures of herself and she doesn’t like to take pictures with me or anyone, not even her family. She will complain that she doesn’t like the way she looks In pictures. I noticed that when we were dating she would always say negative things about herself, always calling herself ugly meanwhile she’s very beautiful in my eyes. Her low self esteem is affecting her behaviour and her interactions with people. She can barely look people in the eyes when talking to them.

Just two weeks ago I had a video conference call with our bible study meeting group at church. They kept on asking about my wife, but my wife insisted she didn’t want to be on camera because she didn’t have makeup on. I told her that her natural face is fine that she should just quickly greet my church members and that’s it. I put the camera on her face, and she snatched the phone out of my hand, threw my phone away and walked out of the room. Embarrassing me on the call, and I had to lie to my church members that she’s not feeling well. Ive noticed that she doesn’t ever want to be seen without makeup by outsiders, I don’t know what kind of woman this is. She will never leave the house without makeup, even if she is just going across the road.

Then just today I posted a video of her and my newborn on my watsapp status. Immediately she saw it she started screaming at me, that why would I post a video of her looking like that. That she’s added a lot of weight from pregnancy and she doesn’t like how she looks, that I should always ask for her permission before posting her. Every minute she’s always complains about her looks, and it’s affecting her way of life. It’s also affecting me as her husband because I don’t understand how a normal person can behave like this. I don’t know if I should start saving money for plastic surgery so that she can have self esteem because no matter how much I tell her she’s beautiful, she doesn’t want to hear it.

Use psychology on it. Build her confidence. Instead of that picture of her by force.. Snap her unaware and complement her.

Johnnycife:
Remembered In Sec Sch. A Classmate Began Singing Worship Songs While We Were All Seating In Class. Then Suddently She Began To Screen; Am Catching Cold Repeatedly.We Never Understood What The Cold Was All About. We'd All Thought May Be The Holy Was On Her. Then Our Mistress Came Around, Because She Hearing The Voice From Her Office. And Deliverance Started. The Evil Spirit Claimed Tht The Parents Of D Girl Owe Him. That They Were Looking For A Child, And They Came To Him To Help And Promised To Renew Their Covenant With Him From Time To Time. As The Spirit Continued Talking, Her mum Who Was Living Very Far, Came Around, With One Subtance In A Foodflask. I Don't Know How She Managed To Know. The Mistress Warned Her That If She Applys That Subtance We Were Going To Stop Praying. But No The Mum Would Not Listen. That Was How She Used It. Whn We Gotho We All Had Strange Experiences After That Encounter Of Strange Beings Moving About Our Hom. After A While The Spirit Came Again, But This Time We All Avoided Her.

Chai continue more story.. I feel you

faithfull18:
Hmmn, this sounds like fiction. I don't support divorce but if adultery is involved with evidences, then separation is advised. Biblically, either partners are expected not to marry again but you know in our present world, we read and act upside down.

DumbF*ck

tunmiluabi:
My story is quite long, please run through with patience.

I married my wife about 11 years ago. By the way I am 46 years old. Before I married my wife, I was not doing well neither was my wife. She was working with a multinational company, earning an equivalent of N40,000. I had a small graphic design business after trying many times to find a good job. I looked for jobs and contracts without any respite. But At this this time, my wife's support was good and I did appreciate every bit of it. At lest we survived on the low...

As time went on, I got a job in one international corporate training company as a Statistics and Business Analysis Instructor, was earning about 90,000 naira. During the times before I got my job, we had accumulated debt and my new job provided us an opportunity to pay them up.

We decided we were going to save part of her salary every month for servicing the debt and save the rest for a rainy day. I was supposed to pay the rent and all other domestic bills, light, kids school fees etc.. Some time she helped with food/groceries. After sometime, she advised we move to a bigger apartment. We still had a daughter by then. I obliged and we did.

To cut the story short, after four years of working, the company folded up because of government policies and we were all laid off. This meant we had to prepare for the hard life ahead. It was hectic and devastating. Me being me, I took it with all sense of grace and hope things will be fine. But the more I thought about this the worse things got. One day out of curiosity I asked my wife if it would be nice to have another child and she advised it was not the best time. I understood and agreed. I then advised my wife if we could start a business and with some savings we had, maybe I could use it to enhance my former business, maybe things might be better this time. She did not show any interest. This time I discovered changes in my wife.

One day she asked me if she could use part of them money to do a course, honestly I was shocked but asked why she did not oblige to my own request. She said "its my money I can use it for whatever I want". My wife however did the course.

To cut the story short, 3 years down the line, my wife stopped having sex with me and this continued for a long time. I became like "shit in her eyes". I lost a bit of confidence though. she would wake me with insults and barrage of dirty words. Because of our child, I agreed to stay a home and try to work online and seek clients and jobs from old client. It was not bad but not promising.

Fortunately for us, my wife got a promotion and her salary was increased to about 170,000. This actually brought out the worst in my wife. Her calmness disappeared and all decorum was buried. We would quarrel everyday and not talk for weeks. She became really mean and controlled everything at home. Please note, she is not a bad woman but can't explain the reasons up till date. I was with no option but to query her sincerity as a wife and that continued for a long time. Our sex life became zero, she would tell me having sex would make her pregnant and was not ready for a second child. Her stories kept on changing and became even worse, rather than coming home she would pass by her mom and be there till late in the night before coming home.

After about 3 years of trying to get something to do, I finally got a place on the island sometime in February 2018, where I would be paid a stipend of 50,000. In addition, I would use my free time to design, print and sell business cards to small companies. The overall income was small but enough for some immediate obligations at home. But to be fair, that was the best I could get since I have not had money in a long time. Unfortunately my wages were not consistent due to challenges the company was facing. But I used the Business card printing to augment wherever possible.

Later in 2018 around September, I discovered that my wife had been having an illicit engagement. She had a male fried and I finally got to know about it and confronted her. She did not deny it, she begged and I forgave her. Anyway, I had made up my mind to forgive because of the kid and I never told anyone till date. Moreover, since we were not making love that was of course enough reason for the drastic measure, I told myself. To be sincere I had lost feeling for my wife and sex was difficult. We finally started having sex but I had little to offer her. I would pretend and even have to watch Indecency to be able to have sex with her. I was dead inside. At least my wife was still with me. That was my solace. I guess trust was broken. She however continued with her escapades. The quarrels increased and got worse. There and then name calling became our breakfast and dinner. She advised that since I would never look at her the same and bringing little or nothing to the table that I was free to go. The quarrels went on for quite some time, my wife will go very violent on me some of the times. I am marshal artist with black belt and I have great restraint - for me, fighting and going violent on her was never on the table. One day I thought there was a need to move out and I did indicated to her that I was not comfortable living with her anymore.. That wherever I am, I will see how I can take care of the kids.

She did not care and things became difficult for me. I felt maybe I could stay for sometime, It might be a difficult condition but still not impossible. This became my Achilles heels. There and then I knew my relationship had broken and irreparable. I accepted there was nothing I could, but to be patient and tried to convince myself about our situations and believed our situation was bad, but God’s willing we would overcome. The fight even got worse and became very violent and physical, I would normally just take the beating or hold her hands to avoid any injuries.

The quarrels was beginning to be in the glare of my Kids and since it was not abating, there was little I could do to change the situation. I finally made up my mind on the 19th of May 2019 to move out, but actually moved out on the 30th of May, 2019. Before then on the 26th of May, 2019, I discovered my wife was again engaging in the illicit affair. She would claim she was going to church only to be found at a different location. Honestly I can’t blame her, I blame myself and the situation that caused the demise of our once cherished marriage. At this point in time I realised I had lost and had no fight in me anymore. My kids are still very young. Everyday quarrels, lack of sincere engagement, denials upon denials and her fear of facing her “DEMON” with little chance of her understanding the consequence of her actions - I was left with no choice but to stop FIGHTING. I had no fight left in me. The ultimate decision was to leave. I did not inform her parent about the issue because I had indicated to her I did not want them to look at her differently.

God so good, I got a 500,000 Naira job through a friend in an oil company with a 3bedroon in Lekki fully paid up for 3years by the company. By the way, I am Data Analyst but never practiced for a long time. I studied Computer engineering but for a long time grace did not smile on me. I take care of my kid and I really don't hate her and I am at peace with everything. She still has her job and doing well.

Please note that she did not tell me to leave, I left on my own volition. I could not share the same bed with my wife anymore she apparently could not muster enough strength to stop all iniquities for a conversation that will help see things through. Rather she is turning to blame it on me. We have however resolved to part on a friendly note for the sake of our child.

My reason for posting this is because most us sit behind the desk and computers and do not understood the demons everyone is battling. On a bad day, the best husbands are MONSTER, while the best wives are DEVILS. When we make judgment as males or female. We should not forget about our female child/children, same goes for the male child. I don't know what my wife tells people about what happened but I really don't care and I have made up my mind never to defend myself.

Thanks for reading.

Tunmi

Mr tummi, I feel your pain I must confess you a strong man.. That's why martial art is good.. Most men wouldn't accept a cheating wife, talk more of enduring all her unruly attitude.


Mr tummi, God must have seen your heart and heard your prayer... Bros you suffer ooo.. I happy for you say you blow.


Am not married, neither am I deep in a relationship. Am still in my 20s. I can give you my best shot. I hope you see this..


Bros now that you have a high paying job 500k . Bros if I were you, I'll take my kids and call the attention of both families. And spill up everything so everyone can go there separate ways. Enough is enough.

I believe you know the usual guy code rule.. "NEVER TAKE BACK A CHEATING WOMAN" BECAUSE SHE WILL STILL CHEAT.

I understand your reason bro.. All for your kids. Now you comfortable.. You can start afresh with another woman..

The truth is most women don't have this zeal and patience to grow with a man who's broke or poor. Na money dem want.


Bros take your time and find a good woman, your wife don cast... Don't take her back...


This data analyst job is becoming hot cake oo.. Biko, bros how can I start learning? Beginners level to advance. [ Preparation for the future]

2: which martial art did you practice? .. I love martial art. I engaged in Judo for 5 year in school.. Now practicing kungfu... Still a beginner tho. Martial artists can endure and tolerant insults, without physical contact...


Bros I wish you best of luck.. Please, I know you have positive friends in your circle.. Talk to them about your problem.. I envy your type of man..


Twale baba...

Dreyton36:
post ur own fake story if it's that easy to type , unappreciative bunkor
And hey I'm a neuropsychologist , I wasn't ready to settle down , get that right
You can all the connections and still not ready to start a family life , omo ale jati jati

Why you so pained Like this? Na me say make you Bleep up ni...

Dreyton36:
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For those who have been wondering how I ended up with the girl here it goes

Around November that same yr 2013 she told me of her parents pressurizing her that she's choosed her job over getting married , that they've been on her neck to get married
I don't need to be told that this babe want us to take it to the next level
But deep inside I love the girl , although she had big men coming after her though , but she just loved my flow , you can't be with me for 5 mins and not be happy , happiness go kill u sefgrin no matter how ur mind strong reach like buhari own grin grin grin no be my handwriting oo but ogun lo ma payin
Tge next weekend she drove to my place as usual , we just chilled together in my room , sex wasnt no big deal again cuz we jusy dey groove like say tomorrow no they
She then asked me a question that got me speechless

Her: would you love to settle down with me someday?
Me: ............sure why not grin but for my mind God no go let me use hunger kill u , besides i wasn't even ready to settle down in the next 6 more yrs coming wink

To cut it short , I discussed it with my elder sister's husband , he's very friendly
He told me that if I know I'm not ready to settle down that I shouldn't waste her time and she's a bit older than me and she's also pressurized to get married
Auditors never have time for themselves but work , especially when you're in the oil firm, calculating billions and trillions chai miney oooooooo , infact VickyRotex thanks one more time my dear grin Olori ebi

I had sleepless nights thinking on how to tell her my intentions in a non harmful way , I don't wanna hurt her feelings , and I'm the type that don't do things for my selfish interest
Number 1 I'm not ready to get married
Number 2 I'm not buoyant , shey I go marry make woman they feed me join grin she go tire one day na
Woman go come give me mineu to pay her bride price laye

One day i sent her an SMS , it was on Friday , told her i wanna take her out
She replied happily yeah
We went to ojota , ogudu road , a bar called La pouch

I ensured that I drank enough Heineken so I started telling her my mind , I made her understand some things , believe me she's an understanding girl
Although she was hurt a bit , but she later understood my plight
She then revealed to me that she has a guy she's dating , just that he doesn't give her much attention , he's always busy with work , that's why she loved hanging around with me , and that's how she ended up fallling for me but the said guy of hers has been begging her to forgive him that he wants to marry her
From there I felt somehow jealous Sha , truly I love the babe , but I can't let my selfish interest destroy her own future
Imagine say on our wedding day for our tent
For the tables them come design names like , Nelly NNPC
and Dave caterer grin no naw e no go make sense grin grin

That's how it ended , she later married the following year Sha , and they relocated to Cyprus where the buy bought a house
We still chat on Facebook once in a while , but I just don't put much interest into it inorder not to bring back old memories cuz till date I still miss her �

I no say this Tori no real. Make I just comment because e fit happen to anybody in real life..


Na low self esteem dey cause this.. If to say you go university na your connection be that.. She go give you better job, influence, connect etc.. Then you marry her... Bleep age.. Anyway I enjoyed your fake Tori.

lifenajeje:


Dollar is accepted in some neighbourhoods around Lagos ...on code .

Chai

paulolee:

sure..na based on drugs, highness and excess porn tinz..na wen i kum de watch d sextape 4 her lappy naim my eye clear n i kno say i don fckup n gat change am for her n discharge a street guy wey i be

Lol... Chai

paulolee:

i for wait and enjoy the punny until my family see my sex tape with masked bea for naijaleaks abi?? i even fear her killing me when am tired of the puni n want to breakup...man gat ja abeg

Lol she wear mask you no wear.

Wiifesnatcher:



as omooba dey nurse white, na the same nursing for ladies that are well to do here


you just have to be extra romantic, create extra attention for her, it's tasking at start but the day she send you sth, she go dey take care of you dey go nonstop

See scope.

jericco1:


You won't understand man.. it's more difficult than I am willing to let out

Tell me so I don't make mistakes in future. Should I pm you?

georgeiyke009:
Women now occupy the same workplace positions as men and make very cool money. Runs girls do not qualify as big girls.

Dating such girls as an alpha male is exhilarating cuz these big girls are wired very positively to respond to us.

They also make better wives. And there maturity usually translates into a more balanced home front, better relationship with extended family members and generally less drama.

If you are however an insecure guy who feels the need to define himself by "things", you will no go far with these kind of women.

I swear bro.. Only alpha male and positive mind guys can handle these class of ladies.. They don't want a man to looked down on them because they earn more...

Sunisonflex39:
u dey mind them.. big girls for social media only. but for real life them dey behind for 1k.. I know Wat I am saying

I swear I don tire for them. There mentality wanck especially, if you hear them talk... Pride and ego dey back dem up..


Only fee street girls dey smart and humble.

jericco1:


Not really.. I knew she wouldn't be able to wait eventually, I thought it was better she meet someone else

You shouldn't have ask her to go. You should have played alone. Because, you have 50% chance.. If she stay fine, If she go fine.. You shoot your self bro.

laiza:
Excellent point but it's only insecure boys and kids that have such issues. In as much as there is mutual respect and communication then big gals are the best to date. I particularly stay away from students and ladies aged 23 years and below. They don't know what they want.

See bro.. Guys who feel insecure, aren't street wise. Them have this faded ego. They believe as a man you must do all.. Na dem dey last last die of pressure When they marry there match ..

Briller:


80% of the time, from one Godfather who is her paymaster, while you are the Mugu.

You the type of guy that kills a man vibes.. What is your own if she has godfather? Someone met you and grew feelings for you. At the long run she transformed your life for good. Na bad tin?


Your wanck bro. If she like she should be dangote gf. E no concern me, I need elevation and something different. All these wanck girls don tire me... Keep criticising and don't pray for favour ...

safarigirl:


Thanks for this

The reason why many girls hold off on being generous with guys, is that guys instantly assume that because she is making her own money and not asking them for anything, then, they don't need anything.

Every girl wants to be spoiled and taken care of by their man, irrespective of how much she earns, but women who make their own money are rarely understood like this. I know someone that has been 'dating' some guy for months now, and because she makes her own money, only thing this oga can do is scold her for spending money on necessities. Her phone recently spoilt under lockdown and she had to get another one, no be say money dey, cuz her work has been heavily affected by this pandemic, only thing bros could say is that she should stop wasting her money. He doesn't give her a dime, only monitors how she spends her own money.

Being a big girl doesn't mean you want to go it alone all the time, but a lot of Nigerian men don't know that. They just count their blessings because nobody is asking them for money for airtime and hair, in the long run, na the big girl go lose, cuz she doesn't ask for stuff and the man doesn't have sense to contribute without being asked. Same problem guys have.

That guy is a f**l na her money she dey spend na.. A wise man wouldn't scold her, later he will teach her how to invest.


We'll some guys are lucky to meet woman like that. At the end ego, envy and stupidly will make them lose them.

lifenajeje:


He was given dollars

He works in ikoyi area..

There are lots of bars around ..

They would accept dollars from him..

They accept $$ as cash payment at ikoyi? This one weak me o... Provrty na bad tin

Sunisonflex39:
I have not dated any big girl.. the one I met one time like that, she does not have shingbia she just set for nothing
oh lord, when will i jam the correct big girl...
or when will a big girl jam me like that guy that said a big girl gave him 1500 dollars in 15 piece of 100$ notes
that is the kind of big girl I want.
even if she does not have big yansh and breez..At least she should be a BIG girl in monies

Those big yeye ones.. Dem too dey brag

ArcSEMPECJ:
If you have such a luck on a lady, all you need to do as a man is to look for a good investment, ask her to borrow you some money that is if you are not buoyant enough.......

Get the money and invest it, have something doing to be the man around her, don't just get more lazy because she provides everything...

If she fails to borrow you money, no problems, advice her properly where she can channel her money also, you have to be consistence with her, don't just be liability,... Let her see your worth

Correct bro. You sabi

Cocao:
There is a misconception sha. The fact that a girl can hold her own and not need your help does not mean that she won't appreciate it when you offer it. Make that offer often enough because you care for her not because she needs it. You will be more appreciated then.

Lemme see your real face. I want to check something