₦airaland Forum

slept in a farm/bush for one month..

Hope you will post it when he finally dives into your Honeypot...we will love the gist

Imagine you are the cuddler employed to cuddle Buhari for 3 hours perday.how will you feel... Thesame lifeless Buhari o

Magnoliaa:
If you can leave the country, leave and start a family in a better country.

If you can't, you can still raise your kids here and they'll turn out well. You'll prolly only have to work harder at making money so you can afford some things and live in a good environment. For me, mindset is the first and others follow. Kids aren't *that* hard to raise provided you're a good model (yourself).

You can 'create' the reality you want your kids to grow up in, and counter whatever it is they get from out there. They can be influenced anywhere, but methinks you're concerns are valid. They should not just be irrational, 'cos what if you end up not being able to leave the country?

If we all have to pass all those conditions you lay on ground before we can raise kids how convenient, and plausible is that in our economy

This is why this idiots kept quiet when herdsmen were killing people in Ibarapa, Oguns state, Ondo forest and all...Just to please his Fulani slaves. It shall not be well with you and your selfish ambition

longetivity:
@OP where were you raised

Nigeria...But if I knew before hand that I was to be raised here, and I could influence the decision, then I wouldn't have agreed to be born here of course

Why not recruit your children to go and fight Bokoharam that you all created so they can die in Bornu, Maiduguri and Sambisa forest. Rubbish.
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What happened to investigating the politician sponsors, bringing them to book?
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Zzor:
Goodluck in your search and I hope you are marriageable too

Better grab your chance while it lasts

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We all know Nigeria is bad and limiting but regardless, people are still making it, getting married and raising kids.
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Personally however, I see it as a big risk. A huge stress as this country is filled with uncertainties in terms of economy, security and politics.
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And when raising a kid, I believe the prevailing culture can influence the thinking and potential of the kid. And aside, exposing kids to this dirty and wicked system I feel it's dangerous, especially when you talk of traveling on our roads, our broken health care that can kill you anytime, poor public facilities, and poor avenue to explore talents.
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And sometimes I'm like what if I'm stuck here with my family, unable to take them to a better land of sanity and opportunity. Or if I travel over there and still meet obstacles preventing me from moving them easily.
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All of this and many more factors makes me envy and praise young guys who are marrying and still taking care of their family in their own way. Dem dey try.
The question is, is it really not that bad for young families and their plans to give their family the best in this country? Am I just delusional or too idealistic?
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It's affecting my decision or seriousness about marriage.

OMG. This country is gone

Peppysco:
Na them 'Inmessage' girls you dey talk about so. Them these ones na official olosho, na for online dem dey do their own negotiations. Awon omo #10k#15k per night

very crazy...10k 15k I don't know how a man pay such for sex

Preciousgirl:
Can u do that

No. There are Nigerian guys who date Ashawo wey dey brothels now....I mean real fall in love dating

Ọmọ, Guyman dey vex o.

It's real. Oyinbo dey do am...swingers...when they do it, they are usually there watching the scene where their wife or gal is being fvvcked.

Look at bunch of illiterates forming tush_ Monkeys.

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They don't need to call you a fool. You are already a fool cos you can't think and decide for yourself.

On to say no space for matress or floor?

Reggaemich:
The rate at which people visits brothel is very alarming.

Sure. And very unfortunate.....
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I think it's down to men's self esteem and ladies funny behavior when it comes to sex.

Depends. If they both respect each other. But what's the essence of friendship if there's no mutual gain.
The friendship usually break when there's no longer mutual gain or respect. For example, if one party denies the other of the opportunity to have sex again, or If either of the party loses the respect of the other. Which can happen for myriads of reason.

Freestainworld:
culprit that deserves to be arrested and put away in jail

Is there anywhere he said he raped them? His personal studio, his rules. It's not a must to be an actress. They can say no and turn it down.

budaatum:
Sounds like sour grapes to me. Someone is doing better than you by their wit and you are wailing instead of doing well yourself.

Hopefully, you'd consider doing well yourself instead of being jealous of someone else doing well.

Not sour grapes. Try and be intellectual a bit. He observed something, saw a pattern, made an hypothesis. You are here talking like the typical bitter cynical Nigerian that don't apply sense to issues.

Most of these kind of marriages don't last. The lady will show her true color, go back to her vomit and her manipulations will fail in time.

Celebrity marriages don't last for same reason.
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This evil in the society is why red-pill exist today. But people think it's about misogyny. Redpill is simply justice for men, society, and even for the good gals.

Visiting brothels and taking prostitutes is actually a dangerous affair. But there are women who don't do their prostitution in brothels but they are worst prostitute carrying same risk. They are on the street, some well behaved, with no sign they are prostitute..yet very dangerous to deal with them.
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May God save men to discern the right woman even for fling.

Soolmus:
Education is quite important... Anyways I won't engage you in any silly exchange of insult.. I simply use the report button

Ori e buru. Shop this curse before u press report. Eran oshi

Soolmus:
Money laundering isn't drug case

If he had a "drug case" then he wouldn't walk out free

Typical Nigerian rushing to comment to defend useless people. Proof is there glaringly the foolish u is still typing rubbish

It's a poor way of citing Nairaland. I hope he did better in the reference section of the book

This post sounds dumb with an omen of premium tears in future.
You are happy a woman says ordinary 'hey' to you..days abi weeks after ya date....Men and worshipping women's attention. I'm out