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This was why she turned him down.
"Peace of Mind" is very important

Grew up being told whistling at night is bad, that if u whistle u attract snakes, and since I'm not a fan of those creepy crawlers, the stories stuck with me till my adulthood.

I sometimes stop friends from whistling around me at night, and when they ask why? I'll just tell them it's bad to whistle at night.

But presently I whistle anytime, I even whistled last night to a song without any problems.

seems Mr clergyman has also seen 'The Tinder Swindler'

"My enemies are after me, I need 50k fast"

Anyways I agree with him.

Wanbissaka:
mercifully grant that who so ever seeks favor from the op may rejoice fully get them from him. Amen

All this we ask through Christ our lord that will strengthen the OP to deliver in accordance with the will of his pocket.
Amen and Amen.

Wanbissaka:
my peace i give you

Look not on the OP's misfortunes, but on the fate of the OP's acct, and graciously grant him recovery.

Amen.

okoroemeka:
A Toyota hiace Hummer bus moving a extreme high speed colliaded with a mad woman trying to cross the road that early morning and the impact shattered the mad woman like a water melon and sent her body parts flying more than 100 feet away,it was truly a shocking day.

Jeez

If I had experienced that, I probably would have retired driving... That encounter would stick with me for the rest of my life. I wonder how u dealt with it at that moment.

deelabs:
me I no like speed oo.. God saved me twice already from over speeding accidents. Since then I turn preacher.

Lol Preacher deelabs.
Thank God. I haven't been in any accidents b4 and I thank God for that and pray it remains that way.

I like speed but not reckless speed, not the one that if u overtake someone they'll bring out their hand and curse u or if u happen to meet at a traffic stop they'll be looking at u like, what's this one driving.

Anyways as the saying goes speed kills.....
But if u must run be cautious and pay attention to the road.

deelabs:
Throwback:

Tell us, we want to know. Share and tag someone who was there with you.

#cpn #carpartsnigeria #throwback

The encounter I had while driving was kinda fun....

I was on my way home in a Peugeot 206 cruising and overtaking vehicles I was much faster than, when I noticed through my rearview mirror a similar car behind me (a dark blue Peugeot). The behavior of the driver didn't really seem much to me at first but along the way I noticed the driver was trying to catch up with me.

If I over take a vehicle he would make sure he overtakes that vehicle as well, be it two or three vehicles I passed he would do same. I noticed and decided to give him a chase.... I fired down to b sure, oga followed, I laughed and told myself, since this guy wants a race I'll give him one.

I started overtaken and entering small spaces (mind u I was being cautious) and if u know the 206 you'll know the car is small and can enter spaces. So there was an overtake I did and the other driver decided to follow, but he couldn't and I lost him there as the road in front of me was clear.

About 3minutues later looking over my mirrors to see if I could see him, I saw the dark blue 206 approaching very fast, Dis time around I decided to put on my double traffigator to signal if he would tag along to my surprise he did same. Although through out our cat and mouse chase he never cut-up/overtook me.

Had to miss my junction cus of that guy, didn't go far sha, at the next u-turn I put of the hazard lights and signaled for a left turn, he flashed twice and when he came past me by the side, he Horned, waved and laughed. I got back home that day with a smile on my face.

Ever since then I haven't really had any such encounters again and if I had I don't think I will engage.

In as much as I respect your opinion on this matter, I have a problem with this ur statement.....

Mrxawe:
I love girls like that anyways. They don't see sex as a big deal. Na weytin we dey call maturity be that.

If one with such history/past should present herself to you for a possible
entanglement that would lead to something more (relationship) I'm sure by then this ur statement won't hold in court......

Hope u to won't see it as a big deal, and act accordingly and in ur case "Maturely"

Happy Sunday

Bloooody:
I'm tired of this gender, I pray to God my wife isn't unfortunate enough to bear me a female child because hell will break loose that day.

Your statement baffles me,

just simply make a claim u won't marry and remain single (probably a single dad who would adopt only male children) than what u typed above....

ChizzyBuna:
Now here is the real issue
As of today i told her that i saw her name on sack list. It didn't go well with her
She has accused me of using her to climb to get new position at work.
She is now threatning to expose all our flings and affairs to my uncle who is the M.D.
She swore that i cant be promoted and she be sacked. That if they will sack her then they must sack me too.

OP no offence.......

For those of you eying one colleague or the other at ur work place, see example u can use to correct ur steps. In case u hold high positions in the future, let ur little office romance not come and spoil everything for u.

As for u OP I'll suggest u take the matter to ur uncle yourself if the lady is serious about the threat and is hell bent on bringing u down alongside her......

if there's one thing I've learnt, never let a bitter soul (especially the one that's out to ruin you) tell his/her own side of the Story without you being present. If u know, you know.

Following, nice one op, but b4 u come to a concluding end, I'll like to make few suggestions concerning ur line of work from what I've read so far....

You already made mention of keeping ur customers record for every installation;

I would suggest you also take a passport photo copy for each customer, more like each customer having a profile on ur record books, that way if even if the person's details doesn't tally in a case of stolen identity, u can always confirm via picture or video call (u don't necessarily need to show ur face, just to confirm customer). You could have easily avoided this hassle with this idea.

And also take down two or three Next of Kin contact details. One isn't enough.

Just my lil contribution for future references. Anyway carry on, waiting for updates.

jansonn:
Ok, thank you. This is really detailed
Please, how much does it cost on sir??

I really don't know the price for this particular missing piece, I don't think it's more than 10k, less? probably.

Ask the person u're buying from to source it for u, or u can source it urself, if you're in Lagos it shouldn't be a problem. Also check the air filter box, you might need to change the filter itself due to dust and dirt or get it cleaned if u eventually buy the vehicle.

Good luck.

jansonn:
Pls what's the use of this part of the car, it's not in the car I want to buy. It's a Toyota muscle 2008

That's ur car air intake

The Air Intake is a specific gadget implemented in order to boost the complete power and efficiency of your car's motor by pulling in chillier outer air and incorporating it directly to the engine.

Without the missing parts ur car engine won't get the much needed cool air it needs. Check ur dash board to see if there's a check engine light on, If there's none then your air sensor is intact and didn't follow the missing part.

Before you pay fully, let them replace the parts that's missing.

No offense but what kinda nonsense question is: "Ma, would you consider this cheating too".

Someone that has carried out all the instructions the book (s3x) has on you, and he probably must have learnt a thing or two for his own experience from ur body.....

I rest my case.

GreaterFuture:
I see, you have the resources and time, as well as mental and psychological Luxury to do all of these, and even type it out here

You know leaving a Person's house by 2Am and all too...

Most of the encounters happened a long time ago. If u read through one of the stories, u'll see where I made mention of "School days"

Anyway I see what u're trying to drive at.

GreaterFuture:
Just answer it
W get why...

I work as a sec. in a small law firm.
So what are u hoping to derive at?

GreaterFuture:
Which work you dey do??

Why do you ask?

iLegendd:
The truth is, you don't owe people money, but you can support them with a token.

Urgent burdens should be handed to God, True.... although I didn't mean burden, as in all ur family problems(words failed me there).

You made some valuable points, but we're all humans, in as much as we try we can't satisfy everyone who in one way or another seek our aid.

I'll leave it at this;
Different situations/matters require different approach/measures.

Thank you for the little chit-chat. Have a nice day
Happy Sunday once again.

iLegendd:
Because I hate to lie — it makes me feel bad, I told her the truth and told her why.

In Nigeria, lying is a normal thing, but I'm not used to it and I doubt I'll ever be.

The only time I'll bluntly lie is when I'm joking or some armed men say, "Where is your brother, we want to kill him — is he at home?" At this point, I'll surely lie and tell them he isn't just to save life.

But lying out of the blue is not my thing.

Also, the reason I don't go straight to the point, is because I create content. The more I prolong it, the more the content has a chance of turning to a book and generating me money.

Though, it's not about the money, but the content and message. Money is just a bonus.

So, there is a reason for everything. I haven't sent her the 5k because she hasn't sent an account even though I have her account number. I won't beg her to take it — it's her choice.

I get your point, but also straight to the point in some situations is the easiest way out. And in those situations being a content writer and creating content from event won't really solve the pending issue the person has placed before you.

Most times all the person needs to hear is a "Yes" or a "No"....

Ever been in a situation where you approach someone for assistance (not necessarily money) and all u need from that person was a 'yes I can or 'sorry, I can't help' but instead the person decides to beat around the bush and still ends up telling u no!

Now in situations like that, if the person beats around the bush and still ends up saying yes. Psychologically and emotionally most humans will endure the story telling as far as the outcome of that storyline will yield a positive response to their plight.

Now to ur not being able to lie, what do u do in such situations? having in mind that not all event u would consider an opportunity or an avenue to create content, also having in mind the level of burden the person is in b4 they asked for ur help....

iLegendd:
Lending people money, trying to be kind, ruins friendship. If you have, give them for free, but be careful to avoid the same person coming back for more over and over again until it begins to look as if you're the one owing the person because he/she will be taxing you every month end.

Based on ur Convo, and the title of this post, neither correlates. You only tried to pass a moral both to the lady and most especially to us reading dis post.

How u discarded the lady's request we're yet to know. If someone was to learn a thing or two based on ur topic (apart from the principle u tried to instill) u kinda twisted the whole thing, by giving the lady 5k free of charge. Although u neva mentioned u gave her "in context".....

From what I understand is, two things happened here;
1. You didn't want to make her feel bad by coming out plain to say I don't have.

2. You know she probably knows you have, and can help and u didn't want to sound like a wicked person saying u don't have, that's y the lectures of principle, even bringing up childhood experience.

When all u could have done was simply say 'I don't have' and still find a way to pass on ur principles and morals incase of a next time.

Kobicove:
Abo you dey fear make the girl's real nigga no come jam you for her house?

not really, for the fact we're friends I most have known your BF. And you can't tell me to pass a night wen u know the kind of bf u have and if he lives close by. Except it's a surprise visit or ur neighbor do amebo. Even at that I still can't sleep over

flokii:
@OP What if you're in another state or vicinity entirely?

If I'm in another state, I won't visit the girl, and if I visit I won't stay till it gets dark. No matter what.

ABANGWABOI:
Funny thread.
My own experiences is Exclusive ..

I'll like to hear yours, kindly share

Kuriosmynd:
So what's the moral lesson?

No moral lesson, I just decided to share. And if u have similar stories, u can share as well. But from ur comment I don't think u will.

slickycee:
Thought I was the only one with this phobia.

Have never slept over in any of my opposite friends place.

Even the ones that would cook sweet food for me, on Gen and buy drinks.

I go still waka leave you .

No matter the time or situation, I'll just have to leave .
I suspect it's because I love my space and peace of mind.

I feel so uncomfortable being in someone's private space , talkless of the opposite sex.

It's really hard for me

Exactly, you get. Even if my place is a distance, although if my place is far, I'd have planned to leave early. Some might think u're being a good boy/afraid they'll bite (literally). Like u said private space is of utmost importance.

I don't have a problem with girls sleeping over at my place, it's no big deal, but the idea of me passing a night at a girl's place is what I find hard to do, and if I eventually pass the night, I can't seem to sleep, that brings me to my third experience;

This happened with my current GF, when we first met, she was into me already so I didn't stress my self to woo her, as we just spoke for a day and everything played out, I was to travel back home the next day cus I Lodged at a friend's place for the few days I was there for personal issues, and since we were into each other she suggested I spend the night at her place since I would be traveling the next day.

As usual I declined, she insisted I sleep over, or was I afraid, that she won't bite, I told her that wasn't the case as I hardly spend the night in a girl's room. She further insisted i start with hers'. Knowing fully well I had a thing for the girl, I decided to break protocol. But first I had to inform my guy I won't b staying at his place for the night, I'll come over in the morning, as it was same compound.

Went over to her place, got to talk about ourselves (getting to know each other) till past 11pm, she was a fast sleeper and during the conversation she doses off, brothers and sisters from 11pm till 6am I couldn't sleep, not cus I didn't want to sleep but on the fact that I looked for sleep and I didn't get any.

Most times at night I would often find myself counting her ceiling, watch her sleep as she changed posture and sleeping positions from time to time, or how I will try to adjust to get a better breathing room cus we ended up cuddling, or even how I would try occasionally to tap her faintly to adjust so she can breathe well cus she had cattarh that period.

I just couldn't find sleep. Wen it was 6am, I woke her up, told her I'm going, let me go get myself ready for my journey, I will come to say goodbye. To cut long story short, I slept through out the journey that the stop I was suppose to make I missed it, ended up costing me extra tp.

So I want to ask, does anyone have similar mentality as mine, experienced such before or I'm just being weird. Share yours.

My second experience: I had this female friend of mine back then in skul, although unlike the first, this one knows how I feel about being in a girl's place. Cos most of her efforts to make me spend more time at her place, all failed due to my stubbornness.

On this particular day I paid her a visit, we got talking, one gist led to another and we lost track of time, it was wen rain started I realized it was late, I decided to step into the rain and find my way home, but she refused saying she won't let me go into the rain, although the rain was heavy (heavy down pour) I insisted I most go, she laughed and said God has caught me today, that she wants to see if I'll die if I sleep at her place or something will swallow me, she will see today.

Her main concern was the rain was much and if I venture into it, I may get sick later, maybe catch a cold, but at that moment my only thought was to get back home. I decided to stay but I wasn't comfortable, after about an hour plus, she saw I wasn't comfortable and the rain refused to stop, she gave the go ahead, brethren, I entered the rain and went home......

I have three experiences I'll like to share about being a guest in the home of the opposite sex, but first let me tell you a little something about me;

The thing is there's this mentality I adopted all I can say is it has bin part ofe for as long as I can remember. How, where and why I adopted this is still a mystery to me. The mentality is "I can't pass a night in a girl's place" no matter the situation/circumstance.

Now to my first experience: there was this girl I made friends with that later turned out to be FWB we see ourselves occasionally, on this faithful day I had prepared to go watch a football match and since her place was closer to the viewing venue i decided to pass time and leave from there, got there, we talked, ate and eventually got cuddled up, time for match was close and was about to leave, she tried to convince me to forfeit the match and stay behind, but at that time the satisfaction I'd get from the match, s3x or cuddle won't quench it.

Before I left she made me promise I come back. So after the match which ended some minutes to 11pm, I branch by her place and we picked off where we left off. In all that I lost track of time, wen I realized the time was some minutes past 12am, told her I was going home, she asked if I was serious, I said yes, she insisted I pass the night that it was very late, after much back and forth I decided to stay.

1am i found myself very much awake counting her ceiling while she was very much fast asleep, 1.30am dis time I could hear the noise of the cricket and other night insects around the compound. To 2am I woke her up that I can't stay I just have to leave we'll talk at day break, she should just find the strength to lock the door after I've left.

Left her place at 2am, got home and I was able to sleep for the remaining hours of the night. Got a call from her at daybreak saying, I should weldone that I'm really funny, told her not to be angry she won't understand.

No offence, buh wen I clicked on the topic I was expecting to get that tomboy vibes from the pics, but I didn't get any, tried searching but nothing came up, all I saw was just a pretty lady dressed in men's clothing

Probably I'm just the only one seeing it

Nomeh17:
Dodge Dart rear lights & headlights available!

Hello, op pls how much is a Peugeot 206 Head lamps and Rear lights both sides. And what's ur location, do u also cover waybill?

olamoses75:
Having used many private part shaving method, from using shaving stick, direct razor,shaving cream, shaving powder, and even clipper. I have finally comes to realize it’s impossible to have an ITCH-FREE private part shaving.


In case anyone know any method that’s 100% ITCH-FREE, please share it here. Thanks.

It's very possible to have an itch-free shave. I myself don't itch after shaving right from wen I turned an adult(Puberty).

I don't do dry shaves. I get the area wet, apply soap den shave.

And u should stick to a pattern when shaving. Ever seen a barber cut your hair from all angles without following a pattern?

What I mean is if u shave from top to bottom, stick to it, if it's clockwise or anti-clockwise stick to it, don't go shaving zig-zag from all sort of angles just cuz u want all traces of hair removed.

Most times the quest for finding the right product to use(having tried all sorts) can as well increase the chances of itchiness. And just so u know, I use shaving stick, tried hair removal cream once, no one told me to quit as I reacted to it.......

Find what works for you and stick to it.