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MrHighSea:
Duty does not require thank you.

They took an oath.

Your statement is wrong, when you say thank you, you are appreciating what the person did

When you get to your doctor for treatment, you say thank you doctor as you are leaving,

What is that thank you for ?

It's for the treatment he gave you. That's a show of appreciation. But you paid for the services

Army took oath to serve and defend his nation

Doctors took oath to serve and cure humans

Appreciation goes along way in every service rendered

degamemaster:
You have not said anything different from you posted earlier which I disagreed with you .

I would not like to spent time in educating you on what marriage should be because from comment, one can easily see you as one of those who views marriage as escape route from poverty and into another life full of roses.

If why you would like your man to get "fully ready" is to take care of all your needs and that of your family, to take all your dirty characters and whoring lifestyle, etc... no, you're wrong and with your over expectations from him, that marriage may not succeed.


Look, when I tell people that, the institution called marriage for s under serious attack, some don't see it this way.
With this kind of mentality, I doubt if any man will ever get married because no man wants to take a whole bunch of burden.

You are shallow minded, there is no need debating with you because it will keep on bringing out your other side

The major problem girls of this days have is that

Their sex hormones triggers more once their virginity is broken

Their body demands for sex goes up and the ones that are not properly trained will loose balance

As a business man, you don't know where you normally meet?

Mtcheew

She doesn't have an option

93Miles:
...

Mumu first class

Them done steal so tey na to go shrine go steal

Both of them, their gods must be crazy

They should be donated to the gods

[quote author=93Miles post=71786233][/quote]E pain you well well

[quote author=93Miles post=71786441][/quote]You are brainless

This one no give am mouth to speak those him grammar

Humility pays

93Miles:
what have u built before?

What have u done to improve Nig?

Or are u one of those who sat on their idle chairs, fold their hands and complain from Jan to Dec?

What exactly have u done to show that u really want improvemnt in this country?

Having gone through most of your posts, you always sound aggressive

Am sure because of your bad attitudes

Life has dealt with you

Change your conception and perception

[quote author=93Miles post=71785592][/quote]You got this right because you are either the pig or the slave

Superted01:

and no aboki there as well..............

If no be say, dem dey birth cow,

Na cow them for they manufacture

mabea:
Says who. I hope we discussing on the context of the topic. Now a guy doesnt have to be willing to marry his girlfriend before he can buy her a book on marriage for her birthday. Also remember the part where he said 'apart from the normal birthday gifts'

Do you just see a girl and marry her or you befriend her and marry her ?

If all the idiots causing mayhem in the noth had gone to higher institutions , there won't be bad bad news from that region

I just wish this drone will locate the chibok girls, to pass for its name

Whether na them or not, the army cannot be searching for their slain colleague in vain

After all they passed through and other discoveries they made

They are in for it already

The punishment that flood is giving them is the kind of punishment they give to civilians

Let them suffer it

Make this world just end make person rest

Which kind evil attack is this ?

And the perpetrator, will still sleep comfortably

Raalsalghul:
Real life, no jokes. Will PM you my number. Call

Lol,

The whole thing is just envy from people that knows her

That's just it

That's a good way of englighting the people about sexual harassment and getting drunk

Say no to all the above mentioned

The idiots that certified that unbalanced container to leave the port is like a quack engineer that built a 5 storey building with only 10mm rod

When it will collapse, only the occupants will be affected because he doesn't live there

The idiots released the container to go because they won't be on the road while it's on motion

mabea:
Well these things are relative. I've been there before as well

That means you are ready to go there many times until you learn, then you settle down

degamemaster:
Hey dear!
One doesn't need to get all fully ready before going into marital life. If it were to be so, no one would dare go in because you'll hardly see someone that's got all and ready.
The guy needs to make up his kind and make due with what's available as fat as the lady in question is also willing.
People should stop creating fears in others as if marriage has a particular formulae.


About OP's question, just go look for THE FIVE LOVE LANGUAGES by Gary Chapman. It will help you a lot.

When you say one doesn't need to be fully ready before going into marriage,
What do you really mean by that ?

If you don't have a source of income, would you be fully ready for marriage?

If you are still squatting or sharing a room with a fellow guy and you want to marry, are you fully ready?

If you can't afford a standard 3 square meal a day and you want to marry are you fully ready ?

If you can't accommodate faults from people around you, are you fully ready for marriage ?

If you can't provide care and welfare for your girl friend and you want to marry are you fully prepared for marriage ?

Apart from your own self, are you fully prepared to assist your family and your wife to be family, if no, are you fully prepared for marriage ?

If you have taught of this questions I just asked you now, you wouldn't make that post

You said I should not put fear on people about marriage

Any man that is afraid of getting married is not yet fully prepared

Marriage is a serious issue, if you toy with it, you make yourself a laughing stock

This girls no dey hear ward

Even her face book name is enough to bring problems for her

Stop meeting guys on face book and falling in love with them, those guys have no future

You girls are even lucky that what happened to Cynthia did not happen to you people

This one na devil's candidate

You killed your own blood because of an argument over another person girl friend

If na your own girlfriend, that means you go wipe the entire family

Haba!!!!

The thing wey woman they dey cause plenty

They came to your house and beat you for dating a married woman as your girlfriend

Then you switched to your daughter at least that one is your blood abi?, so no body will harras you for that.

Looking at him, you will see that he is a deranged man

How much will it cost you to visit those road side olosho?

He went as far as getting a mat, lay it on the floor with pillow and lye down on it to protest

He wasn't serious about it

If he meant to prove a display of point, he should have gone to Aso rock gate and do that, the cctv will capture him direct then he will have an opportunity to meet with mister president and get a hand shake for being bold

mabea:
I dont think these questions are necessary seeing the lady will marry someday.

You won't understand until you text the shoe or you start wearing the shoe before you will know if it's befitting

Ejadike:
NwaAmaikpe has never made sense yet he get so much likes I can ever dream of. Likes doesn't translate that you make sense. My point is, this guy isn't no kid and he must have put two in two together before asking for such book(I saw his reply to your message). Just answer his question and don't act like his Mom.

P.S: I'm not saying you don't make sense but your question wasn't just necessary at that moment.

Bia wokem, if I start with you na you go tire, I don't give up easily

Kpachara anyagi, hmmm

Naija no dey carry last, they will always have excuses for any crime committed

The stupid and irresponsible husband have created more problems

He knows that the wife account has bvn issues, he knows that bank won't accept the money, he just followed her to the bank to perfect his act

The man is evil minded, now each one of them will give 100,000 each to bail themselves and meanwhile they will be in prison till that is done

But if they have succeeded, they would have gotten 40,000 each

So 40,000 each that they would have gotten will be times ten of their bail ?

At the end what did he gain or achieved ?

Idiots, karma no dey miss him target

Make them they cool off for prison for the time being