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pryme:
Things like this is what gives room for trouble to brew silently until it blows over one day.
Always snuff out anything that seems to be problem at its early stage else it might grow into a monster you can't control.
In this case she is your wife you should ignore what she says.

When you are married, you will understand better

How many issues will you snuff out ?

If you follow women with their mouth you might take a decision you won't be happy with.

That's why I said over look, for peace to reign

That doesn't mean you don't know what to say or do in that circumstances

Most of the people mentioned relocated abroad where they have better options to stop their carrier and face their family

Those in Nigeria couldn't do so due to the fact that its difficult to survive in Nigeria if only one of the spouses is working and feeding the family

Legolast:
"Baby I don't like your mum, If you really love me stop sending her money"


Reply as a husband

There is nothing to reply

She is entitled to her own opinion

Just ignore the message, don't talk about it with her and keep sending money to your mother

She compressed the front seat to get her balance and seat comfortable in the back seat

You have said it all

Only few men with experience will understand these

God favoured women in many ways that's why when a man marry that is when you can measure his standards and progress

What he is trying to say is respect and love a woman and you will be happy with yourself

Ask those men who goes about priding themselves how far?

You have said it all

Only few men with experience will understand these

God favoured women in many ways that's why when a man marry that is when you can measure his standards and progress

What he is trying to say is respect and love a woman and you will be happy with yourself

Ask those who goes about priding themselves how far?

No one should be responsible for somebody happiness

Be its married or unmarried

When you see married women that are unhappy it's either the husband has become a nuisance in the marriage or she is yet to have a child

When you see a single parent unhappy it's either the man is unresponsive to the child welfare or it didn't work our as she expected

What ever the situations, be in charge of your happiness don't allow an intruder to determine your happiness

You don't expect to get everything that will make marriage to work out

He is an organized man as you have described him just that you are yet to develop love for him

Have you compared being with a man that you soo much loved but lack the attributes of this guy

Go and talk to yourself and develop love for him

Men with such attributes are very rear

Love doesn't just come from the sky, love develope with time and then nurtured to grow up

Your request has no base

You did not state what made you to be stranded

You didn't state how come you already have 3 children, what about their father?

You have family members, is it that you are not working or their father is not working

You have to let us know how you got to this broken bridge before we can give you a flying boat to pass through

There is no truth in this

All this is for social media attention

misslagos:
My birthday has always been something I must celebrate,it's either I visit the orphanage home or just flex with family and friends lasgidi style...u know na.its about to be that time of the year,1st October....i never forget,the only thing different this year is my big sis,my big sis u c has financial issues,she needed 50k to startup an okirika business.she didn't ask from me tho but I felt like i should help....d problem here is I made a promise to God that this year it's orphanage or nothing and he blessed me enough this year which means I have to fulfil my promise but am caught in the middle of helping my big sis or visiting the orphanage.....please what should I do?...1st October is almost here,I need genuine advise and please don't forget to wish me a happy birthday

You have been helping the orphanage all this while

Your sister is in dear need of financial help

All of them joined together is help and its a work of charity where you are not expecting anything in return

Help your sister because it seems she can't get it else where, help her and watch her grow in her business so that she won't be a burden to you or to the family

You can always help the orphanage some other times

He died having his best hobbies

thorpido:
This post of yours is too generalized.How can you use one person's error or even a few to generalise?
This country still boasts of competent specialists.

You self don burn food for kitchen a few times na.

OK
Some doctors

Nigeria doctors haven't learned how to treat or handle patients with caution and passion

Until they learn that there will always be errors

tttmar:
I am not asking for another machine, this is the thread for the first request

OK, I get it

Marriage is not about educational qualifications

It's about the individual and his or her attitude

We have so many graduates, exposed and learned yet they behave like beast

I will rather stay with a school cert holder that love and respect me, I don't mind working extra for family incomes

A woman needs to be appreciated and once that is done you will have access to her finances

Let me not spoil show for you

But you are becoming an Oliver twist

Start with what you have gotten

With one machine you can work to get another one

Stop pastering people with your demand for another machine

We have our own challenges and we choose not to inconvenience others

Learn to sort yourself without living a life of pity

femi4:
God! When will you bring beautiful girl like this my way

Leave beauty out of it, it does fail more especially if there is no money to keep them.

Beauty requires money to sustain it

Talk about character that should be your target

Character of a woman can stand the test of time, with or without money

If you have the means pls go and experience what life is offering there

By the time you stay up to 2yrs, you will understand the difference and make your choice where to settle down

Either there or naija

This people no dye even keep corpse for the next day

So that means it's final?

If it were to be Christians at least one still have the hope of seeing him lying in state for the last time

You guys keep comparing these two important people in a woman's life

Everyone of them have a special place in a woman's life

A place for the husband is very different from a place for her child

They are not into competition

While one (husband) need sex from her

The other one (child) needs attention from her

She must fulfil her role where both is them are

But inwardly her heart is in her child

thegentleman:
Pray your child don't marry a bad wife.

@thegentleman, I can see that you are wishing your child to marry a bad wife, well your wishes will sure come for you

As for me my children will have a happy marriage whether you like it or not

My dear pls and pls stop feeling bad, just keep thanking God for his goodness in your family

Some kids are born that way and some can be corrected medically either through operation or surgery

Haven't you seen other kids like that, have their parents thrown them away ?

You have to be happy and grateful to God, what if you never has any since you married, won't you even beg God to give you one even if it means for that child to be disabled

Be happy and see that child as a special child, what happened to him is from birth and it did not affect his ability to do what other kids does

I will advice you go to orthopedic hospital in igbobi by onipanu lagos if the doctors there says nothing can be done take that child home and start thanking God that he gave you a special child

Some women are looking for such child, ask them what life has taught them for being barren

Give that child the best of quality education and watch him becoming a star in his chosen career

Say to your self my dearest son I love and will always be happy to have you

He must not know how you feel about him, he is looking forward to see you happy around him.

He is a destiny child

It's not new to commercial drivers

The bus has an engine fault, that guy is there to fix it while on motion

But the big question is, do they have value for their life ?

lilyheaven:
Hi frozy! How you doing?
Yes, many Guy's that are addicted to hustling doesn't have time for sex,
This is my observation.

I sight you @lilyheaven, lol

Whaoo never knew that.

It's true sha, sex comes in when the proceed of hustling is archived

Assuming the Nigeria prison is like this

Well furnished, people that are suffering due to lack of job will Intentionally commit crime just to go and rest for a while

Life inside there is better than life in naija prison

This is what we call church right activist

Just as we have human right activists

This is the most stupid man I have ever seen in naija

What a threat!!

Him time don reach be that

Who gave him the gurts and courage to act that way, even if he is been paid to do so

(IF KING SEND YOU USE YOUR HEAD)

Cohabiting is not a good way of life

Any lady that cohabit with a guy who have not done anything to commit the relationship to her family is deceiving herself

In as much as he is feeding you he will have access to you and your possession

When he is done having you, you will be left with nothing and might not marry you at the end

The man has nothing to loose in this game, if you like become pregnant due to constant sex, if he doesn't want you as a wife you can't trap him with it

This lady should stop wearing open chest clothes

The 2nd and 3rd pictures doesn't look attractive, she might be mistaken for a hiv patient

Hector09:
I swear this mike is course, this is nt normal

It's a bad habit he developed over time and he end up becoming a sex addict

If he is hustling for money the way he likes sex, he would have made a futune by now

Mike!!!!, Mike!!!!, Mike!!!!!!!!

How many times I call you??

Them take woman do you ? Habaaa !!!!!!