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Mindependent: Not everyone gains weight you know. I'm going to stop now because this is just going to carry on, but fact is slim women are more attractive than fat ones. End of!

if they keep a slim hot chick and a hot bbw, my dear men will queue up for the bbw, am talking from experience, there's something about bbw, when a guy see them he think sex immediately, slim girls are pretty,maybe for a relationship or marriage but bbw are more sexy, believe it or not

2buff: Then what would you call her?

average

Amelian: Cause Married men won't let single girls breathe.... They chase, woo, toast, endlessly and also spend on single girls...Omo, when a married man sets his eagle eyes on a babe ? God help her that she's not principled, she will gree by fire, by force... .....the blame goes on married men... Trouble dey sleep, Yanga go wake am...tell me wetin him dey find?

I've explained this before and am gonna explain it again

The reason single ladies date married men is because of the fun, with the knowledge that this man is married made it more fun to them, secret affair is a pleasure,stolen meat is sweeter than legitimate 1

All these silly reasons of married men showering them with gift is not true,its just a camouflage, if you toast a girl she's refuse the next day she heard you are married she started greeting you well and became interested, next thing she start asking you why you don't ask of her

alaric saltzman: where's urz??

yet 2 serve

2buff: Is this a BBW?

[img]http://3.bp..com/-L3KogBXMLMM/TileSimI15I/AAAAAAAAB48/-_kJDzhvmZ4/s1600/5962359827_4c124ef6b5_o.jpg[/img]

no and not a slim chick as well

effisyman: Married men going after young girls is a trend that is more than common in our society today, But why?

Some single ladies are the ones that chases after these married men, either for job oppurtunity or money.

Some ladies have claimed ignorance of not knowing that the man they are after is married, What?
Someone takes you to brothels and friends house all the time, he never gave you his address for you to check on him and you say you don't know his married.

All the single guys that came your way, you said they are not your standard, is that enough reason to go after married men. Later, when you finally get married and Karma takes is place when other single ladies chase your husband, you will now be crying.

Parents, ensure you meet the need of your wards .... buy them sanitary pads, cloths, shoes and bags, mobile phones and take them to eateries.This what these men uses to lure them, or they think a single cannot provide.

Most importantly teach them the way of the lord while they are young and they will not deviate when they reach adulthood.

Single ladies, have faith in single guys and nuture your relationship, married men will use and dump you.

Let the one who have ears and brain act!!!

poster do you think single ladies chase these married men because of those material things you listed? Hell NO

Now let me open your eyes if you don't know, most single girls enjoy married men more than single guys and use those material things as an excuse,with the knowledge that he's someone's husband made it more pleasurable for them,stolen meet is sweeter than the one your mum gave you

My eldest brother when claim he's married get more girls, this is just the truth, look for a girl who will open up to you and ask ,she will tell you the truth

dinachi: Tis simple, slim gurls re pretty, Big gurls re very sexy n attractive. Most men go for the later! wont blame them cos in bed BBW beats slim gurls hands down! They re real touchy feely!

but I taught they say slim gurls are more flexible in bed

ItsModella: but look at Majid na, he's lacking in height alright but his other attributes more than make up for his height deficiency. See his fine face and his clean cut. Reason am na

my friend majid is tall, he tall pass tuface, I've met 2face b4 and I've been in the same production with majid, get your facts right

[quote author=Alyricist★Laura]I never seen a pic of 2face without his glasses....is tha niqqah eyes straight?....

And this Majid guy is ugly as Fhuck.

I need to venture into the acting studios in Ghana and Nigeria...because if he's getting casted as a leading man I definitely would snatch a leading role.[/quote]jealousy! Jealousy! Jealousy!

@ topic,different strokes to different folks,beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, I really like 2baba pass majid but to my own eyes majid cute pass tubaba, sentiment apart

Mr lynxxx please keep it up with this good work, please don't get tired, people are benefiting from this, from your information I gave my cousin a acting career that she keep thanking me for, while I know the glory should be yours not mine, so thanks a lot

Keep it up

orgasticdance: Depends on your belief system which you did not specify. of course the religious faithful will come out in here in droves and tell you thoughtlessly that it is a sin because the bible says so. But as a rational human being, you've already acknowledged that it's well nigh impossible to rein in the wandering thoughts of the mind. So you have the answer then! No man or puny God has the right to crucify you for what is purely a harmless indulgence of your mind! And perhaps nothing reinforces the fraud of the faithful more than their petty preoccupation with what goes on in peoples minds and bedrooms. What's their damn business anyway? Guy leave the thoughtless sheep to their primitive ways and indulge your mind abeg!

nice 1 bro

[quote author=*Kails*]its a combination of western idea of beauty and the natural black man's attraction for women with meat on their bodies. some black men genuinely prefer thinner/slimmer women but most like women with some meat.

see, the entire world has been force fed that western ideology that "thin is in/feminine", thus beautiful thin girl end up being the "trophy" in the eyes of easily swayed men but the thicker woman for some reason naturally among black men is the "real deal". This is why some black men who marry the women that are no bigger than a twig usually end up cheating (be it physically or visually ) with a woman who is voluptuous.

i see it all the time on the maury show...lol the scorned woman always end up holding panties of some "mysterious woman" that she found either in the car, under the bed or somewhere and its always twice her size! [/quote]Lol @ twice her size

So true, bbw are so attractive especially the ones that knows how to carry themselves

holyvirgin: My sister is tall bb lady. Am not sure u can keep up with the competition. A lot of dudes are interested and she is having a hard time choosing.

Anything goes for me as long as she got good attitude.

see how your sister get all the attention but those men chasing her will keep saying I love slim pretty girls while reverse is the case

Bbw rock joor

I will like people to comment on this thread

Different strokes for different folks but bbw get more attention simple and short

Ab025: Nigerian girls always act like that, they can stare at u for so long and even show u enuf greenlight bt wen u make ur real move, they may fall ur hand big time. Most times, even wen she tells u sorry, she can't date u and all that stuff, u will stil see it in her eyes that she likes u bt just can't turn down d chance to turn u down.

Naija gals are mostly confused on whether to say yes or no becos they wud only tell u a "yes" if their friends hav approved u bt if their friends haven't really approved of u, they are likely to tell u a "no" even if they are in luv with u.

Also, many gals hav pride a lot, they form hard to get and also find it hard to say "yes" to a guy. @op u shudnt always wait for "yes" all d time, atimes, just go ahead and treat her wit care as if she is ur gal, trust me that tecnique normally works well wit gals.


If the gal has pride and is materialistic, then u shud only expect a "yes" frm her if u hav a big pocket wit enough cash and class.

But d best way to really woo a gal is to make her admire u and notice u first without even talkin to her, then gradually, u shud get talkin to her, get to be friendly wit her friends, start showin her care and search for d most romantic and best time to tell her ur feelins.

Remember, don't always rush things up and don't be too slow, no time in particular is the right or wrong time, it depends on how u make use of the time. Wish u luck.

Women always luv it wen we chase them, they really luv the chase and the person wit the sexiest race mostly come out the winner of d race. But the word "sexy" has different meaning to different girls; it may be money, game, looks, affection, care, family background, cars, intelligence, etc....

all these your list are just what I did when I was a teenager, now love game has evolved and things have changed, in this era there's no time to start applying all this things anymore

If I meet a girl am asking her out as if am doing her a favor(and that's what it is) if she play hard to get , right in her presence am talking to another chick

Why all these do and don't just to phuck Womanliness, hell no, I can only get headache thinking how to make money not how to get chick, girls are too plenty nowadays for me to start applying techniques

Sheenor: mie lyk da slim ones broda...

that is why I said not all guys like the bbw,am only emphasizing on why what we read online is not what we see in real life, in media it seems like bbw are not worth chasing but in real life men chase them more than slim ones

Few weeks ago I went to help my cousin in jamb, after the jamb, one of her chubby friend with big hips and big boobs was the centre of attraction everywhere, even one of the supervisors keep pursuing the girl until the girl harass him, everywhere she turn guys keep salivating, my cousin started asking me why why men are so mad for all these chubby girls

From my own observance The truth is bbw has more sex appeal to many guys than their slim counterparts

[quote author=*Kails*]No it's not.
Procreation and the love for it is natural.
God wired mankind to view the female body in the way that they do
because a man is supposed to spread his seed. (I believe men were made to
have more than one woman/wives..but that's just my opinion!)

However when a man becomes obsessed with s3x and if his s3xual desires
outweigh his ability to control himself, that is when it becomes a problem.

FYI i know women can be pervs too..

Moral of the story: Moderation is the key.[/quote]ok noted

Ngenge: Any thought can flash into our mind but we ar urged to delete it 4m our mind or not to think of it if its negative. Example when a guy sees a lady dat is dressed provocatively or indecently,u need to take a casual look at her & go ur way and not to mope or stare at her. The more u look,d more d temptation to think about her body. Its just how u condition ur mind. If u doubt me,wait. When u see an insane naked lady,do u go ahead to register her unclothedness in your brain on how to get at her? Wil u make attempts to sleep wit her?

you are right but the ability of taking away your mind is what is in question

[quote author=fresh_dude]OP is so right. Ain't nobody gots no time for bonga fish. I believe that's "Super Super BBW"[/quote]Lol...

Montalo: You are right but the issue is that the Bbw has the tendency of metamophorsising to ssbbw after child birth.

true talk

The media has made being slim a super look every girl must have which has made some girls starve themselves in the name of looking for slim fit

I keep asking my self why do we(not all though) want pretty slim girls but always get attracted to bbw(big beautiful women)especially the ones with big hips and big boobs, every time you hear and read about how super hot slim girls are but in real life bbw gets all the attention

Where I work presently we have many clients that are slim pretty girls but there is a new bbw in the house and guess what? All attention goes to her,even slim girls observe this too,one slim fit chick was thinking out loud why men chase bbw around but praise slim ones on media and internet

When I was dating a slim chick she comes around with all her friends except one chubby one,she never wanted me talking to see the girl,one day she opened up that men so much admire chubby girls so for that she's too careful

Bbw wins slim girls any day any time(no offence to slim girls o) I might not be correct but am just writing out my observance,I know some slim chicks will hate me for this thread,una fine o but bbw are finer, I can't just help it but say it

The aim of writing this thread is to let all the bbw know how hot they are and to also ask why men(not all)like slim girls only online but always chase bbw in real life

Has any1 ever notice this? Am not generalizing but keep a pretty slim girl and a bbw, 70% men will go for the bbw