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justwise: Your cousin is a kid and talking nonsenses, you can make friends in USA, mingle freely if you have time, just like in Nigeria, the true meaning of freedom exist in USA, what freedom do you have in Nigeria that is lacking in US?

Reason number 4 is even more ridiculous, so approaching a girl on the street with no respect is better?

There is no sense in all the garbage he told you.

If its all bad in US then ask him to come back to Nigeria to enjoy all he is missing.

nice 1 bro, I like this

Hmmm... So he's right after all, please I'll like to get the positive sides as to weigh it with the negative, pls keep the comment coming

My cousin is living in the usa for about 6 years now and I'm planning to travel to usa after my nysc next year but the stories coming from him is not encouraging at all

Anytime we have a chat all he tells me is how much he miss and wish coming back to nigeria, he said life in the usa is not what they seems to be,he advice me to stay back since I'm already sure of a good job after service

These are his complains

1... Everybody minds his/her own business unlike naija where you mingle and make friends easily,therefore he's more lonely there than nigeria

2.... He's not as free as he is in nigeria,freedom in the usa is limited while naija freedom is unlimited

3... He get girls easily in nigeria,in nigeria he talk to a girl anywhere,inside bus,church,street,class,market,in the usa you can't just stop a girl anyhow and talk to her,if you do you might get arrested for a sexual harassment

4... You can work and make money but you hardly get rich,he asked me a question which I consider as a fact, he asked me if I've ever seen an american returnee whom is rich,which I've never seen
ETC....

Sometimes I just feel like this guy is just discouraging me,is he?

Why would a man even propose to a woman he's not sure of? You must have known where both of you are heading to before the proposal, it shouldn't be a surprise to her

I can never marry a girl I beg to marry,I can only marry a girl who can kill to marry me

That's if I will ever get married anyway

Are you sure seun is still the owner of nairaland? This site is loosing its value,its loosing international appeal, a foreigner who come across nairaland to know what's happening in africa and see all these poo what is he/she going to think about the site? Seun your site is fading day by day

@ op, we don't even know your skin color,you should've used a colored pic, anyway you are not ugly at all but you are not what I'll call handsome,and you are better looking than that one that calls himself most handsome in nairaland

Nice write up but I don't believe in them, there's no tips to avoid infidelity,it has nothing to do with these rules

Is there anyway to resurrect a thread that didn't get much responds? Or must you open another thread to make it new?

I have some last year thread which I needed good advices but couldn't get much,should I re open a thread for it or is there anyway I can resurrect it?

drake99: guy can you tell me a bit about your family, are your parents together?

yes they are

Mad Cow: Ten years younger?!


Dont you feel like a perv?!

why should he feel so?

@ op, what matters is how both of you look like, you can be ten years older than someone and both of you look like age mates, people don't know your age nor hers they will fix the age based on how both of you look like

I've dated a girl that am 7 years older than but she look like we are mate,nobody knew our age difference unless I speak so, and I didn't date a girl that was just 2 years younger than me just because she look 10 years younger than me

So what matters is not the age but how both of you look like,if the 10 years gap is visible abeg leave the girl,its not proper

Gabweezy: Tell her u want d orifice nd d backyard.or simply d backdoor.trust me always works.

Lol... Chick wey done give me her backdoor plenty times

Florena: https://www.nairaland.com/1305965/silly-birthday-gift-boyfriend

this doesn't relate with my thread

Cute bliss: Na who u wan make e answer dat question abi u get watchman for nairaland? Mtchew dis guy sef.

don't stress your self, the person who did it will read this topic and take correction

uche16: tell me what you achieved at my age,if you can't stand looking at the mirror,don't blame it on people who look better than you.i am older than i was five years ago but i don't bully people younger than i am and you did better than your mates did,have you heard of zuckerberg or better still let me come down home jason njoku because i haven't heard of you.who exactly are you and what are you doing in that cheap bedroom with really dirty pillows.you are a man and i am a boy,lets leave it that way grandpa

Lol... I don't know your age exactly but I don't think you are more than 19 or 20, I will be 27 in few months time,very older than you so we don't need to engage on a E- war, I only gave you an advice, I could remember when I was 17 or 18 I used to see people in their mid 20's as grand pa but funny enough there's no difference between me and them now,we are all men,Lol..

Don't worry in few years to come, you will see your self mingling with us as men, you might even be older than me then...Lol

uche16: let me shut the old guys on this thread first.why are you guys hating on young chaps like us,i know you can never be young again but at the very least you could just shut up instead of spewing garbage.all the guys i've seen so far are handsome and good looking in their own way.i hope you guys have eaten today because i don't see the reason why you still hating.

do you know that you are older now than last 5 years? You will look older in the next 5 years than now, so never think you can never grow old, its a must, growing old is compulsory but growing up is optional, I advice you to grow up, when I was your age I did things my mate couldn't do

drake99: fubbyy again

are you the one?

In every blog I come across online I keep seeing my romance topics I created in nairaland,if I google my nairaland topic I see them in different blogs with no edition, the person do copy and paste

Last week I saw my pic on som1's tattoo site,he's flaunting my tattoos as one of his works,he even used it as a front page pic,I mailed him,he said a friend got it on facebook and sent it to him,he apologized and I let him use it

today I just googled the topic I opened yesterday and I found it in naijapals.com, are my topics that interesting or what? And the person always claim he's the one those things are happening to and takes all the glory(and sometimes insults)

Is this a kind of joke or what? I know am a celebrity here but that doesn't mean people will copy what ever that's going on in my life and put it on there neck, on a very serious note, if you are responsible for this please stop it, am not against copy and paste, after all the news we post here are copied from other blogs but please not things about my personal life, abeg abeg ageg I don't like it

Arsenate: Another "Fubby" in the making. But in all honesty, this is a much better looking "fubby".

Lol... I no get part 2 bro

Monicasque: hahahahahah so much anger . Are you offended by the thread?

me? Offended by the thread? Hell no, am only giving advice, I've achieved 70 percent of them @ the age of 27 and I pray to get it all before I hit 30

There's something people don't know about age, now let me educate y'all about the mistakes that many people make about their age, you are 18 years old, because of that you think you are young, yes you are young, no doubt, but if you look like a 30 years old man or woman, automatically you are 30 years, because you didn't carry your birth certificate in your face

I have a friend who's my mate(27 years old) but he looks like my uncle, when we met I didn't even mingle with him as a friend, I did as an older man whom I can learn from,later I discovered we are age mates, we actually met when I was 22, back then if he sag his jeans like we his mates do,people would tell him that he's bigger than this,it hurts him because he knew he was living his age

Referring to this thread, many people here are excited that they haven't hit 35 so therefore they still have time to achieve all these but little do they know that they are 40 years because of their looks

Look @ your self in the mirror, if you are 25 and look like a 35 year old guy or lady, you better debunk the notion that you are 25 and start acting like a 35 years old , its only you and your family that knows that you are 25, the society don't know that,age is just a number, what matters is how you look lik

And this is more especially goes to the ladies

You are cute my guy, but you 4 use only the 1st pic

[quote author=sexy-excalibur]Lols..fuby ontop.guy repent sha[/quote]I will

@ op, am in the same position with you,my uncle is a top officer in NUC, he asked me to mention the state I'll like to serve and he need the answer this week,I've been confused all this while,I've opened a thread like this and I've see related thread with couple of yours but all I read here makes me understand that whatever faces a man is backing another

if some1 recommend a state with a reason that make sense another person will still detest the same state with reasons that make sense also

I'll tell him to make sure am not posted to north but every other place is ok,sometimes influencing this nysc can throwaway som1's luck

Yhemmy11: An idle brain is d devil's workshop, try to help Nigeria to eradicate poverty by engagin in a profitable job. Women stop gvin men urself as if u ar created 4 notin. U ar too precious to b used by any ordinary man.

you woke up by this time just to say this, and am sure you didn't even pray

Handsomeemmy: Nothing person no go read again, freedom to use the internet should have some limit abeg...

go and sleep

kixo: Ogun state is simply the best, am currently serving there

please give reasons

Moshood Alanamu: Osun, Ogun, Katsina & Enugu.

if you recommend any state please give reasons, I need this information more than the poster

alutacontinua: Huh
wetin be malabress?

malabress is unical female students while malabite is the male

bionicdude: .yeah I am

which department and level?

I like this thread because I'm confused my self, please comment with reasons

bionicdude: tell her u are g.a.y or u have a joystick d size of an a.a battery

chick wey done phuck me plenty times