AmosFishon:


My church Baptist issues both certificates. Religious bodies can issue the marriage certificates

That means Catholic Church marriage can cover it.

Some people are saying it is required if someone want to travel out with their family.

I have a question and I will be happy to get an answer to it.
My question is can a Catholic wedding certificate stand in place of a court wedding in that aspect since it is a registered place of worship?

LiegeMan:
hello Nairalanders, sorry for the long write-up, it's LiegeMan again.
my name is Mr Omale liegeman and I'm from Kogi State, I thank you all for your kind advice on the other thread regarding my wife's past life and I can assure you all that I decided to put to use some of the advice from here ( yes, I read all the 590+ comments from A-Z) and it's yielding positive result as I've been experiencing happiness as never before in my life, though majority of Nairalanders who contributed in the previous post failed to understand my point of view because I was trying to make the post as snappy as possible. Thank you all once more.

Now, while I was planning ways to work things out with my wife with some of the advice that I gathered here, my Aunty who's married to an Igbo man from Imo state called me that her daughter, who's a student of Imo State University (Imsu) came home during weekend, Saturday precisely, locked herself up in a room and has been crying ever since without food nor water, and has refused to see nor talk to anyone.
I advice them to keep an eye on her so as to prevent her from attempting something stupid, she assured me that they broke into her apartment where she locked up Herself and brought her out.

So on Sunday, being 31 day of October, 2021, I left everything that I was doing in Makurdi and rushed to their village in Imo State, on getting there, I observed that both her hands and legs were tied and when I inquired why, she told me that it was an attempt to prevent her from escaping. I asked them to untie her, she was still crying when I asked her to go dress up that I'll be taking her out, she quickly went inside and dressed up we left the village for Orlu.

When we reached Orlu, we entered into a restaurant, and I started asking her what the problem was, I inquired if it was her boyfriend that broke her heart, she said no, I later succeeded in making her to tell me what the problem was because she's my closest ally.

when she opened up, she told me that she decided to do a little gbaje gbaje, ie do a little runs, she booked an appointment with a man and when she reached the said hotel, she and the Man started romancing and kissing and after awhile, the man started hissing uncontrollably, she inquired from the man what the problem was, he told her that what he wanted to take from her has been taken by someone else, in her confused state, she asked the man what he meant by that, the man looked her into her eyeballs and told her that she's empty, that what he intended taking from her has been taken by another person, he counted the said amount they bargain and handed it over to her and ordered her to get out of the hotel premises. I tried to console her by telling her that the man didn't mean what he said, that maybe his manhood disappointed him, he said those to cover his shame and I also advice her to be very careful because Xmas it at hand, immediately I told her those, she became relieved and stopped crying but I know right inside of me, that what the man said wasn't a joke at all.

when we got home, the news didn't go down well with her mother as tears started rolling down her cheek, she is planning a way to take her daughter to different prayer houses.

Now what exactly is this man talking about, what exactly did he take from her, is it her womb, destiny or what?
please house, any advice for this kid cousin of mine?
or way to find out what has been taken from her and get her liberated.

I am suspecting that man, he may have taken it and acted like another took it.

Your cousin is greedy and her greediness has led her to where she is.


I will advice her to go for a serious deliverance and healing session or she will be a problem to the man that will marry her.

I have taken note of your name and other information, to avoid meeting and having something to do with her

vickydevoka:


Bros so many divorce in Abuja. So no need to rush abeg. If de one laf me no wahala

Na so, no be lie!

Make God dey help and keep us away from all these leaches.

SUGARCyprian247:
Lol..

I thought they said soldiers are on high alert in Abuja.??


We never see anything in this country

All these people and online quarrel are like Sugar daddies and potbelly.

vickydevoka:

When I say person way no get money no suppose marry Dem go say I be winch. Na woman go ginger u make u marry na same woman go tell de world say u useless n lazy. Chai. Marry beg me tire say make i marry her I no gree despite she's too beautiful. When money finish now I go hear am. I need woman way get money too irrespective on her looks. If pikin too worwor we go use our money do am Plastic surgery if na boy we born him go manage en look like dat go make money

You don talk am finish.

That money fit be snacks money for the kids but here she is complaining.

How can a man drop 4k for a family of 4 daily feeding for one week?

These days most men check the financial capability of their intending spouses before they proceed with them, not because they are after it but to avoid see finish and things like this.

You will be on your own doing well o, boom one lady go carry herself come dey disturb your life with marriage. If you do mistake marry her when you are not ready, you don enter because na that same mouth she go use yab you if things no go well.

Most of them if not all of them believe that once a man has a stable source of income, an apartment etc, that he should be ready for marriage.

I have them(ladies ready to settle down) around me but I am observing(studying) them all, none of them fit make me marry when I am not yet ready.

First of all, is the money for general feeding or for kids snacks/feeding?

There are some details you didn't give here, except you want your fellow women's emotional advice/comments.

Spechialone:
May God protect me and my family from the eyes of the evil ones... Amen

Amen to this wonderful prayer.

Nawa o, things are happening.

Wait, they should check where that man did his NYSC program.
Who knows if it is in Ogun state or Osun state?

Who is this one again?

Trying to stay relevant for 2023.

This guy will be Buhari Pro max²

Savageman:
Issorite.
Real Niggas don't you condoms
We dive in raw, feeling the warmness and wetness of her kpekus all over your dick,
stroking all angles, making her release her spring of holy juice. toto sweer sha

I movvveeee

Bad guy, you just made me remember something now.
Mehn, but tight Pussy is underrated o.

May God have mercy on His children.

These recent acts are more like since there is no peace in the north, we will make sure there is no peace in the south.

Ok

They are on the right course.


OUK for President 2023!

No specific amount.

Brutal punch to FG.

Sarcasm at its best...

LoL, with the way APC dey loot brazenly, PDP go dey regret why dem no get their kind of mind and attitude.

Babastrong:
...

Calm down bro, I know both are filled with unrepentant corrupt politicians but if you observe well you will realize one steals with conscience the other steals without conscience.

One steals but leaves prices of commodities affordable, the other closes eyes when stealing. i.e they consider or leave something for the masses to endure with.

One do it secretly, the other do it openly(brazenly).

If you're sincere here, you will understand my point.
Do you know there are level to wickedness or corruption/stealing?
Some will steal but leave crumbs or little things for the owners while some will steal and even want to remove everything the owners are wearing i.e they just want every damn thing even if it means carrying the owner along with them as part of what they stole.

Given opportunity to choose between previous tenure and present tenure, which one do you think most Nigerians will go for?

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Even though they are corrupt, they are better than APC.

DrFunmisticGlow:
there a difference between vegetable soup and ego riro

Efo riro is Yoruba's vegetable soup just like Off Ugu and Edikaikon are Igbo's and Calabar's vegetable soups respectively.

Hmmm, you guys should re-brand the party and ensure you get the power back in 2023.

smalldoctor:
2 v 2 oooo

The haters will arrive in short tym

Mr man where you see 2 vs 2?

36STATES:


They like to give everything their Yoruba names. Like none existent Ofada rice. Even rice grown in the north and east are called Ofada rice by average Yoruba man, even though there is no rice grown in Ofada in any significant quantity. They even have Abakeleke and Sokoto rice bagged and lebled Ofada rice.

Don't mind them, that is their way na.

Unluckily for them, people are wiser now and can see through that cunning act.

YNWA!

Simeony007:
Van dirk remove mask Na Pirlo dey defend for Liverpool

Pirlo

Pirlo na midfielder na.
Oh, is it because of the pass?

salesbloo:

Why dont you use those languages to call it instead of vegetable soup? Was it the only soup called with local names by the op? or you are tribal bigot?

My point is OP mentioned Yoruba vegetable soup which is efo riro, he/she mentioned calabar vegetable soup which is edikaikon.
So, what is stopping him/her from mentioning Ofe Ugu?
The best thing to do is to call it the general name which is vegetable soup.
There is nothing like colonization blablabla here.

Mr man free me abeg.

salesbloo:

stop your colonization mentality

M*mu colonization mentality keel you dia, what do you call it in Igbo language or south south part?
Moreover the leaf(or leaves) that is(are) used in preparing it is(are) not native to Yorubas.

iamyemiakins:
How many of the soups in the picture below have you tried/tasted?

I have tried six of them:
Okra
Ewedu
Ogbono
Egusi
Ẹ̀fọ́ rírò
Gbegiri

Which one is efo riro?

OP, the proper name is vegetable soup since it cut across different tribes.

I have eaten all but I don't think I can eat any of gbegiri, ewedu, miyankuka etc again or anytime soon. I had them during my years as a student and as a corp member.
My favorite is onugbo mixed with fresh egusi or Ogbono soup or onugbo alone...
The mixing is learnt from frequent patronizing of restaurants back then.

Pataricatering:
you people really need to stop lying - how many men pay for everything in the home without any input from the woman ?

Look at this one, in reality people like you don't contribute shishi to the house but claim another thing online.

tradepunter:


Then you have no business tying someone daughter in a fruitless bondage...

Stay on your own and stop trying to sound silly

Are you normal? I don't think so.

Fruitless because I said a lady can't pressurise me to marry her?
Is there a written duration for relationship which after you MUST upgrade it to marriage?
Is dating only for those that are about to get married?
I am just stating the fact, you can hug a transformer.

Moreover, I am someone that can meet a lady today and in little time(I mean within days/weeks) do the needful on her, there is no specific time which you must reach before marrying someone.
And again, no be everybody dey like all these longtime relationship.

I laid more emphasy on being ready but you ignorantly skipped it.
The koko is "BEING READY"

You must be one kid that has unguided access to the internet.

Nonsense, as if she is the one that will take the financial, mental and other actions involved for me.

Try it with me and see me decline you straight-up.
No one can rush me into marriage.

If I am not ready, that means I am not ready.