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Olanre05:
@FunkybaBee
After carefully reading your post, you are a total turn off, you’re the kind of lady Bro James will be beating and you will come out to pretend to us your marriage is fine. Stop supporting nonsense, need I remind you that the poster was a catholic before she was brainwashed. During the wedding right, they Will tell you to be submissive to your husband. There is something the poster isn’t saying. You can’t be attending winners and your man is attending redeem, the doctrine is totally different. You both come back home while discussing a topic shared by your pastor, argument starts, insults follows, my pastor is well informed than yours and before you know it they start keeping malice. I need you to know that most broken homes today are caused by some pastors. Know this and know peace.

How could you considered another person faith to be brainwashed, u mean it's lie entirely.

Just come out plain that where she's going now is a false

And her salvation is a fraud, please add ur evidence to back it

Somebody said she was saved.

which means she just realized that what she was practicing before is not beneficial to her life.

U are now saying it's a lie

Do you know the kind of life she was living before...


Some Nairaland atimes gan sound somehow

Fiscus105:
Shalom, I have carefully read 2 main reasons why she wanted to jettison idea of going ahead of marry the guy, first about religion inclination and second after several hours that she posted first reason and so many backlashes , she forced to state 2nd reason of not wanting him to grow in her career.

Sister, I could deduce from her 2 reasons that, they are not geninue, she is a type who think life revolves around her and that her opinion is best, believing her path is perfect.

I can boldly tell you, if she continues her way of reasoning, she will face many controversies in her marriage, irrespective he who she marries in future.

Lol!!

U are too funny

U Mean she should not consider her life before making such decision


Like you said, two things

Career and Faith

U mean it's a sin for making personal consideration before making a lifetime decision..

As in, what will determine my future

Bro I don't get you?

U are too funny mehn

MisterGrace:
As expected, a so called gbogbo kabashing sister is rude as usual.

Lols, see you

U still find fault in my respond.

That's what we are saying.

Okay, let me give you an example.

U met a man, u are talking online, or physically, he did something unsual as a spiritual minded, u observe or atimes correct him. He answered to back it up

U look it off, I mean u did not count it

So when you finally met, he's trying to touch you, you caution him immediately that's against the scripture commandments, he said know and used another bible work to back it off, u still try to let him understand that it's not allow through God's commandments, evn using a book to back it off.

He didn't answer and still continue his move note , he's a well know church members, where u expect them also to be filled with word.

Do you now want us to blame his church of not teaching him the right word no or he's just totally an unbeliever.

Can you answer me?

MisterGrace:
How una dey reason sef? Is the man a pagan?

When did being a Catholic become a sin?

He's not cheating, wayward and a drunkard.

I mean...

I don't know why you guys also have IQ without using it to reason properly

Is it about church

You think going to a church means that u are saved

And like someone said, be praying for him

Invite him to your church program, share fliers or anything.

Don't enforce him Biko, let Christ life shown in you that he will be able to think and reconsider

Sister, don't mind those frustrated soul there sis. They are trying to twist your word like inferior in other to bring mocking to the house of God. Don't bother to reply them because they can make you to sin against God.

Bact to your question sis introduction is meaningless, u can quit now

It's good to consider spiritual minded person like you for marriage so that your future/marriage will not have issues

Sis, it's not easy to manage a person that have different views with you or let me say a church goer that did not know about Christ.

Their heart is hardened unless they are saved, try to explain it to your mum in a way that she will understand you quickly.

I also having the same issue with you though I have end it immediately I reason and checked that I cannot cope with it, I need someone that will grow my spiritual life no not someone that will downgrade it.

May God provide better patner for us in Jesus name.

Shalom

Wow, I remember this thread back then

Planning my relocation soon Biko una should link me to job there ooo.

I'm now a graduate

What rubbish

He want to be terrorising the community because of his brother (a soldier). They should arrest him and send him to kirikiri

Nobody is above law

Ehyah!!

They don't understand their own problem

Don't go yet, Europe is an expensive place to study talk more of medical course

Finished here first then u can travel out to sit for any examination for licenses


There are more opportunities here in Nigeria dear, u can be earning huge amount ofoney before graduation self

Iwo Olorun

Why are some human heart full of wickedness like this

esthel:
Have you checked all her threads, it calls for suspicion and I don't think people asking for evidence should be a big deal. There is no money to throw around at this time

Oh okay

Noted

God will grant our heart desires

U don't need to reply those people

Giving with a conditions does not hv much rewarf

Don't mind them eny

They are frustrated soul

They can't make an � talk more of human

You are beautiful, black and bold

I love you darling.


A la ye run run haters should go and d!e

The same Ila that has NCE Akande bravo

Ehyah!! Sorry bro.

Na the type of country you found yourself that cultivate this.


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renew4life:
Hmmm !

Sure, love everyone like yourself

As usual the d✓mb youths still exposed their d✓mbness again on this thread.

L@zy Nigerian youths like Buhari said

My advice for the youth is to just find something to do, anything to keep you busy

It's not his far or long it's, if not for how well

Do something for God to bless you and stay away from sin, God is a faithful father
Shalom

So sad

Wow

Oh my goodness

contigiency:
Only if Local and states government are doing just a fraction of what the federal government is doing, we will certainly not be in this mess as a nation. But instead, everybody's focus is on federal government to do everything.

So where's that power for them to do something

U better go and cry to your governors

The results of weak naira again


Dam weytin federal government want to do again now

Increase our bill?

It's well

BoosBae:
I tire o, a man that will be putting his eyes in the small money you're making... Is that one a real man? He's just a selfish being.

He's looking for one woman to support her to grow, a woman that has a lot of loads on head already. He didn't think very well before he say I do

BoosBae:
I tire o, a man that will be putting his eyes in the small money you're making... Is that one a real man? He's just a selfish being.

He's looking for one woman to support her to grow, a woman that has a lot of loads on head already. He didn't think very well before he say I do

Arsenate:
Oh my gosh, so someone decided to give birth to 9 children he has no plans of taking care of but you feel it is the duty of another young man to take care of a battalion simply because he married into a family. Chai, you dull no be small.

Also, lol at people waiting to fill in the place. Good luck in getting to [b]men stupid [/b]enough to put up with entitled creatures like you.

dumb guy will always sound dumb, there's no how they can package themselves

chrisj2:
What are you saying? She should have married a richer man that can take care of 7 or more extra mouths?

The man is still actively spending his money on his in-laws when he should be building for his own and nuclear family's future...

It is better than she remained unmarried and wallow in poverty with her siblings. She is lucky to even find a man to marry her...

Even rich people draw lines otherwise they will not be rich... Givers end up being poor - no sh1t about not lacking; there is simply not enough.

Moreover, they have taken over the running of his family by coming so often, with it without food. One needs peace and ability to relax and manage one's affairs without wahala. Everyday, he will be thinking of how to satisfy in-laws, will not be able to but in bulk, his own wife and child will be lacking this and that. And for what? A lazy and thoughtless family in this day and age...

Lols, I will want you to know something today bro, that u amount to nothing I mean nothing, if you refused not to do a assign job given to you by God bro another person will rise up and do it even if her wife refused to fend for them today, I repeat it another person will rise up and fill the place

Who are you to say that she's lucky to be married him when there's more responsible men outside there that will do and carry the cross like their own. infact she really Bleep up

It's Father(God) cannot be replace but you a human can be replace with anything even with a stone to filled your gap so what rubbish are you saying.

You amount to nothing, she has been doing it before the marriage and she will continue it until the cross is lifting from her and pray that God will surely grant her grace to eat from that labour

Rubb!ssh

seanwilliam:
No wonder
Sheybi it is easier said than done. You’re still single and not marry..

I’m 100% sure that your business only feed your mouth and maybe u give little to your family/people ( which is what you can afford and doesn’t affect your finance )..

And funnily enough , in your eyes like that , u go Dey think you’re making money .. wait until u have responsibilities.. anyway na woman you be, your husband will come in for u

Imagine like 5 people coming to your house everytime to eat 3 square meals with your little income, can you stand it ?

Abi u think being financially supportive is one time responsibility?? No no..
if this is how u plan to run your marriage , then you don have problem..

Feed your people with your own money not your husband money except he is ok with it !! Or u think ops doesn’t have family that needs his supports?

And if that thing wey Dey your head u Dey call sense , then I don’t want it.. good day !

I have said it before and I will still say it again that, we know your type

seanwilliam:
Out of hope worobo job wey u Dey do, can you alone survive on it without your husband’s intervention

It’s Monday abeg! Good day ..
and hey btw, you’re the frustrated and confused soul not me!..

Nonsense!

Yes, I can, I'm single, not yet married

With it I know what God have bless me with it, Glory to God for that not to a human

I don't think you guys reason at all, do you think it's easy for her, or she's happy about it


Do you know what it means for a person to be drain because of too much of responsibility

Do you know how it feels to be drain self.

You think she's happy with that Abi

U better go and borrow sense to think

[quote author=ebuclassic18 post=102705692][/quote]Thank you bro, they might be even the ones that will sponsor all their kids to school in future because no body owns tomrw, anybody can die at any time.

It's what we do today that will feed our kids tomorrow

BoosBae:
I don't even understand you people, the Op's wife funds and cooks with her money many times too. She was probably doing that before getting married, so she should forget her family because she married a poor man?

Sister don't mind that frustrated soul

He's part of them, I cannot be saying what my responsibility is even with my worobo jobs I'm
presently doing. Glory to God

But some sisters fall my hands atimes, how can you marry such mentality man when u know the type of your responsibility you will be facing ahead.

Is it love gan ni because I don't seem to understand

seanwilliam:
How many people can you feed with the nonsense chinchin, snacks and catering for events and second hand Uk babies clothes wey u Dey pack and sell ??

See dumb and stupid mentality . So because your husband marries you now , he should be responsibility to the need of your family ??
How many people have you fed in your life before ? I’m sure none!

Easier said than done.. radarada
If you have ever worked hard for money before , you won’t be saying this nonsensical nonsense wey u Dey talk ..

Can your chin chin money feed only you ?? Arrant rubbish !!

Chaiii, see this confused gifts card seller

Omo you burst me into laugh this morning