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@tellbabe

OH Mine,cnt help laughin,whatz up nigeria?hey!the battle between the nigerian ladies and guys should STOP,its not neccesary.I Juz need one nigerian guy thats all and,point of correctn,some ghanaian ladies prepare AMALA better than nigerian babes.

Tellbabe,tell them,tell them !!!
Now there is nothing left to hold the naija boyz back.Even amala and ewedu soup is part of the Ghanian-Nigerian package

Hemm..... tellbabe ,you will need to  give more info for the brodas to catch you.....you know what I mean...

IAH, see , I will get used to the cous-cous.
Unfortunately there are not too many viable Kenya,Ghanian,Gambian or even Nigerian bachelors. Not enough to go round.
I am so sorry but it not my fault. Na so I see am. 

Anyway,take heart. I am sure the  good  gurlz will always succeed in doing tie-neck on the few,remaining able bachelors   

Sometimes I wonder how it is that a handful of men,probably less than 10,000 in all,can hold a nation of some 150 million people,not less than 60 million able bodied men,to ransom 

Why do we continue to allow these few people treat us like rags ?
It is our common whealth they are fighting over,killing and maiming us in the process and the worst of all,they use us,the common man,to commit these atrocities and you know what,we sing their praises and call them our saviour 

Some people say it is hunger.I disagree. I think we have simply decided to become indifferent or unusually scared to do anything.
Of course some people will soon say it is because I am in the UK that's why I am talking like this but I assure you, the day we as a people say enough is enough I will gladly come home and join strength with my people to shake of the tyrants and infidels lording it over us 

Gov Igbinedion of Edo state should be next

I agree with you. I am from Edo state and I know the appalling situation of my home town.
That man,that greedy thief should not only be impeached but hanged as well !!

I noticed that the people "thoroughly weeping" for the nation are those abroad.

And do you know why we are weeping ? Because we know things can be better.
Most Nigerians in Nigeria have become so used to abnormalities that when we weep at such things they can't understand us because such abnormalities seem normal.Folks,what is happening is not normal. IT IS WRONG !!!!!

It is time we sit up and face reality. As a country and as a people we are gradually being withered away.Soon there will be no Nigeria if nothing is done.

are the gurlz jealous ?

Hurray !!!!
Now all these Naija babes,home and abroad,wey no gree respect the good,romantic men wey God give dem go soon lose out
You do not the value of what you have until you lose it 

See,even Ghanian ladies know the stock we are made off and they are coming for us.
Hey Nigerian sisters,if you are still interested in settling down in this century you better speak up before the Ghanians,Kenyans,Gambians and all other beautiful african chics  snatch us away and I tell you,we are willing to be kidnapped by them 

My Ghanian sister,welcome and feel at home.Please upload your vital statistics on your profile and attach some of your best pictures and I assure you in no time wonderful,romantic,loving and caring Nigerian brothers will be in touch.
This is your year to go home with your sweet heart and soul mate 

Madness!!!!  Madness!!!   Madness !!!

Impeachment is now ten for one kobo
Anybody who has some money and influence can single handedly remove a sitting,supposedly "democratically  elected ? " governor

I weep for my nation   

You know,my biggest headache concerning Nigeria is "who can really lead us ?"
OBJ has tried in some areas but more can still be done.There is one thing we must recognise,Obj may be the best from a bad bunch but where are the good ones and how come we never seem to vote them into power ?
What I like in Obj is his fearlessness when he decides to get something done.

Anyway,I am sure this "interview" has opened a can of worms and there is no going back now.The players will have to lay their cards on the table for the nation to see what they are up to.

after we both agreed that she should marry since I still have years ahead in my school programme.

Is her husband and rich man and has she promised to send you money monthly to help you in your education ?

Unless this is a deal between you and your girl friend to extort money from the man or it is a fabricated story,even you know that you would have told her in no uncertain words to stop pestering you and you would have ran for your dear life.

If you must committ taboo please let it not be adultery,neither religion,law,society or tradition condones it

I have a strong, sneaky feeling Gbenga never granted a formal interview to be published in public.I have my resons for saying this.
Check out the interview again.Read it carefully.It runs clearly like a conversation between two freinds,not like a formal interview.
Nobody,no matter how dumb,in Gbenga's position will publicly make the statements credited to him in an interview he knows will be published.Even if those things he said are true,in a formal interview he would either not mention them or he would say them in a smart,political way.Remember he is a Doctor,stays in the US, widely travelled and a president's son.He would know the damage such an interview will bring to his father and family,not to mention himself.
Nobody in a public interview makes statements like:
"That’s true. The only reason why they are asking Baba to stay is because they are afraid of Atiku. They know he will come and take over everything they have built with his unquenchable greed.  or
What was your relationship with the late Mrs. Stella Obasanjo?     She was my father's wife; she was the man's wife. That's it!

I think Sowore took advantage of a private discussion with his friend to come up with his "interview" story.

Well lets watch and see how events unfold

I noticed that most of the ladies said they would love to have 3 kids- 2 boys and 1 girl.

Why the emphasis on more boys than girls ?

I am just curious and will be glad to receive some honest answers from my sisters

Thanks

Snazzydawn,IAH,are you fat !!

@aqua

if u need info on how to identify such babes .

How do u identify such babes ?

All these blushing blushing blushing!!!!That applies to the white guys,abi?Black guys don't blush so.I am lost here!!!

Hawtie,tell me,what colour is a black guy's blush?Infact,black guyssss on NL,do you blush?

Synonyms of Blush
go red; go red in the face; redden; flush; feel embarrassed; feel ashamed;color
I don't think Nigerian guys or black guys generally go through all these.

How you expect my dark face to come dey red because I see  woman  wey I like ?

i hope the babes are not avoiding my question .
In case you have forgotten ,here it is :

what about a poor boy dating a girl who has money ?

I hope there is nothing bad in that one  because what is good for the goose is good for the gander.

Rich boy + babe(rich or poor) = sweet love

therefore, Rich girl +boy( poor or rich) should also = sweet love ,abi

Re: What Is The Right Age To Get Married?

12 for girls and 13.5 for boys 


And please no more 26-29 for boys.What about Borthers who have crossed 30 in NL. You want them to start getting worried !!

what about a poor boy dating a girl who has money ?

I hope there is nothing bad in that one  because what is good for the goose is good for the gander.

Rich boy + babe(rich or poor) = sweet love

therefore, Rich girl +boy( poor or rich) should also = sweet love ,abi 

@katie

OK!
Here's a New York Times article of interest for all of you uninformed individuals!
Marrying and having children with your first cousin does not appear to pose any major threat to your children's health, so you can all stop speculating and moralising!

  http://www.geocities.com/luvacuzn4/CousinsMarryingCousins.html

are you also having an affair with your cousin ?

@ makeda

You see we have to learn to look for romance in the simple everyday things these men do. Romance is making dinner so that when you get home from work you can just eat and relax and not have to stand at the stove for an additional hour. Romance is Helping you with the house chores and the laundry. Romance is making sure that when he goes to the market he remembers to pick up the snacks you like to munch on and making sure the beverages you love are always on hand. Romance is rubbing your feet after a hard day. Romance is cuddling with you and whispering sweet words in your ear(even if they are cheesy). Romance is going 30 to 45 minutes out of his way just to pick up from work because he knows you do not have a car just to keep you from having to ride the bus or call a cab.

@ocho

ooh! how sweet!

@Rolly

Awwwwww! that is sooo sweet!

See how the women have equated romance with house boyism.
wait ooo.... is the man a house husband ? Considering all the "wonderful" things Makeda expects him to do to prove he his romantic.
In fact, if that is the definition of being romantic,I give up.I don't want to be romantic any more 

this crazy part of his numerous phone calls which was the part of wanting to know when and where l was when l last made to,to whom,how l got bleeped to the xtend of wanting to hear how l scream,it was fun at first,he  would call when am having sex and ask me to leave the phone on he wants to hear me scream it turns him off and how many guys am having it with at that moment,he even went as far as knowing my sexuallity.

Sorry baby girl,but this guy is a sexual pervert.
There are some men who enjoy watching thier wives being f**K by other men.It turns them on.Pretty common in the Western nations but it is a high level of sexual perversion.If you marry him I won't be surprised if he begins to ask you to do such a thing (have sex with other men while he watches)

My candid advice,don't marry him.period

Deadly attack on Nigerian men !!!
This is real "operation kill all unromantic Nigerian men".

We seem to be empahasising only poetry as a means of expressing  romantic feelings. It ought not to be so.
Not everybody is poetic.

There are different ways to express romantic feeling,such as going to the beach,picnic,dancing, cooking together,etc

I think most Nigerian men and  women are unromantic and the reason is not really abject poverty but lack of exposure and this "I am an African man" mentality.

Back in Nigeria I work with a multinational company that pays good salary and yet last year when the company organised a "Couples Night" for married staff members some of my married male colleagues where in the office,claiming to be working hard,while the event was going on at the staff club.I was disappointed.

The way out is for us to allow ourselves to be more exposed to a more romantic way of life and this comes through reading,watching,studying and practicing romantic maneouvres.Not a bad idea to learn from our western counterparts

This might seem like a topic for the guys but please ladies your contributions are not only welcome but valued

If money wasn't an issue-assuming you as a guy earns enough to take care of your family- will you prefer to have a wife that goes to a normal corporate job,9-5 as we would say in Britain,or would you rather  have your wife stay at home and take care of the kids and the home ?

For me,the picture ain't clear yet. I have a good job,enough to take care of any family I wish to raise and would love any woman I marry to have enough time to cater for the home but when I see the cute,sharp,smart, sophisticated and professional woman  I would wish her to be like them.Confusion,right ? 

I also think letting a lady do something professional not only keeps her from being bored but also keeps her abreast of global  events and pretty independent but unfortunatley,it might make her unavailable for her traditional wifely/motherly roles.Sorry ladies,I am still an African man at heart 

Maybe the middle ground will be for her to do a not too demanding job like teaching, or run her own businees.

Lets hear from the Naira Landers