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Brother... I won't say I understand u because I haven't been in your shoes... However, like every other man I have carried and still carry my own cross so I know that what u are passing through isn't peculiar to u.
That being said, pls note mypoints (if u will)
# killing urself makes u worse than an infidel. It makes u a coward. Look urself in d mirror and ask urself if does who sent and saw u through school don't deserve better than have u spite them by thinking about suicide.

## there are many reasons to get job and work hard but losing ur family shouldn't be one of them. It's wisdom to understand that only I moments of adversity do u know the quality or loyalty of a man orfriend. Same applies even more to a wife.
Her attitude is an eye opener.. Spending d rest of ur life pleasing a woman is a no no for me. Both of u aregraduates.... If she hasn't got a job yet, she should be supportive of your efforts to get one and understand as well.

### I don't know if u are a Xtian, but u must have heard of job, if u had seen him going through trials, u would have said he's cursed. Do know that God has never trusted anybody with a crown that he couldn't trust with a cross.

Like I said earlier... Consider my points... IF YOU WILL.
GOODLUCK SOILDIER

Mostly people are only Christians bcoz they go to church... Or aren't Muslims or traditionalist...
D virtues op is talking about are things u can only get by making a conscious effort over the years, as a man, to renew ur mind in line with ur faith. Faithfulness, patience, loyalty andhumility are not things u find in a common man, it takes years of conscious efforts for these things to be seen in a man. So don't expect that bcoz he is a Xtian man, he supposed to be ...xyz.
The world system says more is better, says adultery is fun as long as u can provide for ur family... So much trash out there, only a man who is in tune with the core values of grace and truth (which came through Christ) can live above board, and that is a life long lesson-an effort which many will be reluctant to make.

Ranchhoddas:
I think it's because women stand to lose more if things go south.

"To lose something, u have to first own something."
I also believe that u never really lose if u loved genuinely, cos true love is a seed.
The thing is, this days women want to marry ready made men, with cars and houses and fat bank accounts.. Nobody want to get made with the man or make d man.
It's all about my husband is this, my husband did that... And what exactly are u doing??
Success is who u are... If u are successful, it doesn't matter what u lose, u can replace all over again

Once dated a military girl 2014/15. Ovim in Abia state.
She's calabar... Can call you all day and pick quarell if u don't call her... Nice lady... But a sex addict... Hardly a conversation isn't full of sexual innuendos.
I tire for her sex sex talk.

Born2Breed:
APC and their online zombies right now...

;Dwhere did u get that picture from...
You must be crazy

The concept of marriage is warped in our world today.
For most women.. Is a class act... Social status.. Or meal ticket. Not to talk of sex.
Two people meet, have sex, then it's like "let's do this always" and they are getting married by weekend.
The girl is thinking.. He lives in his house, he drives a Prado.
D guy is she's so pretty and sexy and nobody knows that all can be gone in a week.

Give any small boy 5million and d Next Week he is getting married bcoz he believes all he needs is the money to provide for a woman. Many marry outta fear of losing their lovers to other men.
Nobody cares about virtues... Nobody cares about values.. So after the glitz they are forced to bend down and learn.
Chances are men are stubborn, women are mostly malleable and they r d ones who care to learn..

I don't care what God does or doesn't do, my believe and worship isn't based on what he does... It's based on my revelation of who God is.
I don't expect you to understand me either...

Because some pastors and con men have decided to use d church as a business venture doesnt mean my personal experiences are false.. I have experienced :
The redeeming power of confessing Christ.
The power in the name of Jesus.
The renewal of my mind by the word of God.
Amongst many others... Only baby Christians and Luke warm children of God will be swayed by the obscenities from the guy above.
PS... Just bcoz he quotes the Bible doesn't mean he knows the truth.. Even the devil knows the Bible.
And of course to poison a rat, u have to put it in cheese.
But those who know their God, who have had personal encounters, will be strong and do exploits

Inec

Check it

Avater0147:
you wey be strong youth e better for u oo. how old are u and what have you achieve in ur miserable life? no go reason how to make ur life better na people u dey see. idiot.. people like una na dey run follow this yahoo guys upandan. same one stupid girl like to insult yahoo boys boy she beg them money pass anything. fool

But bros.. Na only u be yahoo boy? Why do thing pain u like this?

now she's dead, wetin u gain?

All natural business...
Imagine if the FG hires ur car for an executive....
Just check who owns the company

shugabasbn:
Some people are born uncultured, without any trace of working grey mater on their brain. Imagine referring to whole tribe has bn coward. I don't blame you but the moderators of this blog that thrive on tribal and religion comment. The guy has to b ban for life here to be a lesson to uncultured like him.

I thought u were going to say something sensible.... Alas.. U cry for a ban.
U think this is ur tribal. Newspaper u cry out to high heavens for an editor to be sacked
U are really one of the educated illiterates he was referring to.

Afromalaika:
...and what have your actions brought you? Thousands of you died in the civil war and again, you are also salvages in all the states of the federation as at today.
Will rather die a coward than being like you.

I feel ur pain ode.... Kiss the truth.
Even outside Naija, we don't dare associate with ur noise making brothers... After the civil war y'all still jealous the progress and resourcefulness of the igbos.
Hardly do u hear any igbo man talk about the war... They all moved one and become billionaires...
Kiss the damn truth

The average Yoruba man is all talk and no action..... It's not ambodes fault that he's a coward... He's born one

For all the frustration, Hunger, and whatever u can complain about.... No temptation has come to u except that which is common to men.
U aren't the first to go through all that, u won't be the last...

But those that know their God, will be strong and do exploit.
Does whose faith will have no patience will fall.
But be you followers of those who through FAITH AND PATIENCE obtained the crown.
God will never change or lower his standards for u

Olalan:
How do guys toast this military babes sef. Without been intimidated. There is something attractive about ladies on neat uniforms.
Wishing them a blissful union

Make army friends.... I have quite a number of them.... The girls will come for u... Military girls are just like normal babes.... Except the boldness and raw gists.
FYI, they love quickies... No time.

kennygee:
Dolphins are beautiful and harmless.

In the whole of this country, I am not sure there's a resort where people can swim with dolphins.

See how we waste our resources and we still wonder why we are not moving forward.

I was just getting over the Hippo that was killed in Kogi state, this one just weak me.

Cho cho Cho cho.
U want to swim with dolphins... Go to California.
We eat me here.

Every prayer gets an answer... It's either a YES, NO OR WAIT.
the issue is we all want yes and a fast one.
NO is often regarded as not answered but if u listen to ur spirit u get the reasons..
WAIT... this is where the whole problem of faith and patience lies... Only true committed SONS of God will understan this one.

franchasng:
My own personal opinion on this:

The guy didn't commit suicide just because a random lady or ladies accused him of rape, of course rape accusation is common with successful men even in USA, Europe, Asia, etc, so its not new and he is aware of that. Cristiano Ronaldo hasn't committed suicide, neither did Kobe Bryant or David Beckham or Bill Clinton, and even former Israeli serving President.

I am suspecting that guy put his hands in some diabolical things known as "money ritual" and known in Yoruba dialect as "Ogun owo", so the thing must have probably backfired....remember he tweeted that his mother heard the news that he raped a lady and died out of heart attack, how many Nigerian mothers care about such rumors, if its like that, many Nigerian mothers must have died, including the ones whose sons are popular politicians being labelled all sorts of names online and offline....only that guy knows what went wrong but my instinct tells me his hands aren't clean with his financial success.

If he was that feeble minded, he wouldn't even come out online to be bragging and refuting such claims....talk more of taking his own life because of that forgetting about his wealth, his son and all the spark that comes with the little money he has, something is wrong with his ways of making money, go figure out or argue with your mirror

100% correct!!
His demons are after him.

IprintMONEY:
its not done. you dont just tell your wife it is done with out reasons. did she Bleep another man? is she troublesome. man tell us why you are telling her its over. dont you know its frustrating? al of you supporting the guy are idiots. before you support shit, u need to know details. how the Bleep do you just wake up and tell your wife its over
the wife should have damaged his balls sef. she bleeped up. dumb my sister like that for no good valid reason and i will make sure you spend the rest of your life with ants 6ft under the ground

Only if u knoW what ur sisters have been thru... Relax.
Worse has been said.. Later in life, u will realise most of the fights u had, we're needless.

This is what is called irreconcilable differences...
When it gets to physical assault, don't care who is at fault,
Get out of that union

Na weed that guy they wrap so?

We don't give a rat ass about ur lies...
Still is in USA.
Kiss the truth

Okay op, so I think a few are cool if u are like me, I think if a woman hits me, I will struggle not to hit her harder... Not saying I can't hold it... But it depends on which side of me wins.
But dude, "patronise prostitutes "?
That's like saying "hey y'all, I eat worms u gotta try it"
Finally, u sound pained bro.. Or heartbroken.. U gotta slow down dude... It's generational curse...and u gotta swallow ur own pills. "be a man"

JasonScoolari:
Dear Romancelanders,

We sincerely apologise for leaving the Buhari Media Cow called Mrbolt with some useless APC members, the chains were not strong enough, but we assure you that this nonsense will not repeat itself.
Please bear with us.

Lol... Get me that crown, this guy gotta be the" king of savage"

tutuonye:
Uche Ogah should go back to God he served as a youth but left Him to serve the small god they told him would give him power and fame. Uche go back to God because this brotherhood will leave you more confused as they frustrate your business.

What do u know about the man? What do u know about his youth?
Just hiding behind a moniker to type trash.

Ponponkon:
Sorry bros, us in Abia hates criminals. Ogah is a thief, he can't travel to China

U are not in Abia, Ogah has lots of Chinese staff.
U obviously know nothing about the man.

These ones na local them dey work