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Step 1- Guess you don't sit home all day, so if you earn something reorganized your family to match ur personal income and stop collecting you daily bread from her father. |
I think it's not about you wet or Hot but you probably showed or he read signs of you not been interested while it was ongoing, guys and even ladies are very sensitive to these signs whether real or imagined. You need to genuinely ask yourself for the solution look at it from your perspective and then his. It could be just one romantic date alone with him weekly, bi weekly or monthly, look forward to it, prepare with excitement, look good and have fun. Try and create time for the family, its usually not always about money or career, I used to think so but now having gotten both I know better, sometimes it is the small small things. It is well |
If you people feel strongly Obj stole the money, take him to court and jail him and stop running a smear campaign here, channel your energy into delivering the change you people promised. |
dealslip:You see well they all don't look like normal people |
You brought yourself low enough by the no be you be the devil comment and when she said repeat you even repeated that was when she finished assessing you fit for slap. Women will rant and rant but never join cause that's what they want, if you allowed her in front of you and say if na wetin go make you sleep well, she won't have the effrontery to slap you. Clear though the girl is not properly brought up. But tell her not to try it with me o. I cannot predict my reaction I may walk away but if na one of those days my brain is receiving high current and I am trying to manage myself by minding my business |
Back in the days there was a guy that behaved just like this guy, one day the other five roommates lock door na punch and cry we dey hear from outside, so pls. the guy should be guided. You know when it comes to these matters guys patience no dey plenty o |
His response was off point, is it because of our size police are asking for driver's licence or papers, there are countries bigger than Nigeria where police don't people for papers, funny enough they are even checking so they catch car thieves but to obtain you if 5 looks like S on your papers |
On confirmation ( after 1st year) in any of the top 4 oil companies a graduate employee can worth 15m |
They say actions speak louder than words they don't have to say it, I have said it before and still maintain my stand that would rather stay in a one room apartment I can afford than stay in a duplex paid for by a woman. There are good women though but rare Topic for another day was just thinking gay and lesbianism are against God's plan where does feminism stand is it a movement against God's original plan. |
Had to do same for my grandfather years back, funny enough the glass case inside the casket was still intact |
So her son, father, mother, friends,career, siblings and even God was not enough reason to stay alive, now she has brought sorrow to so many imagine her son coming home shouting mummy and she's nowhere, the mood at her workplace. Suicide is selfish And for her friends, colleagues and neighbours who couldn't see the pain and sorrow behind her smiles, a lesson to learn, a few lines encouragement could have saved her life |
Brave act but could have been more tragic if he didn't make it, we should not encourage this type of acts rather ensure the well is properly secured so no one has to fall inside to prevent people from jumping in to save |
If I were there it would been a mob action because me too for join beat the man. So in matters like this we need to amend our laws so the law takes precedent over religious or traditional beliefs. That way the doctor/hospital board is empowered where it is absolutely necessary |
Even if it's a power bank, he is always on the move |
ARM Mutual Money Fund doing 17.6%. Interest paid quarterly |
All pregnant women must be compelled to register and her and baby tracked till 2yrs |
I trust Uyo guys to arrange tables around the surviving bottles |
All this one on top social media story you have not verified, what of if it's a lie, have u been accused wrongly before, you know the pain. #Thinkb4Utype# [quote Duncan Mighty is always in a hurry to showcase his lavish lifestyle, his mansions and Porsche. He even once showed us a new ride he bought for his wife. He always posts photos of himself with dignitaries and influential politicians. But it's all make-belief. Who would have imagined 'Portharcourts 1st son' to have an impoverished, unkempt blood sister like this who resorts to stealing for survival? Who would have thought that? He brags he built a mansion in less than a year yet his sister can't buy a relaxer or even a wig for her hair overrun with undergrowths. Most of what we see on Social media are cosmetic and totally superficial. With that said, They should do the needful to her.[/quote] |
It is either you don't trust him or you have insecurity issues which is natural if not in excess. Get to know her (I will assume you know ur boyfriend), make her your best friend, register your presence and draw boundaries. Let him know how you feel but tell him you respect their friendship. Work your way into being his new bestie but don't tell him to break up the friendship as it may be counter productive the friend may eventually go but he will resent you for it. I have a very close female friend of over 15years we are both married with kids her husband is the jealous type, the day she told me her husband was jealous said he would confront me she cried endlessly apologizing in advance, I told her I will keep my distance if it will save her marriage. We all attended same higher institution, same department but her husband was a year ahead, currently working in the same firm with her husband. |
I think these teachers should be subjected to this test again on live TV invite 200 that failed and randomly select 10 to re-write the test. Get NUT/NTI/NLC to moderate. But if I may ask how did the get employed, who employed them. I attended a government school in kaduna at some point after coming from a private school, some of the teachers are really bad |
Why is the husband unable to cater for his family? Is the issue willingness or capacity, is he making efforts? While you are answering the questions above, move out from her place if it means going back home cause sooner or later you will start getting used to what she is doing and start making excuses for her in your mind. |
I just hope the grade will not be i waka pass university, another thing is don't consider yourself unworthy of favour, next time I will even have the CV in my bag no need to go come first. |
It is never acceptable for a man to lay his hands on a woman for any reason. However madam not sure if u had kept quiet it would have degenerated. Again you slapped him, were you ready to fight. If u had waited until later to express you grievance maybe just maybe. Now you are saying he should leave the house for u, hmmm |
I think the fundamental issue here is that the Akwa Ibom was not ready for a project like this, a state where government is the only source of income can't sustain this type of hospital. Even the hotel, these projects in a place like Lagos and Port Harcourt will be self sustaining because people can afford it. In a state where the average salary per month is about 80k you want a hospital that card alone is 7.5k and hotel of 40k per night to succeed? I think the governor has decided not to fund this elephant ventures because it does not make economic sense. Just like a young man that starts to make it and the first thing he does is to rent duplex in Ikoyi with all his upfront and his office is in ikotun |
LUGBE:Have you experienced or do you know anybody that has experienced still birth before. Only then will you appreciate this |
It is more the "vote" than the "voice" |
I don't really see any need coming to say this on Nairaland, you have done your bit, God has seen you. Saying all this on social media makes the guy look ungrateful and selfish which may not necessarily be so. |
For the right reasons yes marriage is not for everybody. |
You are talking ideal situation not reality. Most girls have not measured up to expectations, things they do make people believe they are after money alone. You meet a girl today and tomorrow she doesn't call you when you call she tells you I don't have credit that's why I didn't call or I'm broke turns to chorus or you stroll near shoprite all of a sudden she remembers her cream, soap, perfume have all finished. |
You rate success by wealth, then deizziani should be on this list, what do you mean by corporate world, did all these women rise through the ranks in a corporate firm |
Our road safety can help, make it a point of duty to stop every not bus and ask driver's from passengers arrest driver and impound bus if necessary |
Even if cut off is 20, it doesn't mean if you score 100 you will get admitted, if the department needs 50 students and you have 600 applicants with 250+ Mr 100 will not stand a chance in a sane environment except they start to use educationally less developed states thing where person with 55 from sokoto will get admitted while 260 from delta will not or state quota system |