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RomanceRe: Don't Date A Naija Girl That Have Slept With White Men... by gbami(op): 8:38pm On Mar 21, 2020
[quote author=Expensiverichyb post=87633587]Lol. What's the difference between a white guy and a white women?[/quo..... don't know dear
RomanceRe: Don't Date A Naija Girl That Have Slept With White Men... by gbami(op): 8:22pm On Mar 21, 2020
galadima77:
Guy I've been observing and following your comments, meaningfully so. This one here is below the belt. You don't need it.
.It happens sometimes..
RomanceRe: Don't Date A Naija Girl That Have Slept With White Men... by gbami(op): 11:25am On Mar 21, 2020
Magnoliaa:
Firstly, what sort of generalization is this? You're concluding based on?

And if she's done anal, so: why should that stop her from being married? How will it affect her/her marriage?

Is the guy she's getting married to not sexually exploratory?

Be selecting and looking for a 'pure' woman. Setting standards you're not even keeping.
... "Setting standards you're not even keeping"...My anus is safe dear....
But I can't say so with yours, dear...so...who is fooling who?
RomanceRe: Don't Date A Naija Girl That Have Slept With White Men... by gbami(op):
baralatie:
are you having low self esteem about your own bedding skills?
...Not At All Bro....
But, Unfortunately this white people will go back home to brag with their friends how whoreish our girls her...
Go to Dubai and listen to Arabs talk about our girls...Shame go nearly kill you
RomanceRe: Don't Date A Naija Girl That Have Slept With White Men... by gbami(op): 8:59pm On Mar 20, 2020
Dreiwizzy:
Alright. Many are pretentious, their rectum are wide opened you won't notice because you don't demand such from them. Some ladies reaches orgasm from that shït.
This guy is an expert....I salute you Sir
RomanceRe: Don't Date A Naija Girl That Have Slept With White Men... by gbami(op): 8:47pm On Mar 20, 2020
Dreiwizzy:
Maybe. But can we be truthful to ourselves for ones? We're in an era where people wanna know how things tastes like; young people are very inquisitive to know more.

Even if you don't wanna do it, she gon suggest you guys tries it out. Back then our girls hate anything that gat to do with smoke; but right now this same girls gets high on weed more than us. They just want to know how shït taste like. I'm not a hypocrite, I'm just saying what I've been observing recently with facts.
Yet to find a girl like that
RomanceRe: Don't Date A Naija Girl That Have Slept With White Men... by gbami(op): 8:28pm On Mar 20, 2020
Dreiwizzy:
I find nothing meaningful in your you post. I thought you wanted to say something that is sensitive. All you said are just normal stuff a Nigerian both male and female has indulge oneself with; it's not a new discovery.
...
Your Sister is Probably Being Fvcked in the ass by a black guy right now...Since it is normal stuff
RomanceRe: Don't Date A Naija Girl That Have Slept With White Men... by gbami(op): 7:19pm On Mar 20, 2020
GreatResearcher:
How can we detect the ones that have fvcked white men?
Unfortunately you can't unless they tell you...
Mind you...Some girls still gives the ass to black men...
But for white men....It is a given...Is like a Master(White man)-slave(black women) relationship...They will do anything for their "masters"
RomanceDon't Date A Naija Girl That Have Slept With White Men... by gbami(op): 4:48pm On Mar 20, 2020
I work in a multinational company, My colleague a white guy dates naija girls..He usually calls to tell me how many girls he has slept with. .how he slept with them...From his stories ...They are willing to Bleep his brains out...They can do anything to Please him ..They swallow, Do anal etc...Not only naija girls...Black girls in general, heard a lot of this shitty stories when I was studying in Europe...
It is so sad you will(not me) end marrying them..If she has dated a white man...There is high probability she has been fvcked in the ass...
RomanceRe: I Casted A Spell On My Mother In-law by gbami(m): 10:12pm On Mar 19, 2020
Casalindal:
Hello guys, hope you all are safe from the recent pandemic outbreakhuh I’m sending my thoughts to everyone out there. My love and light are with you all.

So let me gist you how My
1) journey getting my dream engagement ring
2) my problems with my mother-in-law
3) refusing to donate my eggs to my fiancé sister for IVF
4) how I cast a simple magic spell on my mother-in-law
5) how I tested positive for pregnancy test and I’m still negative to HIV
6) what is inside my prenuptial document
7)Waiting for you to commit suicide
cool Waiting for your suicide note...
Attention seeking bitch... smelling cunt...spit
RomanceRe: Feminism And Nigerian Relationships by gbami(m): 2:14pm On Mar 15, 2020
Lilbest3:
look at the new coronavirus bill that was passed in the US Congress, there is a special chapter for provision for women and children you will never hear anybody talk about it. Imagine if Congress dedicate a chapter to special cater for men during health crisis
None will protest...
RomanceRe: Feminism And Nigerian Relationships by gbami(m): 12:46pm On Mar 15, 2020
atheistandproud:
Feminism is a movement that by it's definition aspires for the goal of achieving equality for women. This movement by it's very definition is sexist and has given rise to misogyny in this modern dispensation.

Now whilst I do not deny that there are women who are suffering under patriarchal tyranny especially in traditional and Islamic settings and are in dire need of emancipation from child marriages, female vaginal mutilation (FGM) etc. Feminism and feminists (especially in Nigeria) has been very mum about their travails. If we are going to look at it in reality, the textbook definition of feminism is different from the reality of its practice. This has led to the coining of the term "Feminazi" after the exclusivist German national party of the Third Reich headed by Chancellor Adolf Hitler.

Whilst the goals of feminism are lofty and idealistic in theory, many Nigerians ladies who claim to be it's proponents and adherents (like Christians and Muslims) have ignored the unsavoury parts of it and have only chosen advance the parts that suit them.

For example, feminists may rail against female rape, sexual and psychological abuse, cheating by men, house chores, childbearing etc. but keep quiet or even celebrate when women cheat, rape or abuse their male counterparts etc.

In the true spirit of feminism, how many women will gladly become a breadwinner so that the men sit at home, not because they can't find a job but because their wives do not want them to work?

In Nigeria, if we still have women who want a man to pay their way, to buy them expensive gifts, to bankroll them, to pay their brideprices (something they should be fighting against), to pay for dates etc. Then we do not have true feminsts in the majority in Nigeria. If feminism has deteriorated to who washes dishes in the home then it should not be taken seriously.

There are real feminists in Nigeria but you'll hardly find them chestbeating or spewing expletives on social media and rather sadly they're in the minority.

Feminists in Nigeria need to take a step back and ask themselves if feminism is about who does dishes in the home, or if it's about women who are slaving under the boot of patriarchy that may never ever be educated or empowered enough to access social media and understand it's message.

Please read and digest this post before rushing to comment. Thank you.
Good write up..The feminist movement are group of persons that just wants to Cherry-Pick Men's Benefits as if they are in a grocery store but refuses the disadvantage of being men...
"Give me this and this, that. No, I don't like this, aww take that."
There is no feminist in a house fire... Immediately there is a fire emergency, And there is a need to evacuate people... Women and children goes first, Then men last...No feminist including Chimamanda will want to leave last to follow other men...
They( She) will drop her feminist Crown to join women and children first...
Air-conditioned office?...Yes!...Go work under the sun carrying block ...hell No...
Bunch of Cherry Pickers...
RomanceRe: "I Want A Standard, That Someone Else Will Sponsor" by gbami(op): 9:49pm On Mar 03, 2020
Fountainofyouth:
The earlier y'all realise not all ladies give two fvcks about your dough, the better for you, go for ladies who isn't perceived as money hungry, looking for men to carry their baggage, same way we have leeches as men looking for or with rich women cos of money, you dont see this women complaining about do you? so enough with the whining abeg, its pathetic.
Go and work... Stop waiting for financial saviour....
PoliticsRe: Kunle Togun To Tinubu: Why Did APC Fool Nigerians With Restructuring Promise? by gbami(m): 10:19am On Mar 02, 2020
tsephanyah:
Who is he? 95% of Nigerians don't know who he is. Irrelevant people making noise for the papers, so that they can print and stay relevant. The national leadership of the APC will not explain why the party will not implement the report of its committee on restructuring... Because you, the newspaper and does who read it av zero political advantage to the party. If you want something to keep body and soul together, just ask the relevant people because of your services to the nation they will help.
..APC stooge...Keep defending your useless masters
CelebritiesRe: Davido: My New Private Jet Has Arrived by gbami(m): 9:09pm On Mar 01, 2020
Scam of the century ....Unless Nah Daddy Own...
Who dash monkey coat..make I hear word! undecided
RomanceRe: "I Want A Standard, That Someone Else Will Sponsor" by gbami(op): 11:23pm On Feb 29, 2020
chinchonglee:
Do u prefer masturbationhuh
..Stay Away from sin entirely
RomanceRe: "I Want A Standard, That Someone Else Will Sponsor" by gbami(op): 9:31pm On Feb 29, 2020
Fountainofyouth:
The earlier y'all realise not all ladies give two fvcks about your dough, the better for you, go for ladies who isn't perceived as money hungry, looking for men to carry their baggage, same way we have leeches as men looking for or with rich women cos of money, you dont see this women complaining about do you? so enough with the whining abeg, its pathetic.
Na Dem....Show me a woman that spends on a worthless man without complaining...I will show you a fish that's can breath outside water
RomanceRe: Angry Wife Confronts Side Chic For Giving Her Husband Backroom Sex by gbami(m): 12:58pm On Feb 29, 2020
Too bad...It is a pity...
RomanceRe: "I Want A Standard, That Someone Else Will Sponsor" by gbami(op): 11:19am On Feb 29, 2020
chinchonglee:
Una still dey take girls matter serioushuh
See the earlier u realize there is no real love in this country the better for you(especially the poor and average citizens). Everyone is fighting to survive.
Poor girls trade their body for money.
One moment a boy and a girl are in love(deceiving demselves tho) wen the girl feels the guy isnt financially ready to marry, she runs to anoda man claiming that BIOLOGICAL CLOCK is ticking so fast therefore she doesnt have time on her side.

LEAVE WOMAN MATTER FACE YOUR LIFE. GATHER MONEY AND MAKE MAMA PROUD.
Anytime konji start visit a brothel pay and fvck den find ur way.
...Brothel...not at all...The rest statement...I agree with you..
RomanceRe: "I Want A Standard, That Someone Else Will Sponsor" by gbami(op): 9:39am On Feb 29, 2020
HRHQueenPhil:
Gbami woke up pissed..every girl weda they cover their whole bodies like to be spoilt with the good things of life, it's only those that have never enjoyed it that won't understand, so no vex
It's a tricky one, the one that doesn't ask you means u may not be her main man. God will give u wisdom wen it comes to women , just ask Him
I don't have problem with a girl in relationship asking for gift or things....My problem is that, they are asking for wants and not needs. They want their man to take them to a restaurant which meals are 20k per meal, but they can't buy sugar to soak their garri to drink..
I buy ladies gifts.. But you can't ask me for an iPhone 11 when you yourself can't afford tecno of 20k...I won't even reply your request...
For the part of me not being the main guy...If material thing is the reason a girl wants me as a main guy...She will die before her time...I am not a broke guy...
I don't do wants...I do needs...Hungry? I will feed you and that's a need...But if you want turkey in the food...count me out..
Romance"I Want A Standard, That Someone Else Will Sponsor" by gbami(op):
"I want a standard, that someone else will sponsor". This statement is the typical thought of 90% of Nigerian Ladies...
They want an extravagant wedding that their fiance will sponsor..
They want iPhone 11 for their birthdays but can't bring a Kobo to complete the naira...
They want to go to Milan for Valentine..but can't pay transport fare from their houses to the airport..
I Want Brazilian hair, D&G, Rolex Watch but can't bring a Kobo to help the poor guy...
Consumers mentality, Give me mentality, Entitlement mentality...
Guys... Don't date girls with broke girls mentality, Don't go kill yourself for a girl that wants Lamborghini but can't fuel it...
RomanceRe: I’m Not Controversial I Am Just Too Pretty by gbami(m): 12:44pm On Feb 27, 2020
Riele:
Haha.

You make me laugh .

With all the grace of the God you serve , you will and can never be able to buy my textbooks let alone pay my fees .

Only poor/dirty people assume that others are as dirty as them. So my dear , you're one poor dirty man .
As usually...You get off by People's response...You might kill yourself if I keep mute...I won't respond to you...Bitter 16yr old bitch....
RomanceRe: I’m Not Controversial I Am Just Too Pretty by gbami(m): 7:40am On Feb 27, 2020
Riele:
Smh ! .

You've gotten so used to poverty that you think everyone exhibit your dirty behavior .
By God's Grace.. I'm 100%sure I can feed and pay your school fees from 100 level to graduation...So...Poverty...I have never been poor dear...Look in the mirror...that's who you are referring to..
RomanceRe: I’m Not Controversial I Am Just Too Pretty by gbami(m):
Casalindaa:
Why do people feel threatened by me?? I’m not controversial, I’m not dramatic I just pretty.
Attention seeking bitch...I guess she is a fat bitch, father issue bitch, " I hate men bitch" etc...They always want validation from others to feel good about themselves....You want the sun to rise and set on your bitchy ass...Go to her house now....it will be very dirty.
CrimeRe: Adekunle Ayomikun Steals ₦340,000 After Hiding In Bank’s Toilet Overnight by gbami(m): 7:21am On Feb 25, 2020
LosC:
Poverty in the land
Is not Poverty, it is greed....Poverty is stealing food to survive. This is greed..He wants to feel like a big boy..
RomanceRe: .. by gbami(m): 8:54am On Feb 24, 2020
praiseneo:
Hello Nls...
Happy new week to everyone!!
I’m here to share my little story please I’m not a good writer so I’d plead you accept my typos and grammatical errors with love grin

So I have this babe I’ve been dating for the past 2 years...we were so in love with each other, inseparable, we had plans to get married and have kids. Everything was going fine she is very ambitious hardworking and never settle for less. On my part I am trying my best too in terms of hustling and performing my duties as a guy in the relationship. My girl friend was very supportive financially whenever i get broke she make sure I never lack I also do the same too.

Along the line I started noticing changes in her attitude towards me( this time I was extremely broke) she doesn’t do any chores at home whenever she’s around she will watch me cook, wash the plates, sweep the house (even carry leg up for me) while she sit and chat. I never took it personal at first, after all it’s not a bad thing if I do these things. But it became a constant thing and I told her but she started yelling and telling me it’s my right to do it what if she’s not around. That’s when I knew something is wrong somewhere. My girl friend lost her respect for me gradually because I couldn’t cater for her needs anymore she was the one spending....one day I stumbled on her phone and saw her chat with her best friend where she reported me to her and insulted me blue black telling her friend how she’s tired of me, how she’s never gonna settle down with me, how she is thinking of dating a married man to take care of her, how I’m useless etc. I saw these things and kept quiet I didn’t show it that I saw anything. I still played and gist with her if she’s in the mood.
Fast forward to one day she chated me on whatsapp saying she want an end to the relationship and we are not good for each other because I’m lacking behind and she’s no more a kid. She needs to make reschedule her life and take right decisions, then we spiting was on of her right decisions. She blocked me and warned me never to call her line again. I was pained I cried I was extremely hurt because I didn’t have anyone else I felt like shiit I became depressed and fvcked up totally. My friends came to my aid stayed with me and helped me to stop thinking....thankfully it worked cos I was spending time with them we go out drink, have fun, gist laugh etc. it was exactly four weeks after she left I played a bet 9ja game staking 500naira just 15 games to win 5.6million naira. Lo and behold the game ticket won. My people I wan mad I won N5.6m that was my 5th time of playing it I’m not really a player like that except I’m forced to. I went to their office and I was credited I sat down in my house with broad smile always knowing I’m a millionaire. I thought of calling her but my friends wouldn’t allow me then I thought of what she did to me and decided to lock up and I was like fvck it. I don’t know if taking her back is a good option or should I just move on with my life.
(She doesn’t know my status yet)
Good for you... Congratulations for wining 5.6m...However that might be the beginning of your problem...But let me advise you...
Don't call her back...
Don't go spending...
Continue to live the way you lived before you mad 5.6m
Don't buy a car yet
Don't go buy phones, large screen TV etc..
What you should do is to learn a trade or a handiwork..
Invest the remaining in assets( Lands)
Start your handiwork or any business that you've learnt for 6months or more...
5.6m looks like a big money...but if you don't know how to manage it... That's nothing...
By the way...You are not a millionaire...You can think like one, but don't act like one...
PoliticsRe: Hanan Buhari Denies Ordering DSS To Arrest, Detain Okolie Over SIM by gbami(m): 10:01am On Feb 22, 2020
tsephanyah:
Verified news. DSS arrested okalie because he tried to defraud people. He is lucky Hanan didn't filed lawsuit against him in the first place.
I blame your mother...She would have swallowed the sperm that made you instead she swallowed the wrong one...Or Your father that ejaculated in your mother's vaginal instead of giving her a bukkaka..Idiot with no sense, low life
CelebritiesRe: "Ayo Michaelson Foundation" Launched. Kwara First Lady, Ned Nwoko Applaud NGO by gbami(m): 10:12pm On Feb 21, 2020
Anything for the success of Her NGO, even sharing kpekus...
RomanceRe: What I Saw On A Colleague's Phone Today by gbami(m): 10:00pm On Feb 21, 2020
[quote author=Offpoint post=86849627]Lustfully is different from Educationally...

I wasn't looking at anybody, but an image on a digital screen. [/quote Keep drinking that coolie ...
RomanceRe: What I Saw On A Colleague's Phone Today by gbami(m): 9:45pm On Feb 21, 2020
Offpoint:
Define sin please
What did the Bible tell you about looking at people lustfully?
RomanceRe: What I Saw On A Colleague's Phone Today by gbami(m): 9:31pm On Feb 21, 2020
Offpoint:
Op what sin has she committed by visiting Xvideos?
She's a human being with sexual desires like every other human being including religious heads.

Cause you saw her browser history about porn doesn't mean you should conclude she's a wayward type. She commit no sin watching sex videos.

I personally visits those sites once in a month or twice depending on the level of testosterone in my body and I enjoyed lesbians videos and ladies self serving themselves.

When you want to improve your whatever skill, you visit YouTube to learn from pros. Visiting porn site is liking visiting YouTube to improve on your present or future skill.

Let the girl be...
I don't watch porns to masturbate over it, I watched porns to study how women sex life works, how they react to different styles OR pre-intimacy.
I'm gathering all these details for my future wife.
STFU....I watch porn videos too...But you saying is not a sin, is so stupid...
RomanceRe: Please I Need Your Advise My Husband Beat Me Because Said I Was Tired! by gbami(m): 1:24pm On Feb 20, 2020
Timson01:
We have only been married for three (3) months. February 12 was my husband’s birthday, but being that it fell on a Wednesday, we decided to mark it on Sunday, February 16. We hosted friends to a-get-together in our home. I did a lot to make the day memorable. The last group of friends left around 9:30pm and by the time we were done cleaning up, it was about 11pm.
We had our bath and all I could think of was sleep, but my husband was thinking differently. He wanted sex, but I was just too tired for anything so I said NO and asked him to wait until morning.
My husband angrily left the bedroom and I drifted off to sleep because I was too tired, but I was woken up with a slap in my face. I thought I was dreaming, but I wasn’t. I was startled when I saw that it was my husband who actually dealt me a slap!
As I wanted to ask him what the issue was, he gave me another slap and said I had no right to deny him sex. I was forced to slap him back, but that made him angrier, he hit me back and pinned me down- I struggled with him, but he overpowered me. He tore my nightwear and RAPED me to his satisfaction.
I still do not believe this happened.
I was too tired- was I wrong to ask him to wait until the next day?
Was he right to have slapped me?
Was he right to have raped me?
SEX! Should it have been because of sex? We still had sex a night before- in fact early that morning- three (3) hot rounds.
It’s been three days after the incident, he’s still feeling fly like he was right.

Somebody please advise me on what to do?
Fake story

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