₦airaland Forum

KINGreignn:
Ignore those frustrated fellas above me screaming run. They don't know anything about marriage and most are saddists. Your husband was selfish and rude, but you also were selfish too. You two need to sit down and sort things out, Prolly visit a marriage counselor and your parents to discuss things.

Timson01:
We have only been married for three (3) months. February 12 was my husband’s birthday, but being that it fell on a Wednesday, we decided to mark it on Sunday, February 16. We hosted friends to a-get-together in our home. I did a lot to make the day memorable. The last group of friends left around 9:30pm and by the time we were done cleaning up, it was about 11pm.
We had our bath and all I could think of was sleep, but my husband was thinking differently. He wanted sex, but I was just too tired for anything so I said NO and asked him to wait until morning.
My husband angrily left the bedroom and I drifted off to sleep because I was too tired, but I was woken up with a slap in my face. I thought I was dreaming, but I wasn’t. I was startled when I saw that it was my husband who actually dealt me a slap!
As I wanted to ask him what the issue was, he gave me another slap and said I had no right to deny him sex. I was forced to slap him back, but that made him angrier, he hit me back and pinned me down- I struggled with him, but he overpowered me. He tore my nightwear and RAPED me to his satisfaction.
I still do not believe this happened.
I was too tired- was I wrong to ask him to wait until the next day?
Was he right to have slapped me?
Was he right to have raped me?
SEX! Should it have been because of sex? We still had sex a night before- in fact early that morning- three (3) hot rounds.
It’s been three days after the incident, he’s still feeling fly like he was right.

Somebody please advise me on what to do?

made4naijamusic:
TBoss this afternoon went live on Instagram to lay curses on a troll who referred to her child as Ugly.

Recall that the ex-BBNaija housemate revealed the face of her daughter for the first time on Valentine's day, six months after she welcomed her. Trolls left hateful comments under her post, mocking her child and referring to the child as ''ugly.''

In a live video on Instagram which she did this afternoon, TBoss said she was 35 when she found out that she was pregnant and since marriage wasn't coming for her, she embraced motherhood which she says has been her greatest achievement.

Weeping profusely, the reality TV star said she never wanted to share the photo of her child as she felt it was in the best interest of her daughter not to. However, she was pressured by her family members to share her baby's photo but trolls were very unkind with their comments.

Picking a negative comment from one MsHafsat, a visibly angry TBoss placed a curse on the IG troll that she will never carry her own child.

Watch a clip from the live video below.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VHpe2PCrjis

Davash222:
How is she your girlfriend
She's for community. Stop personalizing community's property. It's embezzlement.

popweezy:
I was arguing with one of my friends this afternoon about being attracted to a 16 yrs old girl. My friend however concluded that being attracted to a 16yrs old girl is a pedophilic act giving the reason that she is not up to 18yrs. Therefore it's very wrong. I almost agreed with him until one question just came through my mind that what exactly is the difference between a 16yrs old girl and 18 yrs old girl.. I couldn't find answer to that. This is because I have seen a 16yrs old girl who is physically and mentally more matured than an 18yrs old girl So, I decided to ask u guys...

Note: I don't support pedophilic acts I just want to make myself clear

Davash222:
Thought you said you're beautiful. Use your self as an example, do you act like someone that have sense
Be sincere to yourself.

Casalinda:
So calling one delusional, makes one a gentleman?? I am sorry I got out of character and drag your parent into this. It is so not my character and I am sorry for that. The abusive comments I get here. It always get to me, I’m human as well. Sorry I talked ill of your parent

Tallesty1:
This man's story will make you cry.


https://mobile.twitter.com/Masiba11Masiba/status/1225702095224897536

FManager:
So women in Nigeria get 50% of their husband's wealth, is that what you're saying, Cause I have never seen or heard such before, heck I don't even know if Nigeria support such system as the Yankees, but if this is true men won't be marrying that much again.

Also marrying a woman is same as asking for problem.

warrenweste:
Does Prenup work in nigeria ?

donstan18:
99% of women are replicas of their mother

donstan18:
Marrying a Virgin lady will always remain the best thing that can happen to any man in marriage.

Glocee:
He knows what he wanted and also went for it.

Riele:
And what does this have to do with the moniker you quoted ?

Do you know her outside nairaland ?

Riele:
It's a fact ??

You know that how ?

Riele:
Out of Context .

Petyprincess:
Yeah i saw it nd i wasn't dissapointed!! typical Nigerian mentality is to always save your marriage or sister's marriage no matter the cost!! That's why married men are misbehaving in marriage because they know society favours them!! God knows i can't marry a Nigerian guy even if he is a good husband his family will be the problem!!

bamasite2:
All you need is here:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9B9VVOJuYl0

bamasite2:
True!

A one party state is synonymous to dictatorship in the guise of democracy. There will be zero checks and balances.....only internal wranglings like Amaechi vrs Magnus, Oshiomole vrs Obaseki!

Las las, all of them na scam......politicians Na scam, the country Na scam too......

If you wan run go Canada, my signature shows you a new and easy way

Andotee:
Apologies for the long post.

This issue started about 8 months ago. I met a girl at a friend’s party then I made a move towards her. During this period I did, I made sure I confirmed her relationship status which she convinced me she was single.

One thing led to another we started chatting daily, exchanging pictures and the usual drill.

I got to know this same girl and my guy are dating (meanwhile she is still telling me she is single).

I realized this guy has fallen deeply with a slut so as to protect a friend and respect the Bro code I informed him about everything that has been happening between us. I made sure he sees all the conversations I had with her just to prove to him that I got his back and will never betray him.

I advised him not breakup with her. He should just have it at the back of his mind that she isn’t the kind of girl he can date. If she can do that between two friends, what will she do with other guys?

After telling him all these, he went on and told the girl everything. As expected, the girl denied everything and being the idiot that he is, he continued with her. The thing now is she went on to tell our mutual friends that I tried coming between her and her boyfriend. (I am not bothered though)

The question now is, should I have ignored the bro code and have sex with his girlfriend?

Exmilitant:
As I was stepping out of my compound to get bread for breakfast this morning, I saw two girls, stark naked running towards me. Behind them were a group of young men and women with sticks, stones and machetes hotly pursuing these girls.

The force with which these girls grabbed me begging me to save them eh, where it not for the gate i would have somersaulted and crashed on the ground. The crowd on seeing me mellowed, and started chorusing 'oga those girls na lesbians'. I tactfully dismissed the mob and promised to handle the issue.

I am with them in a pharmacy getting their wounds treated. There is a nagging question I want answers to as I watch these beautiful harmless girls:

Why are Africans vehemently opposed towards these kind of people and LGBTQ people in general? Is religion or culture the reason? What is wrong in loving a person of the same sex? Is it the greatest of evil? Is evil categorized? I need answers to these questions in order to know what decision to make on these girls...

Kennedyiheme:
Its simple a man that cheats on his wife or gf does it just for pleasure, men don't cheat with their hearts or for love, men are only investing in sex, but for women, unless shes a sex worker, women cheat because they are no longer in love with thier spouse, they cheat with their hearts...

A cheating wife can kill her husband... i watch forensic files and 2 out of 3 times a wife kills her husband is because of extramarital affairs...

Thats why the first time you catch your wife or gf cheating , break up immediately dont do any forgiveness as she'll see you as a weak man...

I pity men that forgives cheating spouses.. if you're not redpill and all for marriage ritual, take this advice

uckyra:
i have notice, when u bring me a girl of 21 n a boy of 21,i mean the same age,u Will thé girl already have direction than the boy.

Gina2019:
Often time, we hear there's nothing a girl can offer in a relationship aside sex. I offer my boyfriend much more than sex. So, that talk is so lame to me.

Here I am asking you guys, what can a lady benefit from dating you aside sex?

SultanOfPuna:
Whenever I give this girl amazing leg-shaking MouthAction, immediatetly she cums She grabs my head up and push me off.. and recoil in one position resting, she does not want me to touch or even talk to her. It takes her 5 mins to get back to her senses then we try to have sex
The issue is whenever I insert my dick she starts to groan about pain so I gently put it in while she gasping telling me it's painful.
My girth is about 5 inch I guess
Length is about average size,no complain from previous sex encounters.
She says she enjoys it but at the same time she acts as if it's painful.. like WTF
To make it worse, When She starts to enjoy the sex to the point that she climax again She will just push me off again and say "no more"

Ladies, please can you explain the reason behind this behavior??

Davash222:
There's nothing special about Nigerian virgins again. They always feel the world revolves around their nonsense virginity.

Dating a Nigerian virgin is one of the hardest job in the world! True












All the same, the safest way to remain sane in any marriage is to marry a virgin.