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FamilyRe: Go And Do A Paternity Test On You Children, Especially Your First Child by gbami(op): 9:27am On Jan 06, 2020
DonJayrome:
Eyah sorry, that didn't touch me lol. Go and also tell all your sisters husbands and your uncles to go for DNA as your sisters too may have taken your mums trait. Now that you know women are like that, why not start your advice from the ladies around you. They say charity starts from home. Abi are the females in your family not included in the majority of females you are referring to? Rubbish mumu post from a little fish brain.
...Go and masturbate a sleep Bro...You really need it...I can send you 200naira recharge to surf for porn videos... Idiot
Broke idiot like you... I'm 100% sure you are using free data of N100 to say rubbish...
FamilyRe: Go And Do A Paternity Test On You Children, Especially Your First Child by gbami(op): 9:29pm On Jan 05, 2020
czarina:
You actually sound bitter yourself, I don't know the details but you can heal.



Yeah true, we've all been programmed to look forward to marriage but I wouldn't call it a "deception".

Everyone who's not deluded knows a partnership whether professional or romantic/marital is a lot of work, we only chose to focus on "the happily ever after".


The result when reality hits? Disappointments.

I don't know what happened in your case but feel better.
...Bitch read between the line... idiot...I never said marriage is deception...lying about the father of a child is deception...
Bitter... Having a blast while I'm reading the comments...Bitch get off my small dick grin stop following me like hungry hoe...Carry your frustrated cheating sef to stress my life...
FamilyRe: Go And Do A Paternity Test On You Children, Especially Your First Child by gbami(op): 9:14pm On Jan 05, 2020
Winneygirl:
All these internet warriors claiming that most women are unfaithful...95% women bla bla bla
Yet every Saturday, weddings, weddings, weddings.
Are the unfaithful women busy marrying themselves?
.
If you doubt the paternity of your child, it is up to you. Don't be unfortunate thinking that everyone is unfortunate like you.
It has been programmed in our DNA that you most marry...You become the odd one among all if you refuse to get marry...That's why almost everyone is following the band wagon...
In develop countries...One out of every two marriages ends in divorce but it doesn't stop them from getting married...If I tell you that you you have 50% Chance of dying when you jump the stairs...will you jump?..I don't think so...

Love is a strong feelings ..but people shouldn't be deceived into it...Tell the truth and let them decide their poisons...
Thanks...
"Internet Warrior".. Sounding like a bitter feminist...
FamilyRe: Go And Do A Paternity Test On You Children, Especially Your First Child by gbami(op): 7:29pm On Jan 05, 2020
125diCalcitriol:
Give us d real gist behind this post.
Am about doing a peternity test on my child... That's the real gist
FamilyGo And Do A Paternity Test On You Children, Especially Your First Child by gbami(op): 7:20pm On Jan 05, 2020
The average Nigerian girl has 3-4 boyfriends at the same time....

She sleeps with all of them at different occasions. You are probably training another man's child. Do you know why? Let me explain..

She gets pregnant for one of you? She may not know who impregnated her or she knows (Thank God)... But Amongst the 4 boyfriends...You are the most decent, maybe smartest (intelligent) or even richer than the others. She comes to your house with tears in her eyes, telling you that she is pregnant, and she can't have a child outside wedlock. You the foolish and decent guy feels sorry for her. Rush to see her parents, in 3months times before the pregnancy can be noticed by people. You are married.

Married to a cheater, that's probably carrying another man's child...Guys... don't be fooled... Don't wait till 18yrs or more to know that you are training another man's Child. Do it immediately after birth or in few months after birth, then make a decision to continue or not... Don't be deceived into training another man's child.

Paternity fraud is real. One In three children especially the first child are being trained by non-biological father...

Be wise

Nairaland GeneralRe: Funny But Inspirational Quote I Saw On A Vehicle In Benin City by gbami(m): 12:32pm On Jan 02, 2020
This exact words was told to me by a 70 year old man last year...I have never forgotten those words...Not doing bad financially..But those words are always in my head...
RomanceRe: I Am Tired!!! by gbami(m): 1:49pm On Jan 01, 2020
ABCthings:
You don't have to insult na...
That's the Problem with the world right now... People are scared of saying things how it is... People want to drink their bitter pills with sugary stuff in other not to feel the taste...She is not serious...He should throw her out...worse if she is single mother...
RomanceRe: I Am Tired!!! by gbami(m): 1:30pm On Jan 01, 2020
Preciousgirl:
Can you imagine?
A guy sent me a Christmas wish via text message : "Merry Christmas to you "

And I replied "Merry Christmas darling"

My husband has seen this message and says I must leave his house. Now I think I have reached the limit. I am leaving for good
This bitch is not ready for marriage...Is it not same girl that sent photos to her male friends while she is married...
I would have divorced you a long time ago...You have all the signs of a potential cheat if not a cheat already...
You can't help yourself from seeking attention from other men while you are married....
You feel the sun should rise and set on your sorry ass...Fool
RomanceRe: Re: Women Searching For Husbands; My Story by gbami(m): 10:35am On Jan 01, 2020
biddostandard:
what is this one saying are you mentally sick?
...Not at all...
But point made...Keep blaming Juju and others for being a loser...
RomanceRe: Re: Women Searching For Husbands; My Story by gbami(m): 9:34am On Jan 01, 2020
biddostandard:
you re part of people who think juju no dey,spirit husband is real but hope has probably turn her husband to be down at her 20s,na karma
That's why you will remain stagnant or go backward in life...
Keep blaming Juju or people for your failures in life....
Don't take responsibility for your actions this year...next year you will be screaming ..." This is my year of break throughs..
RomanceRe: Re: Women Searching For Husbands; My Story by gbami(m):
username1111:
How was I to know there was something like spirit husband. Trust me you don't dare tell people your boyfriend left you at that period and you won't be scolded for having a boyfriend
if my mum was alive she would have asked since we had a proposed age
I've been having these unnecessary break ups since I started dating 21 precisely
Dear..There is nothing like spirit husband...Your time has not come yet, or is around the corner...
Let me ask...Is the spirit husband racist? Why is it that it is only African Ladies that the spirit husband "marries"
Him no like white American, European or Asian ladies? even black American girls have no spirit husband... Dear .. Attitude is everything...if have a bad one..change it...and see how far you will go...I promise.. before this year runs out.. everything will be in their rightful place
Christianity EtcRe: David Oyedepo To Nigerians: 2020 Is A Year Of Breaking Limits by gbami(m): 7:34am On Jan 01, 2020
Last Year was the same thing, next year he will say the same...When you keep doing the same thing, then expecting different result.. That's the definition of insanity...

RomanceRe: Reasons Why Guys Hardly Forgive Cheating Girlfriend Caught by gbami(m): 6:45pm On Dec 31, 2019
freedomest:
Girls forgive guys more than the way guys forgive girls in terms of cheating. God wants us to forgive constantly, and it is good. Now, even if guys forgive, they hardly continue with a relationship were the lady cheated, and even if they continue, they may never focus it towards marriage.

See reasons below why a guy may/will hardly take back a lady that cheated.

(1) A guy got a lady after serious hard-to-get and long wooing, then another guy slept with her easily without sweat. Painful to take.

(2) The remembrance of the escapades and the moaning during the cheating is a huge turn off. Painful to take.

(3) The fact that another guy will be bragging that he slept with a guy's girlfriend is painful to take.

(4) The fear of a repetition of same cheating...Painful to take.

(5) The fear that a girl that cheated may have developed emotions with the guy she cheated with.. Painful to take.

(6) Unnecessary insecurities...
My father's advice...Drop a cheating girlfriend or wife...no matter the condition, because ladies don't open legs for men they don't have emotional attachments to...Only Prostitute do that( don't bring a prostitute in the name of love...I will curse you)...You die slowly immediately you stay with a cheating girlfriend or wife...
And Don't marry an Edo girl... Their head dey shake..
AutosThe Best Option... by gbami(op): 3:37pm On Dec 31, 2019
Planning on getting a car this Jan...
Among these cars... Toyota Corolla, Honda Accord or Nissan Altima all 2005-2008 model which one should I go for...1.2million...
Thanks
RomanceRe: I Married With 40k 3 Years Ago And Now I Earn Over A Million. by gbami(m): 10:38am On Dec 31, 2019
TerryMcGinis:
bros abeg I fit talk to you?
about what Bro?
RomanceRe: I Married With 40k 3 Years Ago And Now I Earn Over A Million. by gbami(m): 9:55am On Dec 31, 2019
michlins:
no go hustle. Make as much money as you can as a man. Money stops nonsense oh. For instance, you don't want a situation you go like touch body and your wife will be complaining she's too tired from providing for the family. She would tell you to use that same strength you want waste on her to go make money and take care of her like other men. You will cry come nairaland and we will just use your situation catch cruise
My Bro... I go feed you and your family very well...What earn in a month will feed your family for 6months...
Let go back to that bitch....
Girls like her will always go for the highest bidder..I love u, I love u..wait until you go broke or pretend to be broke...then you'll see their true colours...Get stroke and see her banging your Dr...She has a broke bitch mentality... Marriage is their poverty alleviation program...Her parents can barely feed her..so..any rich guys is a potential financial problem solver
RomanceRe: I Married With 40k 3 Years Ago And Now I Earn Over A Million. by gbami(m): 9:48am On Dec 31, 2019
michlins:
no go hustle. Make as much money as you can as a man. Money stops nonsense oh. For instance, you don't want a situation you go like touch body and your wife will be complaining she's too tired from providing for the family. She would tell you to use that same strength you want waste on her to go make money and take care of her like other men. You will cry come nairaland and we will just use your situation catch cruise
RomanceRe: I Married With 40k 3 Years Ago And Now I Earn Over A Million. by gbami(m): 8:47am On Dec 31, 2019
Thegeneralqueen:
Ladies listen well and listen carefully don't settle for less go for the rich guys all these broke guys opening threads daily saying they can run a family for 30k are all fustrated even their sister's can't marry a man that earns 30k not to talk off friends.......They're all out here looking for who to trap they should go and marry their family members with 30k not us
.. Guys...This lady is an example of the ladies you should run away from....Wetin dey their head nah money...You will find someone that will bring the money, but with an anger issue...then you will end up being a punching bag..Is money important? Yes...But that should not be the first thing you look for in a man...
RomanceRe: Who Is A Broke Guy? by gbami(m): 7:46am On Dec 31, 2019
LilMissFavvy:
A broke guy is an unsuccessful fellow. He is a pretentious morapuckkkerr who is only humble because of his poverty, if things get better for him, watch him turn to a scum which men are. I am not not saying one should not date him, just date him at your own risks.
Another Bitter bitch...Who thinks the sun should rise and set on her sorry ass because she has vagina... Smelling pussy.... If you can take care of yourself why do u need a guy to give you cash.... Broke bitches...Flee from them... They are liabilities, they can easily Bleep for cash... idiots..
RomanceRe: I Dey Find Husband by gbami(m): 7:12pm On Dec 30, 2019
Searchingforbae:
fortunately for me i am not in your words "wougly". tongue
.. Proof it...
RomanceFinancial Burdens... by gbami(op): 7:04pm On Dec 30, 2019
Women are smarter than us...is just that they get overwhelmed by emotions most times...
Most women won't ask you for money...No way...But, they will gradually sneak in their financial problems into discussion and watch men foolishly oblige to help them.....
Men...We should be smart... Whenever they want to discuss their financial problems..Ask Them...How do you intend on solving it? Whatever there answers are...Just Respond ...God will provide... Don't go carrying loads that you will end up regretting...
Be smart... Respond ..Ok...and Move on..
Don't ever say ..I will do something about it...Hell no! You don enter one chance be that...
RomanceRe: I Dey Find Husband by gbami(m): 3:28pm On Dec 30, 2019
We need pictures... Especially without makeup...
No guy wants wougly girl grin grin grin
RomanceRe: Stay Away From A Female Cheat( Girlfriend Or Wife) by gbami(op): 10:22am On Dec 30, 2019
abdeiz:
Point made but Rape is not a mistake.
. Nobody wakes up and choose to get raped...
Consensual Sex is a choice...
RomanceStay Away From A Female Cheat( Girlfriend Or Wife) by gbami(op): 9:07am On Dec 30, 2019
By all means..Stay away from a female cheat...
Reasons...
1.She will cheat again ....How? She will be more careful with the next act.. That's when you begin to hear..."I want to go and visit my old friend that just gave birth in another state...I will stay for a 2 days.."
2. People seldom change...A Leopard is a Leopard. Period!
3. Ladies don't open their legs to a person that they don't have emotional attachment to...Only prostitute does that( unless you like oloshos).
4. She might poison you in other to give way for her lover...
Don't believe this saying..." It was a mistake"..
Sex is never a mistake...Rape is a mistake

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