dotedote:


Sometimes tests say yes but the reality says opposite.

The reality is controlled by God. The reason I focused on those who are religious.

NairaMaster1:


Test is not a guarantee. Getting her pregnant is the sure bet. Op should intelligent enough to consider statistics.

My response is for religious people who know the God they serve and not for everyone. If she gets pregnant and loses it couple of weeks after marriage, what is the difference?

Bliss52:

Go and get pressure pot... It's cheaper to use and cooks faster
A funny hack people don't use,
If you want fresh pounded yam.....
Cut your yam in small cubes
Cook your yam in a pressure pot to the best softness
Drain the water
Put it in a blender or food processor and blend
Take it out and allow to be cold for few minutes
Serve with your favorite soup
.

It depends ooo. My pressure cooker takes 35minutes for beans and I cook mine almost twice cos I love melted beans.

ok ooo

Worriedman40:
sorry just seeing this now,I know it's very late...I desperately still do,please don't ignore,I just wasn't coming on nairaland...please reply.

Read this thread <https://www.nairaland.com/3173733/how-nuturally-cured-premature-expulsion/101#127325512> and follow up with the author if you do not know how to make the mix. I think he now does and distributes monthly.

This government has come to finish Nigerians. The financial recklessness is very alarming and irritating at the same time.

It is for each individual to decide what responsibility he chooses to shoulder outside of his own family of procreation.

One thing that comes to mind is that Shade Defoe her many years of experience is ignorant. Why resign a job without an offer letter stating the salary and benefits you get?

Apparently, she was more concerned about the title and relied too much on verbal promises.

The learning point here is kearn to have a signed contract and read through every line to be sure it is well understood before agreeing to it.

Moyinoluwa35:
Please is it a crime we in nigeria enjoy life before we all die? Why is everybody comfortable with this suffering going on in this country? Nobody is talking everyone have move on

Many have been confirmed to think the suffering is soft life.

casualobserver:


Learn to read before you respond.

These are my passports, current and expired. I know japa engineers and professionals cleaning poop. If that is dignity good luck to you. Just send your forex home!

Oga, no need for unnecessary noise. Na you need read to understand.

ablejesus26:


Did I lie?
Is there no money in this land?
Well my boy wants to go so why deny him that which his heart craves for?

Why discourage those who want to go if you wouldn't discourage your son?

Righthussle:
How to stop Japa syndrome

1. Make the economy better

2. Make the process of Japa unimaginably difficult

I know our president will be considering number 2.

With the continuous depreciation of the Naira, passport taking forever to process etc, isn't it difficult already? Nonetheless, people will still move because they know at last they bear the brunt of this irresponsible government.

casualobserver:


I am not defending anything. Learn to stay on topic. Anyone who is familiar with my posts knows I am not an advocate of japaing. I think it will harm those who leave in the long run. I am simply making a statement of fact. Without japa Naira would be N3000 to $1….or more!

Those who want to go and clean poo of old women should go. They are doing us that choose to remain a service because they send Naira home which helps the Naira. For the last 4 years diaspora remittances is the largest source of forex inflow into Nigeria.

There are no jobs for them in Nigeria anyway.

You are either ignorant or talking from a place of pain. Of the people you know abroad, how many are cleaning poop?

That said, there's dignity in labor. If they clean poop and enjoy a better standard of living then, let them be.

ablejesus26:


Goodluck but to tell You the truth, forget se Country hard,there's money in this Land o.

My younger sis is a medical doctor in Finland plus she has people in their govt,she don distrub me tire but I don't just see how I go come carry my whole family come go another man land. Once my son is through with sec school,I will send him to Finland to stay with my sis.

Nigeria under Apc looks very hopeless.

May the strongest survive.

The usual double standards of the average Nigerian. Why send your son to Finland and tell people there is money in the land?

With the ongoing recklessness of government borrowing to fund their lifestyle, do they think Nigerians intend being their slaves? Who pays back the borrowing through increase taxes and yet provides every basic amenities for him/herself?

FG too like to dey play.

guobe:

So true but they may feel those tests can be manipulated .Just my thought.

I don't think so though. Use standard hospitals/labs.

Have a discussion on this with your wife. Once you are not under unnecessary pressure to perform, you will get there.

My advice is for those who are religious, don't play God. Conduct every necessary tests if that will calm down.

money121:
Students going about looking for food from tent to tent during Convocation reminds me of our days.. Some traditions can't change.

On this table gidigba

It is convocation week in OAU. Na normal thing abeg. Me sef for my convocation that year, we serve food for people wey I no know as me gather chop people own before.

Kobojunkie:
Just imagine the stewpidity of the average 19-year-old Nigerian when his mates elsewhere are busy putting a lot of that energy instead towards developing themselves and their futures.

Unfortunately, the society too did not teach him how he should live his life. Most of the mentors around are not positive mentors in the real sense of it. I wouldn't be surprised he is into some form of vices.

Whatisurproblem:
what 19years old need sex performance for? From 17 to 30, that was the pick of sexual active. If you need to induce it at that age, then you are impotent or silk, children of nowadays are just useless. Simple

Because he is trying to over hype himself. Irrespective of age, there is no need for enhancers. At the best, try modify your life style to help ensure appropriate blood flow, learn the art of sex from fellow men who do not use enhancers, and read books to improve your activities in the other room.

If we tell them they don't give award over sexual performance, they say we are old school. Hopefully, this is an eye opener.

It is a tough call. The fact that she is trying to get square is one I can't get over as it rings volume in my head.
I would suggest a sincere discussion between you both to decide if the marriage can be worked on or otherwise.

I am trying to understand what the fuss is about. She's in Kenya and wants to attend a wedding and she is informing you to seek your consent.
Why do you think she must have been invited months ago? Why do you think she deserves a special invitation? What exactly is your concern?
There's the possibility that it was mentioned to her and she never thought of attending however, seeing she is around now, she decided to attend. Please, rather than acting edgy, kindly have a discussion on this so that you can get every necessary information you need. If you allow online perfect men get in your head, they will only mislead you as they have no interest in the success or otherwise of your marriage. Some will only rant about what they wish they could do and dare not in their homes because it is their fantasy.

When are they planning to complete the Lagos - Badagry road that has been in construction for over 14years?
Can they give us details of each of the interchange because I thought it was plan of the above stated road.

JungleboyT:
Hi Everyone. I need an honest feedback on this. I intend going for a PhD Economics in the US with a First class degree in Economics, GREQ 170, GREV 163, AWA 3.5 and two years experience as a researcher in a consulting firm . I'm considering US schools within the 40-100 ranking. Would you advise I proceed with my PhD application or I opt for a terminal Masters program. And can you recommend schools I may add to my bucket list?

Note: The funding opportunities for PhD program is my driving force.

You can pursue the PhD however, it might be a little challenging but you can use open coursework to brush/improve your mathematical knowledge (Calculus 1 and 2, Ordinary Differential Equation, and Numerical Methods). Cos Economics Grad programs are heavy on abstract math.

BigIyanga:

Your deficit is too to much to be covered by a Naija lawfirm that you have been working for since 2021?

Why would a company spend so much $$ on a new hire like you?

Would you spend such an amount on a new employee if you were the CEO of the company?

I think his/her earnings could also add to it. Imagine a company paying over 200% a staff total's compensation as tuition.

The only time I flew Lagos - Akure (2009), we were only 7 on board. It was funny because 4 of us were together. That day, the flight that was scheduled for 7am was rescheduled till 11am. It was a 51 seater plane though.
I sometimes believe the cost is not the only issue. It is the fact that we have not diversified our economy enough and improve our tourism to the point that there are business deals/presentations/trainings etc at various states as that will improve traveling.

Cloggym:


Not about feelings bro. I’m at age of settling down. So it’s not bad to want to have a serious relationship that will lead to marriage. I had to check her phone to know if it’s worth the commitment.

Why not ask her and watch her body language while you listen to her response? Don't assume, you could be right or wrong.

omooba969:


👍

Hope you're good?

I am ooo, thanks for asking. Hope you are good too.

omooba969:


Is that mature cheddar by the spring onions?

No sir, they are shredded carrots.

Dinner:

Tried making Miso Ramen for the first time. It was very tasty although a little salty (guess I used too much Miso paste). Glad everyone loved it.

Breafast:

Moimoi and Ogi.

Dinner from last night:

Jollof rice.