₦airaland Forum

Tightpussy2024:
Shebi there was a story on fp some days back of a pregnant girl looking for a man to love her .men should demonstrate their loving ability by loving her na.

They should pick all the evening newspapers,single mothers and the rest and love them the way they are,then we will talk

In other words, relationship is transactional.

To be fair though, judging from history, it has always been so. It is full glare now.

Best of luck to both parties. 🤝🏿

IkeIgboNiile:
Gerrard59
So what kind of goods would you start with if you had a similar amount of money? And in which region in Nigeria would you sell them?


There's need for more research on this but from the top of my head, Men's clothing,phone accessories and motor spare parts are goods that are lucrative and needed in all parts of Nigeria.

Thanks for your reply. The phone accessories aspect is good. My issue is to know the cost it would be require to fill 20ft container directly from China. 20m won't go anywhere for motor spare parts. Or am I wrong?

The person I communicate with (has a thriving phone accessories business in Nigeria) doesn't come across as a serious person to me. I wonder how people intend to make money when they are literally unserious in what they do. How the business even thrives boggles me

nedekid:
Yeah, 2014 before the apc miscreants came in 20m was $133,000.
When Tinubu came in after buhari 2 years ago, 20m was $43,000.
Today just after 2 years of this desaster 2m is just a little over $12,000!
From $133,000 to $12,000 in 10 years of apc, buhari and especially Tinubu and Nigerians are not outraged. Where in the world will this happen and the same people are seeking re- election and still having folks cheering them? How can anyone even support this based on eg ethnic cards?

APC ruined Nigeria. It's why the so-called coalition does not move me. Ninety percent of its members campaigned and voted for Buhari in 2015, inclusive of Tinubu. So far, Tinubu's policies, aside his crude bigotry and poor handling of the Fulani herdsmen issue, are good. So I rather have him continue to 2031.

None of the clowns in the so-called ADC would be any better. In fact, they would be WORSE!

sonofsteven:
Lies

Importation of what and who go dey sell am?

20m is not up to 100,000rmb now

You will use almost 3m to come here based on flight ticket, residents permit is 22,000rmb, house rent etc... problem is no job for citizens not to talk of foreigners, bigger problem is who will you give goods to and you get your money back,I mean cost price back not even with profit...

You know how much people in Nigeria are owing me, I have stopped giving anyone goods

Let him start a business, get his wife into it, then when business is striving, he can come to china and be sending goods directly to his shop, anything outside this, chances of regret is high

People in Nigeria are not to be trusted

I sort agree that 20m is quite small to commence importation directly from China. But nwanne, why are your Nigerian customers owing you? Is it because of poor sales or criminality, aka lying upon arrival of goods? Fluctuating currency values?

Lastly, I'm curious, what kind of goods do you deal on?

pocohantas:
Nobody loves anybody for just being human. Not men, not women. The fact that women want MOSTLY financial provision and men want other qualities, doesn't make men innocent.

Fair deal then. Best of luck to both parties.

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highchief1:
emmm u made sense.where u live now I have tarred road,I have steady light.Why I hate naija na say if u have to enjoy in Nigeria,u need a lot of money .but abroad if u no get money u still get life.

I think the kind of "enjoyment" here matters, the level of contentment by the said individual. As for infrastructure, replicating a similar infrastructure in Nigeria is more expensive as you are doing what the government ought to have done. But how would someone enjoy abroad without money? Enjoyment is tied to having money o

My own issue is safety. I live a very boring life.

IkeIgboNiile:
Gerrard59
Depending on the type of goods, is that enough to fill half of 20 ft container?
I don't know about 20 ft container but i know it'll go a long way in terms of buying goods and starting the importation. For me, it's better than spending all that money,only to start doing black jobs overseas.

So what kind of goods would you start with if you had a similar amount of money? And in which region in Nigeria would you sell them?

LordAdam16:
I'll give you one statistic.
China's current shipbuilding capacity is 232 times greater than the US according to a US Navy report.

Let me repeat that.
232x. For the numbers guys, that is 23200% higher.

BYD just christened a factory city that is bigger than San Francisco.
https://www.reddit.com/r/Amazing/comments/1kac2pd/byds_new_factory_in_zhengzhou_will_cover_50/

See this sh*t that the West is railing about

-Lord

The bad belle in the link above simply because of the size is staggering! They even suggested using nukes to level everything if need be. Jealousy no good o! It's beginning to look like witchcraft.

IkeIgboNiile:
All the countries mentioned above are great but for me, i would prefer to move to china and probably start an importation business with your capital.

Depending on the type of goods, is that enough to fill half of 20 ft container?

zinaunreal:
Person wan relocate to better em life you dey mention south africa. Guy slide one side abeg

South Africa offers one an opportunity for a good life in Africa. Aside from Nigeria, it's the best country with lots of economic opportunities in sub-Saharan Africa. Also, for educational reasons, it has really good schools.

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I see Austria, Switzerland and Finland being recommended. These our comedians sef 🤣🤣

As they say, women are in business while men in love. Are women truly capable of loving men for who they are as people, not what they've?

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That said, her tone in some of her responses really showed she meant what she uttered. It's her prerogative anyway.

Allthingswork:
All because those northern elite hate who they cannot lord over. Who they cannot control and intimidate every other week. Tinubu isn't thier age mate and they are feeling threatened by his moves. Serves then right! Only two years in and they want him to perform magic , when their lord Buhari has ruined this country and left it for Tinubu to begin repairs.

Why do people deny the truth most times? We are watching

Well, the same Tinubu campaigned and supported Buhari in 2015. They are his people.

Do Northern Nigerian elites really want Tinubu to lose the 2027 elections?

I'm really finding this hard to believe.

You supported the man who brought the country to near bankruptcy.

Why?

emmaodet:
Na WA oooo.
So the US is dictating with strong voice to Iran what they can do or not?
So Iran is not a sovereign state to determine what is best for her again?
I don't want my kids to live in a world controlled by these tyrants.
Without the eastern block to balance power, we will get to that point were they will threaten African leaders to enshrine gay and lesbian laws into our constitution without which we won't have access to loans, placed on sanctions, inability to buy military wares to fight the reeks they would be sponsoring for regime change in other for the rebels to enact the gay law and so many more.
Presidents who knows these laws are not right would turn around to look for help or support from bigger countries like china for weapons or support but there won't be none.
It will be real hell on earth.
Just imagine a world that has been subdued by the west and they enforce all countries to vaccinate their citizens with a new disease they just pushed out into the society, a vaccine that would be dangerous for humans and none would be able to talk because those who need to check mate their excesses have all been subdued.
It is the world they want to create and yearning for.
Highly satanic people

It happened to Uganda and Ghana. The World Bank and IMF respectively withheld loans to both countries until their anti-gay laws are cancelled. A quick search says that the former president didn't sign it. In return, the loan was lent by the IMF to Ghana. For Uganda, the World Bank resumed funding after being re-assured that there will be mitigation measures in the anti-gay law.

Up till today, I never read where China mandated any African country to give up their religion to become atheist or learn Chinese or Muslims in African countries to eat pork. But hey, China bad bad bad 🙄

emmaodet:
Russia had always wanted to be recorgnised as europeans and superior whites liek US/British/French/Germans but somehow, they are been giventhe cold shoulder of been inferior whites. It is what has made Putin/Russia to be somehow the Rebellious whites to the other whites.
The romance with china, iran and co is not a comfortable one for them, they just have to do it out of survive.
I have my reservation for them against the Brics alliance.

The thing that has always surprised me is how Russians are disregarded by Western Europeans. They treat Chileans (obviously white people) better than Russia. Could it be as a result of the history between Russia and the West?

TrackerSK:
Enugu state, mostly Nsukka has become notorious in ritual killings now

Such an environment can never experience prosperity or progress. Once such a mentality is prevalent, that society is doomed for eternity.

Jamsam:
When they tell them to stop hookups they won't listen, just imagine minus one

Hookups happen everywhere. It's only in diabolical countries that dismember women where people believe rituals can make them rich.

kkinternet:
These ladies will never learn
You can't just go to a hotel with someone you just met . Rip 🕊 to the dead

Just as it's scary as a man to carry along any woman he just met to a hotel. But does this justify death?

A man carrying a woman happens in almost every part of the world, but why is ours so diabolical and wicked?

A terrible, disgusting and diabolical mentality that's pervasive across the country. We always yap about attracting tourists as a country. There's no way this would happen when young women are being slaughtered and their bodies dismembered simply because they accompanied male companions.

Rituals cannot make anyone rich, else Nigeria will be brimming with strong middle class citizens.

GloriousGbola:
As always it depends on the circles you move in

Once upon a time the bulk of this forum was broadians, aje butters and workers in good companies.
Then these views were outliers. Today the bulk of the users are POOR Nigerians whose brains have been permanently fked into transactional, zero sum mentality.
In a relationship where the focus of each party is how to maximise the chopping while minimizing investment, this is what will happen.
Fortunately it is not YOUR reality.

Though the whole your money our money my money my money is hard coded into the dna of most Nigerian women. I say most because I still know women who earn and spend on their men.

I don't have any experience at all, which is why I take most of these things at face value. But tales upon tales about the same issue makes me feel it's entrenched.
For instance, the aspect of abroad men not marrying home based women, I don't subscribe to that because almost if not everyone I know married a home based woman. Another one is men not marrying whereas I get wedding invitations, see pictures and anniversaries of friends/acquaintances on my feed daily.

So for this women not spending their money, I've to be fully involved to know how true
/rampant it's. Although, from my little experience then as an undergrad, the girls just want guys who continuously spend on them. So now that they earn their money, it begs the question, what do they spend it on?

To be fair though, I'm not very good at spending my money on other people, especially when the other party isn't grateful. I've been accused several times of being stingy, whereas I consider myself to be frugal. So that's my fault as well.

BafanaBafana:
You don't know what you are saying. Go and research.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Coolidge_effect

GanagiBitrus is largely correct. Culture and religion tames man from engaging in rampant sex as male animals. Without which, most men would have been extremely wild.

Ilekokonit:
Even if the man sets out to be loyal, he WILL be forced to become disloyal once his woman starts denying him sex and using sex as a weapon to settle scores.

Which seems to be rampant these days judging from the backlash Veekee James got when she advised fellow ladies to allow men put the head inside. It seems women don't like sex or frequent sex, especially after childbirth. At the same time, they are against the man going outside to satisfy himself. A Catch-22 situation.

Yes, sex isn't everything in a marriage, but for healthy male folks, it's vital for proper psychological and mental wellbeing.

Earrings are fairly fashionable and ubiquitous. You don see when man wear nose-ring?

vickydevoka:
But sometimes it’s their decisions and not the man. I want 1 child but she insisted on three. So how is that my business if I can’t stop her

Vasectomy

Think about it, whether 1 or 3, you will be saddled with the responsibility of taking care of them till when they become adults.

franchasng:
This question should be directed to the ladies only and maybe boys between age 17 to 23yrs.

As far as I know, the only things that scare guys in life are:

1.) Fear of ending up financially poor

2.) Fear of dying young or falling sick and becoming physically incapacitated or handicapped.

Because majority of men don't believe in true love, men believe that women love men based on the man's financial/economic/social status, so to most men, once they are doing well financially and also healthy, they will never lack women to be with, it doesn't matter if the women are there for their money or not cos men already have a predetermined mindset or belief that women's love or affection for a man depends hugely on the man's financial muscle.

When it comes to women issues, the only thing that worries young average guys is how to get a girlfriend for the purpose of curing conji with minimal spending or zero spending not necessarily about love, so when an average young man finds an attractive girl that gives him free access to sex without spending,
that means he has found love, this is how boys think, don't get it twisted lolz

Dede gets it.

Nothing else to add.

The responsibility aspect - the cost and time involved, especially when there is no clear monetary benefit. I find it hard to be responsible someone/something who isn't related to me unless I'm paid to do so.

He's right.

Men stand the most to lose in LDR because most times, they have to show workings regardless of the distance. In return, what do they get in return? Nada. Zilch. Nothing.

Talkisneeded:
Not lies bro,but the generalization is just bad..
The average Nigerian girl wants thier needs sorted before you get something decevt for yourself…
They’d be like “you don’t have 20k to give me,but you just changed your phone.””

Lol.

Then, I would have issues with many of our women. No problem if that is how things would work out. Recently, my friends told me the same thing, and I've no problem with that.

tensazangetsu20:
I just hope it’s all lies cause if it’s really how they are describing online then I genuinely pity Nigerian men living in Nigeria

They caused it. They should live with it.

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madridguy:
Congratulations to her. I still don't know why the guy is asking her questions to know where she see money buy the truck as if him lost his money.

It's perfectly okay to question how people made their money. Why do Nigerians have anything against such?