₦airaland Forum

It's a ridiculous belief that there are no women who make good money in Nigeria. There are many economic opportunities these days for women to generate a very good financial living unlike in say the 2000s or '80s.

That said, she didn't answer the question properly as she dodged or avoided the other questions. She was asked if it's only via selling of hairs, she said there are other sources. Okay, what are those other sources? She refuses to answer.

The other info is that her husband is rich. But that doesn't negate the notion that women can make good money by themselves.

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Those who say the car is ugly should make money. That was how years ago, I viewed the G-Wagon to be ugly as well. But I don't have the same view today.

tensazangetsu20:
Are Nigerian girls this bad or you guys are just writing these things online? Which girl will get angry cause her boyfriend upgraded himself? Isnt that witchcraft?

Bros,

The thing tire person o. If no be this one, na the one of the man being the sole spender while the woman saves her money and spends it on others excluding the man. One wonders, what do these women use their own money for?

I will really need to ask folks on ground questions to know more about the situation because what I read online is frightening.

Moveittothem:
Honestly.
I was avoiding broke girls, only to meet up with a comfortable girl that still bills me, but she would spend her own money on siblings and female friends.
Nigerian girls stinginess to their man is a pandemic.

This is a big problem if it's widespread. So, the man spends his money on her and her family, but she spends hers on herself, friends and family?

Wahala go dey o

mrjojo:
I’m not sure if she’s a doctor, but she’s definitely a top-tier interior designer. She relocated back to Lagos, and her Instagram is @vibabella. I believe she now has a showroom in Victoria Island. I really admire her work—her interiors are exquisite and very classy.

Impressive from her, but IG page does not exist. A mix up in the spelling?

On the basis of biology, he's largely correct. However, religious doctrines, cultural norms and economics deter some men from exercising their biological rights. Personal discipline also comes to play.

To truly know if a man wouldn't have sexual intercourse with a woman other than his main woman, let him have money.

Lastly, Muslim men are entitled to four wives. Do we exclude them from other men or are they "not "
men enough"?

Impressive. I've been following the company way before its recognition by the FT. They played the long game. The CEO or one of the top guns has a PhD from Imperial College London.

OkCornel:
Ingots are one of Nigeria’s major non oil exports.

Mostly dominated by Indians.

aribisala0:
In the short term at the individual level poverty is a concern.
30 years ago the GDP per capita in China was $600 today it is $13000 and China is very strong. Because of population
So there is nothing like too many people just a lack of knowledge how to deploy them. People are always an asset and knowledge can change their story in a short time
Poverty is a good thing because it can drive innovation and improve the lives of the next generation.
Population is what will determine the strong countries in 100 years
At the survival of the level species individual comfort is irrelevant . We are not here to enjoy just to keep life going

150 years ago there was no car no motorcycle to go from Ibadan to Lagos they had to walk
People rarely lived up to 50 years . If you reached the age of 40 with all your teeth intact you were lucky
Our ancestors made immense sacrifices so we can be here they did their duty to the genetic pool .

Our duty is to make as many babies as possible . It is for the group survival not individual comfort

That is a perspective an individualistic mindset cannot grasp ..The reality that no individual life really matters for itself

There is nothing like too many children . The strong ones will survive the weak will die

This looks like a fair deal, which is true. Hopefully, we get politicians as those in China. True talk sha, those who have plenty of children will inherit and rule the earth.

0neal:
When side chics are clocking 30 y/o and above, they will start looking for one innocent young men who don't understand female nature to gum body with, and sell false purity for a marriage possibility. Reason every man should take the redpill, understand female visceral nature, so one don't become the retirement plan of a serial side chic. Its a bad deal, she gave her prime & best years to be a side chic, probably multiple dating... espercially if the guy was a disciplined young lad and has hit or close to financial stability.Na for church above 30y/o retired side chic full... Rollo Tomassi calls it the "epiphany phase"

May the best party win. As some have said, too much information these days dey make people dey on guard. Nevertheless, men do marry. I see them on Facebook. Should the economy improve, our men will marry, and obviously, they will marry our women. I still maintain the stance that it is our women who will stay off marriage as their incomes improve.

Lame excuses.

Buhari had antecedents dating to 1984. Are MI's parents dead? Did they not live during the Buhari years as a military dictator?

This one too will chant that he is an educated Nigerian

The area hasn't changed from what I know it to be. It seems Nigerian cities are just the way they're. Nothing admiring or impressive. And this is Ikeja, Lagos. Thus, others would be way worse

Toying with his chances of being financially comfortable. There are many ways this can happen, so when one does any of such to the extreme such that it affects the chances of being financially comfortable, doom is the only result.

Smartcitizen:
Anybody who is against Yoruba hypocrisy in Nigeria is a tribal bigot.

Frank is an IGBO man even Ogy Okpe from Arise News is also an Igbo woman.
The most difficult people in West Africa is found in the south western part of Nigeria.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Frank Edoho is from Eket, Akwa Ibom State.

elasticlala:
Even those that haven’t successfully kept a girlfriend for 2 months will be here saying nonsense. You think marriage these days is an easy task?

He could get married 20 times and divorce 20 times and yet the problem is not with him but the women. Some of you still think wives are easy to find in this generation… Dey play ()

Sorry, but that is not true, especially the 20 women later re-married and are still in their marriages. Men, too, can be at fault.

bigpicture001:
No, he married the second because of her perceived class.. the lady is London bases doctor.. and he was the shining boi of the t. V in naija then... His pay was handsome.... So when the show ended.. funds was not flying in much...
Trust those classy women.. they will dump u

Interesting. So his finances were the problem. I suspected as much, these media people no too dey get money unless they own the organisation they work or hold equity elsewhere. Fame does not necessarily translate into fortune.

At the end of the day, man must hold bar or nothing for you.

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But wait o, is it naira income he wanted to use to keep a relationship with a London based doctor?

Ikpongiton:
For those of you who are blaming and saying that Frank is the problem,may bad and fastidious women never happened to you.Most women like robbers are out to kill and destroy.If a strong man like Samson can fall because of Delilah,who is Frank.

So do you imply only women are at fault for broken marriages? Remember, it takes two to tango.

43Ronin:
You divorce naija woman to marry another naija woman Who dey give these men orientation

First wife is from Cameroon, and women are the same everywhere. The degree varies.

Danelo:
Men like this dey dey very petty and most women won't tolerate a petty man

As someone who is petty, I agree with you. Women have issues with us and most times, we have bad mouth.

Racoon:
I don't know who is worse between Frank Edoho and Yul Edochie. Tufiakwa!

Yul is better as he is still married to his new wife. Should Yul leave her and marry another woman, it becomes his fault. Once it goes beyond two divorces, the main party is at fault. It is everyone who should marry. Some people have no business being married for a long time. Times have changed.

The problem here is Frank, not any of his ex-wives. So far, he did it twice or thrice and still divorced them, especially when the previous wives have moved on; it is entirely his fault. For people like him (a man has to cum), re-arrange your finances, undergo a vasectomy, maintain good exercise regimen and enjoy as many women as you want, but don't offer marriage commitment to any.

This life no too hard.

aribisala0:
African men have no business being married to one woman

Marry at least 3 at any point in time. If one leaves it is not news. Ooni has learnt his lesson

The poverty rate across the continent is freakingly high. One of the causes is too many children and wives. Committing to a woman is expensive let alone women. Many men, just like many human beings, are average. Yes, testosterone has to be satisfied, but keeping side chics has a lower cost line than marriage. The only men who should have many wives should be well-to-do men because even with the many wives, these men still have side chics.

Babamide:
Asking a street sister to set you up already shows you are an unserious person.
The street sister too is just trying to run you street. Look for someone that has time to waste and see what they can cash out from you. Who your hand in marriage help??

That's an understatement. If I type what I've in mind, I will likely get banned.

franchasng:
Men generally don't operate that way. Like me, I don't fancy ladies in my profession during my single days, they turn me off.
So he mustn't date or marry a lawyer. He just wants a reasonable and worthy lady as a life partner, which is not too much to ask for.
Many single ladies are looking for worthy husbands but they are not worthy of the man they desire or seek.
In our present world, all ladies must realize that times have changed, it seems guys of nowadays now want their wife to be to be financially productive and possibly independent too. Like me, I never had that as a criteria when I was single and looking out.

But it seems most guys today want financially productive and independent woman for a life and I wouldn't blame them cos the global economy is no longer smiling

There are ladies who are well educated and industrious. Why doesn't he beam his search light towards them? It must not be a lawyer. A simple criterion: I want a university graduate or a graduate of so so institution is enough.

The OP is confused. He went to a street girl to get recommendations then complains about the recommendation.

Cognitive dissonance everywhere!

You have two degrees and you're a lawyer. So, why don't you marry a lady who has degree as well? An accountant? A lawyer? A medical doctor?

Some of you don't know what you want or are confused or dishonest about it.

yummy001:
My point is, religion does not automatically make someone a good person irrespective of zealousness. If not, Africa would have been the best place in the world.

An average religious person has the tendency of cherry picking the easier aspects of those religious commandments which are usually expressed in public to give the impression of someone godly to his fellow adherents. They have the penchant for ignoring the most difficult rules which involve a lot of willpower to implement when they feel no one is watching while believing “God” would always forgive their shortcomings.

This is not to say we do not have religious folks who are equally morally upright irrespective of who is watching but my point is, it is not an automatic phenomenon. It has more to do with how active one's conscience is than a mere religious belief borne out of following the bandwagon.

I hope this explains the supposed contradiction of that statement.

Thank you for your commentary.

seguno2:
How aligned is our culture with the idea of vasectomy?

Who will do the enlightenment work to change our culture in this regard

Social media awareness, especially as men continue to flirt around but don't want children. With time, they will learn that there are methods that prevent pregnancy and spread the gospel.

Vasectomy solves most of these issues.

yummy001:
A big yes.. One can be extremely religious without being morally upright.. Religion involves following a set of rites and codes rigidly....Boko haram members are some of the most religious people in the world who never skip their daily religious rites and practices..
But they won't hesitate to collect arms and money from their political sponsors to help further their cause of mayhem and destruction in the society.
Same goes for a pastor who prays all the time but who won't hesitate to defraud his church member when it comes to a business partnership.
Religion has absolutely nothing to do with morality or being principled even though it preaches it.. You are the one mixing up the two because I have seen non-religious folks who are more principled, morally upright and compassionate than most religious fanatics.

Interesting perspective, but does the bold not conflict each other? How can one be religious and immoral yet some immoral acts go against the tenets of the religion? Defrauding someone is clearly against one of the Ten Commandments. So, how does it work?

That's a trap, he shouldn't fall into it.

Tinubu must continue his good works till 2031. He has my unflinching support and I say this unapologetically.

bepositive11:
He wasn't happy with the sex life he had with MacKenzie. He seems happy with this lady. I wish them well.

A man has to do what a man has to do. Ever since my ex-boss (very religious and largely prudish) married another woman, I comot hand for wetin rich man go do regarding sex and women).

Many men will do WORSE!

The rant about single mothers not marrying is largely ignorant and borne out of poverty. Many men will do WORSE than Bezos. Me sef can do worse. Sharon Ooja's husband, Yul Edochie, AY Makun etc.

Let people have money, then you will know their true nature.