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Richnerd69:
Where else would she stay and who does she know in PH? Except for old friends who also came for service too and a few persons she hasn't connected with in a long time. I'm her best shot to safety and comfort.







She isn't based in abuja, rather she worked her transfer there and her aunt promised to position her in the ministry to serve... But there was no space and her option was to teach. She was disappointed, she had higher expectations .

When she agreed to come serve in PH, she was sceptical about my connections if they would work and was still taken aback with the way I abruptly picked interest in her. I was persuasive and she yielded cuz I meant every promise I made. I want to put her where she wants to be and I have the buttons to press. It's a proposal I offered and she saw it as a development to adapt to. I don't think she's naive or stupid. She's really brave and she gave it a thought.

You don’t have to strike out the fuckkkng part. I can bet with buhari’s balls you would make out with her during her stay in your house.

Jesus of our time , you’re the fixer and the button presser that you had to take her from her family to your house.

You really think she had no choice with her former situation? If she could transferred herself to Abuja, she is capable of transferring herself anywhere. All you had to do was to press your buttons first , try get her something juicy and let her transfer herself to PH. At least that’s the logical thing to do than bring her to your house.

You acted too fast and didn’t take the right steps . Na so connections easy to press and just get? na wa for you o.

A damsel in distress , and a man always lost his reasonings. You seriously think she didn’t know what to do with her life eh? Lolz.

Richnerd69:
I thought about this too. I guess I have to reconsider it as a no option. I want to guaranty her safety and ensure her stay in PH is worthwhile with little or no regrets whatsoever. Even if we don't end up together I'll see it as helping a life.

Help a life how? Did she tell you she do not have a family, or homeless? If you’re talking about connecting her to jobs or upgrading her current condition , you can do that without bringing her all the way from her base to yours.

Stop trying to justify yourself . If you like her so much like you claimed , the right thing to do is get married to her.

Richnerd69:
I know right...Almost same thing her elder sister asked, "how long have you known my sister?"... And some personal stuffs she asked too. I was more convinced when her husband told me things about her and how she handles things. She is very humble with a teachable spirit... She's a good girl, I was told and I have come to see that in a short space of time. But I know people do change, I just hope I'm not making a mistake. I know I might be making one of the most stupid decisions of my life, but I want to believe in certain people and give them the chance to try to prove themselves. I really like this lady, I must confess.

I've informed my younger sister that I would be bringing someone I barely met, over. She's not having it with me tho...lol

There is a beast in each and everyone of us no matter the calming surface of our being. The step you took is a foolish one bred out of emotional impulses.

If you like her so much then make plans to marry her. What’s the importance of her living with you if I may asked? Your reasons for doing that is not mature. So cos you liked her then she should come and live with you? C’mon. That’s totally not making sense. Assuming it was cos she needed a place to stay, it would have be understandable.

The right thing to do it’s getting married to her not put her in your house to be fuckkkng unlimitedly in the name of “I really do like her”.

I don’t know how you managed to convinced her but for she to accept to move all the way from her base to yours shows she’s not capable of making decisions and sticking to it.

Being nice and bla bla bla is not a yard stick to ascertains one’s character, It’s the things they do. everyone is always nice until you are locked up with them.

Getting her a place so she can live with a roommate is out of point. What if something happens? Didn’t she tell you she have not been to ph? You want to leave her to stay alone now you have realized you were too quick with the whole thing? Guy do you know the implications of what you have done?

Her life and all that concerns her are in your hands, whatever goes wrong, you’re in soup.

You better put her in your house so you can have eyes on her and her movements. In fact finish what you have started o.

That’s how men put themselves in trouble with their own hands!!

It’s too soon and too early. Guy you bleeped up big time , you’re allowing your emotions to overshoot your target.

What do you really know about this lady?
Her habits?
Her moods?
Her anger issues (everyone has one) some are mild and bearable ,others crazy and over the top.
Her values?

I’ve realized inviting a person to come stay with you it’s very easier than telling the person to leave . Don’t start what you can’t finish of which you have already started

You should have watched her from a distance, allowed her to served in her original state of work, get to know her more better first .

This is a huge step , you guys just met o. Everything is happening too quick. You’re gonna regret it soon.

I can’t stand being somewhere for a long time though . I wonder how a girl would just agree for a guy to work things over so she could stay with him. Doesn’t she have her own sense?

It feels weird to live with a guy who isn’t your husband yet. I don’t care the reasons ,I’m not doing it.

Ladykiss you’re only complicating your life and you don’t know it yet. No emotional justification would prepare you for the reality that would hit you in the face if you don’t leave this man alone.

He’s married , your lost , her gain, after all you were the one at fault.

That man is emotionally manipulating you, He knows what is he doing. if I was the wife , madam you don buy market if you won’t leave my husband alone.

You’re the only one who can stop this but your head is in the muddy water of confusion by fanning memories that should be buried.

You are your own demon. Marry him , no!!! Oya leave him ,no!!! He has manipulated your head by assuring you his love you don’t want to have sense . You didn’t want to be his wife yet but you can be the second wife.

You see that your eyes eh, you go cry tire so tey dem go do surgery on top for you. Leave the man alone!

Number 12. I love to sleep on my own.

Oyinbo people sef... I’m a big roller on bed, I can do all 12 styles overnight.

What do you want us to do with this information now?

Lonelypacifist6:
Because your momma is a slut doesn't make all women sluts, if Whatever happend to you in your childhood damaged your psyche, Don't let that push you to generalisation Grow a pair boy and suck it up

You don’t need to call his mother a slut. Omg!!! You took this too far. WTF. May God have mercy on you.

Why are you desperate to get married though?

I would loved to be there but I have trust issues.

Beautiful family

YorubaAmaka:
hmmm, local woman

That’s what I’ve been using to keep my face smooth , pimples free for some months now. Locally pimples free.

Femeto:
You like it but did you do it?

I did the ear piercings but had to remove it cos I was sold a fake earring.

smeag0l:
So why dont you have them?I really want to know the reason why you cant have something as cheap as piercings that you love so much

I did the ear piercings but it backfired. It almost rot my ear where it was pierced, I later learnt I was sold a fake earring. I went to the hospital to get it treated and the scars have faded away over the years. I haven’t had the courage to try again and based on misconceptions I’ve totally given up on the ideal.

Apply red oil to face . It works.

smeag0l:
If I may ask, why do you support it but dont have?

I dunno but I just liked it, there’s something alluring about them to me. I like tattoos too but I don’t have the liver for all these things. What people would say and all the misconceptions that comes from just “trying” out new stuffs.

Like I was judged here for my opinion. Imagine if I had it, lord!!!

smeag0l:
Theres a difference between you like or admire something and you have it. Until you show.us your pic with multiple ear piercings and a nose ring ,op and every other guys here should just take your post with a pinch of salt.

I said I like it , I never said I have.

Biingoo:
You see. Good you've admitted

Good you admitted to having a small dick. No response now when it came to dick . Na once you humble .

Biingoo:
you is an olosho no doubt

Is it why you have a small dick?

Biingoo:
Ginaz? Na today you know say she she be OKpo? One guy for ashawo thread nearly posted her nude earlier this year she begin wail all over the thread before some elders in the thread adviced the to retreat

I laugh in Japan. That sick fool with a twisted sense of humor just called my name out of the blue for some sick fun I knew nothing of.

My nudes?? Do you think I would trust anyone in the whole world with a picture of my unclad self, let alone someone from Nairaland?. He apologized for his sick jokes but it won’t stopped the fact God will punish him for that.

And that’s how someone can just wake up and spoil someone’s reputation for the fun of it.

Na God go help us o. God forbid anyone here has my nudes.

I like piercings. Nipples and nose piercings specifically. It doesn’t mean I’m a bad loose girl and I can categorically tell you I’m an introvert and I hate going out , I rather read a book.

O.p grow up would you? She’s an adult for God’s sake!! In as much you intended to marry her doesn’t give you the right to abuse her fundamental human rights.

Foolish boy. His mates are out there looking for a better future , his mind is fixed on the poor breasts of a woman having fun in a swimming pool.

Fixed match

Na wa o. Make I open mouth . what won’t one see in this life. Speedy recovery to your friend’s wife.

It’s human nature. Cos a lion is the king of the jungle doesn’t mean he can fight a crocodile.

I dislike this girl with a passion

Wow, this is beautiful. Live life to the fullest and happy birthday to you.

She has always been like this. Nothing is wrong with her and no!!! She’s not lonely but mischievous.

ireneidiva:
My point exactly. 'obvious fact' means you don't need to say it. Congratulate her and move on. Bye.

At least you saw the “obvious fact” too. So I’m not wrong sis, move along and stop whimpering like I stole your sweet.

ireneidiva:
Everywhere o. Some people call it 'body shaming'. Ever heard of that?

Body shaming ? Did I call her unprintable names? I said she should cut on her weight , she’s big already. Where is the body shaming biko?

I’ve never called someone out on their weight before , but this just got to me cos she’s a pretty lady. Stop crying cow like I have committed a treason. I stated an obvious fact!