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What you did wrong was still keeping in touch with his family. What is it with people who like keeping pieces from their past?

Cut all bonds that link you to him . What are you still keeping in touch with his family for? That act alone will never make you move forward and of course!!! They would wanna beg you to forgive their son.

Please don’t go back to him, that guy doesn’t mean well for you and while at it, work on your self esteem cos you have none at all.

Haba!!! The guy beat you and chased you out with just a pant and bra on you. At least give yourself some respect you obviously lack in brain and body. WTF!!! He treated you like trash and you don’t wanna have a little self respect and esteem for yourself .

I know you gonna go back to him, like why am I even wasting my advise on you?

I use electric machine and it’s very neat , fast and so adorable. I totally love it . My generator doesn’t consume fuel much so i don’t have to spend a lot of money on electricity coverage .

You don’t have to match the footer like manual machine . All you have to do is place your foot on the presser of the electric machine and try not to apply hard pressure on your foot so you can control the speed.

I would suggest you go for electric machine as it is totally worth it. You will learn overtime to control the speed and tempo so you don’t injure yourself as it could sometimes cause bodily harm if not handled professionally.

Speak thoroughly to your wife with authority as the head of house that you don’t want the kids in the room anymore .

My little cousins are 8-6-4-3 respectively and they sleep in their room by themselves.

I don’t understand why an 8/9yrs old girl would still be sleeping with her parents on same bed.

That is ridiculous and needs to stop, your wife has poor parenting skills . She should be training them to be comfortable on their own not the other way round .

That nonsense should stop! Your wife is at fault here, she is parenting the kids a bad way. The senior child is old enough to be sleeping in her own room by herself and that should stop with immediate effect .

Your wife is faulty here. You can’t use your poor attempt at parent attachment or whatever it is called to inconvenience your husband in the house he should be comfortable in the first place .

Oga you deserve the sex you want from your wife . She is using the kids to her own advantage and it’s high time you put an end to the rubbish of letting the kids share same bed with you both.
Don’t let anyone here tells you that you are wrong for demanding the kids move out of the room to theirs, you are totally right .

How long would you keep up with it? You have been keeping with it for years now and that’s no sacrifice, it’s a bondage.

Congratulations!!!! . But this is the first time I have heard or seen her though.

The guy needs to be promoted , it shows he is serious minded and doesn’t entertain distractions while on the job.

Oboy see shoving. the reporter gra gra no be here o.

Jackofall:
Beverly has learnt how to open her dog carrier on her own. I was surprised the day I saw her using her nose to push the door open...
Before she has no clue how to get it open now she is a pro

It’s been long you posted , hope you’re fine. Kindly write you number here so I can message you on WhatsApp so you add me to the group. Thanks .

But how did they know it was a young girl who gave birth last night? Why wasn’t she apprehended on the spot if this news was actually true?

Poor babies. Rest In Peace little angels .

Men of this generation! Lord! Instead of him to seek for ways to the solution on ground, what his mind could come up with is to cheat on his wife.

Tufia!!!

Immediately!!! One thing I’ve learnt in life is that it can be unpredictable. That 1 year you wanna wait may be your most fertile days.

Except both couples have decided to wait for reasons best known to them, I think chid bearing should take place immediately for the sake of the unknown.

Ayomide11111:
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I think you should leave the house for peace to reign. With this your current age you risk being insulted more and whatever respect you think would be allotted to you if you preserve is just mere wishes.

Find a way , I know it’s hard but you can never be respected if you don’t try to earned your respect yourself. Move out, hustle and keep hustling , one day e go better.

You risk being insulted too by your siblings cos your dad has shred your self worth in front of them.

No wonder!!! I ate a goat meat pepper soup last week and the meat was tender and soft which was unusual and I couldn’t enjoy the strong grip of the meat as before I could bite it, it would part in two.

Government needs to do something about this dangerous situation and I’ve banned eating of any meat outside as from today . It’s a pity cos I love goat meat pepper soup.

First of all, how old are you?

Can someone tell me the location of the guy sitting down so I can go and kidnap him for marriage?

Ifyjos:
Yes please don’t judge him being poor is not permanent, I know that some day he will owe houses and many cars by God grace

You still live in fairytale and your naivety is out of this world. Don’t worry, reality will soon hit you and wake you up from your slumber and yes, you are very foolish .

Where are you based?

I lack words to even put to how I feel but note i feel so sad about what has befallen you . Don’t worry, be happy . Fate will turn up right for you at the end that all the sorrows of yesterday would be forgotten.

I’m so disgusted. See as a grow up adult doesn’t feel bad that he wants to put his manhood through a minor .

Spits!!!

So sorry dear .

IyaTola:
I remember when my Ex ended the relationship with me, I was so devastated. I got so much heartbroken, I felt so much betrayed when he hooked up with a new girl immediately, I felt so used, I hated love, I swore never to love again, I fell sick, I skipped eating food for some good days, I reduced in my size, I felt like I wasn't fitting in my friends who were a couple, and I asked myself a lot of questions like, why does it have to be me being heartbroken all the time, why quitting me, why forgetting all what we had gone through in just minutes, why not applying the lessons I had learnt in the past breakups I had experienced and many other related questions. .
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But one morning when I rose up from a sleepless, thoughtful and a tearful night, I asked myself why I was hurting, crying and skipping food for the past days. I realized that there was nothing so big to worry and cry for. He was a just a stranger that I met and he made me develop love feelings and then he had to leave. I had not lost my son, not a brother and not a relative. Just "some guy." I was suffering for nothing.
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It looked like it was my loss at that jiffy but in real sense it was hes. He had lost someone who truly loved him that he will never find again. . Since then I realized that spending all my time thinking about him, reminiscing about the happy moments we had shared, the future plans we had set, and being miserable was a waste of my precious time. I had to stop my tears and my thoughts and came back to my normal senses. I then diverted that time and my attention to other productive things like my family, my dreams, my school, and my portraits. .
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That's where my healing process started from. I realized that he was just a page in my book of life. Meaning I only needed the courage to close it and open a new one. It wasn’t easy for me. It took me some time but I made. At first when I used to look at his status, photos and online flirting with his new girl it would hurt me deeply but after a month they could do nothing to me. I could find them in my news feed and don't feel anything at all.
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Yeah, it’s never easy to get over someone you truly loved so much but once you do it. It’s the best decision ever. Never think that you will never heal from that break up. You will. It’s just a matter of time, courage and effort. Never think you won’t love again. You will when the right time comes and you will be the happiest person ever!

Beautiful piece of emotional story devoid of faults except the villain of course. Nobody in their right senses would just work away from a relationship.

You look too emotional, when you start working more on yourself then your next relationship might last . If from your write up your relationships keep crashing then the light may be on you or your village people .

You have some excessive emotions you don’t wanna talk about . Work on yourself .

I’ve watched too much of CBS stories to know the one who cry most are ones who have problems most they don’t see themselves.

You people don’t want war but when they bomb your ass off in your own country you will know that sometimes war is good so peace reigns.

Hmmmm she looks pretty still, even more younger than her formal self .

You can be a manshewo na. Who hold you?

Just so you know there is no short road to making money. The manshewo work you want to do , you will still meet challenges there too. Nothing is entirely stress free and easy.

congratulations jerry.

Didn’t it seem strange to you that the so-called prophets of God always see different visions , They are not in union. It’s in sheer contrast with God’s true prophets of old who all had same visions and words to say from generations to new generations of prophets.

One thing that made me to know that these prophecies given by these so called men of God are fake, is they hardly say a name, time , date of what is to happen. It’s so unlike God who would tell his prophets, the day and time for his words to come to pass and even swear with his name if didn’t come to pass.

Every year pastors will have visions. Every damn year. Do you think it’s so easy to get visions from God? Prophets of old sometimes go for years without hearing anything from God .

Fake pastors !!!By their doings you shall know them, it’s a pity some still believe every words that come out of their mouths .

Put relaxer and come to thank me later .

Nothing like having a sister of same blood. The joy is immensely immeasurable.

Threebear:
You quoted Robert Greene wrong.
Appealing to self interest does not mean flaunting fake life, it simply means convincing people with something beneficial to you both.
I need 10k from you, instead of telling you, give me ten k, I'll pray for you, I'll tell you to give me 10k ,I'll make 30k and give you 20k .
White celebrities do not flaunt fake lifestyle, yet no one in Nigeria can touch them. Leonardo DiCaprio posts about global warming on ig, Angelina Jolie is not on instagram, all the highest paid Hollywood actors are not on instagram, yet they are earning more money in the day that our Nigerian celebs flaunting fake lives can never earn in their lifetime!
Living a fake life was never one of the things Robert Greene propositioned , infact he speaks against it when he said ,the only way to serve is to show you have less.

You made a whole lot of sense , thanks a million times for your write up. It couldn’t be said more better.

Tacha shut the hell up!!! That guy did you more good than you deserved. He brushed up your image so good one would think you were good.

The carrot was cut too big. The fish didn’t look well cooked. I’d pass... doesn’t look appetizing.

E just be like say make I slap the guy. Such a nag!!!