₦airaland Forum

Oricha79:
Ghanian local league is developing, see how stadium full to the capacity.

That was the first thing I saw before the assault

Very impressive.

blessedvisky:
Boss people dey o. There was a thread that hit front page about 2 weeks ago about one Igbo business man who wanted to sell his house for 90M or 900M I'm not sure which. Some people posed as prospective buyers, met up with him somewhere and killed him. Can you imagine such wickedness. Do you think he would have ever imagined in his life that in the process of selling a prized possession, he'll lose his life? No.

The only person you can � vouch for is you. You can't fully know the thoughts another person is thinking or the extent they're Willing to go to fulfill what ever they have made up their minds to do

I totally believe you as far as it is a physical attack.But if it is a Spiritual attack ,I don't t think I will believe it

blessedvisky:
What exactly did he hope to achieve by going to the village?? To prove that he was a son of the soil?? Or to 'give back' to his roots??
Op there is a reason why cases of spiritual attacks and paranormal activities are more prevalent in rural areas than urban ones.

Why didn't he build in a city 'jejely' and enjoy his money and health?
Many Nigerians need to remove this idea of 'going to settle home' from their minds.
Some do this because that's supposed to be the norm (whoever created such norms and why, I don't know)

Some do it because they actually want to live larger than life, show off and be treated like royalty by commoners. Where better to get such a treatment than a rural place filled with poverty

Some do it because they think these rural areas would one day be developed enough and their investments in lands and properties there would yield massive returns for them and/or their children

Whatever the case maybe, please note somethings
Envy & Jealousy know no bounds. Many people have poor mindsets and they're extremely common in these areas where life is relatively simple. Instead of trying to emulate the rich person, they'll start wishing what is his was theirs instead. Some will graduate to the level of trying to scam the man. Some will try to bed him. Some will try to make friends with him by all means. Some will outrightly hate him and all these ones don't mind going spiritual against him to either have access to his money or ruin him completely so that they can all be struggling together

Stay woke people. Even if you must do things back home, do it as discreetly & quietly as you can. Nobody really loves a showoff (whether accidental or intentional) . Not everyone will be happy for your success

If not for your last paragraph, I could have concluded you are wrong.

There is nothing wrong in building a house in your village but show off is what I have a concern of.

Why won't I do what I want because of people.

Dem never born the Fool.

reubenobi:
it's easy to say.

Sorry are you saying that somebody s food can be poisoned remotely??

I wonder why people are struggling for visas, they should close their eyes and appear in Canada or US

toniblacman:
Bush baby... / Egbere

My conclusion too

SangoOlukosoOba:
You need to employ me and mess with me. Same TB Joshua picture I will use to run you mad.

When powers are talking, please don't bring Christianity and Islam. The magics you see come from us.

Please, use your magic and discover my account number without my telling you ,then credit the account number with your magic, then I will believe you

saxha:
The same useless power that couldn't make them get what they want, or the position you occupied, but will still come to you physically to beg for "assistance".
No, there's no "spiritual" power anywhere. You just don't understand the logic behind it.

Note: " Everything is magic, except to the magician "

Yes, they may be the cause of the sickness and all the shit that might happen to you at that time. But I tell, they can only get you through physical means, you just don't understand how they do it.

Nothing spiritual.

I completely align to your perspective, as far as you did not physically put poison in my food, If you like, be naked at midnight with red cloth and blood for seven days for me to die of poisoning without physically putting it. The fellow is on a long thing.

victorian:
Call me a liar?

Im less concerned .

I wont reveal what happened 7years back. Bloody vultures!

Im not davido, nor tonto dike nor other celebs who loves to say it all and wash their dirty linens for all to see.

Even if the marriage hit the rocks thereafter, the impression you created is regrettably far from reality. If it was the way it was presented, I don't think it would ever pack up.

victorian:
Whats your concern about my private life many years back?

And you are asking as if i owe u ,an explanantion.

You go wait taya!

Or better still ask your ancestors.

Ode!

I wonder why you guys lie a lot on social media ,do you who must have been so depressed and probably committed suicide seeing that another lady is having a lovely time in marriage not knowing you were not married at the first place.

No wonder I don't believe facebook stories. Those are lies lies lies.

Scandinavian02:
It is not worth it.

Nigeria and Buhari are the best things that ever happened to humanity after toast bread.

Enjoy.

Not all that glitters is gold. No where is heaven except heaven.

Doubleoh7:
Hey Lady, honestly there is nothing to advise you two cos you guys were never prepared for what you got yourselves into. Now for the way forward, i will advise you endure for a while, as soon as your daughter turns one, drop her off with her grandma and go fix your life. You can either go back and finish school or go learn a skill you are passionate about. When you are stable, go take your daughter and raise her right. There are lots of single mums out there making waves in the society, pick one and make her your idol and aspire to surpass her achievements. Unfortunately for ur guy, he is a lost cause cos i can understand him not loving you but i can never wrap my mind around him hating a child he brought to life. Be strong and most importantly learn from your mistakes.

You just said it all. Exactly what I wanted to say.
No need of beating about the bush. He doesn't love you and it is always difficult to love a woman one was forced to marry.

Maybe you are still in that house because you are helpless and don't know where to move to

If not, abandon that thing you called marriage and go and pick the pieces of your life and make it in life.

You are still very young and have a beautiful life ahead of you with enough time to find who God made for you.
to marry.

Things might not be better, the more you are there, the more it worsens. No need of deceiving you and giving you hope.

It seems the stress in Canada is comparable to that of Nigeria, though in a different way.

It looks like a case of one stress, relocated to another type of stress considering what I am reading here.

Does it worth it coming to Canada.

Someone should tell me the truth

Sorry for my question please.

I am processing my entry into Canada. But from my reading here, it seems like even in Canada one goes through stress.

Is it a case of one stress in naija (security, power, etc) to another stress in Canada (Cold, expenses, taxes etc)

I am beginning to wonder if the relocation to Canada worth it.

Someone should tell me the truth please

adecz:


Why she dey over smile
like local Igbo girl nah?


Na her kongo go hear am
for night.

With that pix, I learned something today, never knew the reason of that kongo word

FrLukas:
No, I'm not.

Oh!

FrLukas:
You see the Fulanis as brothers but they see you as subjects.

Well said.
on the other hand, are you a Catholic priest?

nanauju:
I have something for you dear... That will clear it off within a twinkle of an eye.. And I'm a great witness. I'm willing to give you at a very subsidized rate just to help you clear it off. Besides it's all natural.
Ghana bathing soap, totally natural, no chemicals added, it is produced with fruits, herbs and plants, it lightens, smoothens ur skin and makes u look younger and your skin cleaner. It clears black spots, black knuckles, stretch marks and pimples in few days

Hmm, tell me more, I am interested as far as you are real

Surprise nobody noticed that she withdrew from people.
RIP. depression is worse than any disease.

Keepem:
So glad I left that shit where everything good moves with snail speed. Here in the EU we get over 12mb/s when streaming HD movies.

Why do I feel that those in diaspora are always struggling to console themselves and justify the reason for not being in Nigeria and missing Nigeria.

Flexherbal:
At the end of the day, what matters is that , they are legally married.

God bless their home!

Some sachets of Mr. Flex Herbal Tea For Men will not be bad for the honeymoon, make Oga use am do e bedmatics well well so that in 9 months time, they will also celebrate the birth of the child, in style.

All those getting married this season . Do it with what you have. Try not to borrow , if you must borrow, make sure it is what you can easily pay back.
There is marriage, after wedding ceremony.

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sassysure:
U are so funny @by force asoebi.

Let me tell u a little secret.


I have the means and right to host a society wedding but I didn't. No bridal train. A bishop wedded me so u can understand. Some of the guest who attended my wedding are governors, senators, name them but do u know I cancelled the wedding venue and decorated our compound for an outdoor wedding. The caterer was forced to cook in my house and we bought all she needed. I saved money. Big money. That wedding was the talk of the town and more classy than wedding you spent millions on.
When we were in Nigeria, hubby was working and earning very well. His juniors in office drives the best jeep, live where they pay like 650 or more in a yr. But u need to see his car. Not bad at all but around 1m. He later sold that car exactly the amount he bought it .
And he will abandon the car to climb keke. He worked in Lagos for 4 yrs and has 3 landed ppty at strategic places with papers intact.
Already he has 2 in Abuja. Was building on one so we will live there before he went on a transfer immediately after our marriage so he converted it to commercial house.
I went back to abuja( we built a family house there where all of us can come together anytime but he was wise enough to design that house to commercial house cos anything can happen and something did happen)
He left the country and I went to various ministries and local govt to secure all the properties. If it's a new place and the street hasn't been named, I will pay and give the street our name. I have been to nassarawa to check.out our land. And u know what, all these politicians and top govt officials have acres of land in those places as they know the countries map. The first land my husband bought in nassarawa cost him 100k, now it's 15m, still inside bush. One man is just farming on it. It's that costly cos federal govt will relocate one of the security apparatus hq there.

I have joined him and that family house has been rented out.

While his mates where busy( those that are really really below him) were busy enjoying the so called life, he was busy investing.
People see me in my house then in Abuja and mistook me for house keeper. I sold off one car when he travelled,I don't drive( don't need it) and I'm as simple as can be.
There was this incident when landlords were going around for whatever( I don't go for meetings) and they came to my house and asked for the owner. I said it's mine. They didn't believe it. Actually, that house is arguably the biggest in That area( 7 rooms, 3 kitchens, 3 parlour and 8 toilets with one dinning room), I don't dress up like big madam. I don't drive and I mingle with everybody. U know those landlords that use to splash water on me when they pass me, will now slow down and offer to give me a ride but I will politely decline. One lady saw me in my children's school one day she was taken aback. Was surprised I can send my kids to that school

U know why I went into detail to explain this, don't let the society and pressure rule your life for u.

I'm in another man's country and believe u me, u will think we have been here up to ten yrs. I'm just one yr while hubby is 3 yrs and we have children already. Even when I went to apply for visa, I was told that it's very hard to see a spouse apply for the other half this soon considering the money needed for it.
It was possible cos he didn't start doing what our people who just arrived were doing.

U can build your world and at the same time enjoy yourself if u think and plan smart. Don't live to please anybody. Be different. It's hard especially in a country where we love to show we have arrived.
I have lots to say but I will stop it here.

I don't own a car here yet. I will only buy a car when I see the need. And I do love good living.

Nice narrative I must confess. But the challenge there is knowing when things are not done extremely.

It's actually good not to follow the crowd but we need to know when to draw a line to avoid saving and planning for the future without enjoying the present thereby endangering the future we are saving all through.


Riding a car is not a luxury but a necessity and for our well-being.

A philosopher said that people worry so much how to secure the future and not enjoying the present.

The bottom line is that too much of everything is bad. Moderation is the key. Do everything possible to enjoy the present and don't overdo it. At the same time, do everything to secure the future but don't overdo it not to enjoy the present.

RocksQueen:
It is not! Most of it are online votes. That is free and one person can vote 10,000 times.

A bigger rip off. Do you know how much traffic and money generated when one person visits a site 10,000 times times. Let alone more do same.

livinbygrace:
17yr old is not a small girl,infct most of them are already in second yr in universities.Omotola was impregnated at age 16yr,should we now accept that she was also raped by her husband?Nigerians are fucking hypocrites.

Good point.

Wickedfacts:
Even if it was consensual, she was below 18 and legally incapable of giving consent. That's statutory rape.

Most of you need to get properly educated before you post online.

Before you resort to insult, re-read my post.

Legally, she could have a case though technically, she was not raped but felt used.

But my emphasis is on the exposure, some things are much better when left lying low.

Heal yourself and move on.Seek psychological help.

If that pastor is a low life, could she have come up with all the revelation. Take that away.

Wickedfacts:
And all your children will suffer what Timi and his wife went through.

No matter what she went through, I still don't support her revelation.

The whole World is aware that she slept with the man .It might not be rape per se,it could be that she felt used and dumped.

Besides, I'm against action on allegation without evidence.

How would you feel if someone you rejected decided to get back at you with rape allegation without evidence and people believed her and you are arrested when you are innocent.

Don't get me wrong, didn't say the pastor is innocent but only God knows the truth.

Think about that.

[quote author=PROPHETmichael post=79163135]Why are stuffs like this so frequent in this country? You hardly hear of such elsewhere....Oh Nigeria, when will you wake up and do the needful?[/quote


When FRSC has stopped the routine orientation and sensitization and resorted to cash exchange, law enforcement bears the blunt of a failed State.

Too pathetic.

I will advise you to go for welding though both are good. You could get a long contract for both that will swell your bank account.

StrikeBack:
See as this news dey sweet me for body

Are you aware that we sin everyday against God but he has not destroyed you, cultism or no cultism, sin is sin. You may not pity them but don't mock them still.

Saul was the worst before he was set free

babaireti:
Stewpid coarse and ugly sounding Language and horrible looking Tribes men,i hate the sound of that language like maggots unlike Yoruba and Hausa, Igbo language is terribly horrible and offensive to the ear drum and that is why no other tribe wants to speak that language,unlke Yoruba and Hausa that even the Ibos are dying to come and learn in Lagos & S/west states

I can give something to learn and understand igbo language but the problem is that it is difficult to learn. Moreover, a lot of people struggle to speak their basic ones but still always difficult

zeb04:
. Must it be true Sex? Tell her she can use her mouth or hand, as long as you cum.
If her sex drive is low, shouldn’t you see a doctor instead of cheating?

Btw, you wife is even nice. If you cheat on me and I find out, just know You are not getting any loyalty from me

Every married woman, has that fear and reverence for her marriage. The day you cheapen you marriage by sleeping outside, you have taken out that fear, reverence from the marriage. If she doesn’t cheat on you, Goodluck. But really sex outside the marriage doesn’t look like a big taboo anymore. after all, you have done it. Heaven will not fall if she does. And most times, she will.

If you cannot be loyal, you don’t deserve it.

Even though I hate the truth you said here. You really stated the fact.

Preshy561:
Bla bla bla.
Shut up. What made you think you are more righteous and holy?

Tell your father shut up, that is if you have one.

My daughter can never be wild and stupid the way you are.God forbid.

Incase you don't hear from me after reading this, it is deliberate.Can't stoop so low for a skunk like you.

Remember what I said, this is my last audience and reply to a disrespectful low life like you.

Anuofia.

Preshy561:
He is truly a lazy man.
When was the last time he cared for his wife? Brought money for feeding and even took care of the home?

All he knows is how to bring out prick to fvck.

Coming from a Lady using your last line, I have a concern with that. A bit filthy if you ask me.