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kernniejay:
By the time she meets a guy who will value her and love her genuinely, you will seek for her with tears and it will be too late. Most relationships and marriage initiated by women are usually the best, ask Ruth and Esther in the Bible. If you give her a shot I'm sure you will fall in love soon and wont be able to imagine losing her. As the saying goes, marry the person that loves you, not the person you love. Know this and know peace.
NB: I dont know you and I dont know the girl, I am only advising you as a living witness and out of my vast experience. Mods pls move to FP for more opinions.

By far the best advice and certainly the same advice and words I would use.

It's normal for guys to be into women but if the tables turned and she is into you..... you are onto something nice.

Guys are moved by things they see and typical I don't blame them. But if a guy could see beyond this facial and physical attributes, you wouldn't have to worry about if she loves you or not.

I doubly make sure the lady I am onto really really likes me before I drop my guard.

Good luck.

What the op and anyone should watch out for is the actions of people not their words. It's doesn't matter whether it is a romantic relationship or a platonic one or a relationship between guys or ladies.

Actions speaks volumes.

People these days lie shamefacedly.

Don't get yourself entangled into a relationship when the other party just pays you only lips service.

Words are used these days mainly to scam and deceive. So in any situation, observe the actions of the speaker.

In a relationship with a lady, if she ain't invested like you abort. If she gives you excuses, discharge her.

Even thriving relationships even both parties to contribute.

This is what you get when a olosho goes into legit business.

Olosho runs a fb ads to get exposure then closes the deal with happy ending.

The uninitiated will say that money is the root of all evil.

The wise and prudent will say money answers all things.

Story suddenly changed after an undisclosed sum was paid.

Also the post of executive producer is thrown in to sweeten the deal.

To those screaming vanity upon vanity all is vanity should understand that Solomon the author has been there and done that before he uttered that.

He should continue

Let me add to what's been said.

Guy, it's a good thing that you know that you have been friend zoned.

She is using you to catch cruise and fun. Deny her that.

Whoever that's shifting her pants ain't giving her fun and cruise.

Most importantly get a girlfriend. Get someone who could help you get down

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This is what you get when you privatize a public sector.

These things can only happen with account linked to an ATM card.

The thing is his account details have somehow being compromised after he requested an new ATM card. How that happened is between himself and the banking system and a fraudster.

Don't enter a relationship with a woman who gives mixed signals and who don't seem to know what she wants

Generally, I don't get drawn into simps and the redpillers. I am also not into a perceived hate campaign against women. It's just not my thing.

What I actually stand for is empowering guys to up their game and understand the dynamics at play in a relationship.

Women traditionally are taught early by their moms and other women about their sexuality. From when they are babies to adults, they are taught stuffs about men.

You see them telling little girls to been decent and covering them properly and to avoid certain incidents that concerns men.

Girls are taught about their sexuality and they learn to embrace it early.

They are made to understand that men want their cookie and are taught how to get what they want through that.

Women are taught to choose men of substance over matters that concern love.

At the end, ladies see it as a game which is what it actually is.

Now fathers generally don't have time to pass on things they picked up about ladies and dating.

An average guy is handicapped from day one. They don't understand how this matters of love, girls and relationships work.

Put differently guys come into matters concerning women handicapped.

It's on such matters that I like to see guys get a help here and there.

I have seen a 49 years old man displaying what guys would call simping.

But this hatred for women and the battle of sexes...... that's not for me.

It's toxic.

The prevalent economy has an enormous impact on relationships, girls see relationships as a means to an end. While guys enter relationships with naivety.

Normally, guys been visual creatures get enthralled by the beauty of ladies and get into overdrive in terms of love and affection...in other words, guys enter relationships illogically and emotionally.

This been said, heartbreak is already on the menu before it's even served.

Ladies approach relationships with lots of logical and reasoning. They bid their time and choose properly because they aren't emotional like guys.

It's at this point guys miss their way.

I'd like to see such guys get it right.

Such matters are best recorded.

On this little psychological game, the little boy came out tops.

The blame should rest on the parents.

You see these homes with only one bedroom apartment or families living alone in one room...... the kids aren't always sleeping when the dads and moms are tryna get busy.

You should have spoken the truth.

Easier said than done though.

But that boy is gonna have another victim soon he is gonna prey on, and you won't be there for another rescue mission.

Let the parents be aware of what their is all about. My take is they would not believe you and will probably not let you inside their house again.

No parent would want to believe their little angels are into such antics that early. They would rather wallow in disbelief than accept this sad fact.

But it would be on record when the kid started his career has a sexual predator.

Someone rightly pointed out to you that she wants to be your girlfriend.

No dulling.

I can't help you here, player.

Just have another meeting with your dad and your siblings.

Provide tangible proof of his indiscretions.

Lets see if he would learn.

Let him understand that he is the weak link.