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The truth is lots of women are terrible in the bed room.

They feel opening their legs is all that matters.

They think with a bedroom bully around, they are okay.

Here is the thing: you have uncovered a red flag.

I don't care how long you have been dating this lady but she won't do as a wife material.

A lady who suddenly refused to bail you out when you are in need will repeat such attitude over and over again.

There is no need to mediate or hide behind her request. That's pointless.

Show your mettle as a man and own it. Kick her ass out.

Here are my reasons:

She is stubborn.

She lacks respect and has no control.

She decides to cut you off for your own money.

She decides to seize the money meant for wedding preparation and tells you point blank that she owes no explanations whatsoever then she blocks you.

She then calls you to inform you that the wedding is off. What gives her that impetus. Who is giving her such advice? Or did she come up with that herself.

I don't get that.

After such rubbish, she wants you to beg her after she made a mess.

Then she wants to force your hand by involving family members.

Guy run o!

How can you rely on such a person if you can into problem..... ?

A woman who cannot own up to her bullshìt is no worth it.

If you marry her, you gonna get more of this.

Fūck love, marriage is an institution not some fair tale lovey dovey puppy love.
Let me point this out to you.

Marriage is bliss if your heart beats as one as your spouse.

If you meet a selfish person as one.

You are better of with a baby mama.

Sadly in certain parts of the country, kids are rushed off to marriage and statutory rape.

Child act laws should be enabled and enacted in every corners of the country.

Congratulations to you.

This info is really enlightening

Quick question here.

How did you get his bank and account details?

How did he scam you?

Take what you see and wait till it's complete.

more details emege

You can say that's it's cheap but na only yam you go chop.

How about oil.

And other ingredients.

Abi, man shall now live on yam alone?

The truth is: it ain't really cheap.

There are things one needs to buy too that will leave on hole in your pocket.

Op is on to some new species of high grade weed.

There are lots of women in relationship due to hunger.

They will cook, wash and clean to remain relevant.

They would discuss and proffer advice to even add value.

The truth is that they are bidding their time waiting for a better guy to come their way so they can monkey branch.

Guys should stay woke with these vaginal peeps.

If she is telling about her period, it's probably her way of telling you that it's time to put in on her.

Keep dulling.

What I can add here is that the dead lady wasn't a feminist like her friend as least in reality not into social shenanigans about men.

Does it mean soifra is just catching cruise here but in truth could like her friend indoors with two or more guys probably playing ludo.

It's safe to say Jeff wasn't the problem here.

She is now a divorcee with LiveScore of 2 losses.

She would need to part with some money to pay this writer guy.

The western system could be fascinating at times.

The guy's to cash out from the beginning is now set to yield dividends.

Well the guy have got it coming.

Let him just be patient.

To all those condemning the taste of man concerning the lady, did you see his wife in the first place?

You cannot judge if the wife has class or not neither if she is beautiful from the video.

There is nothing wrong with the lady here aside the Tatoo which some married women have on these days.

What's condemnable and shameless is the man who brought his snack home. That's tasteless and devoid of class.

A wise man cannot bring any type of woman home especially if he is married. He endangers the life of his wife in the process.

He endangers himself too because the wife could hurt or poison himself who knows.

Cheating is a painful process for every dutiful wife and difficult to handle.

But bringing the object of that sad dastardly act is even the worse pill to swallow by the wife.

Men like dogs eat shìt but the ones that are caught are the actual eaters.

When I hear tales like this; I feel pressured to ask how old this guy is.

Basically, I would have called it quits the moment the stepmom of the lady I want to date wanted to see me.

For me, that's a red flag.

There is something fishy going on between the lady and the stepmom.

I would only subscribe to that if she is my fiancee and we have agreed to tie the knot.

But come to think about it, you mean the lady youth leader of a church has been giving you back to back to back with gonorrhea as bonus? You think you are doing me.. you are going yourself.

It is finished. And she would use that mouth she uses for praises, worshipping and prayers to give you blōwjob?

Apostle must hear about this.

And tomorrow, a simping christian brother will count himself lucky to have this s-cumbag.

I pity men. Women distribute sex like it is going outta fashion. Argue with your internet connection if you doubt me.

About getting an infection, that's your private affair between the lady and yourself. You should know the implications of having unprotected sex.

While at that, I see no reason why you deride the lady you chose for yourself..... you just sent a message that you have a poor taste in women and that you have a complex.

If you want space after satisfying yourself be bold to tell the stepmom that not trying to be immature about getting infections. You got yourself that.

Guys do not know the significance of having sex albeit unprotected sex yet they indulge in it.

SeniorMan715:
1. Do not go into long term projects with a woman you have not married.

Projects like starting a business, moving abroad together, etc - If there’s a break up, it would affect the psychology of the project and you would stop halfway.

You’d lose. Avoid doing business with your partners as much as you can unless you are married.

2. She is your girlfriend not your wife. No matter how much you think you love her, there is a 50 percent chance that you will not end up married.

Do not undertake financial responsibilities or give gifts that you will regret if she leaves you.

3. Following from the previous, hell hath no fury as a woman scorned.

Do not accept gifts and money that you cannot afford from your girlfriend and please do not take loans from them, If the relationship goes sour, most women will
demand for refunds, and you will be required to refund.

Pray for the best but expect the worst.

4. Do not move in with your
woman. No matter how much you think she loves you, it is better for you to live under the bridge than to move into a house where the rent is paid by your woman.

You will lose your respect in tiny bits until there’s nothing left. She is your girlfriend not your wife.

5. You are enough. The moment you become uncomfortable with your woman’s friendship with another man, confront it openly.

She will most likely blackmail you into guilt by calling you insecure but she’s the one who made you insecure.

Confront it, challenge it. You must never compete. If you have to,
LEAVE.

6. Do not forgive infidelity from your woman. If you catch her cheating, leave. You will think you have forgiven but you have not forgotten and you will never forget.

That relationship will not lead to marriage anymore. If you go ahead and marry her, you will ruin both your lives because you will keep reminding her that she cheated.

There’s no point. Leave.

7. Your girl’s friends and family are not your friends and family.

Do not over indulge them.

Keep your distance and do not over communicate with them.

Over Familiarity breeds contempt.

8. Learn to apologize immediately. We are not perfect. We can say wrong words and do wrong things to our partners even when we didn’t mean to.

Immediately you sense discomfort and disapproval, apologize properly and seek forgiveness.

Do not wait to be confronted
before you apologize.

9. Set your rules and stand by them. Do not be flexible. What is wrong today will be wrong tomorrow.

Women don’t like weak men. No matter how much she blackmails you into changing your mind about something, she will appreciate you better in the long run if you don’t.

10. Finally, she is not your wife. You are not her father. Don’t expect her to put you first the same way you shouldn’t put her first until you
are married.

You are on point

That setting is not that of a church neither is she a pastor.

So sorry about your loss.

The thing is this: I never made any money that would break my heart

La click la bend

They drank some combo to have a tango, naso dem go

Those circle fishes seems like sacrifice meant for some deity.

Yuck!

How old are you?

People are going through an awful lot in a low key.

I can relate too.

I went down that dark part back then.

I can tell you this much: it's dark and ugly

Cumrades, book a way ticket to Russia.

It's gonna be a freaky adventure.

In summary, what I do with my life is my business.

For me, life is too short to get flustered over what people think.

I sincerely doubt she would have caught feelings if the dude was some broke ass.

Single men should know how to draw a line in every relationship.

I don't blame the lady, she needs to secure the future.