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UncannyGenius:
Okonkwo came up in my mind when I was thinking about Alpha males this evening. The man had firm control over his household. The wives cooperated with each other because if they misbehaved, Okonkwo will deal with them mercilessly.

Oil dey your head

Prettygirl200:
Make woman matter still dey comot from una mouth small, and pls stop sowing hatred nd discord between male nd females here. Making pple bitter. If your gf is dating other guys nd not only you, deal with it yourself and do not drag anyone into it.

Hon.

The relationship business is a lucrative affair.

The matter guys and ladies will never stop.

It's a mystery in itself.

Since women want gender equality.

She should be handled the same way men are handled.

What would you do with that information?

I would avoid been a Nigerian.

Being an Armenian won't be bad

Your story seems incomplete however I am disposed here to shoot from the hip.

How did you get here??

A. In this age and time, you couldn't take your time to pick a wife for yourself, you allowed family and friends to pick one for you.

B. You rushed to get married to a woman you just met through a proxy without getting to know her and her antecedents.

C. In just less than a month, you have concluded plans to marry a woman, you barely know..... what's the rush for. This is someone you plan to spend the rest of your life with.

You seem to have a penchant for jumping to conclusions.

Hope you understand this what you get without careful observation and planning.

D. Who does an introduction for #800k?

You went overboard impressing your in-laws.

You just informed your prospective in-laws you are flowing with milk and honey.

Your in-laws now know they hit payday.

They intend to make you pay.

Your bride on her part hasn't got your back. She listens to her family.

Your in-laws don see you finish.

You are on your own

Who advices you?

First impression matters.

You blew yours.

Better cut your losses.

21 gun farts salute to the indefatigable cumrade in fūckery..... RavagedHeart.

Your incisive thinking shot this cõck and bull story to shreds.

Who sex 10times a days.

That's 70 times a week.

280 times a week.........

That's a big fat lie.

I like this kind of vawulence.

Taking a lady to UK......

You need some form of insurance policy.

A randy friend of mine got set up when he fell for this approach.

The lady managed to get him in an compromising situation.

When a prey starts stalking the predator..... It often doesn't end well.

Guy, going directly to ask a lady to be your date or girlfriend or whatever you want to call it is actually counterproductive.

You just start treating her as your girlfriend if that's what you want.

Get her well tuned with excessive romantic overtures.

Get her in a place with lots of solitude, your place should do.

Hit her with the boner.

A lady who gives you all these mixed signals should be serving it to you excessively by now.

It means she is considering you or wants you in the friend zone.

You should know how to get a woman without the need for that charade of dating her or all what not.

If she strongly resists.

Give her the heave-oh.

No room for clutter.

Loobbish.

David808:
So what do u suggest i do

That's entirely up to you.

You could smash or pass.

Back then, ladies of easy virtues like this your babe co-tenant rents hostels like students but never graduates.

Then they also attends classes.

But this your lady isn't hiding her occupation.....

You should know this aside the fact that your should learn to mind your business.

Your wife decided not to cook or take care of your kids, denies you sex, answers calls at odd hours, listens to a voice note from a man and you don't know how to put your feet down in the house you are supposed to pay the rents and bills for.

If I don't get to the bottom of that matter that phone whether na iphone 1290 will not longer operate.

Seriously, guys have become sissy these days.

And you cry at your office and also came here for a shoulder to lean on?

You need to have your brains checked.

If you value your mental health...... Send her to her father's house immediately.

I swear down na me and this one dey carry a bag of penis up and down.

Ladies know the kind of men they can toy with. You fit that profile.

My advice for you is simple....... grow some fūcking hairy and bushy balls.

Be the man.

A quick disclaimer..... I am not talking about domestic violence here.

Guy has destroyed his brother's life with his dìck

kernniejay:
By the time she meets a guy who will value her and love her genuinely, you will seek for her with tears and it will be too late. Most relationships and marriage initiated by women are usually the best, ask Ruth and Esther in the Bible. If you give her a shot I'm sure you will fall in love soon and wont be able to imagine losing her. As the saying goes, marry the person that loves you, not the person you love. Know this and know peace.
NB: I dont know you and I dont know the girl, I am only advising you as a living witness and out of my vast experience. Mods pls move to FP for more opinions.

By far the best advice and certainly the same advice and words I would use.

It's normal for guys to be into women but if the tables turned and she is into you..... you are onto something nice.

Guys are moved by things they see and typical I don't blame them. But if a guy could see beyond this facial and physical attributes, you wouldn't have to worry about if she loves you or not.

I doubly make sure the lady I am onto really really likes me before I drop my guard.

Good luck.

What the op and anyone should watch out for is the actions of people not their words. It's doesn't matter whether it is a romantic relationship or a platonic one or a relationship between guys or ladies.

Actions speaks volumes.

People these days lie shamefacedly.

Don't get yourself entangled into a relationship when the other party just pays you only lips service.

Words are used these days mainly to scam and deceive. So in any situation, observe the actions of the speaker.

In a relationship with a lady, if she ain't invested like you abort. If she gives you excuses, discharge her.

Even thriving relationships even both parties to contribute.