₦airaland Forum

This is actually the height of immaturity.

So because you scored, she is cheap.

Anyway, it's not cool to act the way you did.

Besides, coming online to beat your chest that you scored screams insecurity.

You aren't no different from other guys littered all over nairaland clueless on how to be boss up a relationship.

You gat a lot to learn.

It would be nice if you learn.

Tough luck man.

The thing is your have to not just choose your friends, you have to handpick them.

If you go through this process you will come to understand that true friends are a gift from God.

Put differently, they don't exist.

So adjust your priorities.

Give only what you can afford to give and forget about it or don't give.

Learn to be diplomatic.

You can seem nice without actually been nice if you can use the power of words to your advantage.

Dust yourself up.

Chin up.

Hustle.

You don't seem to know what you want.

You got a treasure here.

What's lacking here is an open communication channel.

Work on your communication with her and encourage her to update her life too.

Build a life goal together.

Don't bungle this up.

This is the kind of lady these redpillers will go Gaga for.

It's clearly obvious that you are her ATM machine.

End that thing you have with her.

Bro, the matter here is so SIMPle: stop revealing your intentions to a lady. Stop professing your affection to every girl you meet.

Take a different angle: conceal your intentions.

Befriend them, add mystery and intrigue. Be yourself though.

Do this and stop speaking your mind.

You need to wriggle yourself out of this sticky situation.

Next time make sure you come on a rubber

Broken home or not, guys should be well advised to take heed to themselves when they get drunken in love.

You don't go weak (falling in love) and hand over the power to your supposed lover, power to destroy your life.

Relationship is simple, more like a business. You observe then you invest. You don't get successful, being sentimental. You handle cold hard facts and you take charge.

I don't get it when guys get mushy in the brains when the opposite sex is involved.

Pathetic.

Your story is actually all about you surmounting obstacles.

You need to get married. Don't you have uncles and other relatives?

Complete your house. Set fresh goals and go on with your life.

You are a winner already.

Sustain your tempo.

Draft fresh blueprint for your life and stick with it.

May God crown your efforts with success.

It's either she is pregnant or she is not.

She should go for blood test. It's the surest.

In any case, Play safe.

That's mighty nice of your friends.

From the much I gathered, Nairaland is certainly not the right place to wash your dirty linen...it's basically a faceless forum.

In any case, you have awoken to the dawn of the redpillers (another bunch of losers blaming women for their inability to get it on).

While you are at it, make something of yourself.

Well, you mustn't have an erection and lefelendum for every lady you meet.

You could settle for friend zone. It's also meant for guys too.

Trust is an expensive commodity, don't expect it from cheap people.

I laugh when I hear such utterances as the Op posted.

But it's your cruise though enjoy.

Trust and love are not bankable emotions. If you think otherwise go through the romance section and revert.

Whenever I hear a no sex relationship, I smell scam.

Like a lady said, You need to unmask the identity of this "virtuous woman".

Good luck. You gonna need it.

It hurts.

But get this: she sees you as a tool to be used.

Decide how much you let people use you

Guy, don't you have a man you can discuss life with?

Must it be a lady whose in a relationship?

Move on.

Time will tell.

Carry on.

The moment you mention Deeper life you lost me.

Orgasmgiver123:
Nairaland is a place I often come to cool off the stress of this world, you guys have being the best, everything here gives me joy, from the insults to the encouragements.

I'm using this opportunity to say a big shout out to


Mr seun osewa
Lalasticlala
Mind44
Dominique


Smelly sperm
Boogyman557
Mamagee3
Illamina
Mosdi
Beebah2000
Johndgr8
Slovamir
Sonnobox
Godada
Miabeer
Ishlove
Siofra
Thegidredpiller
Preciousgirl
Ikillbrokehoes
Omotologbon
Beebeeoh
Iyaebe
Negroid001
Ilegendd
Airforce1

You guys made my 2021

Thanks.

Glad to add color to your year.

Happy new year