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Lala is about to go down

MaryJane24:
The guy is obviously in love even though they just met. Three weeks seemed like too early so the lady didn't respond with "I love you too".

Agreed.

But most times when you blurt out your feelings too early you come out has desperate to the lady.

It's hard to meet a lady and tell her that you want to sleep with her and she would agree.

It's has to be a process of friendship and then warm it up to the other room.

Too early.

Why do you need to proclaim love?

People are have a right to their opinions.

I have been here too. My dad sold a warehouse and 5 duplexes and I was told to mind my business.

But my father inherited 2 decking from his dad

So if my grand dad sold all he has where will my dad start from?

At the tail end, when he got old, it was on me to take care of him.

Where was the money he got from the sale.... No where.

Bro, ask him. He owes you an explanation.

There are indeed lots of mothers out there that intrude in the affairs of their kids. Whatever happens to allowing married couples sort themselves out.

Mothers should know their boundaries and mind their own marriage. Such mothers also had issues with their mother in law.

That said, there is no excuse for the actions of the son. It's unpardonable. Anger is counterproductive. Just look at where his uncontrollable anger landed him.

A matured man of 39 cannot hide under the guise of been a drug addict. He should face the wrath of his actions.

What a loss.

By the way, where is the wife who is in the middle of this storm.

So what do you want to do with a guy that chose another lady over you? Do you realize that he is now married? What do you want with a married man? All you need now is to forget about him

Back then after quarreling with Favor, she comes to bed without panties.

When I slip it in, it slides in deliciously.

The fuçk that night was the shit

Guys are gonna tell you that age doesn't matter.

That's their opinion.

The matter you need to consider is her anger issues.

If she could push you out when she gets in the mood and nothing you do could change how she feels should tell you that she doesn't respect you and she is putting up a show.

Add the age disparity.


I wish you good luck.


Don't bother growing balls, go back and seek peace of mind.

Guys, what's this thing with she is all you want In a woman?

It's not even a deal breaker.

Dogasas:
I remember when my own mother blocked me from traveling out with the lame excuse that I wasn't gonna keep in touch and I was gonna forget home. My uncle based in newyork was ready to come pick me and sponsor everything. He even sent money to get my passport which I did sharply. . Naso this woman stood in the way . It got so bad she started raising voice on my uncle . The man just quietly left us alone and stopped picking even my own calls. This happened in 2009. Till date I'm still stucked in naija. E pain me sha and anytime I see her I remember that incident but life goes on .

Sorry bro.

It is well.

Double your hustle

Well the wise lady above me has gotten to the root of the matter.

You are toast.

Good thing here is that she is giving you the things. So read the writings on the wall.

To avoid stories that touch, break up.

I cannot have a relationship with a lady that keeps lots of lady friends. Her friends end up having so much impact on the relationship.

Imagine if her friends are cheats, your guess is as good as mine..... Your girl is a cheat.

Finally, it's so sissy hearing guys crying about loving a girl. Come on, the world doesn't revolve around her gash.

Op, I believe you.

Some people here may not understand what you are going through.

If I told you how much that my dad was supposed to give me while he was alive but my mother stood in the way.

The matter is sure.... Help will not be coming from your dad.

Maybe you should consider learning some side hustle.

There are a lot of them here on nairaland. Pick one, stick with it. Watch YouTube videos. May God crown your effort with success.

Understand that not all women should be mothers.

Cheers.

Guys should just forget relationships.

They are just not ready.

Patronize love vendors.

This is actually the height of immaturity.

So because you scored, she is cheap.

Anyway, it's not cool to act the way you did.

Besides, coming online to beat your chest that you scored screams insecurity.

You aren't no different from other guys littered all over nairaland clueless on how to be boss up a relationship.

You gat a lot to learn.

It would be nice if you learn.

Tough luck man.

The thing is your have to not just choose your friends, you have to handpick them.

If you go through this process you will come to understand that true friends are a gift from God.

Put differently, they don't exist.

So adjust your priorities.

Give only what you can afford to give and forget about it or don't give.

Learn to be diplomatic.

You can seem nice without actually been nice if you can use the power of words to your advantage.

Dust yourself up.

Chin up.

Hustle.

You don't seem to know what you want.

You got a treasure here.

What's lacking here is an open communication channel.

Work on your communication with her and encourage her to update her life too.

Build a life goal together.

Don't bungle this up.

This is the kind of lady these redpillers will go Gaga for.

It's clearly obvious that you are her ATM machine.

End that thing you have with her.

Bro, the matter here is so SIMPle: stop revealing your intentions to a lady. Stop professing your affection to every girl you meet.

Take a different angle: conceal your intentions.

Befriend them, add mystery and intrigue. Be yourself though.

Do this and stop speaking your mind.