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Marriage is not for women with money.

Women Celebrities the world over always find a reason to divorce from marriage.

There are certain stress and tension that women with money and means will tell themselves, hey, this is for me.

They know that they can fight for the custody of their kids and even better take care of their kids.

Most women who remain in marriage endure hardships here for the sake of their kids.

They know that they don't have the resources to take of themselves and their kids so they stay put.

Imagine, a lady like Linda Ikeji collecting beating in her marriage or her husband even cheating on her.

Shimmaa:
I understand you but I'm not making her loose focus, I just love her that I want to wait for her till she finish in school.

Keep loving.

Your lover has jilted you.

She doesn't love you SIMPle.

Stop forcing ladies to show you affection. If a lady loves you, it comes naturally.

If she could break up easily with you without a fight to keep you, it means she doesn't give a hoot about you.

Move on, get someone to rent the place.

Guy, you should have seen the writing on the wall.

There is something you should practice, reality principle. Don't let your emotions cloud your thinking. See things as they are.

See people for what they are in your life. Some are using you like spanner and would drop you when they are finished.

Learn to know who is who.

How do you think your lady and your brother will get along.... Awkward.

Lala is about to go down

MaryJane24:
The guy is obviously in love even though they just met. Three weeks seemed like too early so the lady didn't respond with "I love you too".

Agreed.

But most times when you blurt out your feelings too early you come out has desperate to the lady.

It's hard to meet a lady and tell her that you want to sleep with her and she would agree.

It's has to be a process of friendship and then warm it up to the other room.

Too early.

Why do you need to proclaim love?

People are have a right to their opinions.

I have been here too. My dad sold a warehouse and 5 duplexes and I was told to mind my business.

But my father inherited 2 decking from his dad

So if my grand dad sold all he has where will my dad start from?

At the tail end, when he got old, it was on me to take care of him.

Where was the money he got from the sale.... No where.

Bro, ask him. He owes you an explanation.

There are indeed lots of mothers out there that intrude in the affairs of their kids. Whatever happens to allowing married couples sort themselves out.

Mothers should know their boundaries and mind their own marriage. Such mothers also had issues with their mother in law.

That said, there is no excuse for the actions of the son. It's unpardonable. Anger is counterproductive. Just look at where his uncontrollable anger landed him.

A matured man of 39 cannot hide under the guise of been a drug addict. He should face the wrath of his actions.

What a loss.

By the way, where is the wife who is in the middle of this storm.

So what do you want to do with a guy that chose another lady over you? Do you realize that he is now married? What do you want with a married man? All you need now is to forget about him

Back then after quarreling with Favor, she comes to bed without panties.

When I slip it in, it slides in deliciously.

The fuçk that night was the shit

Guys are gonna tell you that age doesn't matter.

That's their opinion.

The matter you need to consider is her anger issues.

If she could push you out when she gets in the mood and nothing you do could change how she feels should tell you that she doesn't respect you and she is putting up a show.

Add the age disparity.


I wish you good luck.


Don't bother growing balls, go back and seek peace of mind.

Guys, what's this thing with she is all you want In a woman?

It's not even a deal breaker.

Dogasas:
I remember when my own mother blocked me from traveling out with the lame excuse that I wasn't gonna keep in touch and I was gonna forget home. My uncle based in newyork was ready to come pick me and sponsor everything. He even sent money to get my passport which I did sharply. . Naso this woman stood in the way . It got so bad she started raising voice on my uncle . The man just quietly left us alone and stopped picking even my own calls. This happened in 2009. Till date I'm still stucked in naija. E pain me sha and anytime I see her I remember that incident but life goes on .

Sorry bro.

It is well.

Double your hustle

Well the wise lady above me has gotten to the root of the matter.

You are toast.

Good thing here is that she is giving you the things. So read the writings on the wall.

To avoid stories that touch, break up.

I cannot have a relationship with a lady that keeps lots of lady friends. Her friends end up having so much impact on the relationship.

Imagine if her friends are cheats, your guess is as good as mine..... Your girl is a cheat.

Finally, it's so sissy hearing guys crying about loving a girl. Come on, the world doesn't revolve around her gash.

Op, I believe you.

Some people here may not understand what you are going through.

If I told you how much that my dad was supposed to give me while he was alive but my mother stood in the way.

The matter is sure.... Help will not be coming from your dad.

Maybe you should consider learning some side hustle.

There are a lot of them here on nairaland. Pick one, stick with it. Watch YouTube videos. May God crown your effort with success.

Understand that not all women should be mothers.

Cheers.

Guys should just forget relationships.

They are just not ready.

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