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Skyfornia:
Hahahaha...boss you know me too well. I don dey fear you

We are together.

Skyfornia:
Lagos is fine if you can tolerate the traffic and different types of Owo da boys

You na rugged man. If you fit handle the stress of running business in Asaba.... You can handle anything, anywhere.

Skyfornia:
What do you think boss?

You are right.


Having seen your full message.

How is Lagos?

Skyfornia:
Some people don't actually like calls.. personally I prefer chats to calls, even when I want to make or receive call, I like it short, simple and straight to the point. I easily get bored when the call is a bit long.

But I can chat for hours and still enjoy it.

But in your girlfriend's case...I think she is not really into you, since she doesn't initiate calls or chats.

Sky......that's not true.

seanwilliam:
and you think he’s not done this countless numbers of time ? And ingrate is and ingrate bro

It's obvious that's what it is but the guy don enter be say he don enter.

Na dialogue we go dey advise am to follow.

vickydevoka:
Oga marriage way mama give u wife de last past dating. I came to realize that.

Not in all cases.

InTheCloudySky:
You can be serious with her without sex. Or since when is sex used to gauge seriousness in a relationship?

Another potential gold digger spotted A.K.A women supporting women.

Like a reasonable lady deborah98 said, 'if you ain't on the same page with her' better cut your losses and exit the parasitic relationship of no consequence.

If you think you need money to get sexual favours from a lady....patronise a hooker. It's a business arrangement with no room for heartbreak.

If you must date a lady, ensure you are not goaded into wanton spending. Have a spending threshold. Don't exceed it.

If you continue this way, you will have nothing on you to show.

A man's life is one filled with thankless sacrifices.

A question that begs to be answered should be: how long did you date her? Was she like this back then or were you all caught up in love and forgot to study her more.

For me any woman that nags is a bloody no no.

Guy, I want to believe that a heart to heart talk will ease the tension here.

So have that conversation with her. Life is very hard. She sounds like a child. How old is she? Reason with her though.

It is hell to have a contentious woman as a life partner.

Be strong.

MadamVanessa:
He may not be hansome facially, but believe me he's handsome dick-cally.

This dude makes me wet uncountable times back then when i used to watched him using is royal stallion dicck to pulverized ladies pussy. Dude too sabi knack abeg

You be legend.

docdes:
Sorry, I find it difficult to agree with you that Okonjo-Iweala worked as you said because she comes from a wealthy background. However, if I'm wrong, can you tell us where and where she worked.

But, please, don't get me wrong. I'm not saying that women shouldn't work or make their own money. I'm only saying why their need for financial support should be understood. For instance, when your wife is nursing a baby, you don't expect her to do her business even if her own entrepreneurial spirit is more than that of Jeff.

Child bearing must keep interrupting a woman's business. So, a man who doesn't understand this in order to fill up the gap is being unfair.

I agree with you on your submissions.


But concerning her status.

It was not handed over to her on a platter. She worked real good. Her current job today as the Director of World Trade Organisation was handed over to her based on merit. Google this.

Heck, she is respected the world over. This is something you earn.

Now on her family - the Okonjo family been wealthy, it wasn't always so. It was by the daint of hard work that it all happened.

Her own side of the family would not be concerned rich by any standard. Middle class, yes
but not rich.

If you do your due diligence in Ogwashi...you will arrive at this.

It's by virtue of her own work that she got recognised by the OBJ administration.

Being a government appointee has its perks too.

And handling over of the Obi title to her dad also elevated her family and conferred wealthy status to her family.

I would say she did put her family on the map based on her accomplishments.

dumahi:
You want every woman to be like Okonjo-Iweala abi? Now, if your woman starts hating you because you are not like Dangote, don't come here to cry that Nigerian girls are useless.

Yeah for a change.

Maybe less Nigerian women will not be deemed useless.

dumahi:
You want every woman to be like Okonjo-Iweala abi? Now, if your woman starts hating you because you are not like Dangote, don't come here to cry that Nigerian girls are useless.

Yes for a change.

Then women will cease been useless.

dumahi:
How sure are we that you know Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala Iweala so well? Were you living with her to know what happened between her and her husband? Or, you are just making up stories to sound believable?

Just because this is a faceless forum doesn't mean that the likes of Okonjo Iweala cannot have friends and family. I won't go beyond this.

Now back to the matter at hand.

Support your arguments with valid points.

docdes:
If Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala tells you the kind of support she got from her husband that helped her to where she is today, you could just faint. Like when she would be nursing a baby and suddenly has an exam to take. The man may be forced to become a babyseater or employ a nanny by force.

What kind of support are you talking about here?

For starters, I know her a lot intimately so you cannot go tell me more about someone I know very well.

Now, did you know that she worked her butt off before she met her man?

She was a goal getter before she met her man.

All through her life, she has been something of trailblazer.

She was the best in her class all through, regardless of the fact there were intelligent guys. Did she need her man's support here?

She took it a notch forward and made a name for herself.

She would be become what she is today without her man.

Let's take it further, we have the likes of Linda Ikeji that has her own shìt. Did you hear her crying for support? She handles her affairs.

Ladies leave this entitlement mentality. Work....hustle.

Parents should train the girl child to stop being a leech.

This is really illuminating.

So you made all this up to buttress your reasons why women love money.

What stops a woman from getting her only shìt.

Is she handicapped that she must wait for a man?

Is that how the likes of Okonjo Iwela became the household name that she is by waiting for every Tom, Dick and Harry to contribute to her upkeep? If she did we will not be celebrating her today.

The same brains, eyes, hands and time that she has is the same assets women world over are blessed with.

Women stop selling yourselves short. Most of you are better than the men you demand money from.

Go and make a life and stop picking rich men like a market woman selecting okirika bend down select style.