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Hidemyface:
Blockchain and cryptocurrency space with focus on international commodity trading. Can't drop site here cos that would reveal my identity but major announcements coming out soon.

Can I pm you?

Make una no kill person here..baldness fetish

@OP, please pack one side with your tips. Give women little power and see how they abuse it. Even if a military woman ask me out, I go run before someone redesign my handsome face one day. Civilian galz never finish for Lagos.

Hidemyface:
I'm not a young man. Must everybody marry?

Leave that mugu..he thinks marriage is for all. Don't do that. There's nothing as good as self respect and prestige. Get girls outside and invite them instead. You will hav regrets if you sleep with a compound girl. Scare them off like I'm doing. Are you a freelancer?

A lady in the church the other day approached a friend and told him that God revealed to her through dreams that he was the one meant for her and that he should pray to God for a sign on that.

My friend replied was that God should provide a good paying job as a sign within three months. It's been more than 6 months now and the lady claimed to be receiving the revelation continuously.

Some ladies have adopted that strategy too in hooking up with church guys

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@Op, first I want to commend your literary skills.

When I was 17, I was extremely pretty as a young man. I was shy and quiet and lack boldness. Two girlfriends i had then made the first move cuz i could not initiate conversation easily with girls.

Then I joined Supreme Vikings Confraternity and was taken to an abandoned uncompleted building in a bush where i was given a palace initiation that was accompanied with severe beating with matchets and would later to be conferred with Intel Chief post. I thought it would make me a strong and bold man but it didn't. Rather I was living in fear and was advised by a strike chief to get my gun cuz of bastards(Axemen) living around.

A month after, a full blown war broke out between rival cult groups which my cult group was one.I had a deep retrospect and remembered where I came from and how my decision might ruin reputation and break hearts.

I packed my things, left the school and started staying with a friend in another state. I registered for another UME, succeeded and relocated to Lagos where I started undergraduate programme afresh. In the midst of that, I found God.

I gave all my attention to studies and acquiring of knowledge. I rebuffed seduction of campus girls who always throw themselves to handsome guys. I developed confidence and boldness because of the level of my exposures.

Today, I am a lawyer and have two bachelor degrees to my credit.

You may leave the cult and start afresh in a pristine environment and surround yourself with very few friends of good characters. Trust me, you don't need girls at this stage. They only complicate your problems.

From your tone, I understand you are within the age range of 18-22. Don't worry by the time you attain your late 20s, you would understand the importance of loving parents in one's life.

Confidence and boldness come from living our purpose. Find yours

@OP, why disturb your life. Marry and raise another child. Whenever the baby grows and decide to know the father, she will locate you. Let go so long they are taking good care of her

victorian:
If he's not happy , he could easily have divorced her after our dads death.

At least she no tie am rope or chain for leg .

He's unarguably the richest amongst my elder siblings . He can divorce if he wants , nobody is stopping him but he chose to stay with her and I see nothing wrong in it .
People with younger wives are divorcing here and there , breaking each others head wit bottle and hammer in marriage but his own is not like that . Nobody has heard their voice outside .

Have u ever seen an older woman beaten black blue in her marriage and thrown out before ? Have you?

Or say an older woman in marriage wan commit suicide ? Have u?

So if he likes he can divorce his peaceful home and bring in a young 16. Its his choice . Na look we go just dey look am.

Abi?

Let's talk reasonably. How easy is it to divorce in a marriage that has produce one child, not to talk of marriage that has produce four children? Mind you, being ostensibly rich isn't enough reason to go into marriage or a justification for being forced into one. You need to reassess your orientation about marriage so as not to live miserably

victorian:
To be sincere , if my 23 years old son impregnated a 35 years old lady . He will marry her and I will support their marriage . But if he didn't impregnate her and he says he loves her so much and I interview the lady , then go into prayers . If God says in my spirit , she's the one for my son. Why not ? I will support and advice both of them.

My step brother , he impregnated a 36 years old lady during his Nysc . He thought it was just fun, and only one night of unprotected sex , she got pregnant, viam!
As soon as she noticed she was pregnant , she told him . but he denied it . She's a delta lady. She traced him to Lagos , where we all live together with our parents . She went straight to our dad and told him everything in the midst of tears . Our dad was perplexed . He called my step bro, that one denied it completely. The lady said , shes not looking for money to take care of the baby cause she's a high placed official in the government house , but she wants my step bro to be a good father to her kid , that's all.

My dad replied her and said look , give birth to this baby and if he looks like my son ? Then he MUST marry you! I don't train irresponsible children and none of my kids will bring down my name . So she left , after nine months she brought a son that looks exactly like my step bro! I mean carbon copy! The resemblance is just too much! My dad said Son! Get ready for your wedding ! You are marrying this woman , whether u have a job noe or not ! I will sponsor it myself ! None of my grand children will be labelled a bastard. That's how my step bro got married .
Its 20years now, they've been married with children , two boys and two girls .

He's so wealthy ehn? With properties here and there . I say this my step bro rich no be small. He got a chief tancy title in his wife village. Everyone knows she issues his company government contracts , that's how he made it to the top!

So it depends o!

Nice story. I'm sorry to say that your dad spoke like an unlearned man. What is a bastard? So every kids that are product of divorce or premarital marriage are bastards? What a backward man.

Your brother was not a man enough to say no to what he didn't want. He only got lucky

Satan66:
People these days go about yelling that Satan is a liar but what if he's not.
Ever thought about why there's no side of this story?
The Bible only shows God's side but never showed Satan side.
Remember there are 3 sides of a story.
But why do people hate him when they have never seen him or even know what he looks like?

I have not learnt Satan's side of the story why he was so much abhorred. I only learnt about Bible's version of it. So I do not hate him neither do I like him. He's just there and I am just here. I am not disturbing him and he is not disturbing me. Let's embrace the middle way.

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hardbody:
It's a pity about your story. Permit me to ask, what marriage did you both contract, was it just customary or did you seal it at a court's registry, or in the court where you were given a marriage certificate. The nature of the marriage will determine the approach to deploy. If it was a customary marriage, approach a customary court in the jurisdiction where you both reside and in your claim for divorce indicate the fact that your wife is not fit to keep the child and that you seek to retain the child in his or her best interest. If it's a marriage at the registry or recognized church, you will need to file a divorce proceeding, however, separation is legally allowed for you two to calm your nerves down and reassess your earlier intentions. Generally speaking, under the Matrimonial Causes Act, you cannot seek to get a divorce on a marriage that is less than 3yrs but there are extenuating circumstances under which exceptions can be granted.

Essentially you need to determine whether divorce is the best option and then involve a lawyer.

As has been said before, divorce takes a bit of time, you may need to work with the welfare to secure the upkeep of your child in the interim.

You may send me a mail for some guidance but as a matter of personal principle, i do not support or handle divorce proceedings.

Bro, are you practicing in Lagos

Susylex:
What happens once an African feels less interested?

Africans stay put even when they feel less interested. We don't joke with family

@OP, I blame your predicament on spending a lot of time watching Hollywood movies. White men are the least kind of men you would ever wish to get married to. Once they feel less interested, you are a history.

Most are unromantic, smelly and weak.

God bless all African men out there. I'm proud being a black man. My only regret is being a black man in Nigeria

I will gladly live and die single if given half of that money

Don't know how this is a big news. He was sentenced to a jail term of one year for tax evasion. Even footballers including C.Rinaldo was indicted for tax evasion.

When you talk about bad ass niggas, always remember tupac shakur and biggie. They are true definition of badass which present niggas lack cuz they are lilyhearted and don't wanna fcking die

Integrity and good reputation is better than silver and gold. Onnoghen may have acquired all these through dubious means but his integrity as a judge is gone forever and will always be remembered as a corruptible judge.

Buhari is despotic. There is no excuse to flouting constitutional provisions for selfish political gain. He is too old for all these. He better die with the integrity he has built so far than destroy everything he will be remembered for just like Onnoghen has done.

Integrity is priceless

Only uneducated fools and bigots would support the unconstitutionality of this suspension. Only if some understand what democracy and rule of law is all about.

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I have outrightly turned down girls more than 15 times I could be able to recall including yesterday. It's not a big deal.

Unfortunately, the scammers fail to realize that youth in Nigeria are ready to make their intimacy videos public if they are offered $500 given the state of penury recorded in Buhari administration

989900:
Take a short course in English comprehension, you might as well throw in basic sociology and psychology.

Well nairaland is an anonymous forum. I am certain that your low brain power cannot withstand a quarter of what I have neither is your academic qualifications close to what I have attained.

989900:
So, Tinubu is thrice richer than Dangote?

Tinubu is corrupt, but the above is just some gutter crapola.

He did well for the new Lagos, that's why his people could almost care less.

Only persons of low intelligence will use this logic you just apply.

You are elected to serve the people, you looted public resources, make yourself so indispensable using public resources and you said care less?

At most, he will live for the next 20-30 years and leave all these behind to his posterity who the properties and wealth he accumulated through dubious means will definitely destroy.

A life well lived is only a life of integrity that even men and spirits will attest to. I am very young yet wiser than some of these old f00ls.

GidiWoodsMan:
Education has little value in African societies enslaved to despotic leaders. Paul Biya possesses a chain of palaces and billions of dollars in assets hidden all over the globe, while these his subjects live like cavemen in the 21st century, and this story is the same all over Africa.

Someone tell me what exactly are the qualities that make the black man better than a wild animal?

You are absolutely right. Black men are barbaric and insensitive. What reasonable man would keep more than his third generations could not be able to finish and leave the rest of the society to abject penury. Africa glorifies ill-gotten wealth.

Why this suffering just to make a living when someone with pen can write off 5 million naira in 5 minutes. Please get education first even though there is no job.

It is possible these guys are making equivalent of 60k per month at Cameroon after all these life threatening gymnastics.

The world is structured in a pyramid-like shape where the 1% philosophers and rich of the earth are at the pinnacle of the pyramid. professionals and entrepreneurs comes next, artisans follow suit and finally labourers.

The top 1% controls the 99% of the world populations. To live is to eat and to eat is to work. All other groups except the top 1% are slaves but they are yet to realize it.

Let me stop here

No wonder they say most women have fish brain..

Daymur:
Sagay was of the view that the substance of the charge against Chief Justice Onnoghen “is deliberately being abandoned by the SANs and some other lawyers.”

“Why is Nigeria such a Theatre of the Absurd? Today, we are only talking about preliminary objections, interim injunctions, challenge of jurisdiction, wrong procedure, etc., etc.

“Nobody is talking about the substantive issue any longer. That is now lost in the sands of time.


http://thenationonlineng.net/sagay-njc-cant-consider-onnoghens-case/




This section of the write up caught my attention!

A time will come, when no Nigerian lawyer will be found worthy of prosecuting a decent case at the international level if some of them continue to thread through this "unprofessional" path, all in the name of making money for themselves!

#Myopinion

Employment of technicalities to delay or help one's case is used by every lawyer in every jurisdiction. I am a lawyer and I dare any lawyer to come forward and prove me wrong.

What you would have advocated is a total revamp of our justice system where cases of such nature are tried within a stipulated short period.

Trendy247:
Some ppl are already paying 5k each to get the job

I learnt the pay is 14,600. How can a reasonable person pay 5k to get the job

ib0221:
Hello everyone, we are in need of young lawyer and an accountant around Lekki- Ajah corridor. The lawyer is to advise and handle legal issues while the account is needed to keep our books.

I am a lawyer though not staying within lekki-ajah axis. What's the remuneration for the position? Kindly reply.

scottnwokedi27@gmail.com

silastemplar:
what is the position Of The law?

The constitution envisaged a situation where the Judiciary is corrupt and created NJC for the purpose of investigating any criminal or corruptible act of any member of the Judiciary. The Court of Appeal upheld same when a similar case was before it. The reason Judiciary is not vested with immunity from prosecution is because of the sensitive nature of their roles as the last hope of a common man. The worst thing that will happen to any nation is when justice is sold for a piece of meat.

The principle of nemo judex incausa sua is also relevant here in the sense that the CJN being the chairman of NJC can recuse himself from the council for the purpose of investigating the alleged incomplete declaration of Assets mandated by law.

The Judiciary like other arms of government should be respected. The president through AGF ought to petition to NJC to investigate CJN. The outcome of their investigation determines whether the CJN will be prosecuted or not.

Trying to undermine the position of CJN who is the arrow-head of legal profession and body of benchers is casting aspersions and disgrace to the entire legal profession.