₦airaland Forum

Have you considered that the successful musicians had/have great managers who understood the BUSINESS of music?

It’s beyond talent.

There’s marketing, branding, accounting… you get the drift.

Not everything is spiritual.

Freshtruth:
Rekadoo banks leave Mavin he start going down
Lil kesh left YbNL he start going down
Mayorkun left DMW he start going down
Iyanya left he start going down
Dbanj wandel coal left they start going down
So many no matter how good u are u go down
Skales left EME he starts going down

But this set of guys knows the spirituality itself
Wizkid left EME he still stands
Davido left HKN he still stands
Burma boy left Aristo music he still stands

Watch out for rugier who left Jonzing world and let see

If Davido sings nonsense the nonsense still make trend his verse at Twetwe that is what is now everybody loves listening to at twe twe song and u think is normal. WizKid has been singing dried songs for the past 5years now but it still tops d charts at American billboard you will be there thinking is normal. This guys know the spirituality they into.

Don’t be silly.

CrossRhodes:
You were in military school at about 4-6 years?👍

People are discussing concepts they don’t understand.

This is a wonderful approach.

Timoleon:
Better beatings wey I chop for command, I no fit tell them for house because I go chop extra for house, my papa go bring me back school say make them add more punishment join.

Unfortunately though, I try to be cautious with my children. When they say their teacher beat them, I ask where did the teacher beat you confirm there are no marks, were you disturbing in class, did you do what teacher asked you to do? did you disobey the teacher? I assure them they'll be fine and encourage them to be of good behavior.

Things can get out of hand sometimes like I'm this case, I however like to believe that most teacher have good intentions than just outright wickedness.

A lot of parents have become feminized, without having any data to back the soft treatment for kids.

You’re in Nigeria.

Flog your child if he deserves it. He/she won’t die, and you won’t go to jail. Your child will love you for it when he is old enough to understand.

Flog without crossing the line into abuse though.

The highly romanticized Western world are now battling with the lagging effects of treating kids like delicate flowers.

Yes.

And it was fun in a twisted way.

Roboto11:
Would you have turned out worse if a milder strategy was utilised?

No.

press9jatv:
😂 i don’t get your comments well. Can you elaborate further

A Male drone is not a worthy prize.

press9jatv:
How I met my husband on TikTok after my ex broke up with me, and we got married within 6 months — Lady narrates.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k6IE9mKaS_s?si=jvNxnaat5pbe0FLn

Pshew

Longdon1:
I got married when I was 19 and my husband was 20. Now I’m 25 and he’s 26 and we have two kids (5 and 3).

Four years ago, while I was pregnant with my second son I found out he had an onlyfans account and it really upset me. I made my boundaries clear and explained that I was not okay with this because he’s paying them, but I was still okay with porn. Then a couple months later I found out he was still using onlyfans and on top of it had subscribed to one of my friend’s onlyfans. I talked to him again and explained that I would leave him over this. Another couple months go by and he’s STILL using onlyfans. At this point he had spent like $500 on it and I was obviously upset. I ended up leaving him and moving out with my two kids. A year went by of coparenting and eventually we talked it through and ended up back together. A couple months into being together I saw he had made on subscription to onlyfans, so I confronted him. He apologized and I was so confused because I literally just moved back with him so I ignored it that time.

It’s been one year since then and earlier this week I found out that he got an email from onlyfans. The email said his subscription was ending so I ended up changing the password and getting into his account. Turns out for all of 2023 he’s been subscribing to onlyfans. When I confronted him, he was just kind of listening but had nothing to say. I told him I needed to think and have no confronted him since.

The issue is in all other ways he’s a pretty decent partner. He drives me everywhere because he knows I don’t like to. He cleans, takes care of the kids, works. But I just can’t understand why he has to keep doing this and at this point I feel like I almost have to leave bc he clearly is not respecting me or my boundaries. On the other hand it would suck to leave because he’s my bestfriend and I love him and I’ve never really had to do life without him.

This response time is too slow

Man102:
Source :https://politicsnigeria.com/economic-hardship-tinubus-govt-begins-distribution-of-grains-to-states/#google_vignette

I dislike unnecessary emotions. He won’t die.

If unjustly inflicted, that’s a different case.

Had my back like this a lot in military school.

money121:
In all honesty, it can't happen to my son in the first place, but if they chose to dare me, the teacher and the principal will go in for it.



fergie001, Mynd44, OAM4J Seun Nlfpmod

Faithfulness isn’t conditional.

Be faithful because you want to be, and because it’s your character, not as a reward for faithfulness from the other party.

chiommy123:
I have no issues with DNA but if you want your wife to be faithful to you please be faithful to her as well

Some people will attack you for saying this.

Are you sure you’re female.

Beverlyjean:
Nothing can be compared to paternity fraud .... a man having a child outside without the knowledge of his wife is not as bad as paternity fraud ... at least the wife wasn't deceived into thinking her own child belongs to her .... the only thing that can be compared to paternity fraud is if a woman gives birth and then the husbands kills the baby in the hospital while the wife was sleeping and then replaces the baby with his side chics baby ... now , how will the woman feel I after 20yrs , she discovers what her husband did and other men now say , accept the child , afterall the child has grown to see u as the mother and u should forgive the husband and continue life like nothing happened .... that was blessing CEO' s suggestion on how to handle it

In fact, if we look into nature, we can see how far we have strayed.

For example:

In nature, the male animal is usually more brightly colored, bigger, more flamboyant, more physically attractive, than the female. (the lion va the lionnes; the peacock vs the pea-hen; the cockrel vs the hen).

In humans, it is the same.

Without makeup in the mix, the human male is more attractive, bigger, more flamboyant than human females on average.

Very funny.

A simple example are lions. The lioness hunts mostly, with infrequent assists by the male.

Provisioning by animals is strictly for sex.

in many species of insects, birds and mammals, males acquire and donate food to females either before, during, or after copulation (termed mate provisioning, courtship feeding, nuptial gift giving, or meat-for-sex).

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nuptial_gift#:~:text=In%20many%20species%20of%20insects,meat%2Dfor%2Dsex).

Franzinni:
yes only MEN are to provide for women and children, it is nature I am talking about here not some woke ideology... You can see it in animals and humans alike .... Men provide and women nurture... That is why a woman who doesn't have a man to lead her, despite having all the wealth in this world, will always feel inadequate, likewise a man who is not able to provide and protect will always feel inadequate.... Which brings me back to my earlier point, you need to focus your thinking and stop letting it run FREE

I wish him quick recovery.

Some women do not have stable core identities. They cannot withstand extreme/sustained mental pressure.

Icceyfrosh12:
Architect Onyelowe Dandison has cried out for the world to put on record how a wife she married with his own money poured him boiling hot tomato paste just for punishing his daughter.

"If I d!e this morning, let the world know that a woman I married and cared for poured me hot tomato because I bea++t my daughter. I'm losing everything."

The young Lagos-based progressive is currently receiving intensive care where he is battling for survival.

Only the keenly observant can see this.

Joey4321:
So you mean Nigeria is slowly taking shape under Tinubu?

Vision is everything.

Lagos used to be ultra-crap at a point.

Jokerman:
Ogun is the worse governed state on Nigeria... How can you have close proximity with Lagos and still look like village?

No way to hide from data.

The good news is, whatever can be measured can be improved.

BeninRefugees:
DEPRAVITY ACROSS 4 PILLARS - OGUN & OSUN

PILLARS: Health, Education, Living Standard and Work & Shock



OVERALL - MULTIDIMENSIONALLY POOR
Ogun: 68.1% || Osun: 40.7%


#Statisense

May be.

ogododo:
https://punchng.com/breaking-killers-of-16-soldiers-may-be-mercenaries-not-nigerians-akpabio/

Arbitrary and imaginary lines drawn on the earth.

Orubebe01:
Check this out too

The easiest thing to do is to Reach out to the school and ask.

If you’re not satisfied, then don’t provide it.

gfelo:
Please nairalanders my girl friend had a baby for me 3years ago and I promise to marry her, but due to the nature of my work am not always around, suddenly the mother in law called me and ask me about my genotype that the school the went to enrolled my baby is asking for my genotype.

I can't really understand why the school is asking for my genotype.

Please doctors and teachers help me.

Mod please to front-page

Virtue signal. Lol.

EreluRoz:
Few years back this man tried to make advances at me but was not bold enough to do so but he kept gifting me different things and crediting my account of which I never asked for. He was familiarizing with people around me and comes to our house to greet my mom because he lives nearby, will call me to greet me before going and all those unnecessary famzing. But he never had that boldness to ask me out.

On my part I never demanded anything from him and whenever I want to reject his gifts and cash I couldn't because it always comes at the right time. I can't count the number of times I have sworn never to accept his gifts and cash but never for once did I keep to my words because he's gifted in sending cash and gifts at the perfect time.

This man is very unattractive to me, like that man you'll not even want anybody to see you standing with , so it has never even crossed my mind to have anything with him. So I summoned courage one day and text him to stop all those univited visits and stop wasting his time because I can never date someone like him(I was young and said some nasty things I regretted later) and unfortunately his cousins saw my nasty message to him, told others and they all wear this scornful looks whenever they see me as I later learnt my message caused problems in their house. Well, he stopped coming to our house, he relocated to a new place as I learnt he got a job that took him away from our location.

I never felt remorseful about all I did to him till recently as I'm now older and wiser. So, I was somewhere doing something and he also came there and saw me first, I was expecting a very cold reaction from him but he immediately came over and was very happy to see me, started gisting and all that, I gave him attention just to make up for my earlier bad attitude, I apologized over how I treated him and he said it's nothing that he's not holding anything against me as I was very young then. Before I say jerk he went to his car and gave me some bundles of cash, requested for my account number and he won't even accept my refusal to give him. So that's how this man resumed sending me money again, infact he's obviously now richer because if I mentioned the alert I always receive from this man nobody will believe me here. I narrated everything to my brother because he knew all I did to him back then, my brother started calling him fool which I felt bad and cautioned him to stop.

Now this man has not made any advances or wooed me but he's already acting more than a partner, infact I feel so guilty each time I see his alerts and calls. God knows I can never date him but I'm beginning to be so uncomfortable with all these. Let me not lie, it's so hard to reject his money as it usually comes at the right time.

Let me also add that he later got married but his wife left him few years into their marriage.

Honestly I'm tired and want to be free from all these.

Please am I at fault here? Or is he God sent to ease me at my times of need? Why am I feeling so guilty even though I have never requested anything from him?
Am I in trouble and what will be the end result of all these?

Don’t refer to your service as “cheap”.

Use the word “affordable”.

There’s a huge difference in perception.

Santana1:
Nawaoooh
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Meanwhile at a cheap price dm me for your logo and flyer design

Lol.

The marriage didn’t wreck you. It saved you from a lifetime of manipulation. In fact, this is proof that God loves you.

Give Thanks to him everyday when you wake up and before you go to bed.

Someone has been praying for you.

dre11:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b4w31Bck3zk?si=rZ1WNAzeesRSrdB1

‘This marriage wrecked me’ — Man narrates how DNA shows he’s not father of SS ‘son’




https://www.vanguardngr.com/2024/03/this-marriage-wrecked-me-man-narrates-how-dna-shows-hes-not-father-of-ss-son/

You can’t convince me these thieves don’t complain about the government.

It’s always someone else to blame for the woes of the country, never their individual conduct.

Most Nigerians are delusional.

ryloy:
https://dailypost.ng/2024/03/19/otti-warns-as-thieves-damage-public-gutters-in-aba-sell-off-rods-as-scraps/

This is the result of direct experience.

When you decide to see the truth, your eyes will finally see reality.

achorladey:
While still a member, I used to defend the sisters that you simply cannot have anything sexual or sensual with them when you are not a member in fact they are married as virgins. I was in a business centre discussing this with someone who knew I was a member back then. The person kept laughing seriously and hard that I am still a novice about what goes on in there.


When I gained admission into one of the higher institutions here in Nigeria, my eyes begin to see wetin I refuse to admit. Since then the quote "your eyes see what you want it to see no dey leave my brains. I will be seated in class on my own and you will see my fellow brother in Jehovah’s witnesses coming to gist about the latest going within their midst involving brothers and sisters, those disfellowshipped, reproved over sexual immorality. I never spend months for school sef they were still questioning some of them about the get together gathering they organised and what happened during that day. I will be on holiday different news begin to come in about the same issues in the congregation I associated with back home since I begin to make my eyes open to see what really happens in that direction.


I go national service again na jeje I sit down wey one came to me to start narrating how one of the principal member of the congregation who started national service together with us same batch and year was busy servicing a lady who is one of the those studying bible with Jehovah’s witnesses. The lady was not even his own Bible student, because they will hardly accept a male conducting bible studies with a female especially when they are grown ups. He was reproved codedly and nobody here pim after all elders and ministerial servants dey cover up for one another inside congregation. I got to know because the person who informed me was one of the principal officer while I was still an ordinary publisher

Madonna song.... How can life be what you want it to be? You're frozen. When your heart's not open. That's what the religious organization and its leadership does to their heart. They want it frozen, spellbind, regimented. Anyone that their heart becomes open about what they do in there, that person no go last inside that organisation or the person choose to be what is called PHYSICAL IN MENTALLY OUT. Many of the members are in this state going to meetings to mark register but hardly follow the spiritual food or follow instructions given. Should anyone who don invest seriously inside the organisation go out, all the social structures they have is gone and can lead to suicide.

A large part of the Bible is derived from other more ancient texts.

Even the New Testament is incomplete, with several books removed (for example, The gospel of Thomas)

The account of the flood, the garden of eden stories are found on tablets that predate the Bible by over 2500 years.

This is not hearsay; the writing are located in museums and institutions all over the world.

https://time.com/44631/noah-christians-flood-aronofsky/

You were not there when the Bible was written. You were told all you believe about it.

Any truth you have not personally verified remains a theory, something you believe without evidence.

The hardwork of genuine Christianity lies in the verification.

It’s not easy; it’s hard, painful and entails much suffering, but at the end, you know the truth, and the truth sets you free.

Maximus692:
Wrong! That's not what nature teaches but let's leave that for another day because you're already against the one and only source of divine wisdom: Bible!

Compose yourself.

Racoon:
All of them including the corrupt incompetent fella that appoints them are all useless sitting lame ducks.

Actually, the political parties select the leader at the primaries. That’s where the real decision is made.

the people only choose from the options on offer.


That said, Blaming the leader is a Nigerian habit.

Taking personal responsibility is strange to most of us.

zhike:
In this group most of the people are blaming leaders for Nigeria not to develop.

Kindly who elects Nigerian Leaders?

The campaign has never stopped for one day.

naptu2:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lAXFvg9VxsI?si=C6IESZ9DNTyVZJyI




https://www.legit.ng/nigeria/1584154-trending-video-peter-obi-joins-hundreds-muslims-iftar-central-mosque-maraba-nyanya/