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A wiseman.

This is where olamide got his lines from.

betonnaira:
Very funny yoruba scene.
how times fly



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jAtCsPPv4Xo?si=-8Jtbv8m3m3Io7vh

Thanks for waiting out the unserious elements.

Multiversed:
Thanks you got the name.

I appreciate your Input so much🙏

They both look good.

DyshApp:
Nollywood actress Rita Dominic has revealed the reason she waited till the age of 46 to get married.

According to the actress, she wanted to marry for the right reasons and not due to societal pressure.

She stated that, while she met a number of decent men, they were not compatible, and she is not a person to force things that aren’t working.

“I wanted to be sure that I was married for the right reasons, not for the reasons that stemmed from societal pressure,” said the actress.

“Even before I got married, the pressure was there for years, but I just turned a deaf ear.

“Like I always say, I will marry the man of my dreams and not the man society dreams for me.

“If anything goes wrong tomorrow, I will be the one left to pick up the pieces, not the society.”

Rita Dominic and Fidelis Anosike tied the knot traditionally in April 2022.

The wedding ceremony took place in North Yorkshire, England, in November 2022.

The grand ceremonies were well attended by both of their industry colleagues.

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Open your eyes.

Multiple sources of high quality emotional energy channeling into one figurehead.

A great man.

Europeans are not the standard.

OneCandleAway:
Imagine if the European monarch was marrying like this, the citizens would have beheaded them.

The money he would have used to help his people with better life is used to taking care of women. Just imagine king Charles should say he wants to marry one more wife, imagine what uk people will do to him

Christianity is a religion, and it is man-made.

You are called to be a Christ, to be just like-christ, and that goal is greater than Christianity, greater than any man-made religion.

jesusjnr2020:
What Makes A True Christian?

A true Christian simply put, is anyone who follows the teachings of Christ.

This is according to Webster, Cambridge, Oxford, Collins dictionaries and also Wikipedia.

The word 'Christian', actually emanated from the world. They were the ones that first called the disciples of Christ, Christians, hence they should know a thing or two about what the word really means.

"And the disciples were called Christians first in Antioch." (Acts 11:26)

Prior to this, Christians were called disciples of Christ, and this is what a true disciple means according to Jesus.

John 8:31 (KJV)

Then said Jesus to those Jews which believed on him, If ye continue in my word, then are ye my disciples indeed;

So as you can clearly see, the definition of a true Christian according to the "worldly" dictionaries tallies with that Jesus gave of a true disciple.

A true Christian or disciple of Christ is one who follows the teachings of Christ.

God bless.

These are all branches of the same tree.

An indisciplined, uncontrolled imagination.

cutecommend:
Looking at the way the world is perverse, what sexual addiction enslaves the most..

(A) Fornication.
(B) Masturbation.
(C) Adultery.
(D) Bestiality.
(E) Homosexuality.
(F) Lesbianism

Etc.

I salute you ma’am

TheWinterBird:
Being a virgin in your 20s is no big deal. Try being in your 30s and still a virgin. #virginforlife

Don’t be a troll.

Calling it a threat is your perspective.

Your perspective is your business, not mine.

I repeat, she alone will enjoy or suffer the consequences of her decision.

Kobojunkie:
Would you equally advise a man, a friend of yours, or even your brother, whose wife has been cheating on him for the last 6 years to seek out this same wisdom of these grandmothers or grandfathers in successful marriages? YES or NO!

Humans eat consequences for breakfast, lunch, and dinner. No need to threaten anyone with it. The consequence of OP's husband cheating on her for 6 years is depression/mental abuse which OP is fed up with. She is not the one cheating but she is definitely dealing with one of the consequences of her husband's adultery. So, would you equally advice a brother or son of yours to accept such a condition as a consequence?

- She looks pregnant. Maybe it was a shotgun wedding.

- They could be tired from preparing for the event.

- Maybe that is how their faces are.

Asawoboy:

She WILL face the consequences of her decisions.

It’s Wisdom to seek counsel.

Kobojunkie:
Even babies face consequences so stop threatening op with it.

2. Would you equally advice a man, a friend of yours or even your brother, whose wife has been cheating on him for the last 6 years to seek out the wisdom of these grandmothers or grandfather's in successful marriages?

In this economy.
Better take it.

NLCreator:
See funny reactions below

Thank you for this.

Trendy247:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zlbgYR2NK5c

Let’s keep this simple.

She would still have to make her decision and ultimately face the consequences alone.

The grandmothers provide her with access to multiple 20/30 year experiences/wisdom.

She doesn’t have to go down that route.

Kobojunkie:
I don't know enough about her marriage to comment given she too may be yet another "successful" in marriage grandmother as well. I recall reading of another successful women who recently lost her successful-in-marriage status after 30 years of the endurance game. I guess we have to remove her from the list since she couldn't endure until the end, right?

Nigerian society is sick, abi? Like say na the air and not the people wey dey carry all of that sickness around.

Let’s consider someone like Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala.

The Nigerian society is sick, fyi.

Kobojunkie:
Considering the vast majority of Nigerian grandmothers who Nigerian society considers successful in marriage are mostly that, psychologically battered women, what else?

It’s a game.

Keep playing.

Proddigeyy:


How many sniper can do the needful please, this life don tire person..

That’s a weird definition of success.

What is the matter with you.

Kobojunkie:
By successful homes you mean women who endured in silence abuse and deceit in marriage from their husbands in silence, all at the cost of their mental health, abi?

I sometimes Imagine that we are actually living water, and the human body is simply a container we use to move around on land.

Drinking enough water also keeps the skin elastic and prevents premature aging.

Unlimitedwords:
Discover Other Benefits of Drinking Water .

In the midst of scorching heat and the increasing harshness of weather, it is essential to prioritize our relationship with water. This is particularly relevant given the untold hardships faced in Nigeria, where weather patterns have become a reliable indicator of the challenging circumstances we face.

Outlined below are five fundamental benefits of water:

Regulates Body Temperature: Water plays a crucial role in maintaining a normal body temperature. As we perspire, water assists in the evaporation process, thereby cooling our bodies and preventing overheating.

Lubricates and Cushions Joints: Proper hydration ensures that our joints remain well-lubricated, reducing friction between bones and preventing discomfort or pain. By cushioning the joints, water also assists in shock absorption, minimizing the impact of strenuous activities.

Protects Vital Tissues: The importance of water extends beyond physical comfort. It acts as a protective barrier for sensitive tissues like the spinal cord, preventing injuries and maintaining their optimal functionality.

Assists in Waste Removal: Water is a key component of various bodily processes responsible for eliminating waste. Through urination, perspiration, and bowel movements, water aids in the efficient removal of toxins and waste products from the body, promoting overall health.

Enhances Focus and Concentration: Remaining adequately hydrated is directly linked to cognitive function. Numerous studies have demonstrated that dehydration can impair concentration, alertness, and overall mental performance. By consuming enough water, we can ensure that our minds remain sharp and focused, enhancing productivity and overall well-being.

Recognizing the benefits of water is of utmost importance, particularly in the face of severe weather conditions and the increasing challenges brought about by climate change. By keeping our bodies hydrated, we not only protect ourselves physically but also optimize our mental and emotional well-being. Let us embrace a water-friendly approach and prioritize this essential resource for a healthier and happier life.

Nigerians need to logout of the suicide frequency NOW.

NaijaCoverBlog:
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Dead bodies have been hidden from sight.

Our ancestors gave birth and died surrounded by family. Death wasn’t something you needed to go somewhere special to see.

Maybe that was why people were more grounded back then.

JuanXXx:
So someone close to me died and her body was deposited at the morgue and luckily for me, the place is just a few step from my friends place ( I often sleep there).

Got there, I meet the attendant and it was only one guy on duty. I was sho, only you dey manage all dead body here, na boss you be oo.

I was leading the way and he told me to wait outside while he enter first and signal for me to come later.
I sha allow him to lead and wait at the reception with my friend( baba dey fear give excuse).

Few minute, he told me to come and I obliged. Omo corps was littered everywhere. Normal local morgue oo. Formalin was used to persevere all of them and they are all of different size and shape. I knew I was going there to see some cadavers, but when I got there, a different reality was dawn on me. If is should count they should be more than 400. He showed me her body and I told him okay let's go. I spent less than 2 minutes, not because I was afraid but the stench be killing me.
After that incidence, I see life from different perspectives. Like, at the end of the day we all equal. Omo, there is no class or status there. Everyone is equal, naked and laying next each other...

Just try to enjoy life while you are alive, try all your possible best to be happy with/without drug. Spread the happiness, if na joint share am and food or update.

LOL. Marital advice from Nairaland.

Here goes:

From your write up it’s obvious it’s only money keeping you with him.

Raise the money and leave if you want.

Only you will enjoy or suffer any consequence.

An alternative is to look for grandmothers and older women with successful homes around you and ask for their advice.

Uzorbaby:
Good evening house, I opened a new account for this issues. This is my ninth years in marriage with 3 kids and since the third year till now the problem I keep having with my husband is infidelity, when ever I catch him he apologises but still continues. Recently I found out he is into a single mother who claim to be a deconess and he opened a business for her and doesn't feel apologetic about it, this same lady when I had not discovered their affairs he sends her his last card and begs me for money. He calls her everyday , video calls her and sends her money frequently.right now I feel faustrated and depressed. I will really love to leave him and rent a house close to my shop but the amount to do that will greatly affect my business if I do that because I just started it 3 months ago. I just need someone I can talk to, gist about normal stuff of life so that my mind can move away from him pending when I will be able to rent a house. I just want to be happy

I entreat every sane person to boycott this vial of hate masquerading as a human.

Ignore its posts. Don’t like or comment on anything it posts.

Lack of attention will reset its confused brain.

Jennyclay:
Not again!!

Another animalistic behavior from these foolish men

God will punish those evil men that did this to her. Their generation upon generation will suffer for this. Amen!!

I just pray the culprit are caught and sentenced to death ASAP!

I hate men!

Positive Change is slowly but surely taking place.

[quote author=wwwihy post=128894665]Posted by Presidential Media aide, Bayo Onanuga[/quote]

99.9% of Nigerians are corrupt. Even you reading this.

We don’t see the log in our own eye.

Thissystem:
https://dailypostngr.com/2024/03/n4-8bn-fraud-ibeto-refunded-n1-5bn-settled-for-plea-bargain-efcc/

No government can’t protect you.

If they could, the mass shootings wouldn’t be happening in the US.

iwaeda:
https://dailytrust.com/breaking-bandits-invade-plateau-market-gun-down-7/

Very few humans are free from slavery. We don’t recognize it because the form has been changing.

Whatever a slave owns belongs to its master, even the slave’s children.

Your car, your house don’t belong to you, you only have the permission of the real owner, the government, to use it.

If you don’t believe me, refuse to pay for your vehicle license or land use charge and see what happens.

People are assets, products with serial numbers disguised as National identity and social security numbers.

You are the property of the government, and the government itself is property to a higher group of people.

That’s what gives them the confidence to tell the government what to do.

Morbeta11:
https://punchng.com/vat-in-nigeria-very-low-eu-ecowas/

Money ritual:

Jumping into a parallel, richer universe by executing a highly improbable action.

dre11:
https://leadership.ng/man-beheads-daughter-for-alleged-money-ritual-in-edo/

Faulty thinking.

endsarrrs:
RIP to the kids. My sympathy to the parents

Men have done more damage to humanity than fixing it.

Why is it always MEN MEN and MEN that are the cause of almost every bad things happening globally?


The worst the female gender did was to eat the "apple 🍎 of Eden"


Very painful to loose two kids to recklessness of some drivers

Key.
It won’t always matter but it might give enough time for evasive action.

“Pedestrians are also urged to avoid backing traffic while walking by the roadside. Rather, they should face oncoming traffic to avert danger.”

OgaDeyVex:
Source: https://punchng.com/speeding-driver-kills-siblings-in-ogun/

LOL

You people will not read the Bible for yourself.

Iamanoited:
NO. NOT SO. THE BIBLE IS THE WORD. OF GOD THAT WAS WITH GOD AT THE BEGINNING AND IS GOD. THE BIBLE IS DEMOCRACY. JUST FOLLOW THE MANTRA. DON'T BE HAMAS IN GAZA, BOKOHARAM IN NIGERIA, PUTIN IN UKRAINE NOR DISTABILIZE DEMOCRACY IN THE US.

ORISA37
WON'T WORK.

Good points.

Let those men enter with eyes open and a clear understanding of how to protect themselves.

MrBrownJay1:
TRUE, but that certainly does not mean that no man should enter such system. many men are winning in marriage. many men are happy to give their ex wife whatever the law decides. it might be a loss to you, but it aint a big deal to many of these dudes. anything that benefits your children ultimately shouldnt be such a headache.



such an extreme way to look at that issue... what about A) having a tight prenup or B) put all your assets under a trust/LLC before getting married or C) dont get divorced and instead get a 2nd/3rd wife? that would solve the issue too, right?
BTW the marriage system is not the problem here, the law on divorce is what matters, and i highly doubt that divorced Nigerian men have to give up as much as divorced men in the western world. when did you ever heard that a divorced Nigerian had to give half his wealth to his wife or even pay outrageous child support?



- what alternatives do you have for men that need a union focussed on COMMITTMENT/SECURITY/LEGACY?
- what alternatives do you have for all the yeye religious men who are brainwashed to believe that unless legally married, they cannot have any physical contact with and/or mount a woman ?

A new lease on life

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