Watching porn and masturbation goes together like peas in a pod. Masturbation is the most reliable instant gratification a person can achieve almost free of charge.
Has it ever occurred to you why porn is so goddamn free and accessible? Have you wondered why countries hardly ever blocked porn sites? How many people do you know that watch porn with VPN? The answer is a resounding 0! Even in the most religious Arab country, porn is free to access.
These days, on social media and almost every thread has a porn star or wannabe that will pollute the thread with their nudity, both men and women. The world just goes on like kids don't have access to this but you see that activity that brings life, the power to which we as humans don't fully understand, is being corrupted for the sole reason of making men weak. You sef think am now!
Men are now at their weakest. The elite are ensuring mean are weak sexually and mentally, two things the structurally define a man. You can imagine heading to apps like Bigo Live or Buzzcast only to find your average innocent next door girl live streaming her nudity and teasing men who in turn gift her money for visual gratification. I hear every day, more and more young girls are into this and weak men are financing this madness. It is impossible to be a registered member of these sites and connect your wallet or bank account to fund it to gift women money for flashing sensitive body parts without being a porn addict firstly. Same with Onlyfans and Allaccessfans for those abroad.
A lot of us are porn addicts but prefer to deny it or ignore the fact and be like "I watch porn, so? I go still dey watch am dey go". It is better to get your dopamine from other sources than masturbation. Every time a man orgasms, the energy release is 5 times stronger than a woman's. I'm not talking about flesh pleasures but pure energy. There's a good reason a woman can orgasm 5 times in one hour for the next 6 hours if she has a stallion guy or a sex machine. Women can masturbate for 3 hours if they're home alone. No man can try this. They will move his corpse out if he tries it.
Everything must be done in moderation with the application of wisdom. You might come online to call men simps but you yourself are a simp and you know it deep down. You're getting weaker daily and porn is ruining your cognitive function, your relationships, in fact, your whole life.
Tell me one reasonable purpose of porn if you can think of one.
In my opinión, a long distance relationship is like dating a ghost.
BeautifulSolace: I've been dating my boyfriend since 2021, and he's a good person whom I trust because he doesn't hide anything from me. Last year, he traveled to Lagos, creating a long-distance relationship. Despite not having evidence of cheating and maintaining strong communication, I often worry that all men can't stay without sex.
Namaster: We later resolved our family issues with my husband and asked me to return to my matrimonial home. I even promised not to have an extramarital affair with the man again. On the day of the incident, Ishaya came to take me out again, but couldn't meet me at home at that time", Libiyatu further narrated.
NEVER take back a cheating woman. Only a man with no self-respect or dignity will take back a woman who has gobbled the diiick of another man.
In fact if your wife comments that a celebrity on TV is sexy while she's with you, send her packing.
Never mind that you'll be accused of insecurity or immaturity. That's how they get men to play their games.
Check your wife's phone as much as you like. If she has a problem with it, send her packing.
Whatever you do, NEVER tolerate cheating or the appearance of cheating. You could be saving your life.
EnglishUsa: I always tell people to limit their speeding on cars, but they won't listen 👂... Speed don't help anything in driving of cars in Nigeria. A car travelling from Lagos to abuja with the speed of 130 and a car travelling from Lagos to abuja with the speed of 50, do not be surprised that a car running on speed of 130 will stop at ondo to eat and only for you to wash your hands to start eating and you will see the driver that is running 50 from Lagos will come in immediately to eat... The speed at night is something else, I don't know where they are rushing to, I don't know if they are rushing for emergency or someone called them that someone is dieing. May his soul rest in peace
SOLUDO INSPECTS ONGOING/COMPLETED PROJECTS AT OKPOKO OGBARU AND NIGER STREET FEGGE
Governor Charles Chukwuma Soludo on Wednesday, March 5t , 2024 during his routine project inspection visited Obodoukwu Road Okpoko, Coke market Ogbaru Local Government Area and Niger Street, Fegge, Onitsha South LGA.
Obodoukwu Road: He commended the new Construction Company handling the Obodoukwu Road project for their steadfast and swift work which indicates the project will be delivered at record time.
He reiterate his resolve to transforming Okpoko from a slum to an enviable habitat.
Coke Market: Soludo who had initiated talks between government representatives and displaced Coke Market earlier promised them the market could be opened if the traders will play their part.
Having fulfilled his promise to restore the traders back to the market, Mr Governor urged them to ensure they keep the market environment clean as his government is committed to sustaining clean, prosperous, livable, and secured Anambra.
Niger Street: Mr Governor commended the people to take responsibility and protect or report damages to any government projects done in their neighborhood.
He added that the government will consider building barricades that will prevent sand miner’s heavy trucks that have damaged the road access to the road.
He further highlighted that traders are henceforth prohibited from shading their wares on the sidewalks made for pedestrians.
guobe: A colleague of mine was telling me recently how his friend who just travelled to Canada and in Canada did a six months Psychology programme got employed by a Company over there.
The work of the Company is to assist vulnerable people especially those ones that are suicidal.
He said the pay is quite good and in just few hours being with your client you can earn like 400 dollars.
He said this his friend has wife and kids in Nigeria who will be relocating soon to Canada and that there was this Nigerian client who is a woman in Canada that was having suicidal thoughts and wanted to even kill her child that the Government had to take the child away from her.
He said he felt maybe it's Ogbanje that is worrying the woman but Oyibo people don't know what is Ogbanje.
The Company told my colleagues friend to do like an undercover blind date and meet up with the woman which he did and that he actually met the woman and even slept with her to make her happy.
In my mind I was just wondering that things de really happen for life.
Are psychologist known to sleep with their clients? That is the way the psychologist of omahlay slept with him too.
emperor4love: De cleaner is only witness who can save her unless that was a setup nd she fall fr it, first u don't rush someone when such happens, there are some transferable disease like epilepsy, first know de history to the seizure or faint...I knw Nigeria are good hearted but don't fall to such but on that if it was mob that or crowd the case won't be lik this just she took it upon her sef nd that de result
Sctests: And if you don't pay, you go to jail abi? Double jeopardy. Marriage in the UK does not look attractive. Many ladies will die single in this generation.
fergie001: A former Special Adviser on Digital Media to ex-President Muhammadu Buhari has urged aides of President Bola Tinubu to amplify the numerous achievemnts of previous Governments rather than elaborate on their failures.
You are the final authority in your own life. Every decision you make, you will bear the consequences directly, not your mother, not the people on nairaland.
Ask the Christ within you for clarity. It always hears and always answers.
sammymax: I seriously need advice as I really don't know what the right or best thing to do at this time. Please elders in the house be kind enough to suggest what I could do.
I did not think something like this can still happen in this era but this is what I have to deal with. So my mum flat out told me she does not like the girl I took home because she is not fine. About 3years ago when we went home together she told me this but I just disregarded it like when I'm ready she won't have a choice but to accept her as she is. To be honest she is not fine at all but she gives me peace of mind which I feel is the ultimate.
She was involved in an accident with my dad last year and we lost my dad in the process. During the burial I went home with my babe again and my mum still made her displeasure with the girl show.
The thing now is that I went home again to see how she is doing and she called to speak me again after stating that I had disobeyed her by not breaking up with the girl she said is still not having her and if I insist she is the one I should count her out of the marriage. She can never come visiting or even call her. She will not attend the wedding. Now I am 32 and she is 30
How do I navigate this situation. I plead for good advice. Have you been in a similar situation how did you handle it.
She is a sovereign being and can make her own decisions.
She will be the only one to bear the direct consequences no matter who she listens to.
stevestifler: A woman wanted to travel & to see her sibling who invited her because they'd not seen in more than a year & her husband says no. She involves her parents & pastor & even her best friend, they all have different opinions. Some said go, some said stay.
As a married woman, whose words should be taken in highest regards?
1. Her siblings that she's spent all her life with 2. Her parents that gave birth to her 3. Her pastor that sees visions & guides her spiritually 4. Her husband 5. Her best friends that she's known from childhood
Let's have matured responses from experienced and responsible nairalanders.
BolaAThubv: You definitely used the wrong word which would in turn become a red flag for people like us. You need to edit and rephrase. So you don't create a wrong impression
A list that Teachers and sponsors can read, pick and run with.
CaveAdullam: Thank you for your kind words. I do appreciate it.
Don't have a blog yet. Even the first post was supposed to be a WhatsApp status post. But I just kept writing and writing and writing, then, boom.
The structure for REAL education is there already. The important thing now is teaching the right topic and stimulating the learners. As sleeper cells terrorists or suicide bombers are taught.
The advantages and disadvantages of poor living due to poor education are there for the learners to observe for themselves. At least they are already on the disadvantaged side. All the teacher needs to do is to hold it like a mirror to their face so that they won't get distracted.
I choose not to stand for any of things you listed.
I am comfortable not being a good person in your books.
What’s next?
EnlightenedUFO: I know there's hardship everywhere in Nigeria but in the larger picture as a human being, if you don't agree with any on this list, you may need to question your life choices.
I didn't explicitly propose a solution because it was a rant according to the title.
The first solution is a large-scale massive education of the masses. Africans go to school, but they are not educated.
The education should be one that aggravates their anger every year till they finish learning. Symposium: A history of Africa and the cause of her problems. The dangerous activities of kinsmen.
An education that must be similar across boards, uniting people of different cultures and religions. Happening almost simultaneously around the continent like the shining sun.
Holy anger generated through learning the reality of the African identity and the state of Africa.
(Many good) elites must also be part of the game. Because money and connection are needed to run the show. It's all about the common good of the whole.
Soldiers need thorough education.
All security arms need thorough education.
Thugs need thorough education.
Proper education, not college degrees will erase these problems gradually.
Education wouldn't pose much of a problem because the schools and religious centers are there. What's needed is to infiltrate them with the sought-after elixir.
Education is the best solution I can think of right now. Probably, other better ideas are unknown.
CaveAdullam: The problem with being an African is that the errors and trials you would have experienced in your early teenage years till the mid-20s, to become fully grounded from 25, or let's say 30...is what you will start experiencing from your 30s. .
Gistmedia10: Dramatic CCTV footage has emerged showing a man narrowly evading a group of armed assailants in a heart-stopping escape. The incident unfolded in the city center, as the man found himself pursued by a group of individuals believed to be assassins. In a move straight out of a movie scene, the man swiftly daubs something on his clothes. Moments later, he strategically laid down on the sidewalk, quickly transforming his appearance to that of a disheveled homeless person.
The ruse proved successful as the assassins, deceived by the disguise, passed by without a second glance, their intended target hidden in plain sight.
dangoteinlaw: Chai see what tinubu has caused, we warned you all but you failed to listen. Everyone is selling off their precious properties just to escape what tinubu has caused this country.
Painful part is they have convinced the majority that the hardship was caused buy the previous govt and somehow someway buhari is the reason for their problems meanwhile the real devil is right in their face.
GentleLaw: Since bread became a problem to eat due to high price, I withdrew myself from it but this morning because I had some visitors I decided to buy bread so we could take tea together.
Guess what? 3 of us couldn't even cut it twice and the nylon was empty.
This size of loaf of bread was never more than N200 became APC came to power and 9 years on, it's now N1400. You can now calculate how many percentage APC governments have added hardship to Nigerians.
Well, let's continue to advocate based on tribal and religious lines. We are all suffering it.
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