It appears to me that your mind can’t take the thought.
Move on. You will find someone else.
lovediehatelive: I met this pretty homely girl sometimes ago.
She was reluctant the first time I toasted her and won't want to date me. However, I persisted till she succumbed.
She's everything I want in a lady. She didn't want to visit me when we started dating until one day I promised that I won't touch her.
She visited and was so graceful that I thanked the heavens for sending my soul mate to me.
We discussed a bit and I made her feel comfortable because she was really uneasy.
As promised, I didn't touch her. She felt so free that she rested her head on my chest.
The urge to kiss her became so strong, but I resisted.
What's the use of spoiling things now when she can be mine forever?
She later left and we became really close from then.
I was happy because she's madly beautiful yet so down to earth.
I was thinking she is a virgin but I needed to clarify.
So one day, I used talk to bring talk and stylishly told her a bit about some rough life of my past for her to feel uncomfortable.
She later opened up to me about her first kiss and how the guy went on to have sex with her even though he promised her nothing will happen.
She was 19 years then.
Since then she stopped visiting guys and is no longer in contact with the guy.
She swore that she hasn't kissed or had sex since then.
Now she's 23.
The thing is I really deeply love this girl because she's just exactly what I needed. But I promise myself that I will marry a virgin and nothing else.
My love for this girl is beginning to affect my thinking.
Nollywood actor, Charles Inojie, escaped death when an overhead water tank in his house fell directly on his seat barely three minutes after he left the spot.
The actor made this known in a post shared on his Instagram account on Friday and wrote, “Again, God came through for me to the devil's utter disgrace.”
You conditioned him. And then rubbed insult into his injury by telling him about his conditioning.
[quote author=sukkot post=123060342]See at this point I don't understand most Nigerians anymore. Every time I offer a helping hand to Nigerians they turn to your enemy. I don't understand the dynamics behind it. The whole interaction just gets very awkward after that . It's like they hate you for " humbling " them. It never fails.
Hamachi: What are the pros and cons of living abroad? It depends if you are moving for financial or non financial reasons, and how long you move for.
If you are moving for a short period of time when you are young, there are seldom many negatives.
Few people regret studying abroad for a year, doing an internship or a gap year.
When it comes to longer-term assignments, financial considerations are important for most people.
The major positives associated with moving abroad are
If you work for a multi-national, there are sometimes bigger packages abroad, especially in frontier markets due to hardship allowances. For instance, if you are an oil & gas engineer working in Canada or Norway, you are likely to be paid more if you move to Nigeria or Myanmar on a two-year contract. For business owners, the world markets are always a bigger opportunity than just only focusing on the local market. Whilst it is true that you can target people online successfully, a stint overseas will teach you about other cultures, give you fresh ideas and so on. New languages and skills will help you if you move back to your home country If you are high-net-worth you can save a lot on taxes if you move to certain countries, and do the right planning
The main negatives are
In your home country you get back ended benefits. In low-tax countries overseas, you get front ended benefits. What do I mean by that? In your home country, you might feel you are being weighed down by the taxes. However, you get back some of that money when you get old or are sick as per the graph below:
In comparison, if you have more money from lower taxes, you get front ended benefits. This can be great, but only if you are self-disciplined enough to save and invest more.
However, plenty of people in low taxes countries like the UAE and Singapore don’t do that, as many studies have shown Career wise, you will be behind your peer back home, if you don’t use your time overseas wisely. What are the pros and cons of teaching abroad? What are the advantages or disadvantages of living and working abroad? What are the pros and cons of moving back to your home country after living abroad? What are the pros and cons of living in your country?
What are the pros and cons of moving abroad, and where are some good places to live? Let´s start with the cons to get that out of the way first
1. The more countries you have lived in, the more you loose a sense of belonging (at least I feel that way). I have lived in 9 different ones and although I have of course great memories and part of my heart is in all of them, I feel I belong nowhere and certainly not in my home country anymore either.
After so many years I crave a sense of belonging, a base to call home (even if it just means to be there a couple of months a year), friends I do not have to say goodbye to every few months or years. And no, to stay in touch on Social Media is not the same at all, I personally create bonding through shared experiences and not by living in past memories.
2. If you move a lot and you know you will not be in a place for a very long time, you wonder if it makes sense to emotionally invest in relationships and friendships and I think sometimes relationship become more superficial because building them takes time and commitment and you know you will leave again and who wants heart breaks.
3. Depending on your age group, aging parents back home suddenly become a concern. One is far away and cannot just jump in a plane and is home in one hour. A sense of guilt sets in even if your loved ones give you no reason to feel guilt and its only in your head. And you also realize time becomes more precious and one is far away.
4. When you get home you realize your friends are more or less still the same, they have aged too, might have created a family, changed jobs, etc. but essentially they are still the same. You on the other hand have changed, its unavoidable. Your horizons have widened and you might not have that much in common with old friends anymore. There is a sense of loss and sadness.
5. Depending on where you are abroad, romantic relationships can take a back seat. If an independent western single women in her late twenties or thirties comes for example to Asia with the hope to not only find professional opportunities and adventures but also a partner to create a family with, I would say, think twice, your choices will be limited, but that is a topic for a different question.
6. The longer you are in a certain region the more difficult it will be to go back to your home country if you ever want to return, because your skills and experiences will become more bankable in your new country than in your home country. If your business is online it’s a different story of course.
7. Loneliness can also be an issue. If you do not consider yourself the love of your life and enjoy time alone too, you will struggle, because it is unavoidable that there will be moments when you will be alone, especially if you just arrive in a new place. And when you get sick its also not exactly fun.
8. Constantly having to let go is sad, at least for me. I do not like to let go of things, people, places that entered my heart, but sometimes life changes and there is nothing you can do about it.
In many places (such as Singapore, Dubai for example) people are in transit, they stay for a couple of years and then they move on, you might loose a job and the work permit that goes with it and the list goes on. If you have no plan B, the stress level rises.
9. You feel often disconnected if you do not speak the local language, but might also not live there long enough to really fluently communicate. Some languages especially for westerns are just not so easy to learn (thai is one of them).
The frustration you feel when you start learning a new language and can only express yourself like a 2 year old in the body and with the mind of a grown up person.
10.
Personally I also feel sometimes alone, when there is nobody who shares a certain sense of humor. Humor is often very different and culture specific. I can laugh my head off about certain things or situations and my colleagues just look at me and wonder what that is all about.
And they laugh about certain things and I cannot see what is funny about it either. Laughing is also about bonding with people, so I can say sometimes I miss bonding over a shared sense of humor.
Now that we are done with some of the cons, lets talk about the wonderful pros.
1. You change for the better
2. You become more tolerant
3. You become a better Ambassador of your home country when you return. I swear, whenever I return home, I am particularly friendly to anybody who is foreign, I feel so connected because I am a foreigner in other countries too, so I want them to feel welcome and leave with good memories.
4. Once you have lived abroad, this place will never ever be just a dot on the map. It will penetrate your memory, it will become part of your history, if you disliked your experience or loved it does not matter, it will never leave you indifferent anymore.
5. You develop courage and learn how to overcome obstacles
6. You learn to rely on yourself
7. You realize that essentially all people in the world are the same, we are just shaped by different education, background, beliefs, etc. but we all want to be respected, loved, heard and acknowledged.
8. You become more flexible (you just have to)
9. You age slower, because whenever you learn or see something new it feels the days are much longer and more intense. Every day is a new adventure and there is less routine.
10. Everywhere I go there is something I love and I weave it into my personality to take it with me. It is like as I go along, I create a more interesting and better version of myself (at least I think that, but that is a good start).
11. You learn to judge less and listen more.
12. You will feel more emotionally connected to the world.
The Nigerian youth are dedicated in following proven paths to making money.
This is commendable.
Change some parameters and we can build a profitable reputation for being the home of highly-driven, honest, hard-working and successful types. Like the Asian Kids
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Anything you consistently imagine for yourself will happen.
And finally, age is on your side.
Mrwhite09: my life has bleeped up, i was born on 14-04-1994. 29years old on this earth with nothing to show and the future doesnt look bright when i look into it. growing up i was a brilliant child always coming top of my class, my mother had a great hope on me,she thought that i was gonna grow up nd be successful or useful but unfortunately here i am useless as letter p the word psychology. i know my life is stagnant and bleeped up when i look at my childhood friends the guys that i grew up with, all my best mates are doing well. all my close friends when we were children are now with jobs and business while i work at construction sites carrying bricks like i am the one who insulted god. it hurts me when i see my friends married and own houses and lands while i wallow in poverty, i dont know who i offended in this life, im writting this with tears flowing down from my eyes. my life bleeped up because god created me with lots of sexual desires. my doom started when i was in junior secondary when one of my uncles dash me a java phone nokia3110c instead of me to use that phone to play games like my friends do, i discovered porn (waptrick) right from that time 2009 i still have never gone a complete week without watching porn and jerking off, since from that time i lost focus all i think about is get money buy data watch porn and jerk off. since 2009 i hv been living with pmo addiction in silence instead of me to get my life back nd be free from this addiction that stagnate my life another doom befall on me which add more pepper to my life (gambling addiction) 2021 i was a corper serving in kaduna state during these days i manage to raise 380k from my alawee, i thought about how to invest it nd be generating something from it then i discovered football betting via this nairaland nd within 2months i lost all that 380k and go back to my city empty handed. my life now is suffer in site, earn 1500, stake and lose it, go to my room, watch porn, jerk off, nd sleep (repeatedly). i am tired i tried nd tried to quit but always fail its like im cursed its like someone casted a spell on me. how can i get my life back? is it not too late for me to start afresh? will i ever be free nd live a normal life? i need advices abeg
This house doesn’t meet the building code setback of 3m from the next building.
[quote author=kaydee007 post=122528869]Exodus 23:25-26 As it is written: And ye shall serve the Lord your God, and he shall bless thy bread, and thy water;
Look for nourishing worlds to be a part of. Join a book club, an interest group in school that brings you in contact with people from different backgrounds.
Observe the different experiences people have, and Start building a mental picture of the life experience you want in the future.
There are many worlds you are yet to experience, and good friends will show them to you.
Naofumi: Am 18 and will be 19 next tomorrow. But am not proud of myself. I don't have any skill at all, no specialties and no motivation. I've been filled with hatred that I want to kill each and every one that made me feel bad. My mother and the rest of the family said alot of things to me for not being able to bring money like my elder brother. Am in HND 2 Currently, Computer engineering..... I have a Good GPA of 3.45 (nearly distinction). But I still hate it, cause even if I got 4.0 no one is there to be proud of me.
Do other children feel the same? If yes then why can't I endure and be like them? I want to work long ago but I was stoped saying am to finish school first. My father don't provide at all. And every morning the insults begins with me. What should I do? I've thought of suicide countless times but I couldn't do it. I don't know why..... Maybe am born not to succeed in anything.
Arrewa: Dear Igbos and Yorubas, you both are southerners and share a lot in common!!
This part Igbos and Yorubas are taking is very very dangerous. You these two tribe competing as the most educated tribes in Nigeria are nothing but primitives and unexposed people... Thinking that civilization is about putting on western dresses and speaking good English!!
I was thinking that tribal war between Igbos and Yorubas are just online banters and nothing serious, until 2023 election!!
Why will politics make humans living together for years in love and harmony suddenly Begin to attack each other both physically and emotionally over political opinion?
Fighting and hating for politicians you are likely not going to benefit from directly/ indirectly from??
We northerners are the biggest victims of southern tribal bigots.... We have lost hundreds of innocent souls whom most have no idea of the reason why they were attacked and killed...
Dear average Igbo, Yoruba and Northerners... We have a common enemy!!! Corruption is our common enemy!! Corrupt politicians are our common enemy!!
Underdevelopment is our common enemy that we must fight against!!! Corrupt religious leaders are our common enemies!!
For this country to develop... Humanity must come first before religious and political affiliation...
Let's keep tribal supremacy aside and prioritise Humanity and national/ personal development
Africans/ black must unite to move Africa to the right direction!!
Politics should remain and always remain a collective/personal opinion not war!!!
Fineman2: I am the house caretaker where I live because our landlord doesn't live with us, being the oldest tenant, I have a married couple that moved in last year October.
The wife is a very troublesome person, she insults everybody in the house and engage in physical fight as well, I warned them not to cause trouble before collecting money from them and they agreed
I ignored her for almost six months because I've lived with people like that before, so it's not new to me.
But this woman is a very repulsive and bloody minded person, she doesn't want to change at all, she insults and controls her husband as well, I refused to report her to my landlord because they came to the house through me, so I should be able to handle her.
It wasn't up to two weeks that they came into our house and she broke the well where we fetch water.
I am a very quiet person, both at home and at work, I hardly talk, you won't hear my voice from morning till night, so she thought she knew everything about me.
She was talking about me last Sunday, saying every time I will tell them not to lock the well, I know she's been talking about me for some time now, but this got me angry and I went haywire, I lambasted her so much with serious warning never to try it again.
Since that day, I stop talking to her and I will not collect another money from them when this one expires.
She's afraid of me now, all the madness she's been showing in the house has stopped as well.
She sent one of my neighbors to me yesterday begging me to forgive her
IyaebeTheGreat: As soon as he's ok to feed multiple people. Any financially capable man above 30 and still single(unmarried) is simply irresponsible, no explanation whatsoever about that.
It is a deep mystery only the introspective can unravel.
highchief1: those were my dads words.he was never too comfortable with being too fast.My dad will say if u achieve what ppl should achieve at 70 while u r 30 u should also be ready to die when those that are 70 are dying.But it doesn’t really apply in all cases.
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