Look for nourishing worlds to be a part of. Join a book club, an interest group in school that brings you in contact with people from different backgrounds.
Observe the different experiences people have, and Start building a mental picture of the life experience you want in the future.
There are many worlds you are yet to experience, and good friends will show them to you.
Naofumi: Am 18 and will be 19 next tomorrow. But am not proud of myself. I don't have any skill at all, no specialties and no motivation. I've been filled with hatred that I want to kill each and every one that made me feel bad. My mother and the rest of the family said alot of things to me for not being able to bring money like my elder brother. Am in HND 2 Currently, Computer engineering..... I have a Good GPA of 3.45 (nearly distinction). But I still hate it, cause even if I got 4.0 no one is there to be proud of me.
Do other children feel the same? If yes then why can't I endure and be like them? I want to work long ago but I was stoped saying am to finish school first. My father don't provide at all. And every morning the insults begins with me. What should I do? I've thought of suicide countless times but I couldn't do it. I don't know why..... Maybe am born not to succeed in anything.
Arrewa: Dear Igbos and Yorubas, you both are southerners and share a lot in common!!
This part Igbos and Yorubas are taking is very very dangerous. You these two tribe competing as the most educated tribes in Nigeria are nothing but primitives and unexposed people... Thinking that civilization is about putting on western dresses and speaking good English!!
I was thinking that tribal war between Igbos and Yorubas are just online banters and nothing serious, until 2023 election!!
Why will politics make humans living together for years in love and harmony suddenly Begin to attack each other both physically and emotionally over political opinion?
Fighting and hating for politicians you are likely not going to benefit from directly/ indirectly from??
We northerners are the biggest victims of southern tribal bigots.... We have lost hundreds of innocent souls whom most have no idea of the reason why they were attacked and killed...
Dear average Igbo, Yoruba and Northerners... We have a common enemy!!! Corruption is our common enemy!! Corrupt politicians are our common enemy!!
Underdevelopment is our common enemy that we must fight against!!! Corrupt religious leaders are our common enemies!!
For this country to develop... Humanity must come first before religious and political affiliation...
Let's keep tribal supremacy aside and prioritise Humanity and national/ personal development
Africans/ black must unite to move Africa to the right direction!!
Politics should remain and always remain a collective/personal opinion not war!!!
Fineman2: I am the house caretaker where I live because our landlord doesn't live with us, being the oldest tenant, I have a married couple that moved in last year October.
The wife is a very troublesome person, she insults everybody in the house and engage in physical fight as well, I warned them not to cause trouble before collecting money from them and they agreed
I ignored her for almost six months because I've lived with people like that before, so it's not new to me.
But this woman is a very repulsive and bloody minded person, she doesn't want to change at all, she insults and controls her husband as well, I refused to report her to my landlord because they came to the house through me, so I should be able to handle her.
It wasn't up to two weeks that they came into our house and she broke the well where we fetch water.
I am a very quiet person, both at home and at work, I hardly talk, you won't hear my voice from morning till night, so she thought she knew everything about me.
She was talking about me last Sunday, saying every time I will tell them not to lock the well, I know she's been talking about me for some time now, but this got me angry and I went haywire, I lambasted her so much with serious warning never to try it again.
Since that day, I stop talking to her and I will not collect another money from them when this one expires.
She's afraid of me now, all the madness she's been showing in the house has stopped as well.
She sent one of my neighbors to me yesterday begging me to forgive her
IyaebeTheGreat: As soon as he's ok to feed multiple people. Any financially capable man above 30 and still single(unmarried) is simply irresponsible, no explanation whatsoever about that.
The story behind this video is that, a middle-aged man (checked-in passenger) entered the plane. He stood in the middle of the plane and raised his voice, saying..." you all are sitting here, and Tinubu is about to be sworn in as President, lai lai, Tinubu must never be sworn… pic.twitter.com/UlM2TX0qyL
— Foundational Yorùbá Boy (@Chrisbamidele) March 31, 2023
It is a deep mystery only the introspective can unravel.
highchief1: those were my dads words.he was never too comfortable with being too fast.My dad will say if u achieve what ppl should achieve at 70 while u r 30 u should also be ready to die when those that are 70 are dying.But it doesn’t really apply in all cases.
Hygiene typically improves as you move up the economic ladder.
For men and for women.
highchief1: I was thinking this is normal until I left Nigeria,if I slept with 10 girls in Nigeria 7 had smelly pucis.9 don’t cum so I thought it’s normal for women.But when I left Nigeria,I discovered women even squirt and cum multiple times before I would cum.Is it that the wahala in Nigeria is affecting our women or what.
A tranquiliser dart would have done the job, and spared the dog's life.
MrBrownJay1: i dont know the circumstances of this issue BUT....as much as i fully understand that a pet is part of the family etc, i also understand that if a dog wanders around and "possibly" become aggressive towards strangers (especially children), then what happened above would be a normal solution.
when a dog attacks a person, you dont have time to think about it being someone's pet etc... you just want it to stop attacking you or your children etc. so what would be more important here is that OWNERS MAKE SURE THAT THEIR PETs ARE ON A LEASH AND SECURED AT ALL TIME. it is an owner's duty to make sure that their pet is not a danger to others.
Money maketh young and handsome and irresistible to all.
The man seems to have a pleasant personality.
onthehill: "My Wife Is 21" - 60-Year-Old Kano Man Accused Of Marrying 11-Year-Old (Photos)
A 60-year-old man, Aminu Danmaliki, accused of marrying an 11-year-old girl in Kano State, has spoken out about the rumour, IGBERETV reports.
The wedding video recently went viral on social media, with people claiming he married an 11-year-old girl, which they condemned, claiming that underage girls should be protected rather than married off to old men.
Danmaliki, via his Facebook page on Wednesday, claimed that his wife is 21 years old and not 11 years as people claimed on social media.
It’s difficult to choose and pick the challenges that will surface during any marriage.
Better is the mindset that says “whatever challenges come our way, we will go through it together without complaint.”
Kobojunkie: So her husband gambling all of his income away ,income that should have gone instead towards paying the kids school fees, paying rent and bills, including food for the house, is what you consider a rough spell, a rough spell, a challenge?
The Bible is referring to the person who “will not” provide, not the person who “cannot” provide.
ezegold4we: Gambling, drug's, laziness, procrastination and womanizing are the 3 easiest ways to remain in perpetual poverty
The word of God says that's if any man does not provide for his family,He is worse than an infidel,
That man should sit up and look for any work or Job to do and provide for his family,
A transfered responsibility is a transferred crown,
Any healthy man being fed by a woman on a daily basis should just go on hunger strike and pray to God to help him because it's never the will of God from the beginning, God made man the Head in everything especially in marriage.
What would you advice in a situation where a husband loses his job due to gambling and decided not to make any effort in search of another job or business or any legal means of making even little money.
He just wakes up in the morning, have his bath, put on the AC and go back to sleep. Only expecting any little thing the wife can cook to eat? He wouldn't pay any bills, provide anything but very humble helping out with house cleaning and washing.
Knowing that the situation is not funny on the wife and two children.
The wife must struggle to make food available no matter how little for the children, because she can't watch the children go hungry. In a situation like this, when men goes out looking for means of making food available for their children and family, he is comfortable not having anything to offer all the time. Is this the character of a father and husband that loves?
I wonder how long it took you to put this together, but well-done!
A complete and enlightening answer.
djseanjohn77: As much as everyone have the liberty to say whatever they like, ignorance is when you refuse to understand why people do certain things, and instead result to cursing or attributing all sorts just because of what your gods in altars have told you is ridiculous.
We believe we serve a living and unchangeable God, no matter what, He will remain the same, and nothing about him ever changes.
I WILL ONLY USE THE DIRECT INSTRUCTIONS OF GOD AS TOUCHING WHAT YOU ASK AS A REFERENCE WITHOUT ANY INPUT PERSONALLY.
And we cannot argue that he specifically gave these instructions in the bible to the Israelites. God speaking in Lev 15:1-2 15 The Lord said to Moses and Aaron, 2 “Speak to the Israelites and say to them: ‘When any man has an unusual bodily discharge, such a discharge is unclean.
Leviticus 15:19-23 ‘When a woman has a discharge, if her discharge in her body is blood, she shall continue in her menstrual impurity for seven days; and whoever touches her shall be unclean until evening. Everything also on which she lies during her menstrual impurity shall be unclean, and everything on which she sits shall be unclean. Anyone who touches her bed shall wash his clothes and bathe in water and be unclean until evening.
Ezekiel 18:5-6 “But if a man is righteous and practices justice and righteousness, and does not eat at the mountain shrines or lift up his eyes to the idols of the house of Israel, or defile his neighbor’s wife or approach a woman during her menstrual period
Ezekiel 36:17 Verse Concepts “Son of man, when the house of Israel was living in their own land, they defiled it by their ways and their deeds; their way before Me was like the uncleanness of a woman in her impurity.
WHAT JESUS SAID ACCORDING TO THE LAW OF GOD
Mat 5: 17 - 21 17 “Do not think that I have come to abolish the Law or the Prophets; I have not come to abolish them but to fulfill them. 18 For truly I tell you, until heaven and earth disappear, not the smallest letter, not the least stroke of a pen, will by any means disappear from the Law until everything is accomplished. 19 Therefore anyone who sets aside one of the least of these commands and teaches others accordingly will be called least in the kingdom of heaven, but whoever practices and teaches these commands will be called great in the kingdom of heaven.
THE CONDITION TO SET ASIDE ONE IS STATED
20 For I tell you that unless your righteousness surpasses that of the Pharisees and the teachers of the law, you will certainly not enter the kingdom of heaven.
John 4:34 Jesus explained, "My food is to do the will of Him who sent Me and to finish His work.
MY TAKE - You will understand that God does not joke with uncleanliness and discharge, that's why he specifically gives instructions when a man tries to approach Him.
The processional hymn of celestial states; Hymn 1,2,3: 1. The angels of angels full of joy in heaven - 2. Kindle the light, holy from heaven above -3. Oh come unto the Lord, oh come unto the Lord Then the pledge - Oh Christ o my King, I will worship thee, my power and my light holy thou holiest.
The above explains how we approach Christ while at the entrance to sanctify us with His light while He presents us before the Father (The Father is Holy, no uncleanliness comes closer, hence Jesus is the mediator whom we have acknowledged as our King and savior.
Revelation 3:4 But you do have a few people in Sardis who have not soiled their garments, and because they are worthy, they will walk with Me in white.
Revelation 5:6 Then I saw a Lamb who appeared to have been slain, standing in the center of the throne, encircled by the four living creatures and the elders. The Lamb had seven horns and seven eyes, which represent the seven Spirits of God sent out into all the earth.
Rev 8: 3 Then another angel, who had a golden censer, came and stood at the altar. He was given much incense to offer, along with the prayers of all the saints, on the golden altar before the throne. 4 And the smoke of the incense, together with the prayers of the saints, rose up before God from the hand of the angel.
EVEN ISAIAH AS A PROPHET - Had to be sanctified Isaiah 6:5 Then I said: “Woe is me, for I am ruined, because I am a man of unclean lips dwelling among a people of unclean lips; for my eyes have seen the King, the LORD of Hosts.” 6 Then one of the seraphim flew to me, and in his hand was a glowing coal that he had taken with tongs from the altar. 7And with it he touched my mouth and said: “Now that this has touched your lips, your iniquity is removed and your sin is atoned for.”
JESUS WHEN TOUCHED BY THE WOMAN WITH THE ISSUE OF BLOOD KNOWS SOMETHING LEFT HIM HENCE THE EXCLAMATION
Luke 8: 45 And Jesus said, Who touched me? When all denied, Peter and they that were with him said, Master, the multitude throng thee and press thee, and sayest thou, Who touched me?
46 And Jesus said, Somebody hath touched me: for I perceive that virtue is gone out of me.
(Note please, reading from 30, you will see that he was in the midst of many, and many were touching him and were receiving miracles as their faith would permit, but immediately she touched him, he felt something different.
Exodus 19:10-15 And the LORD said unto Moses, Go unto the people, and sanctify them to day and to morrow, and let them wash their clothes, and be ready against the third day: for the third day, the LORD will come down in the sight of all the people upon mount Sinai.
NOW, IS THE ISSUE A SIN? NO The Issue of blood remains a sign of the curse God place on the woman GENESIS 3: 16 - Note also that the death on the cross did not take away the sign of the curse but the guilt of the curse so that we might appear blameless before the Father. Based on the above, celestial was instructed by God not o appear before him in your blood, not to remind Him of the anger and curse He placed on man. God does not forget our sins, He chooses through Christ not to remember them, as long as the mediator is before us, we are set right before Him.
Galatians 3:24 So the law became our guardian to lead us to Christ, that we might be justified by faith.
HEBREWS 10: 16“This is the covenant I will make with them after those days, declares the Lord. I will put My LAWS in their hearts and inscribe them on their minds.” 17Then He adds: “Their sins and LAWLESS acts I will remember no more.” 18And where these have been forgiven, an offering for sin is no longer needed
And according to this Hebrew, God's law, no exclusion (according to Jesus' words in Mat 5:17) has been inscribed in our heart, and through the Grace we now receive through HIS blood, we appear blameless before HIM, irrespective of our sins, or what man says. For we are not justified through works, but by FAITH. Hebrews 8:12 For I will forgive their iniquities and will remember their sins no more."
Hebrews 10:18 And where these have been forgiven, an offering for sin is no longer needed.
Hence in almost all of our forgiveness hymns, we address to Christ, and we seek His power and grace to overcome sin Hymn 11 e.g Jesus here we come, with our uncleanness, forgive us our sin and bless us, gracious Lord miserable we are, King of divine light, and glorify us Lord.
Hence why the whole world see us as of the devil, judging us for who we are (just as Christ said to the people that were about to stone the prostitute), we are helpless and filthy, we only look up to Christ for redemption, for by work no man will be saved.
Heb 12:14 Pursue peace with everyone, as well as holiness, without which no one will see the Lord. 15 See to it that no one falls short of the grace of God, and that no root of bitterness springs up to cause trouble and defile many.
Gal 2: 16 know that a man is not justified by works of the law, but by faith in Jesus Christ. So we, too, have believed in Christ Jesus, that we may be justified by faith in Christ and not by works of the law, because by works of the law no one will be justified.
Hopefully, everyone will becomes wiser with time and hindsight.
ada9ja: Has Banky w or the Attah been in power or house of rep before or what is your yardstick for competence for both of them?
Most the people that won under LP is a sign of good thing to come...you don't have to be popular to win just in advance country, just have the qualified criteria...all these 100m for form will soon stop
Family › Re: 18 And I Want To Die Already, Why Do I Over Think? by GodHimself(m): 5:11pm On Apr 07, 2023
