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Men who did not have emotional connections with their fathers usually have a great desire to forge one with their children.

But the modern feminist woman has been using the paternal instinct to manipulate men, to the eventual detriment of the children.

Vinesee:
So many men where pushed away by there wife's and they turned the kids against him. If a man stays to fight and something happens, the world will blame him that he should have left. Personally, I haven't seen my kids in 2 yrs because there mum took them away and I have been in court but the court is not even helping matters, so many adjournment here and there. Most times, it's not the fault of the men but wicked and evil women in there life's. I'm talking from experience

A woman's (ever shifting) definition of masculinity is always an attempt at manipulation.

Make your point without referring to masculinity.

Chee59:
It is not masculinity to abandon your offspring.
You brought them into this world.
Don't think your only duty is to buy food and pay school fees.
As much as possible, be present in their daily lives.
Don't let toxic masculinity destroy your home.
I'm begging you. Please.
Those children NEED you. They need your presence. They need your attention.
Get involved in their daily lives.
Ask them important questions about their lives.
Affirm them. Speak positively over their lives.
Please never curse them.

WannaHowzit:
SA's new mega power plants - Medupi and Kusile - hit by massive engineering faults, resulting in loadshedding.

It's interesting to see the (alleged) impact of corruption on such large scales.

Same thing with the design flaws at the new international airport in Lagos.

Mynd44:
Teenage Kaduna Girl Breaks Record, Solves 34 Questions In 172 Seconds To Win International Mathematical Olympiad

https://kadunaaffairs.com/2022/12/27/teenage-kaduna-girl-breaks-record-solves-34-questions-in-172-seconds-to-win-international-mathematical-olympiad/

I can't wait for the black race to throw off the mental shackles, and regain her lost power.

eben97:
I GAVE my apartment to some friends who are teaching(teachers),both seen intros,they hardly flow even with the neighbors,it got to d extent that the wife put to bed at home,needed help from medical personels in d compound(two pro nurses and pharmaceuticals,do u know this couples stayed back indoors ashamed orshyuntillthe newbornbabydied inside room? they didnotcome outuntil after days to announce the news evenwith d dead baby in d room!.it was d neibors who confronted mewhile i came visiting after some months in fct.such is life,so your reply is YES.IT DOES HAPPEN

Your friends were socially mal-adjusted. Introversion is simply an inward focus of attention.

Social skills are necessary to become a full-developed human being.

I was an extrovert as a child.

Puberty caused some changes and I became introverted, so much so my neighbors expressed shock at the transformation.

I stayed introverted for over a decade until I got a job that required me to speak in public. I loved it, and the attention that came with it, and gradually became extroverted again.

Then I went through some life changes which, coupled with the lock-down, made me withdraw into myself again.

I have been consciously working on getting used to people again, and right now, I am quite balanced.

I enjoy my own company, and also enjoy interacting with people, especially people on the same wavelength with me (some people are energy vampires and spending time with them will drain your energy)

In all, I now believe enjoying the company of other people is a muscle you can consciously develop.

FrancescoFarino:
good afternoon Sir... I'm glad for the timely response... I also find it so tricky to relate with the female folks...some of them do work up to me to strike a convo (about 2 last year, one in may and the other, November)as for the age, I will be 31 by April 12, never have a girlfriend, and even look much younger than my age...I will need more hints from you on to relate with ladies freely ,thanks...

Talk to women every opportunity you get... some are easy to talk to because it is part of their job e.g salesgirls

Start with saying "hello, how are you" or some form of greeting.

You will gradually discover how easy it is to talk to women.

Time, and consistency is your best friend here.

Over time it will get easier.

The other guy that was shot by the same police didn't create this kind of buzz.

It shows all lives are not equal and some people are more valuable than others.

Nemere2020:
https://www.facebook.com/100064453009372/posts/pfbid02BdZfREyZnhEKRr4RFEzxuZGBuyxCq1aNZgLGdx43Xdkio3KRnQJD7PZHoaL3HzhCl/?mibextid=Nif5oz

Chaste women AND men are still plenty. They just don't shout about it. Some are even virgins in their 40s.

Seek what you want, and you will find it.

Leave the rest to face the consequences of their actions.

Aareakinwunmi:
This was the practice in the olden days, before western civilization came to destroy our culture.

Most women prefer experienced men.

You might not like that fact, but reality doesn't care about your feelings.

virginprincess:
Nigeria men don't deserve virgins,how can a community dick be praying for a virgin,they deserve the kind of women they have now,so they have no choice than to pay the bride price of such women because they are no different from the women,like beget like.

Buy KY Jelly from any pharmacy.

Islandboi:
Anytime I want to have sex with my woman her kpekus is always dry no matter the romance. I will tease, lick & suck her bobby , lick her neck, suck her ears and do all kinds of romance for over 30mins before sex

She always get wet no doubt,but once I dive in and start thrusting, her pussy just dries up, making my dick stiff and very difficult to penetrate. I end up having bruises. What can I do pls?

The DNA is ALSO an electromagnetic wave.

LIVINGICONREBOR:
That is no electromagnetic wave but the double helix dna strand.

Artificial Intelligence...

Someone from the future ...

An E.T...

Possibly a careless mistake on the policeman's part...if not, why run afterwards?

Small daily errors in judgement, behavior and handling of firearms keep compounding until it results in tragedies like this.

FullBlastLight:
Happy Trigger Officer Shot Dead Female Lawyer On Christmas Day At Ajah, Lagos State.



https://barristerng.com/updated-see-the-picture-of-the-female-lawyer-shot-dead-by-the-police-on-christmas-day/

Prenuptial aggrements should become a thing.

Financial/wealth planning for celebrities should become a thing.

ebukajay184:
IGBERETV report

14 Nigerian Celebrity Marriages That Crashed in 2022 (Photos)



https://igberetvnews.com/1434676/14-nigerian-celebrity-marriages-crashed-2022-still-counting-photos/

“My pastor said…”

A red flag.

Blessedmercy8:
My dear, don't talk like that. It takes the grace and fear of God for marriage to continue after five years.

One of my pastors once said it takes God's kind of love which is tolerant, enduring, and sacrificial to continue in marriage after 5 years because all the affection, and butterflies in your belly feelings flies away after five years of marriage.

"Do not cast your pearls before swine, less they thread it underfoot and then turn around and tear you apart." (paraphrased)

"There is nothing hidden that would not be revealed."

"There is nothing new under the sun"

"Once a mind is expanded, it can never shrink back to its original dimensions."

OurTruth24:
Our solar system has been inhabited by a variety of extraterrestrial intelligences for millions of years. It still is.

I'll only speak about what my research has shown me.

The asteroid belt is currently occupied by different extraterrestrial races, and is used as a sort of landing station for beings that enter our solar system.

The dark side of the moon is inhabited by different extraterrestrials and they all have their demarcated territories. When Americans landed on the moon in the Apollo 17 mission, they were told not to come back. They did come back in the 18th and 19th missions and the astronauts they went on those missions were killed. Hollywood released a movie about it but muddied the facts so as to throw people off.

Mars is literally a nuclear war site. It was once a planet similar to earth that supported life, and intelligent beings lived on it. Then there was a war that broke out and the planet was attacked with a fission bomb of some sorts. Most of the beings there were killed, while the rest escaped. Currently a race of reptilians occupy the underground bases on Mars and there are humans held there in captivity and they are used as a source of food.

Different extraterrestrial beings are currently residing in deep, sophisticated underground bases on earth. They have been here for thousands of years. You might be wondering why they are hiding underground and leave the surface for us humans? Because it is actually dumb to reside on the surface of a planet and expose yourself to radiation and all possible forms of attack that could come from anywhere in the galaxy.

This is all I know about our solar system.

OP, your post was long-winded.

Even though I am familiar with these things, the way you wrote it, I doubt many of your readers were able to piece together what you are saying.

Good job anyway.

OurTruth24:
I rest my case. I've shared all the knowledge I have about this topic.

Observe the evidence and come to your own conclusions.

See you some other time.

Mud Flood

Ourtruth3:
We see the old Euston Arch, constructed of pure sand stone in Eighteen thirty seven and streets unpaved, and full of mud. Why didn't these people prioritize the streets they walked on?

"The Kingdom of God is a present, 'spiritual' phenomenon. It is 'spread out upon the earth and men do not see it'"

“Look for the Living One while you are alive, so that you will not die (and) then seek to see him. And you will not be able to see (him).”

The Gospel of Thomas

https://www.biblicalarchaeology.org/daily/biblical-topics/bible-versions-and-translations/the-gospel-of-thomas-114-sayings-of-jesus/

FarmTech:
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I support Russia too. But as for 666, it must come. We just have to keep our garment clean and spotless so that we'll make it to God's kingdom.

Social hierarchy for women:

1. Married women
2. Divorced women
3. Single women.

The logic:

It is better to have been married and divorced, than single and never married.

Think about it.

2mercy:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/dailypost.ng/2022/12/16/oap-do2dtuns-wife-files-for-divorce-over-alleged-forced-abortion-domestic-violence/%3famp=1

Don't condemn them.

GoooodHardDick:
It has come to our knowledge here that most ladies mistake a widow for a single mother.

Understand that a widow isn't a single mother.
Widows are not single mothers. They're called one parent. Help them if you can!

However single mothers in this context are those foolish and wayward girls who intentionally went and received dick and became pregnant. They will always want to let the world know that they are single mothers as if na u give Dem belle. They are always toxic in behavior and highly manipulative. They're equally filled with entitlement mentality, pls avoid them like plague

Lack of guidance.

All young people need guidance and direction to live a fulfilling and worthy life.

Girls especially.

Think about it.

Light78:
The rate at which girls go into prostitution is alarming. You see them walking on the streets naked with short bums and all that.

Where you would get shocked is when you are on your way to work, you see them going home while on a bike with a sexy outfit.

Who do you think is responsible for what's going on with girls today?


If all the men decided to quit patronizing them, would that stop prostitution?

Finally, who would marry the used girls, and as a man, how will you make sure you don't marry or end up with a former or current Olosho?

Do not be ignorant of the format (devices of the enemy):

Attention is the only currency in this world. The more attention you get, the more life energy (money) comes to you.

Your attention is your life. Don't give it to robbers.

When these women "drag" their man, and you watch their videos, comment, talk about it with your friends, you are sending them your energy, your life.

Choose what you give your energy to.

Ignore them.

Unipolar world order...isn't that the same thing as the One World government? AKA The beast, 666?

If that's the case, my support is fully with Russia.

FarmTech:
TV9 Bharatvarsh World Exclusive Interview with 'Putin's Brain', Alexander Dugin. First Global interaction with Russian Ultranationalist known as 'Putin's Guru'.

The ongoing war will end only when Moscow wins it. And if not, the world will be destroyed, Alexander Dugin, widely acknowledged as Russian President Vladimir Putin's guru or 'Putin's Brain' told TV9 Bharatvarsh in a world-exclusive interview with India's most popular Hindi TV News Channel.

"There are two possibilities. First, it will end when we win (and) at that moment. It's not too easy though. And the second possibility is that this fight will end with the end of the world. Whether we win, or the world will be destroyed. I am absolutely sure (that) this time Russia will not be overcome by the enemy. We won't tolerate any other solution at the end of the war except victory and in that, all our people, our state, our President are totally in accord," he told TV9 Bharatvarsh.

Dugin spoke exclusively to TV9 Bharatvarsh on the sidelines of an event organized in remembrance of his daughter's death, at the hands of the "Ukrainian terrorists". Maria, his daughter, would have turned 30 had she not died in a terrorist attack.

On her death, an emotional Dugin said, if the terrorists wanted to kill him rather than his daughter, he would have loved to get killed twice.

He said the ongoing war is not between Russia and Ukraine. It is not about a fight between the two nations or between Russia and the collective West; "but the main struggle is between the human beings and evil power that attacks every country, every culture, and every people. And this black power wants to destroy the spirit, the soul, the truth and replace that by conventional wisdom, by fake news."

"So, the war is of multi-polar world order against unipolar world order. It's neither about Russia, Ukraine, or Europe; it's not against the West and the rest; it is humanity against hegemony. There are many negative aspects of the special military operation. I am supporting my country, my President, and my people who are fighting for justice and peace in a multi-polar world," Dugin said.

Source: https://www.news9live.com/amp/world/either-we-win-or-the-world-will-be-destroyed-alexander-dugin-214309

This is the true nature of all women because they are weaker in logic.

Don't fight it or complain about it.

Know the truth and act with wisdom.

Learn from Abraham (Sarah), Isaac (Rebecca), Samson... Learn from Troy, Learn from the man down your street.

1 Peter 3:7 Husbands, in the same way, live with your wives with an understanding of their weaker nature yet showing them honor as coheirs of the grace of life, so that your prayers will not be hindered.

Toks2008:
I have dated many ladies, i have lived well above four decades on earth and i can boldly conclude without any fear of contradiction that WOMEN ARE ONLY LOYAL TO THEIR OWN FEELINGS WHEN IT COMES TO ROMANTIC UNION WITH MEN and only a very minute number of them have true loyalty.

-This is why a young lady will gladly be a mistress of a married man because she is gaining so much from the union without much to lose but will find it hard to marry same man because she does not want to be an official Co-wife.

-This is why a lady who has dated married men when she was single will never want her husband to have mistresses.

-This is why you will see Ladies clamouring to be Co-wives of a very wealthy and powerful man because of the security they will get, and same ladies will never want to be the only wife of a poor man.

-This is why a lady will gladly take the pregnancy of one man and give it to another man just because for one reason or the other, she does not want to be with the man that got her pregnant.

-This is why a lady will profess undying love for you when she still has strong feelings for you and same lady will tell you she is tired the moment she no longer feels the same way towards you.

-This is why a lady will remain with a broke guy with the hope that he will make it latter and if she waits too long, she will not hesitate to leave the guy for a made guy regardless of the number of years she has spent with him.

-This is why a lady will date or marry one man for money and go to another man for good S.x.

-This is why no matter how much you spend on a lady or the sacrifice you make for her, she can still turn around and tell you she did not force you to do the things you did if she no longer wants to be with you.

-Many ladies leave their relationship not because of any bad thing the man did but they leave because their expectation is not met by the man

-Even if you treat a lady like an angel or a queen, and you don't cheat on her, the moment she has feelings for another man, she will look for a reason to leave you.

I can go on and on to state endless reasons why i believe a lady is only loyal to her feelings and no man should start boasting about the love a lady has for him because in most cases, a woman will only remain with a man if she is benefitting in one way or the other and the moment she sees no reason to remain in that relationship, she is done. She may decide to leave, or she may remain with you, but her spirit and soul have left you...This is just the way they are and there is nothing anyone can do about it.

My advice for men is this...Love genuinely, do whatever is within your power to make your woman happy but don't ever get carried away thinking that woman in your life has unconditional love for you.

I hope this makes sense.

Spot on.

Kanye West is currently experiencing this... his applepay was turned off. He can't make payments with it.

If they can do this to Kanye, who are you?

Africa will foil their plans, just like we foiled their COVID plans.

Righteousness2:
Global central banks racing to implement digital currencies.

Track and control grid are being erected right under our noses .
Unfortunately many have no clue of what is Happening or What is Coming!

Listen! It is about CONTROL!

The globalists used COVID to CONTROL the PHYSICAL movement of the GLOBAL population!

The globalists now will use CBDCS to CONTROL the FINANCIAL movement of the GLOBAL population!

FROM COVID TO CBDC TO CLIMATE CHANGE : THE PATH TO COMPLETE CONTROL!

That's your dystopian, tyrannical NEW WORLD ORDER!

They understand the times and Season which many of you do not understand.
They are testing the ground and preparing the path for the Man of Lawlessness system of government where you will not be able to buy or sell except you get the Mark of the Beast.

If you are Placing your Hope on Government or cash in your bank, you are sitting on a long thing.

Place your Hope and trust on JESUS Christ.
Live Prepared because anymoment, JESUS will Take out His own out of Here in the RAPTURE.

She's the same woman, minus the passion and desire for you.

fakum:
Great words tough in this case she does value me and always wants me to succeed in everything. To be honest, we she very happy she is with me and admires me alot.

Women are naturally covert in communication (indirect).

You are speaking her natural language when you communicate through your actions.

She will notice 100%

jelel6:
This is also more logic than artsy. This is more or less same sides of the same coin as what you quoted above.

The only difference here is this is meant to be unspoken, and for a (frustrated) man patient enough to play the long game. But it takes two to tango. Less hope the woman is even paying enough attention to notice something is cooking.

Talking won't work. Logic cannot trigger desire.

@OP,

You're not the first man in a Long-term relationship to experience this.

Get knowledge, and educate yourself on what other men did that worked.

Your wife will thank you.

https://medium.com/@RationalMale/the-desire-dynamic-a037b275b505

jelel6:
From all what you've said, you've painted your wife to be a mostly reasonable person, which is always a good thing.

Why don't you try more talking? This time, lay down the full picture and connect all the dots during your discussions. It seems she prefers masturbating, and that's reducing are desire to want to have traditional sex with you. And you, you CAN'T do without sex with your wife.

Seems all your diplomatic approaches have failed, time to be pragmatic. Let her understand you're now very unhappy with the situation, especially when it appears she's not THINKING DEEPLY about how her preferences is affecting you.

You've tried your best by being open-minded and and not judging. Now is HER time to come up with some PRACTICAL solutions. The point is to get her to start seeing things from a pragmatic angle where every actions or inactions might trigger unwanted chain of events. Especially when one partner in the union has already expressed dissatisfaction like you have.

You don't have to raise voice, quarrel or argue with her. But be firm and maintain focus. No go let her "honey" and "sugar" talk make you loseguard during such discussions oh . Otherwise, na only that one night you go enjoy the fruit of ya labour .

As for looking outside and paying 3K or whatever to get BJs, abeg die that matter. Na you talk if only say this matter no dey, your wife and marriage go be 100%. You may get your BJs, but you'll lose the trust in your marriage if your wife finds out. Even if she never finds out, you'll wake up every morning to the fact you're now a dishonest man.

"So when you fully understand how Dread works and when to use it, you’re going to do you and her both a favor and enjoy a more sexual relationship."

When you’re dating someone who has no fear of losing you, that no matter what she does you’re going to stay just because you’ve promised, then she’s not going to genuinely respect you.

And when there’s no respect, there’s no attraction.

When there’s no attraction, there’s no loyalty.

Therefore, when there’s no fear of loss, there is no value in staying with you.

If she doesn’t value you and instead takes you for granted, she won’t look up to you, listen to you, desire you, and help you with your mission and goals in life.

At that point, it’s going to be a matter of time before she grows to be unhappy and sexually frustrated enough to wonder why she into a relationship with you in the first place.

https://www.bunchofwisdom.com/dread-game/

fakum:
Sorry my people this might be a bit long.

Yeah, be careful, just like every other addiction. Anything your partner do while dating will most likely continue in marriage, be warned.
I had sex an explosive sex life with my wife when we were dating and few years after marriage. We makeout everywhere with any little opportunity. Now we are almost 5 years in marriage and things have changed, though it has been coming gradually.

The last time we had sex was like 3 weeks ago, make I suck, NO, make I use hand, NO, and na she give me signal to come do ooo, I vex run my thing, cum and told her sex with her is now more of work. she got angry, I no send. Later in the morning, she brought the matter and I told her yes, she is making sex look like work, that she probably don’t enjoy sex with me anymore. She started saying its pressure, stress,….but I know it’s all lie, I had my suspicion (she doesn’t cook nor wash, virtually does nothing at home now aside her work which closes early and baby who we all look after).
3 days ago, I had a dream abut her, I prayed about it, she asked me about it and I refused t tell. Guys, throughout yesterday, conji wan kill me ooo, I just busy myself with phone. Later in the night, I came in and saw her sleeping, I surf net small , come sleep. I had another dream about her, woke up and time check, past 1 am. I saw her pressing her phone, probably doing her facebook as usual, that her fav app. Na so my suspicion start to play ooo, she started masturbating right there again, I vex but keep calm (this is not the first time ooo, normal level).

Now, this is why I’m angry, I LUV ORAL too much, its my favourite part of love making, for sometimes now, anytime I start my movement going downward on her, she will stop me, make I use hand na, NO, but see Aunty put her hand for THERE now. I’m not surprise, why? Because she confessed to me when dating that she is addicted to masturbation but working on it, that she will stop. Out of love I didn’t judge her, no one is a saint, I also saw it as maybe we can work things from there, bringing it in to our love making to spice things up in our sex life but now, I see my wife prefer masturbation to my oral and sex in its entirety. Guys forget, I’m not hyping myself but I dey try for oral. I can be there, 30min, 1 hr doing my thing (magic), and the result Is always awesome, as I gain more satisfaction in seeing my partner having orgasm than anything else.

Prior to now, because of excuses and stuffs, I have stopped asking for sex but anytime she gives signal, I go deliver. Now, I have made up my mind kind of, make she continue her masturbation, anytime conji hook me, I will find someone to give me mouth action till I’m relieved and movee. Worst case, 3k or 5k. You cant be starving me giving excuses while doing your thing. After all, this is one of the sins of marriage we were told during our class and she know.
I’m not a fan of f*cking outside, I neva enter another woman since we got married though I had enough changes and the pressure and I still don’t want to, not because of her though because she probably doesn’t deserve it but I’m going to get my BJ and have myself relieved issa decision I don’t think I will stop unless God says otherwise.

I will continue to be the loving husband she know, I wont change, I will even get better just as she continue to be the loving wife that she is, but we all have urge to be quenched.
So guys, don’t overlook anything you cant overlook in marriage, e get why! Once most people get what they want, they tend to change or show their real self and marriage isn’t an exception. Some just want the name “married” and have kids (like my wife, after all, she don marry, don get pikin) and once they achieve this, anything can follow though it ought not to be so. Its all my fault sha, I overlook everything ( probably because I know non is perfect and I saw some good traits in her) I wanted companionship as my main reason for marriage but hers were different(though see like attention die), I should have known better. Please marry who have same marriage goals as you.

Finally, this is not to discourage anyone from marriage , marriage is a beautiful thing and I’m happy I’m married and I love my baby (make una no think am oooo). Just pray and marry a good wife like me (even better).

#Peace!