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 Phones › Re: Nokia Care @ Nigeria: by Godmystrength: 4:07pm On Jul 08, 2014*. Modified: 5:59pm On Jul 08, 2014 |
Please, how do i go about the mtn manual configuration of internet settings on a Nokia asha 502? I have tried the automatic settings but it didn't work. i was sent an sms by customer care for the manual settings but it is still not working. I have been advised to take it to their office just that i might not have the time soon. Thanks |
| Family › Re: Annoying Spousal Habits by Godmystrength: 3:05pm On Jul 08, 2014 |
First time i am reading a thread on nairaland from beginning to the end.  will be back with my own story. |
| Family › Re: To Report A Cheating Wife To Her Husband Or Not, What's Your Take? by Godmystrength: 9:39am On Jul 08, 2014 |
uboma: I recently found out that the wife of my close pal is cheating on him. I do not want to meddle in their affairs but i have this sense of guilt not having told him what i discovered about his wife. If we weren't close, i wouldn't be bothered at all. I am also worried about the negative consequences it will have on their marriage if he gets wind of it.@OP - If it was your close pal cheating on his wife, would you have come to Nairaland to ask for what to do? Please just do exactly what you would have done if you found out that your close pal is cheating on his wife. 50-50. No cheating. You know the right thing to do. |
| Family › Re: Pls,i Need An Advice,i'm Depressed,i Feel Like Crying by Godmystrength: 7:53am On Jul 08, 2014 |
MojAyo: dear,I called my mum one on one yesterday,I told her all what my dad told me about leaving him and seeing a better man after,I let her see reasons of me nt wanting dat guy again in my life,cos if I can just remember all what dat guy did for me,I will be in a vry sad mood,she said she is in support of it dad d guy is nt someone proud of to call husbandThank God |
| Family › Re: Is This Wrong? Married Woman Hugging Men by Godmystrength: 1:22pm On Jul 07, 2014 |
Truckpusher: That's one reason why you should always be one step ahead of them and be on top of your game ,Let them know that they can't fucck around and expect not to pay the price.same goes for the men.Not just a woman thing. It is a human thing. @OP- Nothing wrong with a hug and also many things wrong with it. You know your spouse. You married him/her. You know what he/she wants. So be wise. If you know you like to hug opposite sex and can't do without it, please DO NOT get married to someone that can't allow it. |
| Family › Re: Pls,i Need An Advice,i'm Depressed,i Feel Like Crying by Godmystrength: 10:11pm On Jul 04, 2014 |
If I may ask, please what's between ur mummy and his mummy that they are so bent on having you guys back together at all cost. Hope there is nothing fishy? |
| Family › Re: Pls,i Need An Advice,i'm Depressed,i Feel Like Crying by Godmystrength: 8:07pm On Jul 04, 2014 |
MojAyo: . Dis is never a joke,its about something happening in my life,the guy turned all what I worked for in sa to nothing,when I was there,I was d one feeding him and borrowing him money with d little business God provided for me tiLl I deliver,I think its becos I'm nt in sa now,dats what propmt him to steal and get arrested,bt seriously I pity his life,his mum is here crying everytimeI was actually referring to what you said your mum and dad said. But I thot u said earlier that "I dated someone thinking he is a good person cos he showed me love and care and also make me financially balanced" when did you now become the one feeding him? |
| Family › Re: Pls,i Need An Advice,i'm Depressed,i Feel Like Crying by Godmystrength: 7:37pm On Jul 04, 2014 |
MojAyo: ]I'm in nigeria already,I told my mum and dad ,I dnt want dat bf of mine again,they said I'm talking rubbish,dat did I want people to laugh at them,..............,bt I just want my parents happiness,becos thruly,they re nt happy with me,are u kidding? Please tell me you are joking o. |
| Family › Re: Pls,i Need An Advice,i'm Depressed,i Feel Like Crying by Godmystrength: 5:55pm On Jul 04, 2014 |
MojAyo: people pls I need ur advice maybe to continue with dis relationship or quit for goodI don't know what to say o. but where is the relationship in the first place. Do you really think you want to continue living like this? And i thought you said he is in prison now? As in, you are asking if you should wait for him to be out of prison and then continue the "relationship" from where you guys paused? |
| Family › Re: Pls,i Need An Advice,i'm Depressed,i Feel Like Crying by Godmystrength: 5:51pm On Jul 04, 2014 |
captcochrane: Eeeya, sorry about your pains and worries |
| Family › Re: Pls,i Need An Advice,i'm Depressed,i Feel Like Crying by Godmystrength: 5:24pm On Jul 04, 2014 |
MojAyo: Godmy strength:thank u for the encouragement, my story is a vry long one,bt I just type dat one down to not bore u guys down,I'm being suffering for long in dis relationship,my parents re blaming me,my siblings also,people re looking me somehow dat I've a child out of wedlock for an irresponsible,God pls show me d wayout of wedlock ke? I thought you guys were married. Let me read the story again o. |
| Family › Re: Pls,i Need An Advice,i'm Depressed,i Feel Like Crying by Godmystrength: 5:03pm On Jul 04, 2014 |
MojAyo: Hello guys,pls who is here,I need to share my storyPlease do share your story. I also felt same way on Monday but now i feel much better after sharing. It is well. |
| Family › Re: Successful Career Women Can't Have It All - Pepsi CEO, Indra Nooyi by Godmystrength: 12:46pm On Jul 04, 2014 |
pickabeau1: na mouth u just get dey bobo for us onlinethank God i even have. Some don't have o. |
| Family › Re: Successful Career Women Can't Have It All - Pepsi CEO, Indra Nooyi by Godmystrength: 12:44pm On Jul 04, 2014 |
pickabeau1: Oya where d pics nayou go wait tire na |
| Family › Re: Successful Career Women Can't Have It All - Pepsi CEO, Indra Nooyi by Godmystrength: 12:42pm On Jul 04, 2014 |
pickabeau1: Does a good wife need to love her hubby like herself or its not necessary Godmystrength: A good wife is one who loves/treats her husband like herself. |
| Family › Re: Successful Career Women Can't Have It All - Pepsi CEO, Indra Nooyi by Godmystrength: 12:41pm On Jul 04, 2014 |
[quote author=fresh_dude]And a good wife is?[/quote]A good wife is one who loves/treats her husband like herself. |
| Family › Re: Successful Career Women Can't Have It All - Pepsi CEO, Indra Nooyi by Godmystrength: 12:08pm On Jul 04, 2014 |
[quote author=fresh_dude]If I footed all the bills and had a full-time housewife, I'd expect her to know that she'd be fully responsible for keeping the home. She's a homemaker for Bleep's sake. If she complains, not requests for help, she's coming with me to work to help me in my office duties. Then I will fairly help her with her household chores. She better learn how to change tyres and climb into the roof too, since that would be her way of showing and proving her love to me. Smh for nairaland and ridiculous notions. On nairaland these days, standing your ground=female slavery. A good husband is one who allows his wife do anything she wants and doesn't refuse her anything she desires? Nah, I'll pass.[/quote]NO. A good husband is one who loves his wife like himself. 1 Like |
| Family › Re: Successful Career Women Can't Have It All - Pepsi CEO, Indra Nooyi by Godmystrength: 12:06pm On Jul 04, 2014 |
pickabeau1: Why not.. na u talk am say u dey shake am for men naaaaare you one of the ''men''? |
| Family › Re: Successful Career Women Can't Have It All - Pepsi CEO, Indra Nooyi by Godmystrength: 11:49am On Jul 04, 2014 |
pickabeau1: Pics of u shaking your yansh or ADONBILIVIT |
| Family › Re: Successful Career Women Can't Have It All - Pepsi CEO, Indra Nooyi by Godmystrength: 11:23am On Jul 04, 2014 |
Some men have ways of doing their things and getting away with it. When a man and woman both agree that the woman should stay at home to take care of the children, it is assumed that the woman can never get tired for a day, hence the saying that ''after all she is a housewife. she has been home all day. what has she been doing since morning. I can understand if she is going to work. i.e. if she wasn't a housewife, they will be willing to help her with some house chores''. These same men will keep complaining anytime they are requested to perform their financial obligations. That's when you will hear things like, ''do you think it is easy to make money? what do you know? You just sit down at home all day doing nothing....etc''. When a woman works and have to leave so early and come back so late and tired, she can't also complain. That is when you hear things like ''whatever you are in the office doesn't count here. Once you are in the house, you have to take up all your wifely roles irrespective of whether you are tired'' When a woman wants sex and the man is tired because he had a hard day at work, the woman must not talk o else, she will hear the story of how she sits at home doing nothing and thinks it is easy to go out and bring in money. When a man wants sex and the woman is tired because he had a hard day at work, the woman must not complain o or else, she will hear the story of how it will be her fault if she pushes her husband out, or even hear the story that her boss must have been 'servicing' her all day. When you decide to live your life like our forefathers i.e. tell your man to provide completely for the house and let you take care of the home completely, you will hear things like, ''you are just a liability. I feed you, I clothe you, I pay all the bills. what do you do? You just sit down here doing nothing and getting fat on my money.'' When you decide to get a job, make your money, take care of the house and not bother your man about your personal needs, neither do you bother him about chores etc but you decide to keep your money and let the man pay the bills 100%, you hear things like, ''you are such a self centered woman. Your money is not your money but our money. you can't spend your money anyhow. Since you are working, you need to be paying part of the bills and woe betides you if you are earning more because you will need to pay a larger part of the bills'' If you complain about anything, they will be quick to remind you that there are a lot of your mates outside that are unmarried and would do anything to be in your position. And also remind you that you are ''after 1''. Nobody will marry you if you leave. Infact, you will be seen as the perfect wife if you 1.Work hard to make money, give everything to your husband and also thank him for giving you the opportunity to go and work to make money. after all, he who owns the slave also owns the slave's belongings/properties (eni to leru lo leru) even if it means having to beg him for money to give to your own parents when his parents are your responsibilities. (doing otherwise, makes you insensitive and without human feelings) 2.Don't you dare get a maid/house help. excuse me!!!!! what the hell do you need that for? Do your work jeje and stop complaining after all, our mothers in those days carry babies on their back and trek longgggggggggggggggggggg distance to and from the farm with heavy loads on their heads, do their chores alone and feed their husbands and nothing happened to them. 3.Embrace your husbands family o because they are your family now. Your own family, who are they? are you serious? For crying out loud, you are a married woman now so face your front. Let nobody come and quote me and tell me these things don't happen o because they are real life scenarios. As for me, i will do my best to keep my home but if somethings go wrong and can't be sorted out, i am not going to kill myself. MEN, I SHAKE YANSH FOR ALL OF UNA husband love your wife oo and wife, submit to your husband oo 3 Likes |
| Family › Re: Strong Feelings For My Ex by Godmystrength: 9:21am On Jul 04, 2014 |
Kanwulia: Nothing unusual. Kanwulia?? ?? ?? 1 Like |
