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crackhaus: Women use men to earn more money, what is she using her men for?

Men use women to satisfy sexxual urges, what are these men using her for?

So who is using who here as required?

for all we know, she might be the one feeding these men. maybe she is the ''husband'' while they are the ''wives''. if the first husband was actually a HUSBAND here, it won't be the same story.

[quote author= ]However, the f[b]irst husband got jealous of Chaleka's second husband. He and her children got together and attacked the new husband[/b]. However, Chaleka dissuaded Pendasi from filing a police complaint as she was scared that her kids would be arrested by the police.

The woman denied being a promiscuous wife.[/quote]this clearly shows that the man is the wife because this behavior is typical of a woman whose husband just married a new wife. why is he behaving like a selfish husband? does he not know that women are polyandrous in nature?

[quote author= ]Chaleka has 11 children from her deceased husband and two children from Never Mudenda.[/quote]he(Never Mudenda) is not even the first wife husband o

crackhaus: Of course it's a wedding gift, also a token for the bride... A bride token is synonymous with bride price.

I didn't see where she presented a wedding gift.

i don't think so. why isn't the bride price given to the bride but instead to the family/father of the bride? Some men buy wedding gifts for their wives aside the bride price they have paid.

crackhaus: What arrangements?
The men married her as it's customary, she won't be doing any discarding anytime unless she wants to starve her children.


I believe the chicken is her bride price.

no. it is a wedding gift.

crackhaus: You're right, in those days women were more willing to have a lot of kids... I think we should go back to the good ol' days.

With her 13kids, she should be more concerned about how to cater for them instead of marrying more men who will certainly add more to the bunch.

would you still say the same thing if it was a man with 13kids and 2 wives planning to add more to the bunch? i.e. With his 13kids, he should be more concerned about how to cater for them instead of marrying more women who will certainly add more to the bunch.

okay

crackhaus: That was a deliberate statement to Lorretta...Feminists don't like hearing that a man is using a woman as a biological chamber for birthing purposes only.

crackhaus: 13 kids is more than enough to weaken and relax her pelvic muscles beyond normal elasticity...add 3 African men who will continue to pound her (regardless of routine), I think you should understand now

no i don't. are you saying it would have been better if it was only one man pounding her still with her 13kids?

in those days, women have more children and it doesn't stop their hubbys pounding them. at least more children means there had been more pounding. And i guess some men can pound more than 3 men put together.

crackhaus: It's not perfectly cool or normal even in Zimbabwe.



I'm not disputing any rights either..neither have I complained so far, I wonder where you ladies are getting this 'complain' from..
I think what I've done so far is express my sympathy for the old woman, which is what you ladies should be doing too.
Or do you plan to birth 13 kids and still be getting it steady from 3 men?

You should pity her too, she's been used as a sex object and a baby making factory

who is using her?

crackhaus: You tell me, I guess you're female.

if i knew, i won't be asking.
and if i don't ask, i won't be able to know.

.................and you got her pregnant............

crackhaus: She better pray for it man.

But honestly, I'm surprised I'm the one pitying this woman here, no female who commented on this thread has/wants to give birth to more than 3 or 4kids in their lifetime (and best believe they know why)....so how come they're hailing her on and are not bothered about elasticity, tearing, scaring, breakage, and to top it off, constant banging from three men total to add to the trouble of the blessed Kitty.

I think I'm a feminist.

just asking o but what difference does it make - constant banging from three men and constant banging from one man?3 men each have sex with her once daily and one man has sex with her 3 times daily?


[size=5pt]i am not saying i support what she is doing. i just want to know whether it is any different.[/size]

walearoy: Will you marry me?

marry her? i don dey pity you already o.

Reject and renounce my MOTHER!!!! God please o

Blockus: I really dont like you.

You are too intelligent to be my friend.


Mods:: Please delete this his post least my Nwababy sees it and tries to reverse the natural order of things in our relationship.

GentleMimi: LWKM! Ahswsear,no be lie.


Tatafo.


And in a case where u have only male kids,are they gonna use fingers to destroy the anus? Or break the prick?

They might not do that o but what if the houseboy is gay?

Blockus: Yes it is possible to love somebody more than you love yourself. Afterall, thats what Christians say Jesus did.


And No!! I cant love her more than i love myself, otherwise, we cancels out each other.

If you will be using Jesus as an example, then you should be the one loving her more than yourself because Jesus is the head of the church just as you are the head of your family.

Did he rape her? or he mistook her for his girlfriend? but how come he is the only one facing charges? what about his sister, they are in this together o.

Blockus: .She must love me more than she loves herself

but how is that possible? and will you also love her more than you love yourself?

maybe you have catarrh

GentleMimi: @ bolded,indeed baffling! But i do not judge such cases. Sometimes even the woman is to blame,other times both parties carry the blame. True talk. Most women aim to retain youthful appearance. It does not help matters that the man is not restrained by age,and most men undergo mid-life crises.
Its a crazy world out there. But i do not advice women to let go of their appearance after child birth. Try your best to look good always,not smelling of fried fish when the man comes home. At least,u'll always know u did ur best if he decides to mess up.

what if she sells fried fish?

A man thinks it is the woman's sole duty to do house chores and doesn't give a helping hand. The woman does all her chores without complaining. The ones she can't do, she employes someone to help her do it(she is the one paying the help).

Month end, she pockets all her salary and also thinks it is the man's sole duty to be financially responsible to the family. The man now starts complaining and saying the wife is selfish and does she not know that marriage is a partnership?

If you guys can't agree on how to help each other, then let the individual responsibilities be spelt out clearly and let it be followed strictly.

Ask a man to help you with chores, he says it is your God given responsibilities. Ask him for money, he ask how you have been taking care of yourself(financially) before marriage.

And some women can so deceive themselves. You that use to go to the man's house to do his chores before you guys got married (you were working that time too) and you were not complaining, why complaining now? Abeg just continue in your ministry o.

It is so surprising to see men that are not Christians but are quick to quote scriptures about wife submitting to the husband and about the husband is the head of the family. Please if you don't believe in the totality of the bible, stop quoting some part to favor yourselves jare. Better you stick to the ''it is our culture'' things o.

As for me, if a man is not ready to help me even after i have communicated enough i will just leave him and do my best. If i decide to share in the financial responsibilities, it will be because of my child(ren). And anything that will not benefit me and/or my children, i will just face my work.

Tallesty1: Has to do with my height.

who knows? You might be a VERY short guy sef.


abeg na joke i dey o

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i have don that but i still can't browse on the phone.

dre11: okiess
but, i guess it took him some months before he made the call

but, do u and his wife talk ........ Because i kinder wonder how u knew her school or where u and her friends before she meet him

it didn't take him months, he called the next day or mayb during the same week (i think).
I don't talk with the wife. I told you we are still friends on facebook so when he got married and updated it on facebook, i saw the wife's picture. she's someone i know but we were not friends in school. she is also my friend on facebook but you know all this people that send you friend request because they see that you have somethings/friends in common. the lady doesn't even know that i know her husband except mayb the guy told her.


[size=4pt]gat to go now. won't be able to browse while on the road. see ya 2moro [/size]

Just an E-name. just for the purpose of nairaland.

dre11:
that was great.......
I kinder believe, that is not the main reason he opt out from you........
i guess he just used that as the best excuse to leave u without being cruel or hurting u d more.... because i believe is sometin more than that

or,
maybe he lied about the 'no sex rule' trying to guage ur mind and thought about the topic.....


Glad that u face the hurt and u did STOP calling him at once....... and not sucking-up to him

am sure these experience had build up in ur subconcious the kind of man u will want in life......
Maybe thats why u did reject by fire by force those that didn't measure up to 3/4 of that guy #just saying


after the incident....... did that guy ever made effort to speak with u... up till this moment

He later called me. he said he doesn't want to agree to any sexless relationship again. he is afraid that i might change my mind and act like his ex. I told him not to bother because i wasn't even interested again because i was pained. Told him no need to explain himself. We are friends on facebook till 2moro just not the talking friend anymore. we have both gone our separate ways. He is married now sha and i know his wife (we went to same university)

Dazzlee: I don't believe one won't see such warning signs during dating/courtship. Certain triats of a phelgmatic would be obvious......like the 'I-don't-care' attitude. Those little little things we don't usually count are actually meaningful.

Besides, signs of irresponsibilty are not that easy to cover up you know. It's quite easy to identify an irreponsible person.

But just incase I didn't take such signs seriously and married him, then I guess I've become a single parent automatically. The so-called love I have for him would be history. I'm educated, have a job, good health, and not handicapped in anyway.....so where's the problem? My kids would be my focus. It's would be just My Children & I. Their father is brain dead as far as I would be concerned.

God forbid though..I don't pray for such.

People can pretend o

I want my husband to treat me exactly how he wants to be treated. And i will treat him exactly how i want to be treated.

nurey: Men wipe especially muslims. b4 i pee if there is no water, i always do it in bushy area so i use the leaves to wipe, but be careful so u dont use warape(stinging nettle) by mistake.